How Dua Solved All My Problems and Changed My Life

A few years ago I got divorced, and the world around me seemed dark and unfriendly. I felt as if there was nothing to look forward to. I always felt like crying, and sometimes the tears were hard to stop. I experienced unusual aches and pains, had persistent negative thoughts, had difficulty concentrating, and my sense of guilt and worthlessness made me very pessimistic. My future looked blank.

My marriage to my ex-husband was a big mistake. I was warned by my family members, but I wanted to go ahead with it. I wanted to marry him at any cost. Maybe this is what is called “blind love."

I had come from Pakistan to the UK for higher studies. I met my ex when he was in the UK on a business visit. We got married in Pakistan, and he accompanied me to the UK as my dependent. After our marriage, there was not a single day when I did not cry. We hardly lived together for six months when he said he did not like the UK and he wanted to proceed to the USA. He was always at home, chatting with girls on the computer. I did not complain. I thought that everything would be alright one day. Then one day he said to me that he had a job in the USA and that he was leaving and would be in touch once he had a house.

He left for the USA and his attitude towards me changed. He ignored my calls and was very rude. He said that he had made a mistake marrying me. I asked him why and all he said was that there was no understanding between us.

During this time I learn that he was already married to a lady in Pakistan. I also learned that he gambled. I did not want to leave or divorce him. I was very scared of the idea of divorce.

I prayed to Allah that he stop this divorce and make my husband come back. Everyone told me to get rid of my husband, but I did not have to courage to do so. I was already in my early thirties. With the label “divorcee,” I was sure that nobody would accept me and that I would be left all alone. I remember that it was the month of Ramzan. I fasted, prayed all night, and when I got up in the morning, I received a phone call from my mom that my husband had sent divorce notice by post. I was completely shattered. I kept thinking, "Why did Allah not listen to my prayers?" My mother said that there must be a good side to the situation and that everything happens for a reason. I cried and was very upset the whole day.

I could not sleep that night and got up again and again. I raised my hands and asked Allah for help. I called "Allah, Allah!" all the time. Then all of a sudden I remembered that my mother had gifted me a Quran a year earlier and had asked me to read it regularly. I got up from the bed, performed Wudhu, picked up the Quran, and opened to a page. In front of me were these Ayahs from Surah Talaq, the translation of which is as follows:

"[Talaq 65:3] Allah will provide him sustenance from a place he had never expected. Whoever relies on Allah, then Allah is Sufficient for him. Indeed, Allah will accomplish His command. Allah has set a proper measure for all things.

[Talaq 65:5] This is Allah’s command that He has sent down towards you: Whoever fears Allah, Allah will relieve his sins and bestow upon him a great reward."

After reading this I understood that whatever happened was God’s will, and that all this had happened because He could not see me leading a suffocated life with my ex-husband any longer.

In the past, I spent most of my time pursuing my studies to build my career. I felt I never had time to read Quran and was too lazy to offer namaz. But after that day, I prayed regularly and recited Quran everyday.

Almost six months passed by, and I was happy, satisfied, and content with my life. I made progress and began to forget my past. I knew that no matter what, Allah is always with me. Besides Allah I do not need anyone.

Then one day a friend of my brother came to visit us and told my brother about a proposal for me. My brother discussed it with me and invited the family over to our house. I was not sure that it would all work out. I thought they would refuse after learning that I am a divorcee, but by the grace of Allah everything worked out well and I met my future husband. After two months, we were married. Allah had put everything in place.

Today, after almost five years later, I am not the same person. I have all of the happiness I wanted and everything that I wished for came true. I am now living a very happy married life with three beautiful children and a loving, caring husband. All of this happened only due to dua’s and blessings of Allah.

I am certain now that everything that happens in this world is only for our own good, and that only God knows what lies ahead in future. All the hardships I went through were nothing but blessings in disguise. I never felt so close to Allah as I do now. I was always doubtful about weather dua could change my destiny, but now I know for sure that offering namaz, reciting Quran, making dua, and placing trust in Allah can definitely change your life.

May Allah bless us all and give guidance to follow the right path. Ameen!

More by this Author


Comments 1258 comments

fathima 2 years ago

Assalamu alaikum, I want a child, plz dua for me..


mansoor 2 years ago

People having difficulties are suggested to pray salat regularly, recite Quran daily even if its one page only, recite one tasbeeh last ayat of sura touba. May Allah ease your problems. Amen


Deepa 2 years ago

My life is so disturb in 2013 everything is wrong my relationship is not working m really unhappy pta nhi kya ho gya suddenly sb kuch bhot acha chal rha tha suddenly sb change hone lga plz help plz pray for aga aap kuch kr skte hai toh plz kuch kriye plz help me me chahti hu sb normal ho jaye plz hellp me allah...


yankuba baldeh 2 years ago

May allah help me to get my docoment for d sekof d ramand plz plz plz help me with that


BASHARAT ALI GILL 2 years ago

Allah please bestowed me today before open my fast, i need 6 million


BASHARAT ALI GILL 2 years ago

Allah please bestowed me today before open my fast, i need 6 million PKR .AMEEN YA RAB-ul-Alameen


farha khan 2 years ago

Please pray for me to give a birth to baby has I m not getting pregnant between me and my husband lot of misunderstanding is going on so for that I m suffering a lot if I give a birth to baby insha Allah I hope my husband could love me and we can live a happy life......please remember me and everyone in urs duaa:-)


salina 2 years ago

plz dua for me .. i m not happy in my life .. only tears n tears ...wanna gud job n hubby 's luv ... kindly dua for me .


