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Every-time I wear my hair down and go into public I am bombarded with lots of questions, comments and second glances because my hair is so long.

It is unusual to have real long hair these days. People are too busy and just don't want to mess with it ; along with all the short hair fads and styles it's just becoming a thing of the past.

As a little girl I had frizzy, short, stunted hair. I was like every other little girl with dreamy visions of myself with hair like Barbie or Rapunzel. I would get a towel or sheet and drape it over my head and act like it was my long hair.

My mother had a time fixing my little mop. To make matters worse, at three years I hid behind a dresser and chopped it in every wrong direction (This happened a few years before my long hair dreams obviously). My poor devastated mother did her best to cut it evenly then finally put in a tight curly perm.

Mom would trim the ends and my bangs until the age of five, then begin my journey to growing long hair. She actually prayed over my hair that it would grow so she could do something with it and because I wanted it long so bad.

Her prayers were answered at first slowly then progressed further. At around twelve years my hair was to the middle of my back. Of course I begin the fluffing and curling allot.

In my teens it had reached my waist, I begin taking hair vitamins. I still did allot hot curler styling, hair spraying ect. Those were the finding boyfriends days when frills were the thing.

At age sixteen ( almost seventeen) I graduated early from high school and married a few weeks later. My hair was now at the top of my hips.

By this time I had realized the importance of ditching the cheap shampoos and conditioners and using the more intensive moisturizing name brands. I also would do hot oil treatments and time soaking in conditioner. "Using hot curlers less contributed to more growth as well."

Before long I was expecting my first baby and begin taking prenatal vitamins. By the time she was born my hair had grew six more inches (to my upper thighs).

Then came baby number two ( three and a half years later). My hair grew three or four more inches.

In a ten year span I've had four children, my last one was born October 13, 2008. My hair is now around 5ft or a little over. I am 5ft 7in in height.

I am not sure it is the having babies or the way that I take care of it, but I have enjoyed my little girl dream of long hair.

It is a little difficult with kids sometimes so I just put it up in curls or some other updo style. Sometimes I just take half of it and twist it halfway up in a clip where it still looks long, but stays out of my way. I still wear it down allot with various styles or just hanging loose straight with nothing in it ( my husbands favorite way). I usually tie it up or braid it when I sleep.

I wash my hair in the shower with a big handful of shampoo and conditioner. It takes around two hours to dry natural, that is how I usually dry it.

Sometimes I still even frill up and curl it all (that takes a while). I use Conair hot sticks and TRESemme hairspray extra hold as well as shampoo and conditioner in that brand. Though it is very important to change around on at least your conditioner or your hair becomes immune and your hair don't respond as well. I also like Pantene, aussies three minute miracle, St. Ives Intensive mint treatment and for a beautiful glossy shine I use LOREAL Paris VIVE PRO moisturising conditioner. " All these can be found at Wal-Mart or drugstore."

I am 27 now, very busy mommy of four and never plan to cut my hair. I get a kick out of kids I see that say, " Mommy, look at that lady with big hair!" or " Mommy, she looks like Wepunzel!" Lots of women say, " I could never mess with that long of hair!" To be honest I poured over myself more style frustrations when my hair was short and medium long than I do now, plus I save money on haircuts, coloring, perms ect. It's really not as bad as you think!

My hair was to my hips on my wedding day, two years later past my knees.

My over 5ft of hair curled.

Sometimes Kids Can Pull Your Hair Out!!!!!!!

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William F. Torpey 8 years ago from South Valley Stream, N.Y.

Amazing, singingmommy! I've never known anyone with hair anywhere near that long! They tell me that long, uncut hair is worth a lot of money (I guess they could make quit a few wigs out of it.) Interesting hub.

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blessedmommy 8 years ago from Oklahoma City Metro, Oklahoma

I LOVE IT!!! Everything about this hub is pefect, Sis. Great job and I love the pics! You're such a beautiful lady in every way.

