Gorgeous Girlish Girdles For Men

What, pray tell, is a girdle? Why, it is a relatively old fashioned piece of lingerie and the evolutionary child of the corset. Put simply, a girdle is a piece of shape defining lingerie which runs from under the bust to over the hip. It promotes a lovely feminine shape and irons out any unseemly bumps of flesh which can get in the way of attaining the perfect hourglass figure.

Whilst girdles are popular in literature (you'll remember Hercules fought the Amazon Queen for her girdle, and it's about to be obvious why,) they have somewhat fallen out of fashion amongst the young women of the modern age.

It is still possible to purchase girdles however, and they are the perfect compliment for men who wish to wear women's lingerie and look good in it. Girdles made and intended only for men are also available, though you may not find them at your local lingerie stockists, and instead of cinching in the waist, these girdles simply provide support for the infamous tummy region where the beer gut tends to grow.

Long Line Classic Girdle

The girdles here are from Secrets in Lace, a lingerie retailer stocking very fine lingerie indeed. First up we have a traditional long line girdle. With pretty lace across the legs, it is almost a pity that the rest of the girdle makes no secret of it support structure, which is clearly visible in lines running throughout the garment. A little but 1920s, a little bit bleached super heroine, how could one possibly resist? This long line girdle shapes everything from the tummy to the butt.

Pretty Panty Girdle

If you're looking for something a little less all encompassing, a panty girdle may very well be the better choice for you. The panty girdle is essentially a panty gone wild and overbearing. Instead of fabric extending down the thighs (which many men don't need due to the stunning state of their legs,) the panty girdle stops at the hips and simply controls tummy, butt and waist. This style of girdle may also be much more practical for the man who would like a shape controlling alternative to a garter belt, as it comes with suspender clips for attaching your stockings.

There's no doubt that girdles are incredibly sexy, incredibly charged pieces of lingerie. Granted, they are certainly more pricey than a plain pair of panties, but I think it is safe to say that wearing a girdle will take your lingerie wearing experience to the next level.

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Gunnau 7 years ago from Central Coast NSW Australia

I do love the look girdles.

There is something sexy and romantic yet powerful about the look of a woman in them and the styles shown here from Secrets in lace are just beautiful.

Some guys i know who like wearing them prefer the Open Bottom Girdle or OBG for short, style.

I'd love one but my other half would frown because of the bra component.


celtichic 7 years ago

Yes! Girdles are worn by men. In fact, a girdle was the first item of women's clothing I wore. Now, I am stretching it a bit, because I began in girl's panties at age 4.....bought by my own mother at my request. But one of my favorite items was a floral beige (that color you discussed recently) panty girdle. I loved it!! I regret losing it during one of my purges. And that is something your Hub may help stop in crossdressers, purges. Time for guilt to stop! Men who wear women's clothes stand up for your rights!


Zeta 7 years ago

Girdles are special. As Gunnau says, I enjoy the open bottom girdle. I wear my panties over rather than the traditional under, for convenience.

A couple of warnings; the suggested sizing on the net is way too big for me, by about 4 inches. The other thing to be aware of is that the slimming down of your hips makes an accidental pants drop a possibility. I usually wear suspenders on my pants when I wear a girdle.

Being hugged by a girdle, with your legs encased in shiny nylon, the garters showing on your pants when you sit, is all a turnon for me.


allen 7 years ago

me i love all girdles especially the full bodied open bottom girdles they feel the best on me make me look shapely and when bathroom time comes makes it a lot easier besides they also help hold up my nylons too


lingerielover 6 years ago

Girdles are among the most sensual pieces of clothes. The way a good fitting girdle embraces ones figure, supports it is fantastic. For long years now, a girdle is part of my daily wardrobe. Especially the obg and the allinone are my favourites.

My clothes fit better and the support of the girdle gives me a lot of confidence and energy. And I love the feeling of the stockings on my skin too.


Tom 5 years ago

I love the girdle and panties. I am new at this but I love dressing like a woman.


ms. panty girdle 5 years ago

i like the girdles!!! yup men should also wear them for their beer belly!


toms0321 5 years ago

I am a male and yes I wear girdles. A few years ago I started getting a small stomach, plus I had lower back pains and had troubles fitting in my clothes. I also have a mild case of scolosis. I did some research and found that a girdle would help out, I found that to wear a girdle there are so many makes and models and there is lots to learn and it did become somewhat confusing. I located a professional corsetier for a fitting and consulting. What a great experience now I wear a long legged high waist boned and zippered panty girdle every day and I have never felt so great. If you are interested in contacting a corsetier for a fitting please email at toms_0321@yahoo.com


Gilliane Moxham 5 years ago

I wear my girdles all the time, nearly always ONG except I wear panty girdles under a tight jeans, happily and with confidence too. Because my belly is gone, my 'wold' buttocks tucked in together , my waist , hips and thighs held form - and I like the support too as the girdle holds me up. That's why I wear a girdle all day every day - and I much prefer nylon stockings to tights as well.

Believe me I'm real comfy in there , completely forgetting I have it on most times - though it does remind me now and then. But that's fine.

Yes it makes me sit up straight ( no harm!)walk more prettily , and I have to bend with my knees.

But I'm used to all of that , you do get used to it quickly enough , varies from person to person. And we all get to the stage where I suppose we become dependent , and really miss the girdle when it's off.

But wow what it does for my figure under a nice penny or A-line. I love my girdles and will always wear them and let nobody ever see me without!


lingerielover 5 years ago

Seems to me that there are some men who have made the experience of wearing a girdle. An OBG or an HWPG. However, a man´s figure benefits from a girdle the same way as a womens. And I made the experience that it has not just a physical but a psychological effect too. A girdle provides not only support it makes me feel better, stronger and gives a lot of energy.


Jaymie 5 years ago

I've been wearing girdles for several years now and don't often appear in public without a panty girdle on. I have been in a gay relationship for 12 yrs and my boyfriend approves of my choice of undergarments. When I'm wearing a girdle I feel more confident in my appearance, my clothes fit me better and my bottom looks firmer and rounder. Of cource my tummy also appears flatter. I certainly recommend a good quality girdle to anyone male or female who wants to look their best.


John 5 years ago

I am male. My Mother was girdled daily. I tried one at age 12. Hooked instantly. I have girdled daily for short periods for thrill and also for back pain. I am 59.I wear them in public seldom or around friends. Alone I will wear them for hours on end till a knock on the door. It's like a girdle light switch. ON/OFF.

All I can say is that Girdles keep me out of bars and ended my female chasing pretty much 25 years ago after my 2nd divorce.

I'm just saying this: Panty girdles are fun-cheap on ebay and very mind clearing and help my back. I don't wish to be a woman but it's fun to feel what they do and it allows me to talk to females more honestly after all these years. I had a negative attitude after my 2nd divorce towards women and 22 girlfriend moochers to follow. I just quit women and all mates like quiting smoking and took up panty girdles again daily. I never turned Gay. I wanted no more headaches. If I don't like an ebay girdle after I get it I resell it. Often at profit. Better than trashing it.

If ya want to wear a panty girdle do IT! They show little even the old classics. The addition spare tire above the tight waist shows more than the girdle does. I wear loose fitting button down shirts to hide that.

Enjoy !!!!!!


lingerielover 5 years ago

John, like your mother my mother wore a girdle every day. At first only obgs with stockings later panty girdles with pantyhose. One day I couldn´t resist any longer and tried one of her girdles and a pair of stockings. When I felt the soft fabric on my legs as well as the tightness of the girdle I was hooked at once. I started to wear a girdle more regularly whenever possible.

Years later when I had my own flat I started again. And for the last 15 years I´m wearing a girdle almost every day. These days I can´t imagine to go without one. And I no longer care if someone might notice.

At the beginning I was always afraid that the garters would be visible through my trousers. But I never had a problem. And I was lucky. Although it took some time my wife approved my girdle wearing at the end.

Girdle and stockings are part of my daily wardrobe. And after all these years I still enjoy it.


IMACD 4 years ago

I wear a control brief pantygirdle 24/7, and almost always wear a longleg pantygirdle over that and a pair of tights or pantyhose over that under my male clothes on a daily basis.Most days, but not all, I enjoy wearing a all in one body shaper over top of the briefs, hose and long leg pantygirdle. It helps my posture and by back problems. The tights feel greqat as they support my legs and help my circulation in my legs also. My wife approve and even buys these items for me either when we go shopping of on line, and does not really care too much as long as I don't let my lingerie show, either in public or private. She does not want to have much to do with it at all. She also objects to me wearing bras, slips and satiny night gowns, which I dont understand as she lends me her cotton night gowns all the time, and I wear an all in one body shaper and it has a bra built in, so go figure. Sometimes I wear a bra underneath the briefer when we go out, what she does not see, she does not care about, but I love wearing it everwhere I go. It feels good and I get a thrill if someone happens to notice my bra straps or garter tabs. I don't wear socks so my hose shows plain as day, especially when I wear sandals, or sit with my legs crossed. I have had lots of people stare at my boobs (44B), and I am sure they can see the seams of the bra through my t-shirts, and I love it.


JohnE. 4 years ago

Det hele startede da jeg var 13 år gammel. Jeg skulde give en gave til min søster som blev 25 år.Jeg købte et par små lyserøde trusser til hende. Inderst inde ønskede jeg dem til mig selv, og nogle måneder senere så jeg nogle andre lyserøde trusser i hendes skuffe.Jeg kunde ikke lade være med at prøve dem på. Samme dag kørte jeg en tur på min cykel fordi jeg ville have andre til at se mine lyserøde trusser. ( jeg kørte med bukserne åbne, men der var ingen der så dem.Da jeg kom hjem lagde jeg dem på plads.Jeg er nu 66 år og har gået med pigetrusser lige siden. Min kone synes det er ok. og køber tit trusser til mig. vi har ofte samme slags trusser på. En dag på vej til indkøbscenteret sagde jeg at jeg gerne ville have en natjkole, og min kone fandt en flot pink natkjole til mig. Hun har isden udviddet så jeg nu har ca. 25 natkjoler. Det sidste nye er at hun synes jeg skal gå med BH. For leden dag var der tilbud på 2 bhset for 50 kr. så hun købte et sæt til os hver. Jeg har også mange panties og nogle bodyer. samt et enkelt korset. Korsettet er hemmeligt endnu, men jeg glæder mig til at vise min kone det. Det skal lukkes i ryggen så jeg kan ikke selv tage det på. Jeg har i dag ca 300 par trusser, og samlingen vokser stadig. Jeg har også 50 BHer og ca 25 stk panties. Jeg vil gerne have rigtige bryster, jeg ved bare ikke hvordan.man kan ikke få hormoner her i Danmark hvor jeg bor, men mørk chokolade skulde også virke. men hvor meget skal der til. Nogle urter har samme virkning, men hvilke. Jeg tør ikke give min e-mail offentlig.


satinsheeny 4 years ago

from my teenage years, I have been infatuated with women's girdles, primarily OBGs. There is a power and a joy when it is slithered up your body and the feeling of feminine tight encasement is quite irresistablek! Add to that a most luscious pair of shimmery suntan or beige stockings, and then sheer full cut panties, all on top of a gorgeous pair of 4-5 inch high heel pumps, and the fantasy becomes real, and really exciting and enjoyable!


Rob 4 years ago

The bhs bellybuster is great. Comfortable and superb value.


Al 4 years ago

In the next couple of days I intend to review two panty girdle I have eperience of.


Al 4 years ago

The marks and spencer firm control panty girdle is superb. Negative points are, vpl possible, and only available in white. However the plus points are, superb fit, very well made, lasts a long time, and at a cost of only £12.50 I suspect there are many men wearing one.


Al 4 years ago

The bhs bellybuster supports your back and is a good fit


Kev 4 years ago

Has anyone ever tried the playtex 18 hour girdle. If so what was it like ?


Les 4 years ago

One thing I cannot figure out is why so many ladies girdles fit men so well. Is mens underwear a bit of a con.


Dev 4 years ago

One thing to keep in mind is that all shapewear can be very warm in the warm weather.


T. 4 years ago

I would never go back to wearing men's underwear. Ladies panties are more comfortable and sensual to wear.

Girdles help keep me shaped, as well as provide support for my back.


JimCD 4 years ago

Love wearing all foundation garment, girdles, corselets, all-in-ones, bustiers, corsets etc.

Like wearing more than one at a time as well, Oh what a feelig!!!!


3 years ago

As a male, I love wearing panty girdles over panties out in public as shorts on a daily basis. They feel great and look great. Once in a while someone will see I'm wearing a girdle espically if there is a lace trim around the leg but it generally goes without notice.


Patsypop 2 years ago

Delighted to find this site here as i wear a girdle every day and love it i have been wearing one for nearly 25 years now and will not go out without wearing one all colors and even printed ones enjoy yourselves


lingerielover 2 years ago

Interesting to see that more and more men become aware of the advantages of girdle wearing.


Vanna 2 years ago

I've been wearing girdle ever since my mom taught me to dress up. She wanted a girl child and oops I was born.I have been in dresses forever ,and love the feel


Joyce 2 years ago

Got my first open bottom girdle. A Venus Cortland. Only had time to slither into it once and haven't tried it with stockings and panties yet but I am looking forward to it. Hardly any privacy. But I love it.


Jose 2 years ago

Love to wear obg high waist six garters with stockings.Makes me feel relaxed.panties are worn over the girdle.my Obg are various colors with hooks and eyes and a zipper with six garters.have a few high waist panty girdles also with six garters.wear a girdle and stockings daily and love it will not do without one on


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Been wearing Spanx for a week now to help with my back pain. Going to try open bottom and a panty girdle next week.