sharukh 2 years ago

assalamu alykum i am an indian my life is very bad please pray to allah my life turns is good


alvina24.sani@gmail.com 2 years ago

Asalamualaikum,, iam living in a very much disturbed life, from 2012 august I started my new life in studies,job,relationship and all but I was happy at every step but in this 2014 I thought I will be settled completely but ALLAH knows my life ,my dreams,my job,my relationship ,my happiness,my routes allmost everything finished friends, before i cheer and control to everyone and i be too happy but i want to be happy with this broken heart and all please my dear friends pray for me that IF ALLAH START LISTENING US MEANS WE WILL BE WORTH ENOUGH IN EVERYTHING please pray for me friends am alone living in.a very deppressive life plz i too keel praying for AL MUSLIMEEN IN THIS RAMAZAN PLEASE YOUNALL TOO PRAY FOR ME ,PLEASE PLEASE -WAJEEHA


jamela 2 years ago

Very humbling read experiencing something similar. Allah will provide what's best


sara 2 years ago

ASSALAM-OALIKUM,

I'm sara from Pakistan.... Please pray for me its my humble request......


tehzeeb 2 years ago

AOA everyone;

I'm new on this hub and the only reason I've joined is because I would like to help my fellow Muslim sisters. I'm not the best or even a good Muslim myself but I've been through a lot & I really mean a lot of horrible things and came out from them stronger. I'm not saying it has been easy but it is something I've done. I've attempted to commit suicide, used drugs etc...You get the idea how horrible my life must've been at times. But now I'm 27 happily married with the best husband a great job and a house we own & I'm only getting better...

Blaming others for your situation is the worst thing you can do to yourself...it is no one's fault you got into whatever situation because you were there and you allowed someone to take advantage of you. I was once complaining about my father to a friend of mine that how he was never there emotionally and financially and his response was..he gave you life what else you want from him???It is now your responsibility to live your life to the best not his. Initially I was mad at my friend for not taking my side but then once I actually thought about what he said and realized he was rite, giving someone a life is the best thing you can do and if my dad didn't do anything after that that is OK and after few months of mental torture I forgave my father and everyone else who did wrong to me and since my life turned for better.

Allah puts all kinds of people in our lives to test it are upon us on how we respond to that. So please don't get dishearten. I've several duas i use on regular for my problems (yes i still have problems) I don't want to give them openly so if anyone needs something in specific please msg me :) but first of all you need to start forgiving others one by one (after you all of your aggression out, probably by joining gym ya screaming in an empty room) it is better to let your anger out in private than to that person cause once you are done you probably caused them similar pain as what they caused you….so you are as bad as they are….

Please start to forgive and most-importantly find your faults (yes, on purpose) and start amending them and start forgiving yourself too.. Once your emotions are clear your life path will flow with Allah’s will.


liaba khan 2 years ago

Pray only salat tul tahhjud and read quran with tafseer, we are muslim Allah testing us and please pray for me I need job since twoo three years i am facing problems,


A helping brother who understand! 2 years ago

A believer's attitude towards CALAMITY!

Islamqa.info/en/71236


Seeking Advice 2 years ago

Assalamualaikum warehmatullahi wabarakaatuhoo

I am going through very severe pains and sufferings in my life since almost 2 decades now. I am having many health issues and hence with it also comes to me the wealth issues like "buy none get worst free" offer. There was and there is a constant mental torture on me from my Dad and despite the fact that I was already facing health issues I was forced to work and do something and to earn money no matter what. After a long struggle I somehow got some success. Though my success was short lived but looking to that my Dad gave me 6500$ and in return I said I would be giving some money to him on monthly basis. For few months everything went fine but than I lost all my funds because of a liar. There was a constant pressure on me from my Dad as he was demanding either the monthly payments or was asking me to return the entire money back to him. Now because of that constant mental torture on me from my Dad, I was forced to take another 2000$ loan from my Brother-in-law and it was obvious that I have to promise a monthly payment to him too, Many of them just say they are Muslims but I know very well that they are worst than Kuffaar-e-Makkah and don't even know what a Muslim actually is and when your time is bad it only gets worst and worst and worst and hence I lost another 2000$ in about very similar fashion. So now my total debt went to 8500$ + Constant Monthly Payments which has made it to almost 14000$ now + Constant Mental Torture and Abusements from my Dad for free. No one hardly cares for my health issues all they need from me is Money. Such a great family I have, Alhumdulillah. I still remember how my very same great family was so proud of me when I was having enormous success in my early academic life and it is because of that very same enormous success that became the very reason for my overall failures as that's what happens when you are a bit blessed by Allah swt yet living amongst the filthy crappy kuffaar type relatives who can simply cross any limits just to destroy you and bring you down out of their jealousy. I can only say I have seen many chameleons in humans forms and many Kuffaars with illusions of being Muslims. I have been already told by my Dad that I am eating haraam as I am not giving any money to him and that I should leave his house. I swear by Allah swt I would leave his house the moment I will get well. My health issues have just made me helpless but to live in my Dad's house out of my own wish. I just pray to Allah swt to take me out of this horrible situation of my life to the soonest as possible.

Surely I have written my story in a very short manner, there is a lot more pains and sufferings if I have to add to it.

Anyways, kindly remember me in your prayers if possible, May you be rewarded by Allah swt at his best.

Jazakumullahu Khaira.


ffatima17 2 years ago

I am follwing this hub from quite long time, almost 3 years.

I believe in Allah but don't knw why at times feel that my faith loses (sorry to say) I was sad about smething 2 years back that pain reduced but now going through another suffering, many times recived advice from Amy, Emma and Noorukh hope that they remember me... I have hardly seen anyone returning back to this hub and saying that her problem resolved now. I remember the story of precious star, she was still lonely and praying to Allah, don't know how she is now. I don't want to hurt faith of anyone but badly hurt myself need someone to pacify me and say that Allah will help me. Request youy all to pray for me as well, for peacful life, still in pain and crying after 2 years. Help me Allah and all those who need your help.Allah please helpme and evryone. Ameen, Inshallah.


