How to Choose a Diamond Engagement Ring

If you are not married, you may need to know how to buy a diamond engagement ring, one day. Buying someone you love a diamond, is the traditional way of telling someone you love them, or asking for a woman's hand in marriage. Diamonds are one of the most beautiful and durable of all the precious stones. The act of buying a diamond ring, is not a simply as you might think.

You will need to do your homework about cut, color and ratings before buying. Decide what you are looking for, and the best place to find it. If you do your homework and take a time to look around, you will have a diamond ring that you love and at the right price.

Wedding RIng
Wedding RIng

Know your Jeweler

Look for a well-known jeweler, who has a good reputation for quality and service. A reputable jeweler will be very knowledgeable, stand behind their product, and will give you all the time and facts you need to make an informed decision.

Don't forget when going to a jewelry chain like Jared, etc., the sales people work on a commission. Know exactly what you want, and the amount you want to spend. It is so easy to get caught up with the beautify items, and you can easily end up spending much more than you expected.

I would not recommend buying a ring from a Mall jewelry store. I once did that and a few years later, when I went back to upgrade to a larger stone, the chain had gone out of business. There are many great companies that are well-known and have been serving the community for generations. Ask older women who are friends and family members. They can usually steer you to a guy, who sold them a ring 30 years ago!

How to Pick a Diamond

Pink Diamond
Pink Diamond | Source

The Important 4Cs

The 4Cs: When considering a diamond, the four things to be considered are carat weight, clarity, color and cut.

  • Carat weight, is the unit of mass equal to 200 milligrams or 0.2 grams. The carat weight is used to measure precious stones and pearls. The term metric carat was coined in 1907 and is used almost worldwide.
  • Clarity, refers to the perfection of the stone in relation to how my flaws, or natural inclusion that takes place during the formation of the diamond. These inclusions can usually not be seen with the naked eye; however, can be seen with a jewelers eye. When you find a flawless stone, it is clear brilliant and very costly.
  • Cut, the cut of a stone refers to how it is altered to obtain a certain shape and brilliance. There a cuts such as pear shaped, round, princess, oval, asscger, emerald, and heart shaped.
  • Color diamonds are made the same way as white diamonds, pressurization, heat and time. With color diamonds, the presence of nitrogen will give the stone a yellow to orange color. Where boron is present, the stone will have blue hues. Hydron will give stones the color of violet. Greater pressures are believed to produce red, pink or brown stones. The cut of a stone, refers to how it is altered to obtain a certain shape and brilliance. The cuts are pear shaped, round, princess, radiant, cushion, oval, assscher, emerald, and heart shaped.

Get a Certificate

When buying a diamond ring, get a certificate. Getting an appraisal of you diamond ring, is different than getting a certificate. An appraisal tells you what a jeweler believes the diamond ring is worth. A certificate A certificate is documentation that specifies the diamonds exact measurement and weights as well as it's quality and cut. A certificate is proof off the identity and value of the stone.

Diamond Ring
Diamond Ring

Picking a Setting

Many woman pick out their stone first and then the perfect setting. There is not one setting, but it is a matter of preference. Once you have picked out the diamond you want, next decide if your want, yellow gold, white gold or platinum for your ring setting. You do not want to buy too high of a carat in gold because the purer the gold, the softer the ring, and you don't want the prongs on the diamond ring to loosen.

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Alane Jewel 3 years ago from Sharon, Pennsylvania

Very helpful post! Simple engagement rings continue to be the most timeless and sought after of all engagement ring styles. http://www.brilliantearth.com/news/simple-engageme...


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2besure 3 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina Author

quildon, thanks for stopping by and leaving your comment!


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quildon 3 years ago from Florida

Great idea, 2besure.


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2besure 3 years ago from Charlotte, North Carolina Author

You really don't have to wait for someone to buy you one treat yourself! That way you will get the ring you really want!


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quildon 3 years ago from Florida

Interesting facts on buying a diamond. Now if only I can get someone to buy me one.

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