How To Be A Sexy American Woman And Not Wear A Bikini

So, have you ever wondered how you can be a sexy American woman without wearing a bikini? Men always have a thing sexy American women who wear bikinis, but what about women who just do not roll like that? Heck, I am not even excited about wearing a bathing suit on the beach. I would probably wear a knee length skirt and a cute top, but I can still be a sexy American. You know how to do it! Being sexy is about being true to yourself, taking care of yourself. So feel no pressure as an American woman to have to wear a bikini because you can still even have fun at the beach if you do not like these. I know I had just as much fun putting my feet in the water without donning a bikini. You will never see this American girl in one!

It is possible to feel like a sexy American woman without parading around in a bikini.
It is possible to feel like a sexy American woman without parading around in a bikini.

Walk Around Your American Town To Be Sexy

Be a sexy American woman and walk all around town. By walking you are exercising and taking care of yourself, and even helping your pocket book and the environment a bit. I am all about cutting down on the expenditure of fuel, whether it be via transportation or not buying copious quantities of items made overseas. I am all for cutting down on the foreign oil dependence, and walking more does the trick for me. Shop locally when possible and walk once in a while. You might not be 100 pounds and sporting a bikini on the beach, but you can definitely look sexy by putting on your walking shoes and strolling to the beat of your own music.

Tip for men: just because a woman is walking does not mean she wants you to stop and ask her for a ride. Sometimes women actually go for walks for exercise and to enjoy the scenery, although no one will begrudge you for legitimately offering a woman a ride if she is struggling with lots of groceries. Maybe you should go for a walk to so you can meet some of those sexy American women exercising around town.

Become More Confident

I think the best way forward on being and feeling like a sexy American woman is to boost your confidence. So if there is something you want to do to make yourself feel better, then embrace that dream. Recently I lost weight and that made me feel better about myself for health reasons, but I did not all of a sudden want to start wearing a bikini.

Also, I have made more of an effort to focus on my art projects, and I always feel empowered when I am doing the things I love the most. There is something very sultry about a woman who makes time for herself, and does not apologize for it.

Another thing you can do to boost your confidence is to realize you are appreciated by others, even when you feel like you are not. Recently I have had a crush on a man who would never view me in a romantic way, and I sometimes get disappointed he would never pick up on any of my hints. Of course all of my hints were very subtle and mundane, and nothing flirty or romantic in nature. Some days I think of being bold by point out the obvious, but the thing that holds me back is deep down I have an inkling he is just not interested in me that way.

So should I let this knowledge hold me back? No, it does not because I realize there are other people in this world, and perhaps one day I will be what another man desires. However, if I never meet a man I feel mutual attraction with,then I actually prefer being single for the rest of my life over going out with a man who just happens to ask. There has to be mutual attraction, but what I like the most are his manners, his thoughtfulness, and the way he says things. I think he is cute, but I can still be a strong woman if he never notices me in that way. Life always goes on.

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poetryman6969 17 months ago

I still prefer the bikini but nice advice in any case!


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SweetiePie 17 months ago from Southern California, USA Author

You can wear bikinis all you want ;). Thanks for commenting.


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Lady Guinevere 17 months ago from West Virginia

I don't wear bathing suits anymore and haven't in a long time. My body morphed after having children. It (IMHO) isn't about the clothes, but how one wears it and how confident they are. Sexy is, in a huge part, individual and in beauty is in the eye of the beholder.


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SweetiePie 17 months ago from Southern California, USA Author

I think what you are saying is very true Lady G.

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