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singingmommy 8 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thanks William! Yes, you could make a few wigs out of it:.) Your comments were appreciated.

Blessedmommy your hair is at least to your knees and like satin.......very very beautiful, you need to share pics too. Thanks for you comments sis......way too partial.

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Reynolds_Writing 8 years ago from Atlanta, Georgia

Interesting hub and great illustrative pictures.

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andrewpeterson 8 years ago from Watford

Amazing, but is it real hair or just a wig

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eaglegordon 8 years ago

I've always prefered the long hair girls.

Where I go to church non of the ladies there cut their hair. Some have hair about as long as yours.

To me it makes a woman look more attractive (not seductive) and lady like with long hair.

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Roger Renwick 8 years ago from Florence, Alabama

hi singingmommy, that is a great hub, and a beautiful head of hair, in the bible it says a womans crown of glory is her hair, and that is the truth. there is nothing like a beautiful woman with long flowing hair, the sun light adding a glow to it as she walks with her soul in plain sight for everyone to see.

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singingmommy 8 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Roger, thanks for the beautiful comment, I believe and live by that scripture.

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ripplemaker 8 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

Reading your hub, I was transported back to fairy tale days and I immediately envisioned Rapunzel. (I guess that is most people's reaction) LOL Wow, taking care of such a long hair must be an extensive job.  But you look good with it singing mommy. :-) I enjoyed your hub.

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singingmommy 8 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thank you ripplemaker, you are the sweetest as usual!!!!!

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G-Ma Johnson 8 years ago from NW in the land of the Free

Yes is very you get headaches must weigh a bunch?  my daughter has long hair also...but not that long...and she has it cut every once in a while (it grows back quickly) and they make wigs for women with breast cancer...It has to be at least 18 inches after they cut it, I think. MY MY you have 4 children?  busy young mom I see...but I also grew up with mine and that is why I became a grandma early in life...yet it still goes by way too fast...Nicely done sweetie...G-Ma :o) hugs & Peace

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singingmommy 8 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thank's G-ma. Actually the only headaches I get are due to high blood-pressure problems, not many of them with meds. The Womens World did a research and said that headaches and long hair are not connected, that your neck muscles adjust to the weight naturally, not sure. That's neat about your daughter.

Yes, I have four kids two boys and two girls ages 9, 6, 4, and 3months. I love every minute of it. I would have allot more if I didn't have to have C-sections, had a big house and lots of money:.)

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countrywomen 8 years ago from Washington, USA

That last picture was great. I still remember rapunzel fairy tale (Btw did someone say this to you "Rapunzel, Rapunzel, let down your hair"). I wish I had such a beautiful long hair. Does your Mom also have long hair? You look great with such lovely tresses.

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singingmommy 8 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thanks Countrywoman! The Rupunzel comment cute cute. My mother has shoulder length hair, she loves long hair though, she would faint if I cut it.My sister actually has hair a little above her knees.

 You are very beautiful and it looks like you have beautiful hair too.

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countrywomen 8 years ago from Washington, USA

I just asked that question since long hair is also said to be a genetic trait. Nice to know that long hair runs in your family and never cut such beautiful long hair. Btw to answer your question I would request you to read this(I apologize for soliciting your visit):

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EYEAM4ANARCHY 8 years ago from Las Vegas, NV.

Very cool.

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LondonGirl 8 years ago from London

I like long hair - yours looks lovely!

Mine isn't nearly as long - it's waist-length. Because I have very fine, slippery, fair hair, this is the longest that looks good without splits, etc.

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SweetiePie 8 years ago from Southern California, USA

I had very long hair up until the age of twenty where I could almost sit on it. I trimmed it a few times, but unfortunately I was talked into cutting it. For a few years I always had short hairstyles, but finally I grew it to about the middle of my back. Right now I am growing it out again and whereas it may not be as long as it was in the past, I always find it odd when people tell other people how to grow their hair. For instance, people used to tell me I looked better once I cut my hair, but I just do not agree with that. To me it is more important to be true to what I like than to conform to what others expect of me.

