How to look beautiful than you are

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Effortlessly Staying Beautiful

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We've heard it over & over that beautiful people have an edge over others. Things get easier for them. Power Dressing, Appropriate dressing & right attitude & a whole lot of things. I think a lot of it is hyped by the media & industry. THERE WAS AN AGE OLD FORMULA IN ANCIENT INDIA FOR STAYING BEAUTIFUL WHICH WAS PASSED ON THROUGH GENERATIONS FOR STAYING BEAUTIFUL FROM CRADLE TO GRAVE.

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Mirror Mirror On The Wall.......Who's The Fairest Of Us All?

Think of an answer for this. Be honest to your self.

No overconfidence..

No underconfidence..

No inconfidence..

A plain honest, thoughtful & insightful response that comes from within. Never mind if the answer wasn't ME in big bold letters. You shall discover more about yourself on your onward journey to the

""""""Hopeland""""""

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Do You Have An Answer To This?

  • Ever thought of why is it that children appear more beautiful or cuter than grown-ups.
  • Are you sure your Mom loves you irrespective of how you look. She might think make you believe that she has the most wonderful daughter in the world whom she describes as beautiful. Naturally you may not be as beautiful as she makes you feel. That was her way of showing you that you are precious for her.
  • "You shall always be beautiful in my eyes". That's how the song goes..

Understand Yourself Better

I'm not trying to be rude but let's come straight to the point.

What makes you want to believe that you are beautiful? What makes you agree that you aren't beautiful?

Who told you that you are beautiful? Who said you aren't? Whose opinion is it by the way? Does their opinion count in your life?

Was it a sincere compliment or remark? Do they have to get some work done from you? Was she jealous? Is he after your money or did he outsmart you? Why does he keep telling you that you are beautiful when you don't think so? Do they all think that you are average?

What do you think ? Why so? Is greying your concern?

"Wrinkles" do you have it?

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Think over! Think Again!

How much illusion has cocooned in your life & how much reality did you enforce on yourself?

Let's understand their idea....

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LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT

 

FIRST IMPRESSION IS THE LAST IMPRESSION

 

We all need to be loved & want to be accepted as an individual & as a part of our social group. Professionally we want to be recognised & succeed faster than the others. BEAUTY DOES HELP YOU CLIMB THE SOCIAL LADDER AS WELL AS THE CORPORATE LADDER. Create a good first impression but also slowly & steadily as Rome was not built in a day!

Happy practising the art of staying beautiful!

 

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Make use of Psychology

Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.

Very true. Every person has a different idea of what's beautiful. They have a different ideal & images of what's beauty for them. They might be inspired by various role models or just plain old - fashioned liking to taste.

Beauty can & never could be quantified & measured. Culture, race, ethnicity & values all would contribute in describing it.

In the west, oval faces, blue or brown eyes are described as beautiful whereas in India & also in the east round faces, black eyes, thick-long-black hair would be described as more desirable.

Shyness would be considered attractive in the east; might be considered sissy or misinterpreted as nervousness or lack of confidence in the west.

Moreover, someone might go a step further & understand that you have a fear of rejection. But you know that nobody can look stunning when infected by fears & phobias as they look horrible through our expressions.

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We live in a society where media plays a major role in potraying larger than life fantasies & naturally we do get affected in some way or the other. They touch not only our lives but the people whom we love, we care for.

We constantly keep picking up traits we like from people. These are the "our accepted mannerisms". Some of them might be universally acceptable whereas the others go unnoticed by others.

 

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Make Use Of Biology

Dress in such a way that it's not your sex-appeal that shows but you look good as a beautiful human-being.

Dress up to enhance your looks, to cover your flaws, to be proud enough to look like a beautiful mother, a beautiful daughter. (I wonder how many of us want to look beautiful in the eyes of our children! in the eyes of our parents!)

Most of us have some feature or the other better than the others. We should learn to see what's good in us than what's lacking. Highlight your best features. If you don't find anything, don't worry!

A smile will do wonders to spread the radiance around. Trust me it will go a long way. Work on your nature. We all have had instances when we have overlooked beauty for a good-natured person (maybe our friends).