Sadgirl 2 years ago

I am in a very difficult situation plzz help??!


aliza jaan 2 years ago

Asalamu alyjum

i juz wana to tl u my dad is suffering from lung c.a in third stage plz pray for him as ti get well soon .they are in Mumbai in tata hospital from last one month nd nw waiting for reports...plz tl me the dua


Abdul Shukoor 2 years ago

Assalamu Alaikkum

I came to see this hub page as on today.I liked this and is useful too.But the thing i ddint liked was the advertisement of game of cards which is haram.and please do block these kind of stuff from these pages.


Mohamed savad 2 years ago

Assalamu alaikkum

Dear brothers and sisters

Im Mohamed Savad From india.now im at Ksa,i need your help

for reducing my problems that i have some problem in mind (not mad)

that forgetting is the main problem and my mind flying somwhere thats way i can`t concentrate on my job.i cant keep my mind.

this are m problems.

please please provide a dua for solving my problems.

pls send my e-mail . savadmohamed@gmail.com


ali 2 years ago

Hello am looking for s wife


ms167 2 years ago

Jazakhallah for replying. I am undergoing the process of seeing a counsellor to discuss my.issues as i am beginning to feel more worse day by day. My thoughts have gone further. I tend to overthink and have intrusive thoughts which are very damaging. I am at a deep end and feel that Allah will blame.me and to be honest I blame myself too. I don't know why because I know these are not my thoughts not in a million years would I think about Allah or my relatives like that. God help me this is the biggest test of my life and i don't believe nothing can be bigger than this. Pls give me.advise and please pray that I oveecome this issue pls. Jazakhalah Khair.


liaba 2 years ago

Assalamlikum Dear brother and sister i am looking for job since long time please pray for me,


muna 2 years ago

i really felt like i could see the real paint from my sister above.

i have a problem everyone.

i am looking for a job. 2 months back i sent an email and i had a reply saying sent me this form and i'll call you back. today i sent an email and form. so PLEASE HELP ME BY MAKING A DUA FOR ME I REALL NEED IT. SUBHANALLAH I COULDINT EVEN IMAGINED THAT I HAD A REPLY EVEN. PLEASE MAKE A DUA. YA ALLAH ACCEPT MAKE THEM ACCEPT ME

JAZAK ALLAH


Allah is great 2 years ago

Allah is great and merciful. He knows what is in our heart. When you feel pain, struggle, sadness and difficult, come closer to Allah, your creator. Great story. thanks for sharing.


mss 2 years ago

Dear brother and sister,

I constantly have dirty thoughts about everything and everyone and do not know what to do. I feel sick. I want to kill myself. I pray to Allah but still these thoughts do not disappear. I am lost and don't know what to do. They are wrong i don't want to think of them but they come to my head as soon as I wake up and go on throughout the day.


emma 2 years ago

Dear Maria 84

I really feel for you! Do not despair, have faith in Allah and you also need to take actions which will increase your chances of happiness. I also see bad people are prospering, but I also know Allah said in the Quran that He will guide whoever He wishes and those who play tricks with Allah He also plays tricks with them. Those who get away with a lot of crimes and injustice here, will pay very heavily for that in the hereafter, for Allah is very severe in punishment. Of course Allah knows best.

Each one of us are playing our role according to the strengths of own imaan and character. Hence our tests here are also different. The Imaan and the characters of the prophets (peace be upon them) were so strong and perfect and that's why the tests they had to endure were most harsh.

Someone said if you cannot decide what action to take in any situation then ask yourself "How long am I going to be dead?" With this in mind take any decision and leave all the vices and worries and unfairness for those who think they will be alive forever. But remember, being good does not mean you give other people the licence to abuse you. Taking action against any form of abuse is also part of being good. I hope things get better for you soon. Read "Hasbun Allahi Wani'mal Wakeel" "Allah alone is sufficient for me and He is the best disposer of affairs".


Maria84 3 years ago

Salam everyone! Hope you are doing good. Its soon 3 years since i found this site. I remember when i found this site, i got hope and tought My problem Will soon be solved. Many positive things has happen to me, like job, like i finally made à decision last year to divorce the person i didn't want to Marry. I was engaged. Im grateful for that. There is still this problem that I have not Mariried . I don't want to sound so desperate but My dream has always been to Marry Young and get children. Im soon 26 and nothing happened. I know that if Allah does not want, it wont happen and i should be patient and believe in Allah that he plans was best for me. But i have changed à LOT, i pray more often, i respect People more, i feel them more like i don't judge them. I don't say bad words to anyone and i try My best not to hurt anyone. All this because i went trough difficult time in 4-5 years.. My engagement was very hard for me. I did not feel happy .

Im glad that i at least become à better person. Im not sure if its true but i feel i have turn into à better person since i had difficult time. I notice People WHO have everything and are happy with their life.. They are so different.. They judge People, they say bad things, they do bas things.. I remember myself when i see them. I was like them before i gt My problem.. But its not My business. Maybe Allah forgive them and not me. I don't know:/ i just hope Allah forgive me for everything in My past and tar i get à happy future. I wish i can get children soon.. Therefor i want to Marry so i can go on with My LIFE. My siblings are Mariried and have children.. When they visit us.. I feel i do everything. I wish i would be Married and Lived at My own place with à man so they would not use me. I don't their intention is to use me. I mean My brothers Wives.. They just except me to do everything, cook.. Dish.. And all. Me and My motherr. I have been doing things for my brothers wife for 6-7 years and the other one the last 3-4 years. I was younger Then and did not think much that i do à LOT for them. But since last months i just feel Im used and i really want to move on so they can have à bit responsibility too and help. Not let me to do everything :( i don't know what more dua to recite. For the past 5-6 years , i have made à LOT of dua but Im still trapped at same place.. Nothing change in My LIFE:(


