Is the Western Worlds quest for perfection getting out of hand

Are we becoming too obsessed with having a perfect exterior-Will Cosmetic Surgery satisfy your need

Over the years we have become used to seeing television personalities and celebrities having cosmetic surgery. Noses were shortened, breasts enlarged, buttocks tightened and in some case faces lifted. Sometimes the results were quite pleasing on the eye whilst other times they were hideous. Of course no-one can hold back time forever and so sooner or later time catches up with everyone. Sure they can have more surgery but this can have dire consequences. Faces are left so tight that expression and movement become impossible and breasts so young and taut that they look ludicrous on an older body.

The 21st Century has seen an increase in the cosmetic surgery and procedures available. It has also seen more ordinary folk wanting to undergo such attempts at either holding back time or improving what God gave them. This has left people saving their hard earned cash for an eyebrow lift or liposuction instead of a weekend break.

However it is debatable whether or not such surgery will satisfy a person's need or leave them wanting more.

The Good, the Bad and the Ugly of Cosmetic Surgery

Is Cosmetic Surgery for you?

Now do not get me wrong. In certain cases cosmetic surgery is appropriate and achieves what the person wants. The trouble is that many never know when to stop. Consider celebrities such as Cher or the late Michael Jackson. Both were so very beautiful in their day but, even before age kicked in, they seemed to want to change their appearances. Many of us would have given our right arms, to have had what they were born with. However it was not enough for them.

Before you go down the road of Cosmetic Surgery consider:-

  • Just what you are hoping to achieve.
  • Can you afford it. Remember the cost may grow.
  • Will these changes satisfy your need or solve your problem. Probably not.
  • Have you researched the cosmetic surgery provider fully.
  • Is it really necessary.

I think the penultimate point is very important. There are all too many witch doctors around these days who will be all to eager to take your money. You are trusting the surgeon with your appearance and your life. Do not do so lightly.

Surgery can be traumatic, even when it is essential for your health and well being. To undergo such surgery, for what may only be vanity, may not be easy for you. You will still experience the same pain and risk of the procedure not working properly, as you would with something such as appendectomy.

If you decide that this surgery is for you make sure also that you are prepared physically and mentally for it. Ensure that you consult your loved ones and keep them informed. Keeping your cosmetic surgery a secret could be a shock for a partner who is not prepared to see the changes in you.

Follow all the instructions for the pre op period as well as post op to ensure that you stay infection free and well.

THINK CAREFULLY BEFORE YOU TAKE THE PLUNGE

Many people end up becoming hooked on cosmetic surgery. That next little tweak to your face and nip to your neck could end up an ongoing process that you cannot stop. This is why you must give the matter a great deal of thought before you make your final decision. If you are not careful you could end up on a treadmill of cosmetic surgery that costs you a fortune, makes you unhappy and in reality spoils your natural looks.

The Western society is becoming more and more obsessed with a person's appearance. What people forget is that you earn those little wrinkles around your face. Sure you can halt their progress but growing older is part of life. If you decide that surgery is for you, go for it. However do not let small minded people or peer pressure push you into changing your appearance unless you are sure that it is for you. It would be better to enhance what you have and learn to be happy in your skin. If you can do this successfully your personality and inner self will shine through making you much more attractive than a stiff surgical cosmetic grin could ever do.

Don't get caught up in the whirl of cosmetic surgery just because it is the fashion these days. In your heart of hearts you know whether it is right for you or not.

Well what about it?

Would you consider having cosmetic surgery?

  • Definitely
  • Never
  • Maybe
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Comments 27 comments

donjon245 2 years ago

I think Celine Dion was even more beautiful before having Plastic surgery.


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ethel smith 6 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull Author

Thanks for the visit greenerme. I will stick with growing old and wrinkly.Too each his own I guess but the quest for perfection is rather worrying


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thegreenerme 6 years ago

I went into this page thinking of all of the botched plastic surgeries, but seeing a couple of the before and after photos, like Celine Dion, I might have to have to alter my answer! I personally would never have plastic surgery, but if you're in the public spotlight I can see why the intense scrutiny might lead people to alter their looks. On the other hand, it's leaked out into mainstream America and some small cosmetic surgeries are getting more common. Hopefully this is a trend that will someday go away instead of flourishing and growing.


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kiwi91 6 years ago from USA

If Michael or Latoya Jackson are today's vision of perfection, then count me out! I personally don't know anyone that has had cosmetic facial surgery just because they wanted to change something. Whatever happened to aging gracefully?


