All I know is the bad fruit - good fruit from the bible. If you have good intentions but the fruit of your good intentions are horrible ....
Good intentions don't cut it - only results.
My live was saved by an a$$ who delayed me 2 seconds crossing the street so he could hurry up to the red light. Thank God for that jerk! I crossed the road and 2 seconds in front of me a 15 foot piece of drainage fell off the building. I was shaking for 15 minutes - but the bar flies gave no reaction of caring - that was the last time I ever went to a bar - EVER.
I could've died, been paralyzed or become a barfly myself. All because that thoughtless guy who delayed me 2 seconds. And he didn't even know or probably care!
Dave Mathews: time to get a new Keyboard - yours is stuck on 'YELL'