Batool 3 years ago

Aslamalakum

plz pray for my job, for my brother and sister ,for my son , my mother and all muslima in the world


Batool 3 years ago

Aslamalakum

plz pray for my job, for my brother and sister ,for my son , my mother and all muslima in the world


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

@ Sheikh:

May Allah accept all your duas brother and to those that are in distress. Ameen. Plz pray for me as well as Im going thru a difficult period in my life. Jazakumullah. Take care


Sheikh 3 years ago

I make dua for everyone at this time & future who are needy.so please pray & make dua for me at this time & future that all my duas will be accepted .Thanks.


emma 3 years ago

hey guys if you are searching for happiness then read and contemplate on the quotations below.

"We don't move through our days alone or apart from the world around us. And so we must always be aware of the things and people we allow into our lives. It's a mark of wisdom to choose to spend time in those places that inspire and energise you and associate with those people who elevate and uplift you. Whether in our work or within our personal lives, these most positive friends and peers will inspire us to be our greatest selves and to lead our largest lives."

If you are surrounded by people who suck up your vitality and energy, get rid of them as soon as you can. They will neither uplift you nor allow you to live happily. They are vampires !

"There are costs and risks to a program of action, but they are far less than the long range risks and costs of comfortable inaction".

No matter what your situation is, just remember you have the freedom to choose how you want to live your life and exercise that freedom. There might be consequences and short term problems but if you are determined and have faith in yourself you can change your life for good.


aliya 3 years ago

assalam-o-alaikum.

Sir main 3 months se bahut bahut pareshan hoon apne kaan(ear)

ke problem se , mere kaan ki nas (pulse) dhire dhire kamjor (week ) hoti ja rahi hai aur kaan mein se awaz ati hai..

aur mera sar ghumta rehta hai.kuch samjh nhi aata..iss taklif k waja se aisa lagta hai mar jaou.kuch samjh nhi ata hai.meri madad kare.

meri aapse guzarish hai ki aap mere ear (kaan) ki salamati ke liye dua kare

aur please mujhe bhi woh dua ya wajifa meri e-mail id par send kare.

aapki bahut bahut meharbni hogi.

Allah Hafiz

aliya

meri e-mail id - allyprincess98@yahoo.com


Batool 3 years ago

Aslamalakum brotjer and sister

plz pray for me , for my brother and all the brother & sister around the world that i get job which i apply for by the grace of ALMIGHTY ALLAH and by sadka of PROPHET MOHAMMAD (PBUH)


JAMEL H. ABDULJALAL 3 years ago

NOW is the time where most of our brothers and sisters muslim is traveling to the holy land (MAKKAH) they are performing hajj,,,,and pilgrim in the holy land lets all pray that someday we can also do the same way.... INSHAALLAH...SOON we can also and discover the real spirit of being a muslim SOBHANALLAH...


B.k 3 years ago

Dear friends,

always remember Allah never says no to any of your prayers unless

*the dua made is for harming someone

*the dua is trying to ruin someones life

but if you make dua for the good of your self and the good of others then

Allah will answer to your duas Allah will never say no He will say :

*yes

or

*yes but later

or

*no, i have a better plan for you


Batool 3 years ago

Aslamalakum

Today is friday keep on reciting durood - salaam Almigty ALLAH surely listen our prayers


ik 3 years ago

pray for me i am always happeness please


JAMEL ABDULJALAL 3 years ago

ABSOLUTELY RIGHT,,,,,,,ALLAHUAKBAR!


Ericdierker profile image

Ericdierker 3 years ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

Wonderful hub. Very interesting and inspiring. If we ask God will always answer


abdul 3 years ago

Hi asalamualaikum all, iam also waiting for my job visa pls pray for me too iam jobless since a year even after my BE, because i had got second class in BE.

Allah Hafiz


JAMEL ABDULJALAL 3 years ago

Wa Alaykumisalam,my brother oh i see...hope that you will hired soon..by the help of almighty ALLAH(S.W.T.) ,,,and me also to help our adopted sister return to us....INSHAALLAH!!!


Batool 3 years ago

Aslamlakum brother JAMEL ABDULJALAL

I am from india


JAMEL ABDULJALAL 3 years ago

INSHA ALLAH....YOU WILL GET THAT JOB IN WHAT COUNTRY WHERE YOU FROM?


Batool 3 years ago

brother JAMEL ABDULJALAL

I have applied for government job plz pray for me that by Almighty ALLAH I get this job BY the Sadka Of our beloved Prophet PBUH. Ameen


JAMEL ABDULJALAL 3 years ago

WHAT JOB U ARE WILLING TO APPLY MY BROTHER?


Batool 3 years ago

plz brother & sister pray for me that i get the job by grace of ALMIGTY ALLAH plz prey for me , my family and for all muslima. plz plz pray

ALLAH HAFIZ


realjhamz39 3 years ago

tnx for accepting my problems hope u can help us........


Jamel H.Abduljalal 3 years ago

i am jamel from philippines i am a filipino muslim,i have this kind of problem that not the same as most of those who shares there own problem,this is my situation last saturday our adopted sister decide to leave us without any permission,my cousin give her money to buy load and some pain medicine but suddenly he used the money to escape and now we feel so stress and at the same time miss her,we cant help our selves! there are night that my mother cried,,,, as well as me but we are still believing that there's a posibility that she will realize to comeback ALLAHUAKBAR!!ALLAH(S.W.T.) is good i hope he will give us strenght to handle this kind of situation and give an exact reason to her to return in our home INSHAALLAH!!!!