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank -wait to you try an obg or a panty girdle you will be hooked literally .make sure you also get stockings .Also make sure your girdles have six garters. Before I forget the girdles should be 19 to 21 inches from top to bottom . Like me and others you will be a girdle user for life. Good luck and look and feel great. Before closing ,have a zipper and hooks and eyes. Take care.


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera, thanks for your input. The Spanx seem to be helping with back support, but waiting to see if a girdle is better. Been a long time sense I had a girdle on, when I was younger and tried on my moms or grandmas. I always preferred the panty girdle over the OBG. My wife accidentally left both of hers at a friends house when getting dressed up for a celebration, but said I could try hers befor we buy my own


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-great you have an understanding wife. Try them both on and take your choice,when you do this make sure you wear stockings which will stop you girdle from riding up.i wear stockings 90 percent of the time and girdle grippers when I do not wear stockings which prevent my girdle from riding up. Having your wife help you is great. I had help from an Aunt .Good luck in joining the club and remember men wear girdles to.


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Hi Xaviera. Yes my wife is great. I have been wearing pantyhose for sometime to help with leg pain and swollen feet, she bought me my first few pairs. After a few weeks of lower back pain and my back belt kept riding up, I asked her if I could try one of her girdles. She said yes, but she said she left them at a friends where she changed after an event. We are going the through her town Tuesday and I will be able to try them Wensday. I still have several new pairs of pantyhose, guess I will wear them over the girdle till I run low and try some stockings. Can't wait to see which one is better for my back. Why can't men's underware feel like this


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-how nice to hear the good news,great.for leg pain try compression stockings-they will help your leg pain. Are you going to try the obg? Then you will need stockings but with the panty girdle put on your panty hose first with panties(?) great feeling and the pg goes on very easily.I do not wear pantyhose often with a panty girdle ,sometimes no stockings ,I use regular stockings -to each is own.your wife will help you will be excited .see what girdle is the best then get your own .nothing like your own.what a great wife and mentor.your back will feel better and you will find you can't be without wearing one. That is what happened to me. Men should wear what they want,what is the difference what you have underneath as long as you feel good .right.Girdles and stockings with panties forever. Take care


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera, thanks for all the info. My wife is awesome. When I first talked about wearing pantyhose, she thought it was a fetish, but when she saw I wasn't so tired and sore at the end of the day she liked it. Yesterday we were at a Ross store and walking through the lingerie section we stopped at the support panty rack and I asked if she was ok with me wearing them, she said if it was helping with my back, that it was fine. She had to go to the rest room just as we were checking out, so the young lady checker asked if I got my wife the right size, I said my wife picked them out for me to help my back. She said wished my husband would try it. I don't have any pantys, I am not a cross dresser, but I like like the comfort and how pantyhose and support pantys help and soon try a girdle. Mabey we can exchange e-mails soon. Thanks. Frank


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank- you are progressing-wearing panties do not make you a crossdresserI am not a crossdresser but I wear female attire under neath.can not stop,why should I? It relaxes me and it feels good as you will see. If you enjoy pantyhose you will enjoy hwobg or a llhwpg, I have and so will you. When you get your own panty girdle make sure you get a detachable crotch for the oblivious purpose. If you think you like spanx or pantyhose you will love wearing a girdle and stockings .take care and hook em up


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaveria, I got them last night and tried them on as soon as we got home, what a feeling. Both are body shapers, one has legs with a hole in the crotch for axcess and the other is a little lacy in the front near the hook-zipper area with hook and eye crotch, I like that one the best so far, but no garters. I wore the second one for a while and my wife liked the way it looked on me, as I gave her a foot massage, she kept rubbing her other foot on my girdle, and that felt great too. I love it when she gives me or buys me clothing. I used to be so scared to buy my own, but now it gives me a charge to buy my own. And the feeling relaxes me too, and my wife likes it when we cuddle up when I am in softer stuff. I want to buy a high wasted long leg girdle but not to many stores sell girdles here in my small town, well another trip to the big city. How does your wife like you in girdles? Take care


Xaviera 2 years ago

frank-congrats to you.it did feel good didn't it. You have to get one with garters and when you put them on you will love it the pull of the stockings is wonderfully sensational.ask your wife to get u an obg with garters. You won't take it off. I won't. I have a hwobg on with black stockings as I write this to you. I am glad you are happy and you will be happier when you have your girdles. It is great to have a choice. I have 7 obg mostly high waist with hooks,eyes and zippers and 3 hwllpg with garters ,zipper and hooks and eyes.love em all. Take Care and I will tell you about my and opinion of this wonderful habit


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank- I forgot that you can buy any type of girdle on Girdle bound .com. They are great not cheap but you will get a great girdle.give it a try.i did


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera. I wore the LLbody shaper. It felt wonderful, a little warm but nice. I still want to try HWLLPG and an OBHW with garders. My wife really liked me in the body shaper with the hook and eyes and zipper in the front with H and E crotch for easy access. Just wished every company were uniform with the sizes. One pair I wear 2x and another 3x. Girdles for ever


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank- I know the feeling, it is great. Wear it all night.Wait to you put on hwllpg or hwobg both with garters and stockings ,your wife won't like you she will love you and won't permit you to go without a girdle.that is not bad.Sometimes sizes are rough to match up.What kind of girdle does your wife wear ? I am glad you like a girdle.check out girdle bound.com. I have to wear a girdle everyday for my wife loves me in various girdles and stockings.i do what she says .she says I need a all in one with an open bottom and I am going ti get one.


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera, how you doing. My wife only buys them only when she has a special event coming up. This time she bought 2 body shapers without bra. One is long legged with a hole in the crotch area, not very supportive. The other one is same but panty style hook and eye crotch but hook and eye and zipper down the middle, very supportive for me and my back. She gave me a LLHWPG a few year ago but we can't find it now, it worked great for me but when we moved I think it got lost or is still packed away. She told me to look on line for some cause they only sell support pantys around here. I looked at Sears and they have a mini Sears here( tools and appliances) but they have store to store free shipping and they have a nice selections


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-if you can't buy locally as I mentioned above try Girdle bound.com they have anything and everything. body shapers are fine but wearing a girdle and stockings is where it is at. you also need panties for hygiene purposes and they feel great on. If you do this you will never wear mens under again,who needs it. Take care and as you say girdles forever.


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera, I ordered 2 on line and about to get 2 more for free. I was working on a lady's sprinkler system when her friend came out side to see if I could do some odd jobs for her. My shirt had pulled up and she saw my girdle and asked why I was wearing. I told her for lower back problems. She asked the size of my waist and I told her. She said she 2 brand new girdles she bought back east at a small store and they were to big and no way to return them and might fit me. I go to try them on next week and we'll see, a new customer and girdles, a good week coming. Do you wear bras, or just girdles, pantys, and stockings?


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-great that you're really getting into it. What kind did you order and what kind did the lady give you? I hope your wife was not mad and I hope she doesn't take them.Ha! It is nice to have your own. I also wear bras short and long line bras and half slips,camisoles but no thongs love em. You will to. Love to dress underneath,I also sit around at night with a robe on and girdled with heels and completely attired.Girdles forever


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera, the lady gave me 2 LLHWPG and they fit and feel great with only 4 garter without the clips. The ones I ordered are a LLHWPG from Cupid brand with 6 garders. The lady that helped me said she wore them and they help her back too, can't wait to get to try them on. My wife got a used antique dresser from an estate sale Nd stuck in the back of one of the drawers were a package with white Q + pantyhose and a pack of George Q+ lace top thigh high stockings which she had me try on to sleep in( I were Q++ pantyhose to sleep in to help with Restless Leg Syndrome and it gives my manhood room to grow). I think she likes me in stockings than pantyhose to cuddle or sex, when I started wearing P/H she suggested stockings over P/H. I favor the panty girdle but I should try an HWOBG, the lady that gave me the 2 said she might have one just for me to try. Ha ha. My wife is not ready to see me in a bra, she said when I slow down and my chest mussels start going soft and saggy. LOL. Doing construction today and wearing my wifes HWPG with shoulder straps and feeling good, and no back pain. Girdles Forever


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-thigh highs r also very nice.pantyhose is ok but stockings are better. It seems to me your wife wants you to be girdled at all times. So be it.no hurry for a bra it will come soon. The lady likes men in girdles and she found one she might want to see you in one. I found that women like men who wear female under attire.do u sleep in stockings? I know your wife likes this. You will like the hwobg with six garters,make sure you wear panties.take care and GIRDLES FOREVER RITE ON


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xavier, I stated I didn't have any pantys but my wife corrected me saying support pantys are pantys too. Gotta love her. Wearing pantys, pantyhose or stocking is great, no more jock itch or athletes foot itch, I am cooler in the summer and my wife took an old pair of my jeans and made a skirt for me, a lot cooler relaxing around the house. I wore the stockings under my jeans last night and slept in the too, like I said in another post I think my wife likes stockings better than pantyhose on me. And other guys reading these hubs, don't knock it till you tried it, womens items are relaxing and my wife likes me when I am less stressed from running my own company. Girdles rule


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank,how did you like the skirt? Did you wear a girdle when you had the skirt on? Another suggestion when you wear a girdle,try a garter on,great feeling,when you take off your girdle you still will have your stockings on.Your wife will really love it and you will look good. When are the girdles you ordered coming in, I bet you can't wait.i always get excited when I get a new girdle. Finally what a great wife you have,be blessed. My wife is the same way,real women,by the way she wears a hwobg with stockings every day,so I have to also.Also a suggestion when you go to bed wear a silk nightown over your girdle and stockings and you'll sleep better.a good back needs a good girdle.


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera, the new girdles arrived and feel great. I will order an HWOBG next to try with the skirt, my wife likes them too and asked if she could borrow one when she needed to. I told her sure, it's nice wearing the same size underwear. She is going out of town for a couple of nights, so I might try a bra for fun, haven't tried on one for a long time when I was an early teen


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-great you got the girdles in and tried them on and they feel great. How many girdles do you have ? Now your wife is going to borrow your girdle that is funny. Tell her no haha.try the bra and put some padding in and don't forget to put on your girdle. By the way,do the new girdles have garters and how many? My wife ask me to try on an all-in one which is a combination of bra and girdle which I did with stockings and it was great.i told her to buy one for my birthday,she said she would ,it has six garter and an open bottom in black brocade.beautiful. Take care and be girdled


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera, no the new girdles do not have garders but my friend at the local lingerie shop where I buy Spanx has a seamstress that loves to fix womens items to fit men. She offered to put in a custom fit pouch in my Spanx for my junk. They asked to take pics of them to show others. I like em tight though. At the end of the week I am going to order 2 more girdles, black but 2x, 3 x are a little loose. Just put on my other new one, new week, new girdle. Love the feeling of pulling on a new girdle. Girdles Rule


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-how many girdles do you have now? Are the two new black girdles a pg or obg? Order them with six garters. Wearing a bra and girdle will give you a nice look , your wife will love it. As mine does. More men should realize there is nothing wrong wearing a girdle for it will make them look and feel better as it has done for me. Long live girdles and stockings


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera. I have 3 that fit good, a couple that are a bit too big. The black ones I am ordering do not have garders but like I said in another post the ladies at a local lingerie shop have a wonderfull seamstress that can add garders for me. They like to help men in womens garments. I wore a bra last night, when all the cats are away, the mouse will play. It wasn't my wifes but one a friend gave her, but it's to big around and bigger cups. But just right for me, she put it on me one time and said we should keep it for me when I lose my chest mussels in my old age. Ha ha. It's purple and has lacy cups and feels pretty good, haven't worn a bra for a long period of time sence I was a young teen. Stuffed it with silk and satan panties. Oh. What a feeling. Can't believe I did it, I don't think my wife is ready for me to try wearing a bra full time yet, but she is opening up for more slowly. Girdles Rule


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

When I started wearing pantyhose to help with tired legs wand swolen feet a year ago, I didn't think it would go this far. I won't wear men's underware anymore, and my ladies at the lingerie shop wonder why more men don't. They agree it's softer and cooler


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-at least wear a bra around the house which is fine-of course you will have a girdle on ,do not go without you will feel lousy. I wear mens under wear infrequently when I deem it necessary,womens underwear is the way to go.let me say this once you start you are finished . You becme addicted I have. I never never miss a day. I really enjoy and so do many men and once they try it they are hooked literally. In a few days I am going in for a fitting for a all in one looking forward. To it to it . Girdle s, garters and stockings rite on


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera, got my bra in the bottom of my Girdle-support panty drawer( soon to be more girdle than panty drawer). just preping dinner in a t shirt and girdle no p/h or stockings, just relaxing after running a jack hammer for 6 hours. as soon as I get the new girdles in 2 will go to the seamstress to have 6 garters installed, and then the others. There used to be a lingerie shop in the town I used to live in that sold everything girdle related, but not sure if it is still there. They did fitting there on the spot, I will have to drive by the next time I am there on a weekday. I am glad I wore my new girdle today other wise my back would be killing me now. Still looking online for an HWOBG I like, hopefully that shop is still in bizness , just need to remember to take a pair of my wife's panty's with me so I can try on some when in town. Girdles Rule!


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-you can order an hwobg from girdle bound .com.remember six graters,side zipper,and hooks and eyes,if possible satin front and back with bones,you will not take it off and great with thigh high stockings. Wear your panties under your girdle,a great feel. Do you wear a girdle to work? It saves the back my back used to hurt but no more.