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mandybeau 8 years ago

Mine grows like a weed, it is very strong and naturally more straight than curly,I suppose its like Asian hair, although I am not Asian, so I guess it must be Spanish. pparently hair and DNA origin are factors.

I hate straight hair bigtime so I curl it. I have always had it long as I can't be bothered with having to go to the hairdressers every 5 minutes, for a trim.

But one thing I detest is the paddle flat look people are having at the moment it looks soo fake.

And the styles always look o.k. on someone else, but don't ever suit me.

I have had it so I can sit on it, I have shaved it off one long hot summer. ( Bad mistake ) My head wasn't the same shape as the person I was eminating.

Didn't matter back to long 1 1/2 years later.

But a lot of our native people have this frizzy hair, and it takes forever to grow.

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singingmommy 8 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Wow! Thanks for all the very interesting comments with your own experinces ect.

Keep them coming! I enjoy reading them! Everyone has their hair story:.)

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Christa Dovel 8 years ago from The Rocky Mountains, North America

I use to want long hair, like yours. I was named after Crystal Gayle, so she was my inspiration. However, in my teens the headaches from my waist length hair became unbearable. I finally caved in and cut it. It has been almost waist length again, with the same results. I love it long and healthy, healthy being they key to keeping it manageable.

I plan to grow it to my hip bones and keep it there, as my husband loves it long.

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Uriel 8 years ago from Lebanon

great hub.... when i was a kid, i'd always had my hair cut so short that i'd fit in with the boys....but after grade 6, and realizing that i had nice hair, mom convinced me to grow it... Just as an inspiration, mom would rub my hair with warm coconut milk and give me a massage every two weeks or so.... i mean this really helps. It keeps the hair's luster and makes it shine... it is not true that if u have long hair then u have split ends.. the key is to know what your hair needs and to give it to it. Nice hair... my dream (recently) is to grow my hair like Herman Li the lead guitarist in dragonforce ...

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Jishan Ali 8 years ago

seeing ur long hair a small will peeping in my mind to write a poem. i am not any poet but if our greatest poet Rabi Thakur saw ur dark cloudy long hair he must write a poem about ur mind blowing hair. so take care about it

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dealornodealwitit 8 years ago

Beautiful, artistic pictures of a lovely mom, baby, life!

mahesh.m 8 years ago

I love ramya

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stephhicks68 8 years ago from Bend, Oregon

You are lucky to have such thick gorgeous hair. I would grow mine out, but it just gets stringy. Shorter bobs are for me. :)

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Uriel 8 years ago from Lebanon

btw i had to come back and tell u how much i loved the picture with ur baby sleeping on ur hair :D really nice!

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FranMarie 8 years ago

Love all the advice ,, thanks,,, Iam also on my way to long growth

dark&lovely 8 years ago

My hair was once about an inch away from my back.I loved it!But due to heat

damage my hair is now sholder length,it's growing well though.Do most of

the men you meet think that long hair is attractive?Has your hair growth

ever been set back?

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dr boy 8 years ago

oh my God.u have a blessingi.e long happy 4 u.lets see wether ur child has long or short hairs:)

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compu-smart 8 years ago from London UK

Wow! Very impressive!! I think the world record is something like 18 ft!


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sheenarobins 8 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

Hello Singingmommy,

I love your hair and the hub. It's interesting. When I was a child I used to pray a lot too for a long hair. Sometimes, I dreamed that my hair was cut ridiculously short and I am awaken by my sobs because I looked so ugly with the short hair. I've tried the long and the short but I often find myself uncomfortable with the hair in my avatar. L.O.L

I cannot grow it as long as yours because I hardly reached five feet tall and I would look smaller. But it fits you beautifully.