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

@Parveen Shabana:

Im sorry to hear that you are facing such problem. Wht is your distress?

Please visit this site and post your question there as well. inshallah you will find some relief, but if you feel comfortable you can talk here too.

Islamicanswers.com

And please keep doing dua and ask Allah(SWT) for help in troubled times He is the only one that can help us

Ive heard that reading Surah Muzammil can help with pareshaani

Also reading Surah Fatah 3times daily helps with eliminating problems.

May Allah help u with and ur husbands problems sister, I will keep u in duas. tc


Parveen Shabana 3 years ago

Please i am in very big trouble from the day i got married please do advise me how to overcome from my husband's torchers.I feel like dying.i wish i should not do that.But i don't know how to express my feelings.I have posted my experience but not received any reply from anybody.I really do not know whether its reached u or not, or its my bad luck?


Fatuma 3 years ago

I have been relieved by this story. I now have hope because you went through almost all what I am going truth though but for my case I requested for Talaq myself and I trust Allah for He I understand he will give me the best in return.


ZAINAB 3 years ago

Hi iam Zainab and i am facing some problems of money,house, i want to become rich iam from poor family so please i want that you should help me that i become richest, plus i get a nice house of my own and i should get married soon inshallah Ameen


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

Salaam to all users,

I have recently come across a great site. To all of you that may need some decent advice/ feel like your very down I urge you to read:

http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/wp-login.php

As I was feeling very down and depressed these past couple days alhamdulillah sharing my problems, and sometimes when you read about others you don't feel so alone.


A simple blog follower 3 years ago

I have noticed many people are posting magic advertise here.

First of all magic is KUFR in Islam.

And the punishment for magician is death according islamic law.

As for ones getting their loves ones by magic.

And does the relationship where one forces someone to return, by magic or whatever matters?

The person is not coming back out of their own will.

Rather magic is doing the job.

So i kindly advice those who are tricking upset people here by taking advantage of them not to do so.

And warning them that doing so will definitely lead to hellfire as you guys are encouraging kufr.

And also reminding them of the punishment.

As for rest. Pray to Allah for the best. In sha Allah things will get better.


Anonymous 3 years ago

Assalamualaikum warehmatullahi wabarakaatuhoo

I am going through very severe pains and sufferings in my life since almost 2 decades now. I am having many health issues and hence with it also comes to me the wealth issues like "buy none get worst free" offer. There was and there is a constant mental torture on me from my Dad and despite the fact that I was already facing health issues I was forced to work and do something and to earn money no matter what. After a long struggle I somehow got some success. Though my success was short lived but looking to that my Dad gave me 6500$ and in return I said I would be giving some money to him on monthly basis. For few months everything went fine but than I lost all my funds because of a liar. There was a constant pressure on me from my Dad as he was demanding either the monthly payments or was asking me to return the entire money back to him. Now because of that constant mental torture on me from my Dad, I was forced to take another 2000$ loan from my Brother-in-law and it was obvious that I have to promise a monthly payment to him too, Many of them just say they are Muslims but I know very well that they are worst than Kuffaar-e-Makkah and don't even know what a Muslim actually is and when your time is bad it only gets worst and worst and worst and hence I lost another 2000$ in about very similar fashion. So now my total debt went to 8500$ + Constant Monthly Payments which has made it to almost 14000$ now + Constant Mental Torture and Abusements from my Dad for free. No one hardly cares for my health issues all they need from me is Money. Such a great family I have, Alhumdulillah. I still remember how my very same great family was so proud of me when I was having enormous success in my early academic life and it is because of that very same enormous success that became the very reason for my overall failures as that's what happens when you are a bit blessed by Allah swt yet living amongst the filthy crappy kuffaar type relatives who can simply cross any limits just to destroy you and bring you down out of their jealousy. I can only say I have seen many chameleons in humans forms and many Kuffaars with illusions of being Muslims. I have been already told by my Dad that I am eating haraam as I am not giving any money to him and that I should leave his house. I swear by Allah swt I would leave his house the moment I will get well. My health issues have just made me helpless but to live in my Dad's house out of my own wish. I just pray to Allah swt to take me out of this horrible situation of my life to the soonest as possible.

Surely I have written my story in a very short manner, there is a lot more pains and sufferings if I have to add to it.

Anyway, kindly remember me in your prayers if possible, May you be rewarded by Allah swt at his best.

Jazakumullahu Khaira.


Areesha 3 years ago

assalam-o-alaikum.

Sir main last one year se bahut bahut pareshan hoon apne kaan(ear)

ke problem se , mere kaan ki nas (pulse) dhire dhire kamjor (week ) hoti ja rahi hai aur mere sunne ki taqat bhi kam hoti ja rahi hai

aur mere head(sir) me bhi siti jaisi awaz ati hai aur pura head(sir) ghoomta rahta hai .

meri aapse guzarish hai ki aap mere ear (kaan) ki salamati ke liye dua kare

aur please mujhe bhi woh dua meri e-mail id par send kare.

aapki bahut bahut meharbni hogi.