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera, like I said I was wearing my new girdle while working yesterday. I've looked at Girdle bound but it's a little pricey. I bought a 2 pack from wal mart.com and they are doing well for now, just got to get garters sewn in. As soon as my wife gets her new job I will order 1 from Girdle Bound. Or hopefully find a fitter in a town nearby. All my girdles were dirty to day so I am wearing the HWLL support panty my wife bought me. She watched me dress this morning and ask if was helping, I replied yes but the girdles are a bit stronger support. Girdles Rule


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-never bought a support garment from Walmart.your wife loves you to wear a girdle. Most women who are involved like their men in female underwear. When a man tries this it is hard to stop.i tried and failed.i quit trying . If you want a good girdle that feels good ,looks good and helps your back spend a little more at girdlebound. I did and it makes a difference whether a pg or obg.save money and go for it. Hook em and pull em on do it!


lingerielover 2 years ago

Hi Frank and Xaviera, interessting to read your conversation. I am hooked on girdles too. For years I am wearing a girdle every day. My favourite is a hwobg with stockings. And I fully agree to Xaviera, o good girdle is worth its price. You feel better in it, it gives better support and last but not least it lasts longer. What are your favourite brands?


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Lingerie Lover, I like the Cupid brand from WalMart HWLLPG. I do want to try out an HWOBG with 6 garters and stockings, but I want and get fitted right at girdle shop. Need to find one in a nearby city


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Last night we had a couple over, she runs a thrift store and when I first wanted to try girdles I asked her if they had any I could try while I waited for my wife to get hers for me. Her husband was working on our computer and in his own world, and she asked me if the high wasted support pantys were working for me, my wife answered "oh yes. They are helping greatly". I think my wife really likes me in a girdle, or how it thins down my mid section, and I love the feeling of putting on a girdle or support panty ( I need to order more girdles soon) every morning. My ladies at the lingerie store are waiting for me to bring them in to have garders sewn in so I can model them with stockings for them. The other morning I was putting on the girdle with shoulder straps, she came up behind me and pulled the twists out of the straps and pulled up the back over my butt and as I was hooking and zipping she was rubbing her hands all over my-our girdle. Oh, What A Feeling. Got hard really fast.

Girdles Rule.


Lingerielover 2 years ago

Frank, what a nice story. I prefer the high waisted girdles. Either as pantygirdle or as obg. Living in germany I often wear a Triumph obg. And of course I have several Ragos. I can recommend the Rago21. It gives a lot of support and you can wear it with garters for your stockings. First thing in the morning after showers I don a girdle. I feel the support and I love the feeling when I hook my stockings to the garters. Then I add a bra. For me girdle, stockings and bra belong together. Do you wear bras too?


Xaviera 2 years ago

Lingerie lover-I also prefer high waisted obg with always with six garters.With a hwobg I wear along line bra which holds me in and so does of course the girdle.What a great feel. I also wear heels,for I am on cloud nine. My wife requires this attire in the evening,I love it.We get along in all aspects of life since I started wearing a girdle. More men should give this a try for they will look and feel better.When I go to work I wear a girdle and stockings but not a bra. When I come home I immediately put on a bra and heels and of course keep on my girdle and stockings. Long live the GIRDLE

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Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Lingerie Lover. My wife isn't ready for me to wear a bra. She was given 1 by a friend that was to big around and to big of cup size. She tried it on me when she got it, and it was my size around. She said I could wear it when I started to loose my chest mussles and start to droop. I keep it in my girdle drawer and but it on when she is out. Been busy lately and haven't had time to check in with you guys, might be moving to a larger city where I know there are stores with girdles of all kinds. Girdles Rule


Lingerielover 2 years ago

Hi Xaviera, hi Frank, my wife approves of my girdle wearing. For her the important fact was that it helps my posture and helps me to restrict myself at dinner. That was the beginning. I switched to obg and stockings and that was no problem for her. After a while she insisted that I was wearing a girdle every day. When I tried a bra she made fun of me. Why do you wear a bra? You don´t need one. Then some time ago she told me if you want to wear a bra then do it right. I had no clue what she meant. But a few days later she came home with a pair of forms to fill my bra. Now we have established a similar routine like you Xaviera. When I come home I don a bra with forms. At home I wear a skirt and blouse with it. We enjoy wearing lingerie and shapewear together. When I started wearing a girdle I would have never dreamed how this would develop.

I think we are very lucky with the understanding and support of our wifes. Never without a girdle.


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-My wife bought me a great birthday gift - a twosome I' ll explain -all black in color-2girdles one hwobg the other a llhwpg- one each long line and short line bra-a full and half slip - a bikini and brief pantie - a waist cincber with garters and a garter belt- a pair of each- pair of seamless stockings and a pair with seams and a pair of pumps which I have to get used to ,stelletto high as ever. I am required to wear female attire all day and all nite. I love it. A friend mentioned to me I lost weight,not true he did not know I had a girdle on. Most men should wear a girdle, they will look and feel better,I do. Girdles are mens best friend.


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera. Happy birthday, sounds like it was a good one.y wife and I were recently shopping and I needed some more pantyhose and she said she like me to try some tights. So she picked out 2 pair and a pair of leggings. I tried them on as soon as we got home. Didn't like the legging but loved the tights, and with a girdle, oh what a feeling. And she likese just in tights and a T shirt just relaxing around the house. Girdle and Tights rule


Xaviera 2 years ago

Frank-Our wives are great,can' t do without them. It is relaxing to have so much in common with my wife. I know you feel the same way.I haven't tights yet but I will. Did you ever get a hwobg as yet.They are great. Like lingerie lover,I put on my girdle rite away in the morning ? Can not do without. I wear a silk nightgown when I go to bed,great feeling.Do you wear one if not you should. Again understand wives. Girdles are mens best friend WEAR ONE.


Lingerielover 2 years ago

Hey guys we can call ourself lucky with the support we get from our wifes. Due to wearing a girdle every day I lost more than 20 pounds. And what really helped was that my wife made me wear a longline bra with my obg at home. This was a constant reminder for me not to eat too much. As I wear girdle, stockings and bra when at home I wear a blouse and a skirt with it.

I can only recommend to wear a girdle daily. Mostly an hwobg with stockings or a hwpg with pantyhose. Believe me. It does a lot for ones posture. And you're clothes will fit better. And from my experience there are some phychological benefits too. I feel stronger and more relaxed at the same time when girdled.

When my wife and I go out for dinner it is nice to know what we both wear underneath.


Xaviera 2 years ago

Lingerie lover: first of all I agree with every statement you make.The big thing I feel more relaxed and in a great frame of mind and clothes look good when in in full attire. You mention weight,I do not eat as much when I have on a hwobg, no room and have lost weight.that is one of the reasons my wife requires me to be girdled,can't take a day off can't daoffI haven't been out in public as of yet for I have so much to learn.I wear a girdle to work with or without stockings, without stockings I wear a llhwpg, my wife suggested pantyhose of course I will try soon. At home I wear a pencil skirt with a matching colored top,a slip underneath,heels and stockings. My wife buys me a piece of lingerie a couple times a week. I love it.By the way my wife wears girdles also haha. I always wear a bra at home.Sometimes to bed i wear a garter belt with nylons under my nite gown which of course is silky girdles are a mans best friend,wear one


Frank M4449 2 years ago from Calif

Xaviera and Lingerielover. Do you guys shave your pubic area too? I shave my legs so I look great in pantyhose or stockings, but the other night my wife was rubbing me through my girdle and hose and I got hard and it started pulling hair. Ouch. So I asked if I could remove with Nair

( she hates stubble from shaving) she said yes so I bought some last night and did it. After a shower I put on my night time p/h and ahhhhhhh. I wear Just My Size p/h at night to help with RLS, can't wait to put on a girdle today. But right now I am laying in bed wearing p/h, silky panties, and a bra stuffed with panties watching my wife get ready for work and I will walk her out to her car. She used to worry about our only neighbor seeing me in suntan p/h and short demn skirt, but one morning she was out in her garden and she just talked and didn't say a thing about my outfit. Later I washed my truck in the same outfit and the side split showed the top of my lacy stockings and girdle, and I was trying to show it. She didn't mention it as we talked. Getting braver everyday


lingerielover 24 months ago

Xaviera, you can be thankful to your wife that she insists you to be girdled. And her buying lingerie for you. But you should be aware where this may lead to. I made the same experience with my wife. After she accepted my interest in girdles and lingerie she took over, changed my underwear to women´s lingerie (she just left a few pieces for doctors visit, etc.) and from then on insisted that I wear a girdle everyday. So I wear an obg with stockings daily under my suit and when coming home I have to wear a bra too. The first bra she bought for me. Then after a while she went with me to a shop where she had already made an appointment to get a bra fitting for me. Believe me, I was so nervous but it went well. The lady who owns the shop was very helpful. I got two normal bras and one longline. At home my wife wants me to wear the longline bra, obg and stockings. She calls that properly girdled. The cups of my bra are filled with silicone breasts. At the beginning it was not easy for me. But now, after some time, I have to admit that I like "my breasts". A side effect of all this was that my wife got control. I had to adapt but we are now very happy. I don´t know how this will develop.

Frank, I only shave my legs. I think you can not wear stockings when your legs are not shaved. So far I have not worn a skirt outside the house. At home I mostly have to wear a skirt and blouse.

How did you feel when your neigbor saw you in a skirt for the first time? What was the reaction?


Xaviera 23 months ago

Lingerie lover-what a wife you have,a real woman,more women should be like her.Where would you be without her,wearing tightly whitees.Who needs them.I am also very fortunate also,these ladies act like sisters. We like nice lingerie and they like us wearing it and won't stop. We want to be controlled and enjoy it.Crazy question,does your wife wear a girdle? My wife shaves my legs and pubic area twice a week. You can' look spiffy with unshaven legs when you wear stockings and it doesn't look right. Too manly. My wife bought me breast forms (36b) and they fit very nice with a long line bra and of course the short line bra.When I am home around the house I always am like you say fully girdled. We sit around like this and enjoy each other's company. Will not have it any other way. What kind of panties do you wear? Do you wear panties with your girdle? I wear bikinis and briefs. I going with my wife to a corsettier to get fitted for an all in one obg foundation garment with six garters. That will be exciting. Girdles and stockings for the boys at all times.


lingerielover 23 months ago

"Girdles and stockings for the boys at all times." My wife couldn´t have said it better. As I already wrote, at home my wife insists that I wear girdle, stockings and bra, my cups nicely filled with forms. Of course she wears a girdle too. I wear either strings or jazzpants with my girdle. I have some pretty ones with lace and matching bra.

I wish you a lot of fun with your corsettier when you get your fit for your all in one.

Do you wear outside of your home? Have you experience wearing a bra in public?

Like you I am thankful to my wife for what she did. When your wife introduced you to girdles how did this effect you and your relationship? Any changes?


Xaviera 23 months ago

Lingerie Lover-going to comment and answer questions. I always wear a obg,stockings,half slip,bra and panties at home.it is required and I would not have it any other way,right. When I go out I usually wear a llhwpg with stockings,easier than an obg. My wife like your wife always wears a girdle,like husband,like wife. When being introduced to girdles I was reluctant ,but I gave in and so happy I did.thank god and then everything fell into place. Our relationship is great,it was good before,but better now.When we have sex,I put on a garter belt under the girdle,so does my wife which let's us keep our stockings on when the girdle is taken.off. Sensational.try it. A visit to the corsettier this weekend for the all-in-one. Iam excited. I have worn a bra in public not with inserts. Girdles are like time, it wears on you,wise up guys.


lingerielover 23 months ago

Xaviera, we enjoyed wearing stockings during sex like you. I love the feel when out stockings rub against each other.

These days - after the summer is over - I wear my bra filled with forms in public too. Not at my job, would be too risky. It is a special feeling when you do it for the first time. I was afraid that I my projection would be recognized at once. But this did not happen. So far I noticed this second look mostly from women a few times. So I become more and more confident.


Xaviera 23 months ago

Lingerie lover-I finally went to the corsettier and got fitted for the all-in-one. In fact I got 2 not one.one nude and one black,both with open bottom and six adj garters.Cost $130 each but worth every dime. Wear them with a long dress or below the knee skirt,expensive but great . Wife has three and when she wears heels or boots ,what a look.Sensational..I have breasts inserts when I wear them ,looks good. What made the visit to the corsettier so good ,the owner is a transvetite and could understand my needs and is beautiful also. When I went for the fitting,I wore the following,long line bra,panties ,cammy,obg and of course stockings. To get fitted,I had to take off my shoes,shirt and jeans.The owner liked what I was wearing underneath and asked me to wear heels,I did.when I got fitted.they have a complete transformation instruction which is great. I might take advantage if the wife says it is ok. Like you we are indebted to our girdle loving wives. Have you and the wife ever have sex with a girdle on? We always have sex with stockings on. Remember a girdle always makes you look and feel good.


lingerielover 23 months ago

Xaviera, it sounds really good what you write. I can imagine how you felt when getting fitted. I have 2 all-in-ones too. But I prefer the combination of girdle - either hwpg or ogb - with longline bra. I think it gives more support.

My wife and I enjoy having sex when both of us are girdled. During the summer we often wear only girdle, bra and stockings at home. As you I am very happy that my wife gives me all this support. I am not sure where this will lead to. My wife talked about a real corset to make my shape more feminine.

Do you wear your bra or all-in-one under your male things in public?

What kind of breasts inserts do you wear?


Xaviera 23 months ago

Lingerie lover - When I go out in public,I wear the all- in- one but no breasts inserts, likewise with a bra,but if I wear a bulky sweater I will wear breast inserts so it won't be obvious. You have to be care full. Since getting the all in-one ,it feels great when it is cold outside. I have not worn it in hot weather. How do you put your girdle on? Laying in bed or straight pull on. Do you wear a night gown to bed? I wear a nice silky one,with a garter belt and stockings,no panties. I use silicone inserts. Getting fitted was a happening,loved every second. I haven't tried a corset as yet but maybe soon. My has wife has a black one that I help her get into,I pull the strings and attach the garters to the stockings. Right now i am a girdle man. Does your wife have a corset? Stay girdled,stay happy.


lingerielover 23 months ago

Xaviera - It is a funny thing. At the beginning I have worn my bra in public without forms. And have been afraid that others would notice. Now my wife insists that I am girdled all the time. I do not wear a bra to work. But as soon as I come home my wife sees to it that I wear my bra with forms. By now I got accustomed to wearing a bra and I really like "my breasts" and the projection. And when in public I do no longer give a thought about it.