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singingmommy 8 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Wow! Thanks for all the nice comments. I enjoy reading about your hair experiences too.

dark&lovely, I do get lots of compliments from men for my long hair, many have said they wished their wives would grow their hair long. I have had some hair damage, but nothing that hair treatments didn't cure, I never had to cut it.

compu-smart    I very much doubt I'll ever see 18ft....whooooo

I do wear my hair in many styles up and down, curly or straight. This plain style just shows the length better.

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Gillsie 8 years ago from Oregon

I had long hair for many years. Mine would only grow to just past my hips. What I remember most was shutting it in the car window, sitting on it and giving myself whip-lash and burning up two vacuum cleaner motors because just a few hairs would tangle the whole brush mechanism!! One of my best friends has hair as long as yours and she once drove 50 miles with her hair stuck in the car door. A truck driver flagged her down finally! I still miss it : )

Thanks for the memories.

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christy.vthomas 8 years ago

verry nice

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singingmommy 8 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Gillsie....thanks for your sweet comment and cute story

Thanks christy and ashlee ........

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Lissie 8 years ago from New Zealand

I had long hair as a kid gt it cut short in high school and a couple of years ago it was shorter than my man's short back and sides. He'd always wanted me to grow it and we were going on a camping trip for a few months so I thought why not.In my mid 40s I figured it was last chance - long hair on old women really doesn't look good

It was a nightmare growing it out - took a year just to get to a bob because it had to cut to take that layers out. Its now shoulder length and still a nightmare - it is hot in the summer and Im not sure how much longer Id keep it - he of course loves - it but I like long hair too and he's not prepared to grow his!

I notice it costs a fortune too in hair colouring - need 2 boxes now -and conditioner, which I didn't need before and also shampoo. I find it incredibly hearvy too - I guess mine is thicker than normal and I thinkif I let go much longer it would start hurting my neck!

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shafiq-bin-alamee 8 years ago from saudi arab jeddah

"When we have loved "

"Why should we fear? :

We have "loved theft"

"We have only loved"

"We have loved ..not commiltted a theft

Why should we be afraid? ""

When we have loved""

Why should we fear?"

I,ll reveal today the secrets "

"That lie in my heart ..:

"death is what the world witnesses .."

What good is dying a death of sufferance like this ? ""

" When we have loved "

"Why should we fear?

"in desire of him .. "

"I shall burn "

" For love, I shall live "

"For love, I shall die "

"Nothing more is my will "

"When we have loved "

"Why should we fear? :

"Now that I im in love ,

Why must I fear ?

" Our love will not remain hidden "

"Every Where around us are tales of our love"

There is nothing that separates us form God "

Why should we creat barriers between humans ?

When we have loved

Why should we fear? :

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zmar 8 years ago from USA

very pretty!!

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singingmommy 8 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thank you zmar!

Shiva 7 years ago

hey hi ,

u r hair is prety good how u take care hairs every day maybe its hard .....a

anyways u r good

thank u

paul 7 years ago

Hi, what a nice hub,I think that picture onsite can talk much than word"picture express thousand word" is it right?Have nice day

scott 7 years ago

Hi, so how long do you want your hair to get?

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singingmommy 7 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Scott, I would like my hair to reach my ankles, don't really want it longer than that I guess.

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jennie brown 7 years ago from nc

Singingmommy you are a beauty and im a great grandma and i now have longer hair as its easier for me as now i just wear braids. people stare at you and probally think im too old but oh well its my choice, but you are just beautiful so keep om growing it as that's what the lord want. God bless you and your family.

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beenanair 7 years ago

realy beautifull ,,,,,,,,,, more long hair women ,,,,,,,,,thankssssss

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WordWielder 7 years ago from Austin

SingingMommy, I am a songwriter/poet as well! It's always good to meet another. I take it you are an Apostolic? Beautiful hair as can be expected from a "blessed" individual. Feel free to check out my hubs- I've got some articles and a few poems there but haven't posted any songs yet. Feel free to join my fan club as well. I'll be sure to check out your songs as well! Take care!

