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Minister of God & a Non Religious person. Can they be lovers?

  1. Castlepaloma profile image20
    Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago

    Don't laugh Christians, I think I’m in love with Christian women who wants to be a Minister of Yahweh. These Web Pages, did help me with a better understanding of my Pastor Lutheran Brother , Maybe some of you can help me out again to see if am barking up the wrong tree and should move on?


    Been going out with her for a year and finally we became Romanic. She did have an atheist Husband for 15 years, yet some of her friends believe she will die alone without a lover.

    A Women is my ultimate love, Yahweh would be her first & ultimate love, then 2nd her Family and I don’t know where on her priory list I would stand of any great importance?

    Help me bring this darkness towards the light?

    1. Castlepaloma profile image20
      Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      Matters of the heart , yes a Hard one.

      I am thick skin, and hold no regrets or revenges. I only could regret what I don't do in the future,so...,  what do you think?

      1. Eaglekiwi profile image74
        Eaglekiwiposted 4 years ago in reply to this

        I am a Christian and I do not laugh when it comes to mattesr of the heart.

        (God is Love- He created it,so of course He is the one most interested in its life force)

        I wish every man and woman love , good strong true love.

        You both have choices to make ,and I believe if you keep putting one another first ,then the any sacrifices can be almost unnoticeable.

        Believers and non believers together is a little like expecting oil and water to mix.

        They may appear to come together ,but in the end values and faith will cause your minds to separate -

        Always speak the truth to one another about what you think especially about God etc, then  you both can make decisions before emotions get too tangled.

        To Your Best Life~

        1. Castlepaloma profile image20
          Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

          I think our mind minds will separtate at times, yet our hearts will work hard toward concuring love, above all. If everything is God and everything is connected. I think there is a good chance both our love is true and we stand a good chance to be stronger together for it. Then we will be able to give it all away, in order to be refilled it again and again

    2. Jerami profile image77
      Jeramiposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      My advice would depend upon what degree of comittment you are talking about.
      I once knew a couple that were in a monogamous relationship for quite some time. Still were the last time I saw them. At first glance anyone would thought they were still in the courtship stages though this was not the case, though they each lived in their own homes   The woman had teenage children that were not going to accept any man for their mother.  And the children would always get her support in any issues that would come up "IF" they would have attempted to join together as ONE family.   AND These People were of the same Religious Persuasion!!

         When Good/Great Communication is executed, and understanding of each others wants and needs are properly adressed  Any thing is posible?

    3. jacharless profile image81
      jacharlessposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      Ah, L'Amour...
      It defies gravity, reason; superseding every sensation.
      Go for it.

      1. Castlepaloma profile image20
        Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

        jacharless
        Ah, L'Amour...
        It defies gravity, reason; superseding every sensation.
        Go for it.

        Love your answer Jack
        Being an artist for most waking hours of my life has shown me that turning seeming unreasonable things and situation at first, into high energy good times has worked out very well.

    4. A Troubled Man profile image60
      A Troubled Manposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      Run! Run as far away as you can from her.

      1. Castlepaloma profile image20
        Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

        LOL

        There is a chance, I can convert her to the honest spiritual side of things.

        1. A Troubled Man profile image60
          A Troubled Manposted 4 years ago in reply to this

          Not likely. She'll choose her god over you.

          1. Castlepaloma profile image20
            Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

            You might be right

            I was her boyfriend for a one week trail, and she just told me today she does not want to continue our romance, yet she wants to go back to being a good friends. She lamely blames the fine wine (The blood of Jesus) that made her too lively (sin?) or for me, it’s was the ultimate spiritual act.  Boy, I never get that high, to th point of loseing control of my soul over a soft drug.


            I’m building a sculpture in our town spirited by our wondrous friendship, called Marie.
            A story about the first white woman of the West, Marie-Anne from Quebec lived between 1780 -1875. She was also the first legitimate white women to have a white child to be born in the Canadian west.

            Born Mas, 1780. Died
            The local native Chief fell in love with her and wanted her for his wife. Meanwhile the village was going to send her back to Quebec as no settlers were allowed to live in the village.  Marie refused the Chiefs offer because her God only allows her to marry one man, (a fur trapping husband out on the job somewhere in the woods).  The Chief made her his Daughter instead, in which the settlers could not send her back or it would cause war.