I mostly put my girdle on just normal. Only my zippered ones I put on laying in bed.

I can imagine how you felt when being fitted. It is a great experience. I remember when I was fitted for a bra the first time. I felt a bit strange but the saleslady was so friendly and professional as she corrected the lengths of my bra straps that I enjoyed it.

My wife has no corest. But she thinks about a corset for me. I think this is something to share. So if she tries a corset then I am willing to try it too. Must be fun to tightlace one another. I am looking forward to experience a corset. Now I am a happily girdled an brassiered husband. I know that my wife got inspired by this website: http://www.brassiered.com/discipline.html


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sweetstickyrainbo 22 months ago

Well, that was different. In that cartoon you started with a lot of the characters look like men with bad wigs. This explains many things....


JimCD 22 months ago

I have 4 longlegged all-in-ones with split crotch, love the all over snug feeling. Wear them under normal clothes, they keep me aroused all day long.


Xaviera 22 months ago

Lingerie Lover-get your wife a corset for her birthday,she will be happy. Wearing a girdle under clothes is great and it feels even better. Getting fitted was a terrific. I had to take my clothes off to get fitted,but kept the under essentials on, but given to wear heels when fitted. I loved the experience. As I mentioned before I bought two all in ones,love em. I have to be girdled when home after 6 pm every day,wouldn't have any other way. I also bought a pencil skirt with the hem at the knees,sometimes my garters shows .sexy look. The corsettier where I got fitted made me relax so much I thought I was home and she was ,beautiful. I will go back soon. Finally it feels strange not to girdled and have a. Bra on. Also stockings. Again what would would we do without our wives who control us and encourage us. Wear tightee whitees,pass.take care and be girdled and be happy., I will.


lingerielover 22 months ago

Xaviera, you are so right about our wifes. You say you have to be girdled when home. Don´t you wear a girdle when not at home? My wife established a rigid scheme. I have to wear a girdle every day. At the office I wear mostly an obg with stockings under my suit. As soon as I come home I have to don a bra with forms. She bought forms for me that you can wear with your bra but that can also attached with special glue. That makes the feel of your own breasts more intensive. Usually from Friday evening till Monday morning I wear "my breasts". When we went out Saturday night for dinner and I wore my breasts for the first time I was afraid to be noticed. Now after a few weeks I got accustomed to it and I can say I wear my breasts with pride.

Last week we bought a nice skirt and a silk blouse for me. So at home I am wearing only women´s clothes now. My wife´s idea is that I experience what it is like to be a women. I am curious what comes next.

Getting fitted for a bra is always a great experience. Also I was agitated and nervous the first time now I can really enjoy it. I can imagine how you felt.

I stay girdled. Although I don´t want it otherwise, I think I have no choice anyway.


Xaviera 22 months ago

Lingerie lover -when I go out I am always girdled and wear stockings,every time.depending on what I wear on top determines if i wear a bra.At home I am fully dressed underneath , with a skirt and blouse on. The wife demands this, I would not have it any other way. Wearing a girdle and stockings is the best thing ever happened to me thanks to my wife. She loves me in a girdle and loves to watch me put one on. She makes sure I am adjusted properly, She likes to attach the hooks and eyes and pull s up my zipper.Also she likes to take it off. She told one of her girl friends about this and she wants to see me girdled which is fine.That will happen soon.Why not. I am fully attired on weekends including heels. Wearing a girdle is addictive,good way to get hooked.


lingerielover 22 months ago

Xaviera - you are so right: Wearing a girdle is addictive. When my wife made me wear a girdle for the first few times she insisted. But it did not take long and this was no longer necessary. I was hooked. And with the bra is was the same. I was curious and tried one. I don´t know why but I loved to feel the bra from the first moment. Now I really love my breasts. To feel the weight, see the projection and the bounce when walking - I love this feeling. I no longer care if someone may notice and with the exception when on my job I always wear a bra and forms.

When the girl friend of your wife will see you girdled how do you think you will feel?

I am so happy that my wife gives me so much support. And like you I get some help from her. She helps me with the garters on my rago and closes the hooks of my longline bra. Wearing a highwaisted obg and a longline bra is a fantastic feeling. Have a nice week. Stay girdled.


Xaviera 21 months ago

Lingerie lover-in my mind women like to see the girly side of men. I am so happy my wife accepts my wearing womans apparel ,she always wanted a man who would do this.In fact I would not have it any other way. My wife's girl friend finally stopped to see us. She liked what she saw when I took of my see thro robe,I had a bra,obg,stockings,half slip and panties on with open toe, open heel shoes on. She was ecstatic ,so was I.We discussed the look and mentioned I at least wear a girdle everyday.i also showed all my attire.She said she would buy me for an Xmas a wrap around girdle. Of course she was wearing a obg with black stockings and she only weighs 134 lbs.looks great. Wearing a girdle is one of the best things that happenedto me,also you.plus are great wives.more men should get girdled and pantied.They would feel great.Enjoy your girdle.


lingerielover 21 months ago

Must have been a very exiting experience to present yourself in bra and girdle to your wife´s girlfriend.

I feel like you: being introduced to girdle, stockings and bra by my wife is one of best things happened to me. But the best of all is wearing my silikon breasts. I love to feel the bounce with every step. It feels like they belong to me. And I become more and more confident with my cleavage when in public.

Another thing is wearing girdle and stockings during sex. I love it. What a pity that so many men never get the chance to try a girdle and bra. We are so lucky.


Xaviera 21 months ago

Lingerie lover-it was quite exiting to have my wife's girl friend see me attired in a obg and stockings. She wants a guy who will wear womens underlings. Try wearing a garter belt and nylon when having sex,also a great turn on. If a man wants to get proper instruction on wearing womens attire they could look into Vera's located in New York . Never been there.Wife takes care of this for me just like you Madame. I believe many men would like to be girdled but are afraid . Try you'll like and get hooked like we did. My wife me for Xmas a whole Under outfit in red,but can't put it on till Xmas eve,long but will be worthwhile. Stay girdled,girl


Xaviera 21 months ago

Wishing all the sweeties a belated merry xmas and a happy new year.in 2015 don' forget to wear your girdle and stockings every day ,stay zipped and hooked. I will. Be a lady.


lingerielover 21 months ago

Xaviera, have been away a few days on holiday. Have been wearing a girdle, stockings and longline bra every day. Although I wore a suit when we were going out, I wore heels with it. I needed some time til I learned to walk properly but it is fantastic. And my wife had a new idea. She put make-up on me. Very discreet but it was fun. Let´s see what the new year will bring.

I can imagine that it was exiting to present yourself girdled to your wife´s friend. How did you feel? What was her reaction?


lingerielover 21 months ago

Happily girdled New Year Xaviera.


Xaviera 21 months ago

Lingerie Lover-happy new year to girdled lover. My wifes friend loved seeing me girdled brad and stockinged.it was quite exiting for all of us. The three of us sat around attired the same,obg,stockings,heels and long lined bras.Fantastic.Wait to you read this. My wife's friend suggested I shave my body,I agreed. So I took everything off and the girls shaved my legs and privates parts and chest.Loved it. Then the girls watched me get dressed.First time for everything. Bet you felt like a queen all attired underneath with light make up. You will make your debut as a full lady soon.Why not. My wife talked to me about this and it will happen soon to me. I love heels when I dress. Every time I put on my girdle and stockings I feel on top of the world. Stay girdled and brad,girls.


richelle 20 months ago

I like to use a girdle it gives me the support I need for my back, and I look a lot better in one. Why should the ladies have all of the good clothes to help them look there best and feel good, shouldn't we be able to do the same. I have been using one for over 45 years and love the feeling I get from them. I use a panty girdle now but would like to try and use the o.b.g. style to see how that would work. Any feed back on that type of girdle?


Xaviera 20 months ago

Richelle-I agree men should have the same pleasures as women,not according to society. Who cares as long as you feel good,which we do. As for wearing an open bottom girdle, make sure when you acquire one you get one 21 inches from top to bottom. You also will need stockings ,six garters and of course panties whether you put the panties under or over the girdle. I wear an obg most of the time and hate to take it off. By the way,when you wear an obg,wear stockings, if you don't your girdle will ride up on you. They are very comfy. Make sure you have zip up not a pull on,more support. Let me know if you get an obg. Stay girdled and look fabulous.


lingerielover 20 months ago

Xaviera, must have been a nice experience to get shaved by the ladies. My wife teaches me how to use make-up. At the beginning I found it complicated but now I love it. And defenitely I feel more feminine day by day. At work I wear girdle and stockings under my suit. As soon as I come home my wife insists that I change. I add my bra with forms and wear blouses, skirt and heels. She also bought some glue so from Friday evening till Monday morning my breasts are fixed. It feels like they are part of me. Let´s see where this will lead to.


lingerielover 20 months ago

Richelle, to wear an obg you have to wear stockings too to hold the girdle in place. But I can only say it is a wonderful feeling wearing stockings on freshly shaven legs. And you feel your garters tugging with every step.

I recommend a zippered obg. That makes it easier to don a tight fitting girdle. Take a model with 6 garters. Your stockings will fit better than with only 4 garters. Hope you will find the right thing.


Xaviera 20 months ago

Lingerie lover-it was great to get shaved by the ladies. In fact i am going to get shaved again later this week by my wife and her friend,looking forward to do this again. When you wear a girdle ,stockings and a bra you have to look good. At home I am completely dressed inside and out. I am trying to walk in 3# heels!not easy. I bought a pair of black boots.great to walk around with a obg,stockings and a longline bra on,wife does this also,of all in black,very sexy. How many garters are on your girdle? It seems to me you are girdle dependent, I am. What a shame. Hahaha. Everyday is a great day when we wear our girdles,let's continue


lingerielover 20 months ago

I can imagine how you enjoyed getting shaved. We did the same like you and your wife. During the summer at home we often both wear just shapewear and stockings. My wife prefers corselettes. These days she makes me wear a hwllpg with longline bra and stockings. It looks great and fits well when I wear my longline bra with forms. At home I wear only skirt and blouse now. I learn to wear heels. Now I wear 2 inch and can walk in them without problems. Last Sunday when we went for dinner I wore a dark suit, my heels and was underdressed in bra, girdle and stockings. What a great feeling.

You are absolutely right. I am girdle dependent. I do not feel properly dressed without one. First thing after showers in the morning is to don a girdle. Like my wife wants me to. I think we are blessed with or wifes.


Xaviera 20 months ago

Lingerie lover-you bet ur girdled ass we are blessed with our wives.So many guys have to sneak to wear these great under garments.It would be a problem if we did.Does your wife shave you?I hope so,it feels great.You have to get rid of the stubbles. My wife and her girl friend shave me ,what a turn on. My wife's girl friend is a 6ft blonde and weighs 140beautiful lady and always dressed sexy, short skirts, black stockings and of course a girdle,but she wants a man who dresses like us,hard to find.Was elated when she found out I wear a girdle and stockings. I am going to buy me and the wife for Valentine's Day a red girdle and bra from girdlebound. I sleep with a garter belt ,silky nightgown and stockings,no panties and so relaxing. Get hooked on a girdle.


lingerielover 19 months ago

Was away for a while. I can imagine how you liked your experience with your wife and your girlfriend. Some time ago I had a comparable experience. One saturday at home I wore my obg, tan stockings and a bra underneath my Shirt and a pair of shorts. My wife went out to do some shopping. Two minutes after she left the door bell rang. I thought she forgot something and opened. But it was not my wife but one of her female friends. Oh my God I thought. But what could I do. I let her in. You can imagine how I felt getting caught. We entered the living room when she suddenly asked if I wore pantyhose. She took a closer look and touched my leg to be sure. Then she looked astonished. She must have seen my garter bumps through the material of my shorts. And asked me if I wore stockings. I had to admit. Now she wanted to know the details. At the end she wanted to see what I wore and I had to show her. Never thought a guy would wear a girdle was her comment. There was nothing I could do. But since then nothing changed in our relationship. Only when we meet she always touches me to find out if I wear a girdle.

Have you been successful with your shopping at girdlebound? let me know.


Xaviera 19 months ago

Lingerie lover- if you looked back and you got caught,you loved it,a thrill to behold. My wife and I have a red long line bra and a red hwobg with zipper, hooks and eyes and 6 garters, feels great,so what happens her girl friend sees us attire so I had to order the ensemble for her,why not. So I had to buy 3 Valentine gifts. Now when your wifes friend touches to see if your girdled you love it,I would.lots.Lots Of women like guys who wear female underwear.You have something in common and they feel superior which is great. Does your wife's girlfriend wear a girdle? I wear a long line bra instead of a tee shirt. Do you wear panties when you are girdled? If so do you wear them over the girdle or under neath your girdle? I don't have much male underwear just a few pieces to go to the doctor. Do you and the wife have sex when you are both girdled? We do ,also a garter belt with heels, very sexy. A day without a girdle makes me miserable. Stay girdled .


lingerielover 19 months ago

Your wife and you must look cute in your red longline bra and girdle. Yes, my wife wears girdles. My wife´s girlfriend does not. I wear panties underneath my girdles. We both often wear girdles during sex. Rubbing nylon on nylon is so arousing. My wife likes it to play with my breasts. The silicon breast I wear can be worn with a bra but can also be fastened with a special glue so they stick without a bra. Mostly from Friday till Monday morning my breasts are fastened. They feel like a part of me. Like you I do not feel well without a girdle. It is a rare occasion when I do not wear one. I don´t know where this will all lead to. At home I am completely dressed as a woman. My wife loves it to see me in skirt and blouse. Last weekend she put on make-up and lipstick on me.