Become More Aware & Intelligent

 

Good genetics play an important role in life. Preserve what you have in life & make good use of it.

Keep up with the latest fashion. The 60's fashion would ideally not work today even if you've dressed appropriately.

Dress as per the occasion & the crowd. Dress conservatively if you happen to visit villages in India. Never wear flashy make-up or a low-cut dress in an office atmosphere as you don't wish to draw attention to yourself instead of the business.

You look yourself. Believe in yourself. Think Positive. It is easier said than done.

I'm sure we all love everything positive so we're here to look better than before. Naturally there is enough motivation needed. Did you ever smile or blush on any compliments you received? Were you happy or pleased ? That was a positive comment, a positive stimuli . You felt happy. A positive emotion & response. You must have said "Thanks for the compliment". A positive & appropriate social behaviour. You just loved it!

Let's say if the person would have been someone you liked then you are on top of the world. The experience would be very positive & magical.

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Do we always understand things as positive? How do you think positive when you are feeling negative emotions & getting negative reactions. See what's positive in it for you.

Understand right, have insight

In his light

May God give you the might!

The glass is half full (Positive Understanding)

The glass is half empty (Negative Understanding)

The glass was always empty (Depressing Belief)

The glass was always full

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There are two sides to the coin:

One that faces upwards & the one that looks towards the ground.

If we look upwards we could believe that we are beautiful like the coin that faces the world and the sky whereas if we look down upon ourselves then we might end up curling ourselves inwards & depressing ourselves like the lower side of the coin which hides from anybody's sight.

Similar but not the Same

No two people in the world can look the same. Similar twins, but not the same gestures, expressions, manners, emotions, feelings, attitude, nature & character.

Congratulate yourself on being different. You are eye-catching!

Congratulations on your being unique!

That was half the journey completed. You know that you are not duplicable. You have finished a major part in your competition. The people looking out for you are looking out just for you!!

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Beauty Secrets Unveiled

Scale of Beauty: Quality check

Inner Beauty: Of the inner attributes

Outer Beauty: Of the outer attributes

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We will cover the topic in easy steps

Physical Beauty: It is of the outer self, the charm, the personality & the looks. It is the bodily beauty with little meaning.

Can it be increased: Enhanced

Better than before routine:

# Be natural. It's a proven fact that natural scores in the long-run.

# Wear clothes that look good on you.

# Select clothes that make you look better & also hide your flaws.

# Wear clothes that convey your attitude.

# Dress for the occasion.

# Wear your make-up as per the time of the day.

# Match your hairdo & jewellery with your dress.

# Be clean. Take bath Regularly. Brush your teeth.

# Have positive heath habits. Read "Sphere of Influence" lower down.

# Smile Smile Smile Smile Smile it's infectious. Reveal your happiness.

Mental Beauty: It is of the inside, of intelligence, memory, wit, humour, ideas

Can it be increased: Yes

Better than before routine:

# Keep good company.

# Read good books - informative & useful.

# Avoid gossipping as it clogs the mind & leaks the mental energy in unnecessary pursuits.

# Enlarge your perspective. Develop a positive outlook towards events & life. This would unburden you & make you feel lighter.

Religious or Moral Beauty

Can it be increased: Yes

Better than before routine: Do one good thing a day howmuchever small to make you feel valued in your own eyes. Keep improving to more goodness in your life to have blossoms in your path. It will unfold in terms of self-confidence & satisfaction. Your nature, behaviour, expressions, gestures & language would be the outlet.

Spiritual Beauty: It is of the inside, of the soul, the character, the nature, the wisdom, charisma & even the persona.

Can it be increased: Yes

Better than before routine: Develop a habit of positive thinking & love people. What is on the inside will show on the outside. The world would reciprocate. Feel happy, spread happiness. Smile to yourself & say "I am a complete woman". Inner radiance would shine through the eyes.

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Stick Your Neck Out

 Look similar yet different. Wear dresses just like the others but in a better taste. You don't need to buy expensive stuff or spend a fortune to look good.