Allah Hafiz

areesha

meri e-mail id - istiyaqueahmad102@gmail.com.


unknown 3 years ago

as salamwalaykum rahmattullahi wa barkartuhu

im a married girl age 28 i was married in the age of 25 in the year 2009 it was an arranged marriage d same day of wedding my husband and brother-in- law and mother in law along with his two families started harassing me and my family they removed my gold ornaments which was given by my parents at wedding time even they was not allowing me to speak to my parents on phone n also they did not give to eat food also they were not giving me to go n talk to their neighbours i they keep me as a prisioner after marriage i used to give tutions at my husband place n the tution fees was taken by my mother in law i was with them only for 3months of my marriage n they send me back without giving my gold ornaments all my gold ornaments are still in their pocession now i hv filed d case in the court to get all my gold ornaments back but it takes long time to clear the case it already 4yrs past im fighting the court my problems is that i want dua to read to get back all my gold ornaments as fast as possible which was taken by my husband, brother in law, mother in law, mother in law sister and my husband cousin brother and his wife .

plz give me the suggestion waiting for ur reply


naila 3 years ago

sir meri gold ki ring 29 october 2012 ko gum hui thi jo abhi tak nahi mili hai wo mujhe gift mili thi sir i am very worried about it plsss app istikhara kar kay bata sakhtay hain kay wo kahan hai aur mujay mil jaye gi


nushrath 3 years ago

pls remember me in your spcl dua,,,,,,,


batool 3 years ago

Aslamalakum Emma and all brother and sister

Plz pray for me, i have applied for the job plz pray that i got this job, as i need it

plz pray for my mother , my brother, my sisters , my son , my family

Alaha hafiz


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

I found this dua on someones wordpress page and its excellent! Plz pass along Jazakallah :)

The medicine for sorrow, grief, anxiety and depression is this dua:

http://trueword.wordpress.com/2007/10/09/sad-depre...


Simple Muslim Guy 3 years ago

As-salamualaikum,

I have been following this blog with various names and also shared some advice.

This blog personally helped me alot.

And also the video posted below. The knowledge associated with the video.

Anyone with a broken heart must see this video :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eb6n8ZCDlcI

This is the only answer to your problems.

Not magic potion or countless hours of therapy.

It personally helped for me. Its not a spam, its about Allah swt approaching the ones who are hurt, confused and needs care.

See the full video, all the 3 parts and i believe from my heart that it would and it should make a difference.


Shahid khan 3 years ago

Assalamu Alaikum if any dua i get for child.


Emma 3 years ago

Dear unknown

Its not my place to tell you how to live your life, but do you think it is possibly better for you to find a away to get a life, considering he aborted your baby and already deceived you? Do man like that ever change?


unknown 3 years ago

Assalamalaikum, I m married since 3 years. But after marriage I came to know that my husband already have his first wife. I faced lots of problems even I had to stay alone in one flat. He used to come very rarely to me. Still I managed everything and told him to treat both of us equally. But since 1 year I m staying with my father and he is not willing to come to me even not sending me any money. Recently I came to know that he also has a son with first wife. When I was pregnant he aborted my child. He is totally avoiding me. Plz dear brothers and sisters pray for me that my husband should come to me and give me all rights and treat me equally. JazakAllah.


Anonymous 3 years ago

May Allah give us all eternal happiness.


Maria84 3 years ago

Salam dear Emma! Thanks for ur kind words. Yes i really hope so and Im gonna keep praying and see if i Inshallah get this chance. I Said yes for a proposal like 3 months ago and just weeks later, i regret i said yes and now Im so ashamed


Emma 3 years ago

Dear Maria84

Sorry for the late reply sister, but I am glad that you have decided to study such a good subject. Take charge of your own life and you will see everything else will work out itself. I wish you all the best and keep me updated. Take care


Maria84 3 years ago

Salam aleykom Ifirdous

Thanks a lot for the website.


maria84 3 years ago

Salam Sis Emma! Long time no talk, hope Everything is doing good for you. I chose dental hygienist and pharmacy and i'll see what happen. I just ask allah that students with better grade than don't apply for this education so i can get in. I really want to move on with my Life,, not just be stuck at home and not doing anything. Without education, its hard to get job so i hope i can get an education and get job in the future. Im not sure whether u work or study, but whatever you do, may allah keep u happy and succues in this Life and next. Thanks for wishing my and plz remember me in ur prayers. First of all to get a happily marriage and then education if its possible. Thanks


Emma 3 years ago

Sister Maria84

I am really pleased for you. What subject have you chosen? Life is living and I wish you all the best.


Emma 3 years ago

Dear sisters

I hope you all are doing well. Just to let you know, those of you who have e-mailed me, I cannot access my email account, because I have forgotten my passward. Please note I am not ignoring your mails, its just that I am unable to open and reply. Thanks to all of you for your support. Take care and be happy now, don't worry about tomorrow.


sasta10 profile image

sasta10 3 years ago from Manchester, UK

Great article. Dua is the solution to every problem. Always remember to make dua for yourself and your loved ones and remember Allah in both difficult and happy times. Allah tests us in many ways and dua is one of of passing these test. Allah is always willing to forgive those who makes dua and here is the evidence:

“Verily your Lord is Generous and Shy. If His servant raises his hands to Him (in supplication) He becomes shy to return them empty” (Ahmad, Abu Dawood, Tirmidhi).

Thank you for sharing this beautiful article. Hope Allah give everyone the ability to make dua and may it benefit you and I in many ways. Ameen…


Mariia84 3 years ago

Salam hope u all r doing fine. i just wonder if anyone can suggest me a surah to recite or a dua to make for start University this coming semester ( august 201 3 ) i want to apply for a education but u need to have high grade, my grade are not that high and i really want this and wanna ask you all to pray for me. Thanks! And plz if u know any dua or surah in quran, just let me know. May allah grand u happiness and fulfull ur desires and solve all our problems inshallah!


Fellow muslim guy 3 years ago

This post had helped me alot during a very awful time of my life.

So i would like to thank the author again.

I myself wrote an article on being depression/sorrow which i would like to share and hope it helps everyone like this article helped me.

http://islamthemercyofallah.wordpress.com/2013/02/...

And please kindly avoid people who are talking about Magical Babas and potion. They are evil , even if the potion works. Its kufr to do magic!