Xaviera 19 months ago

lingerie lover-On Saturday my wife,yours truly and her girlfriend sat around with our red long line bras,red obg,black stockings and open toe ankle strap heels on. The ladies requested I wear no panties so they could shave me wearing my girdle, of course i obliged.It was great.Around the house I am fully attired in female clothes.required and I wear a slip full or a cami with a half slip and always heels.When we have sex always stockings with a girdle or a garter belt and heels a must . Do you have a pencil skirt? Tremendous with a girdle. Does your fabulous wife shave you if not let do it.A woman likes a clean shaven man(?) especially when girdled and stockinged.Remember a girdle is for a man as much as a woman. Stayed girdled.


lingerielover 19 months ago

Like you I am completely dressed as a women at home. My wife insists. During the weekend I wore longline bra, obg and stockings in black. Of course I wore my silicone breasts. Over that I wore a grey silk blouse and a black pleated skirt. My wife put on make-up on me and I also wore red nailpolish. It did take a while to get accustomed to it. But now I really enjoy it. I feel so relaxed. And there are some subtle changes regarding sex. My wife became more and more determined and active. Saturday night when we had sex she introduced me to her dildo. She put it up my buttom. Then I laid on my back as she rode me. What a feeling. So I am not only girdled, I more and more explore my feminine side. Have a nice (and girdled) week.


Xaviera 19 months ago

I would expect you to be dressed as a women on the weekend. What else! Being dressed as women you need to be treated as a woman. I am thrilled you have great sex with your wife. She has other plans for you as time goes on,be prepared. Did you have polish on your fingers and toes? I go to a nail salon for mine as a male on the outside and female underneath. Get the toes and fingers done,go on Fridays. Been out in public lately,over fear. Pass very good.Only with the wife. I bought a bra and slip last weekend,no problem. A guy smiled at me ,if he only knew. Getting better walking in 3 inch heels,love heels. Sex with heels is a must, do you and the wife wear them having sex? When the wife put the dildo in your bottom were you wearing a girdle, I bet you did. Three questions,how many inches was the dildo,what color and did you play with it and did you suck it,your wife would love it. My wife read your reply and mentioned she is going to buy a strap on. She also mentioned for me to meet a she male so she could watch. I do what she says no matter the situation,like you. First she wants to train me for the future. Who knew what wearing a girdle and stockings what would develop? Stay girdled and watch your bottom,someone might be knocking.


lingerielover 18 months ago

Over the whole weekend I was completely dressed and my wife put make-up on me. Last weekend she showed me how to do it myself. So far I have not been in public dressed as woman. But when we went out for dinner I wore my heels with my suit. Walking on my heels is going better and better. Hearing the double sound of my and my wife´s heels on the concret was really nice. At home she used the dildo - 8 inches - on me. After I had pleased her with my tongue she did a handjob with the dildo still in place. She is going to buy a strap-on. Today she made me wear a hwllpg with garters. It is a zippered version so it´s very tight. I just got home and now with the girdle and my longline bra I feel encased. Wearing a silk blouse and pleated skirt with it. I love it to change when coming home.

How does your wife train you? Happily girdled all the time.


Xaviera 18 months ago

in response to your note-You have to be dressed all weekend of course made up,makes you look good. Heels with a suit takes guts. I would not think of that. How did the dildo feel? Looks like a regular scene,great. Nothing wrong. How was the hand job? You got it from both ends which is great,lucky guy(girl). Have you sucked on the dildo? Put some whipped cream on it. So she is going to buy a stap on ,terrific. You will love it. Wearing a girdle without stockings is foolish whether a hwllpg or an obg. All my girdles are zippered and have six garters. Wouldn't have it ant other way. With a longline bra you had to feel good. My wife got a strap on five days a go and of course used it on me,great feeling and loved it.Friday the girls are going to shave me and she is going to let her girl friend use it on me. Looking forward to it. When the strap on is used I will wear girdle,of course. Last night when my wife used the stap on ,she ordered me to suck a dildo. Loved it. I do what she says,no matter what,she is a beautiful blonde ,built fabulous , dresses like a millions dollars. Makes me do things I never would think of. Such as,went into a boutique ,asked the clerk where I could get some panties for myself or a bra. I en joy this. If I hesitate she uses a crop on my bottom,it hurts. Life is to good ,I will not cross her. So what started with a girdle and stockings has led to this and the next episode. I am trained to obey and love it,so do you. Great women we have. Stay braad and girdled someone might behind you.


lingerielover 18 months ago

What a development. We have been away for a few days - our 20 th anniversary. Before we left my wife had a surprise for me. She made an appointment with a girdle boutique and when we got there she told me about my present. A corset. We spent 3 hours there and with the help of a really nice saleslady we both tried and bought a corset. What a feeling if you get laced into a corset for the first time! The following days I had to wear it for some hours. Last sunday I was laced the whole day for the first time. Can you imagine how it looks? A black lace corset underbust style, my bra, black stockings and pumps. My wife liked the look so I did not wear anything else at home during Sunday. That night she used her dildo on me. Due to the restriction of the corset the feeling was so much more intensive. Then I had to please her with my tongue several times. I can imagine that she thinks about a strapon. Today I am at home, laced into my corset. My whole posture has changed. My waist is smaller and my figure is more feminine.

When I started wearing girdles I would have never dreamed what now happens.


Xaviera 18 months ago

you are now real lingerie lover,congrats. Corsets are great,I have worn them for almost a year,black with red brocade,red with black brocade. How was the corsettier' ? My wife and her girlfriend shaved me,this happens every two weeks. Have you sucked the Dildo as of yet?Do it,you'll like I and the wife will like it. The girl friend used the strap - on on me at the same the wife made me suck the dildo,gettings it from both ends. The wife loves me to use my tongue on her. I love it also. It looks like I have to satisfy 2 ladies instead of one. I always wear a wig at home with make up. I am girdled most of the day and evening . Required. It is part of me,like an addict on drugs my drug . getting used to a bra with inserts. My wife sewed garters on my tightee whitees,made me laugh,but I like girdles. Tell the wife to get a strap-on,you' like it . girdles,corsets garter belts,fabulous ,love it and wear it.


17 months ago

Has any one tryed a damart girdle


Xaviera 17 months ago

never heard of it,what is it?


lingerielover 17 months ago

Some time passed since my last post. I got accustomed to wear a corset. My wife sees to it that I follow a normal routine. In the morning I don my girdle and stockings. As soon as I come home from work I get laced into my corset and don a bra filled with forms. A blouse, skirt and heels complete my outfit. At the weekend from Friday to Monday morning I get my silicone boobs fixed with some adhesive. And have to wear my corset. I love "my boobs". It´s great to feel the weight and bounce with every step. During this time I wear nail polish and make-up. I feel more and more feminine.

Since my wife and I started to wear our corsets we see some results. Our body reacts to the tightness of the corset. I lost some pounds. So I can really recommend to wear a corset. My whole posture became more erect and there is a nice side effect. My skirt fits much better.


Xaviera 16 months ago

Corsets are nice but I like girdles better,but I do wear a corset once in a while. I am a full time lady on weekends also. During the week at night also. Is your wife still using the dildo on you? You are turning to be a real woman. Great. Perform like a real woman. My wife wants me to meet a crossdresser who wears a girdle and stockings,which I would like to do who is married and the wife approves.It is time to branch out. My wife just shaved me completely on Friday,love it ,no hair on testicles. Had an accident the other day ,penis caught in zipper,hurts. Keep your girdle on sister,I will.


lingerielover 16 months ago

My wife loves it to lace me into my corset. I think she likes the diszipline. And she uses the strapon on me. She bought me an analplug. A rosebud. I have to wear it when we go out. Coming home I am ready for the dildo. But I have to say I love it more and more.

I am accustomed to the tightness of my corset. And although I was a bit reluctant in the beginning, I love to wear make-up. It´s amazing how a nice make-up changes the whole face. I become more and more familiar with the feminine role. Keep girdled.

Let me know about your meeting with the other crossdresser.


Xaviera 16 months ago

Lingerie lover- have not met the cross dresser as of yet. If he does not wear a girdle ,pass. My wife also wants to meet a girdled woman so we can have something in common. Girdles are the name of the game. I can't be without my girdle,I feel naked. Isn't the strap-on great? I suck on a dildo at least 5 days a week,have you done it yet? Do it you will like it. When your wife use the strap on you, do you have a corset or girdle on? I do. I was out the other day wearing a girdle under my trousers with no stockings and it rode up and I pulled down,a woman saw this and came over to me and asked if I was wearing a girdle and I said yes. She said great and told me she had an hwobg on. She said she would like to see me in my girdle,we will meet soon,I told her to bring a male with her so we could girdle him. Have to run,have to service my wife,with my tongue, what else? Girdles all the way.


lingerielover 16 months ago

Xaviera, for the last few days we have been away. So I was laced into my corset every day and wore only women´s clothes all day long. I can walk on my heels perfectly now. Friends of us paid us a visit. My wife´s friend with her husband. She is the one that did know about my girdle wearing. When they visited us I was clad as women with makeup and all. My wife made me wear a short skirt that my stocking tops were visible. It was funny our friend´s husband was curious. After dinner and some wine the mood became easier. So the ladies decided that he should try bra, girdle and stockings. At first he was a bit reluctant but then he followed. It was funny to see how horny he became with the lingerie. I had to remove my skirt and blouse. Can you imagine: both of us men girdled with stockings and bras in front of our wifes. It became an interesting evening.


Xaviera 16 months ago

lingerie lover-what a scene,wish I could have been there. How interesting was the evening? Did he like the attire,I bet he did. How horny was he? I bet he will be completely girdled soon. He loved it. How many inches are your heels? Do you wear a slip? By the way what kind of girdle did he wear,obg or pg? The question is do you still wear a girdle or just a corset? The other night I had on a long gown on with wearing a all in one,in black. My wife had another girl friend over to show me off,She loved it. She wore a girdle also. She is going introduce us to her boy friend and try to convince him to do. I will let you know. Take care girlfriend.


lingerielover 16 months ago

Xaviera, the evening was interesting indeed. When the ladies came up with the idea that the other guy should try a girdle, he was reluctant. But it did not help. The more he tried to avoid it, the more the ladies liked the idea. My wife got some stuff and his wife removed his shirt. First she helped him into a bra, then when his slacks came off he had to don a girdle. It was a hwllpg. Then he had to try stockings and the ladies did the garters for him. You could see how horny he was. Under the girdle he had a hardon. I tink after a while he liked the feeling of stockings and girdles. When I saw him I thought about sucking his dick but did not do it. I wore a corset and a slip. At home I wear my corset most of the time. My wife loves it to lace me in. And I relalised how it improves my shape. My heels are 4 inches. Not too high but good to walk with.

When I saw our friend I assume this was not the last time her hubby wore a girdle.

Let me know about the boy friend of your wife´s friend.


Xaviera 16 months ago

lingerie lover-do you still wear a girdle? Not a corset. The guy loved wearing the girdle that is why he had a nice hard on. Nothing wrong with that. How big was it? It turned you on,right. Did your wife encourage you to suck it? If you want to ,do it you are a lady. Does your wife still use the strap-on on you? My wife bought me a girdle without a back so my ass will show so she can use the dildo on me,love the dildo. I really enjoy sucking on it. She doesn't know that I sucked dicks before I met her,which I love to do. Tomorrow night we are going to see her girlfriend and her guy. I am going to wear along line black bra ,hwobg,seemed black stockings,black half slip,open toe heels, black blouse, and a black pencil skirt,no panties. Will try to transform him. I hope it works. Once he sees me he should try it. Of course the women will be girdled and stockinged. I will let you know and let me know about about your friends husband. Keep your hands to your self I will get a hard on.


lingerielover 16 months ago

Xaviera, I wear a girdle every day under my suit at work. When I come home I don a bra and my wife laces me into my corset. At the weekend she lets me wear the corset both days. Last Saturday I was completely dressed as a woman (corset, bra with forms, stockings) skirt and blouse. My wife put makeup on me. Our friends joined us for dinner. The ladies wore dresses and were both properly stockinged and girdled. The hubby of our friend wore a dark suit and coloured shirt. After dinner and some wine the atmosphere was casual and we started talking how hubby felt when he wore a girdle for the first time. Then our friend proposed to remove our outerwear. The ladies got off her dresses. It was nice to see their girdles and bras. It did not take long and I stood there in my corset that emphesized my womanly shape. Hubby was a bit shy but then we saw he wore an obg with stockings and a bra. Although he did not wear forms with his bra he looked cute. After a while our display showed effect. His slip bulged. So I removed it and there was a nice hardon. I caressed his dick and then I could not resist and gave him a blowjob until his juice was all over my face. Then the ladies had their fun with me. It was a great evening. Did you have been successful transforming the other guy?

keep girdled.