Believe In the rule::::::::Apply The Formula:::::::::::Go By The Law::::::::::::Stay Beautiful::::::::::::::Enchant People By Your Beauty

As you sow so shall you reap

Think good to feel good

Feel good to look good

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The root of every disease is in the mind ( as per Ayurveda - Ancient Indian Medical System)

I say: The fruit is also linked to the mind.

A strong character would give you a lot of good vibes, an pura aura which attracts people. If you love people with the right intention they return your love. Beautify your mind to beautify your appearance. Spread love & give respect. Treat people as people & not commodities & feel bountiful difference in your life.

Talk to God twice a day - First thing when you wake up & last thing before bedtime. Give him all your worries & take him for a walk with you. Share your life with him - THE MOST BEAUTIFUL. Unburden yourself, lighten yourself & see the glow on your face.

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Sphere Of Influence

Meditate regularly to feel at peace; to feel at ease. It will increase your confidence, make you more liked by God & increase your sphere of influence.

Power of Meditation (sample thoughts): I am a soul, a beautiful soul. I am a point of light. I shine like the diamond. Loved by my beautiful father, my beautiful mother, the Supreme soul (GOD). I feel loved by him. I am a medium to spread his love & beauty(his virtues) in the world. Through him I have realised the beauty within. I spread this inner beauty to my brothers & sisters in the world(other souls in the world). He has chosen me to bring an awakening in the world. I realise how powerful I am as I know I have a beautiful aura surrounding me.

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Share Your Thoughts 21 comments

Graze 8 years ago

great advice. I do agree every word in it. Keep up the good work ( this website)...THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!!!!


anjalina gupta 8 years ago

goood AND I LIKE ?


camille 8 years ago

yeah those are completely right.

tnx a lot


bm 7 years ago

Thanks for the advice its. I guess deep down inside i know all these things but its hard to listen.


monika 7 years ago

The words r great and true, really helpful and full of wisdom

Cheers :)


Girl 7 years ago

thanks for the great advise! i also understand those above all true, if we can actually make it..but, sometimes, unfair things happen to us and then we feel kind of down and not confident anymore.. i myself is said beautiful by some people until now..now i am 27 and i think more younger ages are considered more beautiful..and then i lose my confidence with that..what should i do?


Danny Morgan 7 years ago

Very very well written, goes deep into the topic, I checked out the one at articlebase and i realized that it does not explain the topic much other than telling few things about few utils to use in getting beautiful but what I really love about this one is overall look at the topic from many perspectives, your article looks just as indepth as the one at http://www.stumblerz.com/stumblers-on-beauty-how-t...

I think your link should be on top of google search for how to look beautiful..

thank you

Danny.


kim travis 7 years ago

FANTASTIC - Given me a boost of energy, it has changed my perspectives on beauty, and made me look at my beauty within myself, i feel very uplifted.


leila  7 years ago

Great article


rakhi rawat 7 years ago

hi i m looking few duski in summer season so wht can i do who safe my face n body.


jena 7 years ago

i need help any fashion tips


ogunbiyi azizat 6 years ago

been beautiful has been my dream,and i will keep to it ,because i have wish to stay beautiful always.


SARAH 6 years ago

THANK YOU FOR YOUR GREAT ADVICE I AGREE WITH IT BUT IT'S HARD TO STOP LOOKING BEAUTIFUL THAK YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH

[CHEERS]


shukti 6 years ago

thank you for this, reading this has helped me become a better person!!


chriss 6 years ago

Just Be your self!!!!!!!!!!!!:)


akriti 5 years ago

i am agree with all the words in it .so beautiful describe all the things thanx very much...


kool 5 years ago

awsom


Monroe 5 years ago

There is a really good iPhone app called Look Hot that has everything detailed on what sort of facial expressions to make to look the most attractive, what makeup really makes you look gorgeous, and even tips on what sort of attitude to convey. Look Hot iPhone app


tina 5 years ago

i always tell myself that am not beautiful enough to compare myself with others girls but now i understand better that beauty is more in the inside than outside, and the power in what i believe.thanks for giving hope in this aspect


hurpe 4 years ago

beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and true beauty starts from the inside tanks for reminding me this luv uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu


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dressline 4 years ago from China

dress, and style ,plus Makeup

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