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ethel smith 6 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull Author

I'm with you Bryguy


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bryguy1 6 years ago

Ethel, I would never consider plastic surgery or modification for any reason other then something like a bad accident which might have left me scarred or damaged physically. I believe that we should all find true happiness with ourselves. God made each of us unique. We need to learn to accept ourselves and be happy with ourselves. We will never believe that someone might be happy with us if we cannot be happy with ourselves leading to a life of depression. Be happy with who you are. You are unlike anyone else in the world. Find inner peace with who you are. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and is only skin deep.


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ethel smith 7 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull Author

Well said James and yes I agree about Celine


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James A Watkins 7 years ago from Chicago

The only one who looked better in the after photos was Celine Dion—mostly the teeth. I will never have cosmetic surgery. All under the Sun is Vanity—King Solomon.

Thanks for the article. You are quite sensible.


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ethel smith 7 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull Author

That will never be you Ripplemaker


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ripplemaker 7 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

Once upon a sunny day, I made a decision to grow old gracefully and to be accepting of the wrinkles, the grey hairs and the sagging parts of me. LOL :) Thumbs up for this hub.


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ethel smith 7 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull Author

Redelf we must be twins. I always thought I was fat etc and now looking at old photos think I was not bad at all.

Rnmsn, yes well I have had some teeth capped and crowned but it was that or have them pulled out.

Catherine, If tooth whitening had been around when my teeth were younger I would have tried it I think :)


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Catherine R 7 years ago from Melbourne, Australia

I am with you Ethel. Let nature take its course. I think a good haircut and a bit of makeup can do wonders. Teeth though - that's a different thing. I would have some teeth whitening done if I had the cash.


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RNMSN 7 years ago from Tucson, Az

ha I voted never and I voted before readng you guys' comments :) but now I have to rethink my answer...my top teeth were all falling out and cracked and yellow and I had the insurance so I had them capped this year and I love my smile again/would love to get all my teeth capped/is that cosmetic surgery? insurance paid for it because my natural teeth were in such terrible condition....but other than my teeth/still a never vote :)


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RedElf 7 years ago from Canada

I would consider reconstructive surgery should that necessity arise from an accident or some such. I am now reasonably happy with what and who I am.

What truly amazes me is seeing photos of me as a teen and a young woman. Looking at them I see an attractive, fresh-faced girl - I had a distorted self image and such terribly low self esteem that I couldn't see the pretty girl for the bad feelings, LOL.


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ethel smith 7 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull Author

Yes Kunika those that struggle living on a meagre income have more important things to worry about.


kunika 7 years ago

you are so true that western countries are obsessed abt their physical appearance coz people get easily earn their livelihood and all the luxuries of their life after getting things easily what they want than they move towards something new look different from others that's what tend towards all those things while if u see underdeveloped countries there people are busy in earning their livelihood all these things for them are for celebreties only or for them who are born with a silver spoon.


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ethel smith 7 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull Author

Thanks for all the great comments guys.

Yes no-one voted never-not even me lol. However with all of these things it depends on so much. IF you have surgery and are not happy with the results you may be faced with hefty bills and endless surgery.


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emievil 7 years ago from Philippines

Great hub. It's not only the Western world. Even in my country, a lot of people are getting cosmetic surgeries and the like. I think being satisfied or dissatisfied in one's appearance is a personal preference that knows to boundaries, countries or race. =)


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soni2006 7 years ago from New Delhi, India

Hey this is really great. Nice, comprehensive, and informative.


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Envoy 7 years ago from USA

awe great hub!

No one voted never lol :O


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Ralph Deeds 7 years ago

Good hub! Cosmetic surgery can easily be overdone. Some people look quite unnatural after cosmetic surgery. Correcting deformities is one thing, trying to improve on mother nature another.


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MikeNV 7 years ago from Henderson, NV

Could care less about what other people do cosmetically. Doesn't have any effect on the way I feel about people.


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Anath 7 years ago

Would I consider having cosmetic surgery? My answer is yes. I would love to say that I want to grow old proud of my "laugh lines", but I think that sooner or later I would consider getting rid of them.


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ethel smith 7 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull Author

Hear Hear Princessa. I quite agree. I do think though that some go into it blindly and regret it in the end.


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Princessa 7 years ago from France

I think it is very important to be satisfied with your apperance. I am not for or against plastic surgery, I think that it really depends on the person and her/his expectations. It can work wonders for some while it can be damaging for others.

The important thing is to keep in mind that Surgery cannot change your life, it might improve your looks (not always) but will not change underlying personalitity issues.


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ethel smith 7 years ago from Kingston-Upon-Hull Author

Good for you lol. I hope it makes you happy. At 57 years of age I have learned to be happy with me.


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loveofnight 7 years ago from Baltimore, Maryland

if it falls and i can get it lifted i will

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