Xaviera 15 months ago

lingerie lover-oh what a night. What did the women do to you? Did they use a dildo on you? Why not. So the guy was girdled, he loves it. Did he resist the blowjob? Was he wearing panties? For me corsets are nice, but I prefer hwobg with 6 garters. I wear a corset with a gown,but prefer obgs without panties for obvious purposes. Once a man sees another man transformed he is interested as this guy was. The girlfriend brought her guy over. He asked me how I got started and how much I enjoyed it. The woman went into another room and left us alone. I said let me show you how I look. He said beautiful, so I said let's try it.he said ok and I said don't get excited. I put a bra on him with inserts,then stockings,he was getting excited for he was getting a beautiful lovely hard on, then I put him into a hwobg with six garters and a zipper, then attached his stockings,before he zipped up his dick would peep out from the bottom of the girdle, I adjusted that. Gave him a wig and lipstick and 2 inch heels. He looked great. He said he never felt better. The ladies saw us and and his girlfriend said you will always be girdled,he agreed. She told him to suck me for what I did for him, which he did and of Course I did the same. I went with the girlfriend and he went with my wife she used a strap on on me loved it,my wife screwed himwith a dildo,then him and I went 69 for the girls,great evening together. By the way how long have you been sackings dicks? We are ladies we do this. Iam getting ready for bed which I will wear a silk nightgown with a garter belt and stockings. Be a lady at all times,will ya


lingerielover 15 months ago

Send a message a few days ago. Was maybe to explicit. What a nice experience that you described. Believe me the ladies had their fun with me. Isn´t it great to introduce another guy to wearing girdles? The hubby of our friend is hooked now, I think. You should have seen us. All four of us in girdle, bra and stockings. I realised how much I love to wear my boobs. It is such a terrific feeling to feel the weight and bounce with every step. Last week we were away on vacation for a few days. These days I wore my breasts and corset as well as stockings the whole time. Only when we went out I wore trousers and jacket. But I still showed some projection. OMG, I loved it.


Xaviera 15 months ago

when men put on girdles and stockings they love it. It shows their girly side which all men have. This guy who I transformed said he loves it,said he loves his girdles. The four of us are getting together this weekend for a girdle and sex orgy. The girdle I am going to wear has no back,my ass will be exposed to the ladies and this guy for the obivious. Did you ever go 69?. We will all be wearing hwobgs but no panties. Have you been out in public fully dressed? I have but I was nervous the first few times but now no problem. It makes me feel high. Women like men in womans undergarments. My wife told me this and said that is what she likes. When the girls getogether this weekend my balls will be shaved again. My wife likes clean balls. She gets what she wants. She loves it when I give a guy a blowjob,when Ido this her girl friend will do that to me while she uses the dildo on me. Can't wait. How long have you been sucking and does your wife approve? My wife encourages this and I love to do it ,do you? Being a lady this is what you do. Well sweetie time to go bed with the wife wearing a garter belt,stockings,baby doll outfit no panties for a good nights sleep ha! Be a lady!


C Kerstin 14 months ago

Hi Xaviera,


Xaviera 14 months ago

c Kerestin- what's up? Do u wear a girdle?


C Kerstin 14 months ago

Xaviera, yes I wear a girdle every day. And I insist that my hubby (lingerielover) is girdled too. He looks so cute wearing bra, girdle and stockings. At the beginning he did not want to wear a bra. But this changed. Now he proudly wears it. And loves his cleavage.


Xaviera 14 months ago

ckerstin -what guy u have! You made his life a joy. My wife did the same thing for I am forever grateful.i know yours is to. My wife demands that I wear a long line bra,hwobg with six garters for my hose. She demands other things also. I love to be girdled nice and tight. Do you shave your husbands testicles,he would love it. My wife does this on me every two weeks. If she is busy her girlfriend does. Question,do you put your girdle on first or your stockings? Do you wear a panty girdle or an obg? Do you wear panties when you wear a girdle? How does hubby walk in heels? Do you approve of him giving blowjobs? My wife likes to watch me do it,she says I am a lady and ladies do this. I do not mind. Well dear time to go to bed in a nice silky nightgown with stockings and a garter belt, no panties. Be girdled or go home.


C Kerstin 14 months ago

Xaviera, like my hubby you are a lucky guy to have such a supporting wife. I put on my girdle first. I wear an obg to hold my stockings. And yes I wear panties. It is such a fun for hubby to remove them. I wear pantyhose an hwpg only during the winter. Hubby is shaved from neck to toe. I like a smooth body and his boobs wouldn´t stick on a hairy chest. Hubby is completely clad as women at home. He wears skirt and blouse and heels. So he has enough practise and can walk well with heels. Like a lady. I found it interesting to see him give a blowjob. Seems that he enjoyed it. Does your wife use strapon on you? It is a great experience.


Xaviera 14 months ago

CKerstin-Nice to hear from you. Thanks for answering my questions. Do you shave him? I love it when my wife does it to me. It turns me on. Does hubby like it, he probably gets a hardon,I do. I am dressed as a woman at most times. Only when I go to family functions or the doctor,otherwise Iam dressed from head to foot.don't buy men's clothes anymore,no need. My wife loves to watch me give someone a blowjob,I enjoy doing in front of her,I finish him off. She encourages me to participate. You do that don't you.? I at my wife's command practice on a dildo. My wife certainly uses a strap- on on me. I love it and she loves to do it to me,couple times a week. When we do this we are girdled and stockinged,great feeling. Since I started wearing a girdle our lives have really come together. Just one more item did you start your hubby to dress and give blowjobs? Take care and keep your stap- on on ,he loves it.


C Kerstin 14 months ago

Xaviera, a while ago we started to shave oneanother. I can see how it turns hubby on when he shaves me. He loves when we practise the strap-on. And I like it too. It´s a matter of control. We bought a rosebudplug for both of us. We wear it often when we go out. Hubby got more and more feminine. It will not last long until we will go out in public. Two girls. When he wears make-up his face looks really feminine. When we make love we mostly wear our girdles and stockings. The feeling of nylon on nylon is fantastic. When doing the 69 we both use a dildo on each other.


Xaviera 14 months ago

Ckerstin- shaving is great,I love it,makes me feel very clean. Wearing a girdle and stockings and heels is terrific when we have sex. You are right nylon on nylon is the best,what a feeling. Do You use a vibrator on your husband? We always have sex when girdled. No other way. When your hubby puts on a girdle does he have a hard-on? I do ,if I don't I get paddled and have to wear men titthy whit ties for a day and no girdle. I also at times wear a garter belt under my girdle to hold my stockings tighter. Does your husband help you dress? I help my wife dress,pull the girdle up and attach stockings. I always wash her lingerie which I like to do. I go out in public dressed,no problem at all. Pass good. You say your hubby likes to give a blowjob,do you like to watch? I like to do it for it turns my wife on and out comes the strap-on. I love it. How many girdles do you and hubby have? Do you wear a long line bra? Also what color girdles do you have? My wife is going to buy me for my birthday a red obg and a long line bra in red. Has your husband done 69 with a male.?You would enjoy watching. Keeping on girdling.

Ckerstin-I love strap ones ,it is great. Sex with girdles on is the only way to go plus heels. I go out in public dressed and pass well. Always girdled and stockinged. Like to buy lingerie by my self. Does your hubby get a hard on when he puts his girdle on? I do,get paddled if I don't. Girdles have changed me big time. More calm more feminine love it. Nylon on nylon ,what a feeling. You have to buy your hubby a girdle with no ass. I have one and it is very easy to use a strap on. My wife likes to watch me give a blow job I assume you do also. Girdle day is everyday.


C Kerstin 12 months ago

Xaviera, we are both girdles all the time. With exception of going to the office I insist that he wears a bra with nice forms all the time. Mostly he wears the combination of obg and longline bra. At home he is clad as a women and wears make-up. He looks really feminine. His behaviour has changed. He is more sensitive and attentive. And our sex has improved. Of course I use a strap-on on him. Then he wears a waistcincher that shows his lovely ass. Anything new with you and your wife?

When we meet with our friends it is standard procedure that he gives the other guy a blowjob. And gets one in return.


Xaviera 12 months ago

Good to hear from you again.I thought you ladies gave up girdles. With my wife she requires I wear female attire. She likes to show me off to her girl friends,makes me pick up my skirt to show what Iam wearing. The girls love it and the guys to. She had one of girl friends hubby shave me which he did and of course he gave me a blowjob,first time for him, so I opened his fly took his beautiful dick out and sucked him. Then we put him in a bra and girdle with stockings ,he loved it. Now he wears it all the time. We are going to trans form on Saturday. It is so nice to sit around in a bra,girdle,stockings and heels. We will go 69 on Saturday. I know you would like to be there. Does your hubby lick your ass,I have to do it for the wife. By the way my lovely wife likes to watch me give a blowjob,do you like to watch? I love to perform for her,I only do this when I am girdled. Enjoy life with a good feminine hubby.keep him girdled


john berryman 11 months ago

A pack of lies, but interesting none the less. Am mid-move Detroit to LA. - Irvine then Long Beach area- San Pedro. Any recommendations for shops for vintage girdles, Orange County or LA? Lost literally hundreds of girdles in a eviction and feel lost!! Camisoles, panties, corsets, all in ones, 4-500 pair of nylons- ffn rht- cantrice- nearly all garter style- most all vintage from endless trips to thrifts and boutiques, help the heartbroken lingerie-lover of 65+yrs with advice. Sadly with a seniors limited budget. Ill

find a way- I have no choice!


Roxanne 8 months ago

Would like to correspond with male crossdressers especially those who wear girdles. I wear a girdle and stockings every day and am girdle dependent. Very enjoyable. Also correspond with women that like girdled crossdressers. Let me hear from all you girdle lovers and admirers. Stay girdled!


lingerielover 7 months ago

Hi Roxanne, another girdle aficionado. Like you I´m wearing a girdle every day. Have done so for many years. Some time ago I started to wear a bra too. Often I wear an obg together with a longline bra. What do you wear and when? Always girdled.


Roxanne 7 months ago

Good to hear from another regular. Love to wear girdles with stockings(legs shaved) and a long line bra,holds me in. How many girdles do you have? Do you wear llhwpg? Great under slacks. How did you get started wearing girdles? I always wear a girdle except to go to the doctors. Girdles help my back and posture. I feel naked without a good girdle on,I was told this and it is true. Stay girdled,sister


lingerielover 7 months ago

Like you I do not feel well without a girdle. After more than 10 years of girdle wearing I´m addicted to it. In a lot of forums you find the term girdle dependency. I think it´s true. I started wearing when my wife made the proposal to try a girdle. Although I refused she convinced me. And after a few weeks I was wearing a girdle every day. My first girdles were hwpg and llhwpg. Later I tried an obg and began wearing stockings. Now I have a collection of 9 girdles. Different brands and styles. These days I mostly wear obg with stockings. I love the feeling of the smooth stockings on my shaven legs. And it is easier to handle when nature calls. I can not imagine to go without a girdle again. I am thankful to my wife for her support. How did you start? Where do you buy your girdles?


Roxanne 7 months ago

To answer to your question i used to buy my girdles and garter belts from girdlebound,l under stand some other company took them over. A long line bra with a high waist girdle feels great,which I always wear. Why did your wife want you to wear a girdle? Does she wear a girdle everyday? How long did it take her to convince you ? I assume not long. Good decision to give in. My self living with an aunt who started me off when I was 17 years old. I was a little chubby so she suggested I try wearing a girdle, I said ,why not. Thank god l did. It held me in and looked slimmer. It was a hwobg,then came stockings and panties,bras garter belts and so on. It has almost been 21 years and have done not regretted doing this. It has made my life exciting. You are correct nylons on clean shaven legs feel sensational. Thank god for your wife and my aunt,makes life great. Stay girdled sister


lingerielover 7 months ago

Why my wife wanted me to wear a girdle. We had an invitation to an evening gala. I could barely close the pants of my black suit. I had gained some pounds since last time I wore it. So my wife came up with the idea that I should try one of her girdles. At least I gave in and spent an evening in a hwllpg for the first time. Although it was very tight it helped. After that my wife made the proposal I should start wearing a girdle regularly. I considered it but did not decide until a few days later she came home with a girdle in my size. The following weekend was the first I spent wearing a girdle. Then she insisted that I would wear a girdle every day. It took two weeks and I got accustomed to it. This was almost 10 years ago. Since then there was hardly a day without a girdle for me. Although I lost weight I never thought of going without a girdle again. Styles and brands vary but not my wearing. Of course my wife wears a girdle every day. We both enjoy our girdle wearing. What do your wife / girlfriend say about your girdle wearing? I am convinced that girdle wearing has a lot of benefits.


Roxanne 7 months ago

I should have not asked you if your wife wears a girdle,if you do she does.Do you and your wife lounge around in your girdles? Well I have a girl friend who approves my girdle wearing. When I met her after a couple of dates I told her about my girdle wearing,which she thought was great. Then of course she wanted to see me attired in a girdle and stockings. I agreed. She loved it. She wants me to be girdled as much as possible. She now wears a hwobg everyday which helps her back and posture. We go shopping for lingerie and it is fun. She likes to tell the saleswomen some items are for me,they don't know what to say. I have 4 hwllpg and 8 hwobg,all with 6 garters in various colors with matching bras,panties,slips and camisoles. I love female underwear. Wearing a girdle is great and everyday is girdle day.


lingerielover 6 months ago

You are lucky that your girlfriend is so supportive of your girdle wearing. So am I. When my wife recommended a girdle for me it was a practical reason. We are beyond that. I tried an obg because I found it easier to wear under my suit than pg. Of course I had to wear stockings with it to keep it in place. I realised how good it felt to wear stockings - especially on freshly shaven legs. Then a development started. When my wife made me wear a bra it was for fun. We both learned that with that she touched a new side with me. And her mind changed too. She likes it to see me wearing girdle, bra and stockings. She bought me silicone breast that the bra makes more sense. It has so much added to our relationship. So now I wear girdle, bra and slips and really feel. Especially the combination of girdle and longline bra is exiting. It took some time to get accustomed to wear a bra and some projection in public. But now I feel at ease. I love to feel ´my breasts´. Only at my job I go without a bra.