And this types of magic are black magic.

So don't let people take advantage of your vulnerability and making you do shirk and kufr.

And the ones who are posting these ads are companions of shaytan.


md kausar 3 years ago

janab,i have a dream to build a masjid and going to haj i marrige a muslim lady kainat hedayat.but she brak down my dream so plz tall me one dua i pray my wife mine see to me...plz need help


Husain 3 years ago

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatulla wa barakatuhu,

I wan to know that Wazifa of Height Increase as Ya allahu Ya Allieyu Ya Azzimu. Which age till this wazifa is works. Pls tell me.


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

@Sofie:

Thank u so much for the kind words sis! U r amazing as well :) May Allah bless u too, and those that are experiencing problems. Ameen.


Sofie 3 years ago

Noorkh 786

U are amazing.... May Allah bless u in this dunia and in akhira and may he make all ur days shine bright..


ifirdous profile image

ifirdous 3 years ago from UK Author


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

@ all readers:

Assalamualeikum everyone...

Today it's been another one of those very depressed days that I've come across and felt so down. Days like this come and go, but today I just felt real disheartened abt certain things in life.

It has also been almost 1.5 yrs since I've been active on here. I feel better to come read things ppl post, makes me feel like maybe I'm not the only one? This hub has truly helped me in keeping faith and leaving it to Allah (Swt.) although things aren't the greatest now I'm very happy to know I am still active and this hub has helped me become a better person. I look forward to keeping active inshallah till I can and lets remember each other in dua. :)

Allah Kareem


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

@Sofie:

Thank you very much sister! I try my best to be positive and thus hub has truly helped me with that. I like to stay active as it helps me think maybe my problems aren't as bad as others, and its always good to help others wen we can. I really liked wut u wrote for sister Ainna. My heart really goes out to her as well and it's hard to be tested that much (I've been as well) but wen u think this is temp then ur heart may feel ease. May Allah Make all our obstacles easier and bless us Ameen. Take care :)


Fahmi 3 years ago

@septsky,

Dear sis , don't hold yourself responsible for your bad marriage.

This video which sis Emma suggested me ,probably could answer your worries

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OPPgOcwKTJ4


Sofie 3 years ago

@ Noorkh 786

Great job sister, keep up your positive spirit and amazing responses... May Allah bless you...


Sofie 3 years ago

Assalamu Alaykum, what a nice hub indeed... i have been touched and inspired by ur story sister and i hope everything shines in ur life and in the lives of all others in this hub... i am most moved by AINNA's story...i hope i got the name right and i am deeply saddened to hear that someone can suffer all that in her life, however do not despair my dear sister...

Think about this, your life in Duniya has been bad and u've been hurt a lot, but there'z akhera so work for it...work for the life after this Duniya, work to go to jannat firdaous so when u die u know u are going to live in peace in the here after.... the life of thos world is like running water, at some point, u will die...life will stop, all the suffering will end in less than a second...but what awaits us is forever...so work to be a good muslimah, offer all ur prayers, read the quraan whenever u feel alone and in despair then make Dua's...consider this building ur house in paradise and having a good life in the grave... just know that in paradise, u will be loved and loved and loved...u will always be happy and will have what ur heart desires.... no more hurt, no more worries, my dear sister, work in raising up good Muslim daughters and sons who will remember u when u are gone, don't dwell on life and its problems...please go back to Allah and go back strong!!! May he Guide all of us to the straight path and may He give u peace in ur heart


septsky11 3 years ago

I read this story and I feel like I am in same shoe, but I have a 6 year old son. I don't want a divorce, I don't believe in divorce. I even told my husband I am willing to comprise, if he want to marry that girl but he is not budging. I am so depress..............it’s like end for me. I don't know how I am going to face God, I failed in my marriage. I just don't know what to do. I am praying and I know, God will have answer for me. I am leaving everything to God.


KACEM 3 years ago

This made me cry... its amazing how Allah loves hes slaves! I love Allah so much yet i sin very much but still Allah guides me "ous"


Liaba 3 years ago

Assalamlikum, my dear brother and sister, i wanted share something to all of you,, many peopel's are saying in friday one moment Allah accepting muslim dua and person ask any thing from Allah will grnted to tham, and its time between asar and magreb i did try, if any brother sister try ask something will be hppened, i am saying becuse i prctice also everything happened might be take little time.


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

@Maria

Ws,

How r u sis? Plz check ur email I've sent u mail there. Talk to u soon. Tc :)


maria84 3 years ago

SALAM sisters!! im reading the posts here very often.. im really sorry for everyone who r going through this difficult things:( but may allah help us all. There is not much to do without praying and not giving up our faith, trust and hope. PLz remember me in ur prayers as i will remember all of u as well :)


Maya 3 years ago

By the way:

Many great youtbe videos from great ulama are great reminders.

Listen to sister Yasmin Mogahed Or Sheikh Omar Sulaiman.

Here is a video that will change your life and the way you were thinking about duaa:

With Hardship Comes Ease Sh Omar Suleiman

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xPI2wIjzov8


Maya 3 years ago

Assalamu alaykum to everyone in difficulty

When the Sahaba went through difficulty they became happy because they knew that Allah subhanahu wa taala loved them by testing them.

For all those asking other people for help.

This is an advice for You.

Don't ask people for help. The only one You can count on is Allah.

If You want to comlpain, Allah will listen to you. He is the only one who will always listen and He is the only one who loves us more than we could ever imagine.

Because Allah has infinite love and power and mercy. Our mind and our heart do not have capacity to fully understand the power of mercy or love that Allah has for is creations.

I have also been in difficulty for almost 2 years now.

My husband and I cannot have children. This is my biggest dream. To have a family. I have cried and praying every day. I have fought.