            A true story

    5. prettydarkhorse profile image61
      prettydarkhorseposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      Yes, they do separate things on Sunday. Until they both blow up and can't take it anymore smile

      1. Castlepaloma profile image20
        Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

        She is great speaker in the largest church in town, on Sunday. She asked her audience,  “what are the words, most people want to hear”?
        " I yelled out, I love you!!!  "
        I don’t think it turn out right or was much of a secrete anymore and may have embarrass her. 
        I better line up with the rest of the fools, who want something they can’t have.

  2. knolyourself profile image61
    knolyourselfposted 4 years ago

    I have recently been flirting with a Christian woman who is in love with God. She said her husband is God. I said my wife is my work and Judge
    Judy of course. What difference does it make where you stand if she
    gives you everything you need or want. God or me - personally, I don't mind the competition, although they say lover's triangles generally don't work. Well she may run off and become a nun. No guarantees in life.
    Have her while you got her. I am still flirting. I don't care who she loves most. Would hope she would love everything as I do. That can only be somewhat equitable.

    1. Castlepaloma profile image20
      Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      She loves or deeply likes most of the same things I do. If I;m the third or fourth most important persons down on her list . Staying with her might  change her mind in the long run..

      Boy! sounds like a lot of work to do. First thing I must tell her is how sorry, for a few things I said and hope that works. She is a black women in a very Christain redneck town, . Hope I don't get burning crosses on my front yard , the KKK lives here too, this should be very intersting.

  3. profile image0
    Emile Rposted 4 years ago

    Hey Castle. I know you consider yourself to be a spiritual person. I think, anyway. What is Christianity other than rituals trying to mimic spirituality?

    If you guys are mature, self assured, and enjoy each other's company you should do fine.

    1. Castlepaloma profile image20
      Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      It feel like I have a few friends on line, Thanks guys.

      Spiritually is about the unknowns, man oh man  this will be serious fun.  A bold dark journey only a crazy man like me would try. Had some doubts, they are removed for now.

  4. Disappearinghead profile image88
    Disappearingheadposted 4 years ago

    Go for it. Life is too short to miss out on love.

    1. Castlepaloma profile image20
      Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      “The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.” Yes love conquers all.

      If she refuses me. I will offer her to love her as my best friend because I'm a better person for just being around her.

      Not sleeping and eating well latley, must be th love bugs

  5. knolyourself profile image61
    knolyourselfposted 4 years ago

    Sounds like maybe you live your art as I do.

    1. Castlepaloma profile image20
      Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      lived most waking hours of my life doing art, Wonder if she thinks of Yahweh most waking hours of her life? Should I ask her?, there are many should's and rules, in the life of Yahweh.

  6. lone77star profile image90
    lone77starposted 4 years ago

    Castlepaloma, I would recommend following your heart with humility.

    Yes, it can work for two people to come from different worlds and different ideals if neither person acts as if they know better. That's where humility comes in.

    I don't have enough humility, but my Catholic wife helps me find more when I need it. She is generous down to her bones -- through and through.

    Love is never selfish. Love is never vulnerable. If you ever feel as though your "self" is assaulted, that is ego getting in the way. Humility is the antidote. Simply let go, and view her as more important in your life. If you choose the right person, they will never take advantage of that and abuse it.

    With humility, you become invulnerable. Nothing can hurt you. Your love can be given unconditionally.

    Above all else, love. If you learn from one another on spiritual things, then so much the better, but keep love first.

    And good luck, my friend. When you find the right woman, never let go.

    1. Castlepaloma profile image20
      Castlepalomaposted 4 years ago in reply to this

      lone star
      Those thoughts,  bring tears to my eyes.

      My mind and downside says that a Minister of God loves (Yahweh, one the 10,000 Gods) and her love for her  family may cause her love for me to be too weak.

      The up side, thinking with my heart and taking the risk may change up some things and she could free herself of some deep secrets and her one sidedness way that are holding her back.
      Other words, if she waits too long for her ship to come in, her pier may collapse

 
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