Roxanne 6 months ago

I talked to my girl friend about a total transformation and she was going to suggest that. This weekend I am going to buy a pencil skirt and blouse in black which will match my girdle and bra etc. With me every item has to match,one has to look nice. Have you walked on heels yet? Not easy. How many girdles do you have? I think more women would like to see their guys girdled. Since the short time my gf knows that I wear a girdle life is so much better and we have a lot more in common. She always checks to see if I am girdled. She mentioned woman enjoy their guys girdled and wearing stockings . This is funny,we were out with an old girl friend of hers who I knew and remarked I lost weight,never told the secret. Love to be girdled and remember one has never enough girdles.


lingerielover 6 months ago

OMG. You are lucky with your gf. A total transformation is such an exiting experience. Nothing fits better with bra and girdle as a nice skirt and blouse. And you should try some make-up.

Yes, I wear heels. Women´s shoes just fit better with stockinged feet than men´s shoes. So I tried heels. I started easy with a heel of 4 or 5 cm. And trained to walk. Now I master 6 - 8 cm without problem. Last weekend when we went out for dinner I wore black heels with my dark suit. Under it I wore girdle, stockings and bra. It was a nice experience.

Now I have 9 girdles. Different obg, all-in-one and hwpg. How many do you own?

My wife is happy that I followed her advice and wear girdles and more now. It is always fun in the morning when we dress and both don our girdles. Sometimes we help each other with the back garters. As you mention it, I have lost some pounds since I started girdle wearing. For me going without one is out of question.

When I look back I realize that our relationship has improved in many ways. My wife mentioned that I have become more feminine in my behaviour and more sensitive. Clad in girdle and bra makes me feel wonderfull. Do you wear forms with your bras?


Roxanne 6 months ago

In answer to your question,l have 12 girdles in various colors to match my other undergarments. I hardly wear pantyhose,once in awhile. I love the pull on the stockings when girdled with shaved legs,what a feeling. I will get my transformation this week,looking forward to looking like a lady. I have no problems with heels or boots,very sexy. Women have so much nicer attire. My girl friend bought breast forms for me. I like to wear a long line bra with a high waist girdle. Do you shave? I shave my legs and going to shave my privates,want to be smooth and clean. Do you or your wife do the shaving. More men should wear girdles etc, they do not what they are missing. Girdles are mans best friend.


lingerielover 6 months ago

I am curious how you will feel with your transformation. What will be done to you? Will you go out dressed as woman?

Longline bra with hwobg is a nice combination. My wife loves it if I wear it. I wear it at home now most of the time. Together with a silk blouse and skirt. My wife taught me how to sit and walk in heels and skirt. The coming weekend she will put make-up on my face and do my nails.

More men should wear girdles. I couldn´t agree more. I think being girdled has a lot of benefits. Physically as well as psychologically. When I wore a girdle for the first time I did not know how this would develop. Now it seems to me it is a journey that has not come to an end.


Roxanne 6 months ago

About the transformation,great.After I put on my long line bra,hwobg,stockings ,panties,full slip,I then put on my wig,then my girl friend makes me up. She said I looked great and passable. Then a long sleeve silk blouse and then the pensil skirt and heels. Felt like a million dollars. By the way all in black. I will go out in public in a few weeks. Why not. Heels are no problem,practiced with them. I loved looking at my stockinged shaved legs,very sexy. Have to learn how to sit and walk, I don't want anyone looking under my skirt. I am going to get some other outfits ASAP. My girl friend loves me transformed. To me it is relaxing and comforting. Question, what do you put on first,girdle ,stockings or panties? Are your girdles pull ons or do you have hooks,eyes or zippers? My girl friend and I are both girdle dependent. She now demands I wear a girdle and me the same with her. Without a girdle I feel naked,don't you? My girl friend likes to watch me get dressed,she says it turns her on. She laughs at me when I have trouble with the back garter and when my penis slips out,then she adjusts me. What do you wear to bed? I always wear a silky nightgown,sleep very well. Take care and act like a lady and don' t forget to put your girdle on.


lingerielover 6 months ago

Wow. Great to hear that you both do enjoy your transformation so much. You are right. It is so relaxing and a great experience. It may take some time to learn how to walk in heels. Most of my heels have 2-3 inch. That is easy to master. Like your girlfriend my wife put some emphasis how to sit and stand up. I put on girdle and panties, than stockings and bra. I have pull-on obg as well as some with hooks, eye and zipper. Pantygirdle only pull-on.

Like you I would say I´m girdle dependent. My wife insists that I wear my girdle all the time. And I could hardly imagine going without one. Usually we dress together in the morning. Often we help each other with the back garters. I feel very comfy with my girdle under my suit. It fits so much better. At home I wear mostly blouse and skirt now. When I come home and change she helps me with my bra mostly longline and the forms I wear with it. Slipping into the female role makes me feel relaxed almost at once. During the weekends I wear nailpolish and makeup. Getting a night gown will be the next step. And it could not happen to forget my girdle. I wouldn´t do and of course my wife insists that we are both girdled. What a pity that I cannot wear a skirt at work. Don´t you think how much more comfortable skirt and stockings would be to wear instead of a suit especially during summer.


Roxanne 6 months ago

Since I told my girlfriend I wear girdle and stockings our relationship has improved so much she asks me to move in with her,which I did. Can not complain. She loves to wear a girdle now, she always did'nt, insisted I be girdled. Since I am girdled she has to be girdled. We both like high waist girdles,holds you in better. I like obg girdles for if I have to pee it is easier. On transformation,what an experience. I like all the makeup,jewelry,wigs,heels etc. I am going to let my hair and nails grow,did you do that? Love skirts,blouses and dresses. Do you wear a slip? I like a half slip. I am going to go out in public real soon,have to get used to heels. When getting dressed I put on my stockings first(thigh highs) then my bra, then my girdle and panties over the girdle. We love to sit around in our girdles in the evening,nice and cozy. Do you and your wife have sex while girdled and stockinged? My girlfriend suggested we do,not as yet but soon. Has to be exciting. Looking forward to this. Well stay girdled you will be happy,I am.


lingerielover 6 months ago

Couldn´t agree more. Our relationship improved since I wear girdles, bra and stockings. It is something to enjoy together. My wife told me that from per perception my behavior has developed. Slipping into the feminine role makes you more sensitive and caring. And one thing is important. When I come home and don my bra, blouse and skirt I feel that all the stress goes away and I feel relaxed at once.

During the weekends I wear nail polish. A discreet pink. And I wear my nails longer than before. Last night we went out for dinner and under my suit I wore girdle (obg), bra and stockings. The first few times I was afraid that my bra with forms would be too obvious. But now I am at ease. This time my wife put makeup on me. Although it takes quite some time, I loved the result and felt great.

I wear different kind of slips. Half slips and also thongs. We do the same as you and your girlfriend. At home we often only wear shapewear and stockings. And heels. I think it´s good to practice as often as possible. And we had sex while both girdled. It feels so exiting when nylon rub on nylon. And the feeling of the tightness of my girdle is great.

Stay girdled and feel your feminine side.


Roxanne 6 months ago

Thank god for my aunt starting me off wearing a girdle and stockings. What a god send. I enjoy it more because of my gf having this in common.life would be boring. I am more relaxed in lingerie not so excitable. Transformation was great and I am going to buy a complete wardrobe of outer wear. I want to look good. Well it finally happened,sex in girdle and stockings. First of all I had to shave my legs etc. A nice smooth feeling. The sex was out of sight,no other way to do it. Your right nylon on nylon is a great feeling,love it. When going out I am always girdled and stockinged,obg. It seems you have problems with back garters,so do I. Just practice. Have you and your fabulous wife met ant other couples have the same interest ? I assume it would be exciting. My gf gets excited when she sees me put on my girdle as I do also. Well time to go to bed with garter belt and stockings on and no panties. Be a good girl


lingerielover 5 months ago

You are lucky with your aunt and that she made you wear girdle and stockings. And you are right. When I come home and switch clothes I feel relaxed immediately. Part of the effect is wearing forms with my bra. It´s incredible to feel the weight and bounce of my breasts with every step. They feel like they are part of my body. This effect is amplified since my wife bought some glue to fasten my forms directly to my skin. I wear my breasts like this from Friday evening till Monday morning. During sex my wife likes to pet my breasts and I love it.

I find it a bit complicated to attach the back garters with my rago with 6 garters. My wife and I help each other when we dress in the morning. Would be a nice idea to meet another couple both of them girdled too. But so far nobody knows about my girdle wearing. Without one exception. A friend of my wife. One Saturday morning my wife left to do some shopping. After a few moments the bell rang and I thought she had forgotten something. When I opened our friend stood there. I had to let her in. I wore a bra, girdle and taupe stockings with shirt and shorts. I didn´t know what to do. For the first moment she did not see my stockinged legs. But when we went into the living room she suddenly noticed it and asked if I wore pantyhose. She came closer and touched my leg when she realized my stocking tops. Now she was curious and wanted to know. She wanted to see my girdle. You can imagine how I felt. I was near to panic. Then she took a closer look and became aware of my bra. But she did not laugh or anything. She asked me and when we started to talk about it I got my nerves under control. At the end I was lucky. Nothing changed in our relationship. We are still friends. The only thing is that when we meet and she gives me a hug I always feel her hands on my back looking for my bra straps.

These days it would be more complicated as at home I always wear skirt, blouse and heels.

Stay girdled.


Roxanne 5 months ago

Wearing a girdle has made life wonderfull. funny story,after a couple of weeks wearing a girdle and stockings my dear aunt invited her girl friend over for lunch and of course I was fully attired underneath,she wanted to surprise her girl friend and we did. I answered the door wearing a robe and makeup with slippers exposing my stockings. She was shocked. She called for my aunt to question what I was doing. My aunt explained to her the situation and then asked me to disrobe and loved what she saw then asked me if I had troubles with the back garters. Of course. My aunt was girdled and her friend was also. She was attired in black. She said it was great to see me girdled. More men should do it,I agreed. Then she asked me to try on another girdle with stockings which I did. She remarked since I had a small penis l would not anything else underneath. Later that day she asked me to visit her and gave me a few girdles with stockings. Very nice of her. Your wifesgirl friend loved seeing you in a girdle. Does she wear one? I shaved my chest so could I could wear breast forms 36 c. When we have sex my gf does a good job on them as I do on her. Sex is always with an obg and hose. Would not have it any other way. As we stated getting dressed makes us relax. Our female side. Love being a girl. A fresh girdle makes you a better girl.be girdled. And stay girdled


lingerielover 4 months ago

Our friend, no, she does not wear girdles. She wears modern shapewear like Spanx once in a while. My wife and me, we are both girdled all the time. She insists that I wear girdle, stockings and bra whenever possible. She is convinced that this is good for me and I follow her. Only at the office I do not wear a bra. Otherwise I have to wear a bra with forms. As a consequence my wardrobe changed. I wear blouses, mostly plain white or light blue. It fits better with my projection. And at home I wear only skirts. Wearing women´s clothes changed my lifestyle to some extent. Before that I often wore a track suit at home. This is out of question now. And I feel much better. Due to the tight girdle I take care what and how much I eat. I lost a few pounds. Although my wife taught me to sit properly when wearing a skirt. During the weekends I wear nail polish and makeup. It took some time but then I started to feel more feminine. My wife says that my behavior changed too. And our sex is much better now. Like you both of us are mostly in girdle and stockings. What a feeling when nylon rubs on nylon. What you write about relaxing is true. As soon as I come home and change into female clothes I feel easy and all the stress goes away. At the beginning I was afraid where this would lead to. But now I like it. Looking back I have the impression that this was a journey.

Last weekend we went shopping and I got a new girdle. We have a small shop where I got a professional fit. The saleslady made the suggestion that I shoud try a corset. My wife likes the idea. It would make my highlight my hips and make my shape more feminine. I think next time I will try one. I´m very grateful to my wife that she started this and literally helped me to develop a new personality. It all started with a simple girdle.

I agree with you that more men should start wearing girdles. They don´t know what they miss. Stay girdled!


Roxanne 4 months ago

My gf and your wife have the same thoughts that we should be girdled most of the time. I agree. A man who is girdled is a relaxed and more understanding in every facet of life. It shows his girly side,which we have. Do you use much makeup? I like to be made up and wear a wig while my hair grows out. My gf loves me being feminine,for she is the boss. By the way ,what kind of girdle did you get and how many garters? My wife's gf who approved my girdle wearing is looking for a male who wears a girdle. She is going to visit us with a male friend and we are going to try to see if he will put one on.we will try. What do you wear for bed? I wear stockings,a garter belt and a. Silky nightgown,no panties,you never know when you will get called to perform. My gf wears the same. She loves sex with nylons on,so do i. I have to be ready ASAP. My gf wants to buy a dildo for us,what do you think.? Do you and the wife have one and what do you do with it? My gf mentioned the other day she would like to meet another couple that is girdled. Good idea. Well sweetie,time for a ball shaving. Girdles are great.


lingerielover 4 months ago

My wife made her wishes very clear. She wants me to be girdled all the time. Both of us don our girdles first thing in the morning after showers and wear until we go to bed. Additionally she insists that I wear a bra with forms whenever possible with the exception when I´m at work. It took some time to become familiar with “my breasts”. I mean you are aware of the projection and the weight with every step. Feeling my breasts is an essential step for her to express my feminine side. Last week she bought me a new pair of silicone breasts. These breasts come with some specific glue. I do not only put them in my bra, these breasts are fixed to my torso. It is such an intense feeling. I wore my breasts the whole weekend till Monday morning. It was a peculiar feeling when I removed my breasts. I had the impression of something missing. Do you wear bras?