We still don't have kids and the doctors just keep on giving us bad news..

My biggest dream cannot be fulfilled. But You know what everyone?

Our ONLY goal in life. Is being a servant to Allah. We cannot worship another worldly thing beside Allah. This is actually a form of shirk.

We have to understand. That if we love something or someone more than Allah we are surely moving the wrong way and will be punished for it if we don't repend and change our life.

Saying: I cannot live without this and that person is a very dangoreus way. Saying that: I cannot live without children is a dangerous path.

We can live. We will live. Because the only thing our soul needs is the Creator of our soul.

A great sheikh said: everything strives to what it is originated from. Our soul is from Allah so it WANT's to go back to Allah. Our body is made from earth so it strives and finds satisfaction in worldly things.

Do not let your body and nafs win you over.

We have to keep on striving and working on ourselves and our thoughts and our relationship to Allah.

Only by doing that we will get closer to Allah. And be happy and find peace.


zam 3 years ago

Assalamoualaiykum ... 1 st of all i read what about the qwner of this page wrote about her life yu could not believe its just a copy of my life the different is i marry n stay in same country n my ex hubby b4 he divorced me he run away with my own niece in 3 month later i lost my belove mum my only 1 support i must said its only Allah paak who guided me n help lots in my difficulties am so thankful to Allah n today me also am married to the most loving and caring person i ever met me n my little girl we are so much happy all that the fruits of prayer toward Allah never lose hopes keep on seeking Allah mercy and grace as he is very much merciful and most gracious Alhamdoullillah everything will be okay and fine..


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

@everyone:

Assalamualeikum Brothers and Sisters:

Today was a rather interesting day. I been pretty active on this hub since my life doesn't seem to be going lets just say the way I really want it too. It seems as if it became a pattern of losing hope: from relationships, to jobs, financial issues, you name it. I hate to sound like Im complaining but there's a reason behind me explaining this. This whole week Ive been feeling down and depressed, its already 2013, Im gna be 27 this year, been single for quite a while, never been in a stable relationsip in the 10 years that I been divorced... My life's had many ups and downs, just like all of you here and the page owner. It got so bad that I just stopped praying. I wud want to pray occasionally, seeing my parents pray or sister wud make me realize sumwut but then I thought so much happened, Im so depressed y bother? Astaghfurullah I was having thoughts like this, its like depression was just starting to take over. Its today that brought realization of certain things to me... I just cudnt get over the negativity in my mind of how things weren't gna change, I honestly cudnt believe of how I become and what I used to be, I used to want to do dua and ask Allah (SWT) to change my life and now its lke I had no interest, the sad part is that I didn't even have any positivity towards dua or ibaadah. Then finally I decided to search things online just like I did for this hub. I found this article someone shared about the power of dua. Im sure you all know this already but reading her story inspired me, reminded me that there is still hope and maybe I shudnt be so down. I do believe Allah makes everything happen for a reason and he made me want to see that to ask Him for his help. I hope and pray that Allah gives ur the right guidance, and fulfills our duas. Whenever your down, always remember Allah (SWT) is the best source for help and to answer our prayers. "Where there is Dua, there is hope. Believe in this"

http://www.islamawareness.net/Dua/hope.html


badurdeen 3 years ago

Sallam Allaikkum, Brother / sisters

I am looking boy marriage proposal for my uncle is daughter 24yrs girl she deaf / mute and so beuty.and very innocent . family members only 4. perents / 2 sons / 1 daughter .if ur know any person for marriage same as my uncle daughter. if interest pls mail.details.

zawahir.badurdeen@ mail.com Mobile 077-1880901


Noorkh786 profile image

Noorkh786 3 years ago from US

@alirose123:

Salaam,

A good website you can go on to ask for good duas as such is:

istikhaara.com. There a well accredited site and help a lot of ppl facing problems similar to yours. Another thing that I find helpful to read as much as I can remember is:

YA HAYYU YA QAYYUM

(The Living, The Sustainer)

HASBANULLAHU WA NIMAL WAKEEL

("Allah alone is sufficient for us Quran 3:173)

**This is something that I read in reference to this ayat:

By leaving your affairs to Allah, by depending upon Him, by trusting in His promise, by being pleased with His decree, by thinking favourably of Him, and by waiting patiently for His help, you reap some of the greater fruits of faith and display the more promonent characteristics of the believer. When you incorporate these qualities into your character, you will be at peace concerning the future, because you will depend on your Lord for everything. As a result, you will find care, help, protection, and victory.

When Prophet Ibrahim (as) was placed in the fire, he said, "Allah (Alone) is sufficient for us, and he is the best disposer of affairs (for us)." Thereupon, Allah made the fire to be cool, safe, and peaceful for Prophet Ibrahim (as).

When the prophet Muhammad (saw) and his companions were threatened by the impending attack of the enemy, they said words that are related in the first part of this verse: "Allah (Alone) is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs (for us).".............................And Allah is the owner of Great Bounty (Qur'an 3:173-74)

No person by himself is capable of fighting against the current of misfortune, nor can he fend off the blows of disaster when they strike. This is because man was created weak and fragile. However, when in times of difficulty, the believer places his dependancy and trust with his Lord; he knows that all difficulties can be overcome.

"And put your trust in Allah if you are believers indeed" (Qur'an 5:23)

Hope this helps and may Allah make all of our problems easier Ameen.


alirose123 3 years ago

Im in lot of stress and depression because of my relationship with my girl who i want to get married to ,plz tell me dua on things that is causing us to separate but the problem is we cannot live without each other we just cant

do it.I am looking for Dua that can get these bad luck off me.


Submit a Comment
New comments are not being accepted on this article at this time.
Click to Rate This Article
working