I have different girdles of different styles and brands. Some have 4, some have 6 garters. I have obg from Triumph, Rago, Cortland and Grenier. And some hwpg from Rago and Cortland. I have no garter belts. My wife insists on girdles.

She also tried makeup on me. She spent some time doing my makeup before we went out for dinner Sunday evening. Very discreet but it changed my facial features.

I think it is a great idea to meet another girdled couple. Must be fun to know all four are girdled. I can imagine you will enjoy this.

The idea of your gf to buy a dildo is great. My wife sometimes uses a dildo on me while having sex. I enjoy the feeling. My wife thinks about buying a strapon. Develop your feminine side.


Roxanne 4 months ago

I have an idea for you.When you are with your wife you have to be ready to perform immediately that is why at time a garter belt is to be worn under a girdle,take off the girdle and you still have your stockings on. Sometimes I walk around in a garter belt and nylons with heels but no panties.A sexy woman always has sex with heels on.We always do , do you wear heels when you have sex? We do. How do you like a dildo? Do you ever suck on it? More men should wear girdles and hose. They do not know what they are missing. I am girdle dependent. Love to wear agirdle and stockings. It is nice you help your wife with her girdle and stockings. It is a honor.


Marvelous 3 months ago

I was a latch-key kid before the term was coined. Every school day I had 2+ hrs. home alone. One day while still young I investigated my Mom's lingerie. I was fascinated by the soft nylon fabric and wondered why boys Jockey shorts were so coarse & thick, very miserable on a warm-hot summer day. I started with panties, garter belt and stockings, eventually trying on a girdle with stockings. Later I tried a skirt, half slip, bra, blouse, and heels. Everything except a wig & makeup. Walking through the house dressed up like that felt wonderful. I now wear hi-cut micro-fiber Hanes panties every day, threw out all my male underwear long ago. Would like to buy a couple of girdles, stockings are fun but shaving twice a week is too labor intensive. If I had an Asian ladyboy-girlfriend to shave me regularly I would wear stockings every day. Men the world over are short-changed by the thick, uncomfortable cotton underwear that the majority of them still wear. If they only knew.............


Honey 3 months ago

What you have done trying on your mothers lingerie many males have done. They all loved doing it. Don't worry about shaving,just do it when you shower. Get your self a few girdles and stockings with a Long line bra. You will love it. Don't cheat your self. You are right about men being short changed,but do not short change yourself. The Asian ladyboy-girlfriend would do more than shave your legs. Look get girdled and you will fill great.


lingerielover 2 months ago

Roxanne, these days when it is warm, at home we both wear only dessous, girdles and stockings. I wear an obg with stockings, slip and usually a longline bra. My wife insists that I wear my cups filled with forms. I needed a while to feel familiar with the weight and bounce with every step. My wife finds me looking sexy. Sometimes I wonder if it´s ok feeling more feminine. As I wrote earlier my wife bought a strap-on. She enjoys it to use on me. I wear heels when we go out. Last weekend we went to the theatre and had dinner afterwards. I wore a dark suit and black heels. Underneath bra, girdle and stockings of course. Once you get accustomed to women´s lingerie, shapewear and stockings you would not want it otherwise.


Roxanne 2 months ago

You are right once you get accustomed to women's underwear it is very addictive. I can not do without wearing lingerie. I am hooked literally. A day without a girdle and stockings is not easy to handle. It is sexy to me. Sitting around in the evening with my girl friend attired in our girdles,stockings,bras, and heels is a great turn on. She wears me out. My gf and I went to a boutique that sells crossdressers. What a place. The employees are crossdressers. They are beautiful. I got fitted for 3 girdles and bra sets. They come in hwllpg,hwobg and long line and short line bras in different colors. I ended up with 6 girdles and 6 bras. Beautiful. Love the crossdressers,they know how to talk and take care of you. Miss Joan waited on me,what an experience and fitted me perfect. I have an appointment with her this week for panties and hope to take her for lunch. She is a tall blonde with long hair,beautiful. And by the way always wears a obg. When I see her I Defintely will be girdled. I also met other crossdressers there,nice people. First encounter with crossdressers,I like them. We have something in common and wear girdles. Also my girl friend uses a strapon on me . Love it 3 times a week. By the way does your wife shave your balls and legs ? My gf does it to me when I get out of the shower. My aunt used to shave me,love it. Take care and be a good little girl.


lingerielover 7 weeks ago

So far we had no encounters with crossdressers. I only underdress. Don´t go out enfemme. Only I wore heels a few times with my suit. The last days have been hot over here. It felt too hot for bra and girdle. But my wife insisted. She made me wear bra with my silicone breasts, pantygirdle with shorts. At home longline bra, girdle and stockings. Now it is not so hot so I wear skirt and blouse at home. I feel more and more feminine. With the support of my wife. I´m on holiday now. She made me wear nailpolish and does my makeup. And she uses the strapon on me more often. Last week I got a present. A nice plug so Im better prepared for the strapon.

Funny thing is after a week wearing only women´s clothes I really enjoy it. Yesterday evening we went for dinner and I wore a pair of trousers wich felt almost a bit strange. Be a good girl.


Transutopia 5 weeks ago

Hi there,

just found this so saying hello to one and all.

I guess I'm like most here I underdress now almost daily.

Mainly All in One Corselettes being my favorite.Yes I also have vintage corsets which are lace up along with longline bra's.Always stockings flat knit seamed or RHT's.not the modern crap.even have vintage mesh nylons which wear really well.I think I have a serious nylon fetish so much so I wear for 23/7.Changing before bed with fresh AIO and fresh nylons.

To me it keeps me calm and helps overcome the problems of daily life.Wife has accepted it,but not totally comfortable persay.In my younger years I played around and that put our relationship under pressure.So from that perspective she feels I'm gonna be faithful,which I am of course.Can't imagine a women feeling anything when finding a guy is wearing all female underwear going forward...

Just saying!!!


lingerielover 4 weeks ago

Hi Transutopia,

Welcome to the club. Many men wear girdles and female lingerie. I started young with my mother´s girdle and stockings. When I met my wife I wore in secret until she found out. She approved my girdle wearing. Wearing herself she is convinced of the benefits of being girdled. So I was wearing girdles daily for the last 25 years. She encouraged me to wear a bra too. I did to please her. Over time she became more rigid and insists that I wear girdle and bra. At home I mostly wear obg, longline bra and stockings. At the beginning it was not easy to wear a bra all the time especially when she bought forms to fill my cups. But now I do no longer care if someone might spot my projection. Instead I enjoy the weight and bounce of “my breasts” with every step. After all these years I am very thankful to my wife for her support. Why does your wife feel uncomfortable with you wearing?


Transutopia 4 weeks ago

No you got it wrong,

she has accepted my wearing ,been such a long time


Transutopia 4 weeks ago

really confused.

Typed about 20 lines and all that came out is in the previous


Transutopia 4 weeks ago

What is going on here,why is it deleting everything..


Roxanne 4 weeks ago

You are right Transutopia female under dress makes one relax and be less stressful. What is the big deal if one is girdled and stockinged. It feels great. My girl friend loves me in lingerie. I like it also. Who says men can't wear a girdle,it is good for your back and posture. A day without a girdle is a day wasted. My girl friend and I were out with female friend of hers and mentioned that I had on a girdle (obg) and stockings. She thought it was great. She said she is going to try to get her male friend to try ona hwllpg, I hope he goes for it,he will be surprised. She will give him a week then I will help her. Your wife will get used to your antics. What is so nice ,my gf and I sit around in the evening girdled,stockings heels with a long matching bra. Love it and sexy,which leads to great sex. Stay girdled girl.


Transutopia 4 weeks ago

I'm gonna try again to post something.Better not crash .

Reading some above notes I'm getting that a few are in their 40's .

Now My question is that Girdles and Stockings were pretty much dead by the end of the 70's.

So how/why did you get started?Mums went into Pantyhose mid to late 70's.That would put the youngest person here wearing a real Girdle,nearly 60!

I'm of that age group being 64.And fondly remember taking Mums OBG and stockings(she never wore Panty Girdles but that was in the UK).

Of course it most certainly was a sexual thing back then at a tender age of 12/13.I still remember it as clear as day.

I was also a bit lucky in the fact my Mother wanted a girl ,so she curled my hair,and kind of dressed me in a feminine style!!On discovering my penchant for her clothes she was kinda cool,but warned me not to do so for school,etc.

So fast forward now I underdress daily and have done for forty years or more.My wife finds my "hobby" still a bit strange but admitted she knew I would not stray and have affairs elsewhere.She had that as a big concern back in the day...

I don't need to wear Breasts as I have my own ,maybe a small B cup.No I'm not fat ,I'm 6 foot 180pounds.

Lets see if this post.

Later !


Roxanne 4 weeks ago

I went to live with an aunt for I was a little chubby and she suggested she suggested I try wearing a girdle. She would wear a flimsy robe with a girdle and stockings showing which I always looked at. I liked what I saw,then one day she suggested I try to wear a girdle. But was told stockings go with it,I thought about for a second or two and said yes. So happy that I did. She helped me in a hwobg with hooks and eyes,what a delight. Loved it ASAP. Then came the stockings,panties and a long line bra. What a feeling. Have been wearing a girdle etc for 24 or so years and continue to do so,have a girl friend who also wears a girdle and wants me girdled at all times,why not. More men should be girdled. How did you get started? Doe your wife wear a girdle. Stay happy and be girdled


lingerielover 4 weeks ago

Hi Transutopia, hi Roxanne, I believe many of us started young. Wearing mother´s or aunt´s girdles and stockings. I was 14 when I discovered mother´s girdles. During the seventies she switched to pantyhose and pantygirdle. But there were some obg girdles left in her lingeriedrawer.

You are right. I´m almost 60 now. At the age of 20 I bought my first girdle. Since then the girdle - obg as well as hwpg - never lost it´s magic for me. I was lucky to marry a girl who accepted my girdle wearing. Although she thought it a bit odd that a man would wear a girdle she accepted it. Later she started to love it when I was girdled. She was wearing girdles too. So we developed our girdle wearing together. Some years ago she made me wear a bra too. I wear different styles but at home it is mostly longline bra. My experience shows that a bra is more addictive than a girdle. Like you Roxanne, my wife insists that I´m girdled every day. I think that I benefit a lot from girdle wearing.


Transutopia 4 weeks ago

I'm not sure a Bra is more addictive then wearing Girdles and Stockings...

My choice is an AIO which of course has a bra built in.

So I'm tightly held all the way from the shoulder straps to the top of my legs by that.Then adding a nice pair of flat knit Stocking onto hair free legs,still blows me away after all these years.

I could open a shop with all my feminine underwear.Half my closet is full of it.


lingerielover 3 weeks ago

An AIO is a nice thing. You are right. But I made the experience that when it fits to my torso it is not tight enough at the waist. So for me the combination of longline bra and obg or hwpg is the best choice. And of course stockings. Nothing comes close to the feeling of of being girdled and fine stockings on freshly shaven legs.


Roxanne 3 weeks ago

Hello girls! I just got a aio a week a go,open bottom with six garters in black,really holds me in. Ladies you are right clean shaven legs are a great feel. Trans utopia do you shave your pubic area? If not you are missing the boat. How many times do you wear a girdle before washing it. Transutopia what age did you start wearing a girdle etc. I started at 17 great that I did,life would be a bore. Btw who started you? I am girdle dependent,can not help it. I am going back to a crossdresser boutique and by some delicate things,keeping you ladies in mind. Keep girdling and look cute.


Transutopia 2 weeks ago

Hi Roxanne,

My girdles are washed after each daily use.

I think I started about 12.Of course that was taking Mum's OBG and stockings.As good as my hiding place I thought was ,she found them,or was it the fact she was missing her Girdle?So after this happening a few times she sat me down and had a little chat with me.

I think she always wanted a Girl and not a boy anyway from things that she did like curling my hair etc.

She explained to me that other boys wouldn't understand and I should keep it a secret,but she left me alone to wear after that without a problem.The first one I bought with my own money I was 17.

I asked Mum for advise on sizing etc.She offered to get it for me and bought it from M & S a black OBG with 4 suspenders.Oh heaven,that was it ,hooked forever.

I'm not just Girdle depended,I must wear stockings also always!So I have a Nylon fetish also.

If I wear a girdle now I have a longline bra to go with it ,but mainly I wear AIO's


Roxanne 11 days ago

Ladies better yet girdles lovers-When you wear an obg,most of the time you wear nylons. What a feel with shaved legs. Transutopia do you wear your panties over or under your girdle? Girdle dependcy is very common,when you wear one everyday you can't take it off. My girl friend requires me to be girdled. She buys me a piece of lingerie every week. When we have sex we are girdled and stockinged,no other way. I have only 3 AIO's Black and beige. Is their a directory or service where you can get in touch with girdle wearers? Be good ladies and put your girdle on one leg at a time.


Transutopia 6 days ago

That's funny,a directory of men who wear girdles.

As you probably know,there are 3 sites for men who wear as you and I do.Including this one.Not including Stockings hq forum.Because that's everything ,not just Girdles persay.

Also as girdles are not really made any more we are a dying breed.

I wonder what guys will do growing up not having the wonderful pleasure of having a nice tight Girdle,stockings, and a longline bra's.

I suppose they could get their rocks off on Spanx,Yeh right


Roxanne 19 hours ago

Transutopia, I totally agree with your opinion of guys not having the pleasure of getting girdled etc. What a pity. Spandex is not the answer. Getting girdled is one of the greatest things that ever happened to me. I wear one everyday,do you? Are you married and if so what does your wife say. A lot of women possibly like to see men in lingerie. My gf with whom I live with is going to surprise her friend that I wear girdles etc. I wish more men would participate in this hobby. How many girdles do you have? Have a girdle good day.

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