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Sleepawaycampr 7 years ago from California

I was recently struggling with the thought of cutting my hair. It is down to my waist now. My biggest problem is dealing with tangles and knots. How do you keep your hair from turning into a giant hairball??? I'd really like to know so I can try a new technique.

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Angela Heess 7 years ago from Gold Coast, AUSTRALIA

Beautiful! The longest I had my hair was down the middle of my back, though I have shaved my head twice and I am not quite 25.

I am trying to grow my hair now... it is only just past my ears! Since I am pregnant with number three, it is seeming to grow a little faster. I think my partner would prefer I had long hair too... most of my family and friends at church have longer hair, but say I look okay with short. I can't wait to get some length. Just dealing with bleaching and dryness, split ends etc.

Will keep an eye out for more from you... :-)

Be blessed

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Angela Heess 7 years ago from Gold Coast, AUSTRALIA

anonymous 7 years ago

love the hair, keep it at that length, it makes a woman feel like a goddess with long hair

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skyhaw77 7 years ago

very beautiful hair. in cm how long is it now. please don't cut it

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singingmommy 7 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thanks so much for the nice comments! I will try to write more hubs on long hair to answer some of your questons:.)

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ratcliffe07 7 years ago

a woman's hair is her crowning glory and her femininity...its beautiful. I remember the first time i saw long hair. I was a ballerina and this girl who was 18 took her hair down from a bun and it reached below her calves. It was so long and straight and beautiful red. I knew i wanted my hair that long one day.

Your hair is beautiful!

Jane Hampton 7 years ago

Just read your story. Truly inspirational!

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Cam Anju 7 years ago from Stoughton, Wisconsin

That's amazing!

I always wanted long hair like that but my hair doesn't look good after it's longer then shoulder length.. I usually wear it shorter. I really enjoyed reading you hub... very cool that you can do that!

Amir  7 years ago

How are you

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sweetgirlbabe59 7 years ago

hi i wonder how grow long hair.. my hair haven't been growing since 4 years my hair are same so i need help how can let my hair grow long as fast? i bought cocount oil shampoo but not work .. email me

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Cailin Gallagher 7 years ago from New England

You remind me of Crystal Gayle. Remember her? Obviously, you have taken great care of your hair over the years. Just beautiful hair!

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fortunerep 7 years ago from North Carolina

I just cut all of mine off into a short style that I could manage everyday!! Wow, you are awesom to be able to even find time to brush it with 4 children. It is beautiful!


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singingmommy 7 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thanks for all the great comments! For those of you with questions about keeping your hair long and healthy I wrote a new hub

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Woody Marx 7 years ago from Ontario, Canada

My girlfriend has long hair (not so long as yours) and it is just enchanting to see. I love gals who have the courage to let it grow that way because men really do love it, but get to see it very rarely.

Great Hub!

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idiot1112000 7 years ago

owwwwwwww...................can't beleivable..............really extra ordinary.................i'll more thankfull 2 u if u add more photos of ur different hairstyles with this long u?

rikki 7 years ago

Wow! You will never cut? I hope!

shay 7 years ago

hi singingmommy. First of all, LOVE THE HAIR! its so long n beautiful, im sure u must be used to people saying so but WOW! how do you take care of your hair, likle what is your routine?How often do you shampoo&condition. and what products do you use? im trying to grow my hair and i pray to the good Lord that it will. right now my hair is at my shoulders but all my sisters have long hair and it really does something to your self confidence to have all your family members have lllooong hair.i don't know if my hair is taking a while to "kick in", but i do know i want to do as much as i can to enhance/stimulate the growth.BTW beautiful baby (:

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Samrat Mazumdar 7 years ago

Very Beautiful

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ChRiiStiOn 7 years ago from Cape Cod Mass

your absolutely stunning, and your hair is incredible. (=

YASZZZYDGIKL\ 7 years ago


that long hair so doesn't suit me BUT it suits you and you have lovely hair Wow


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singingmommy 7 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thanks everyone for all the very nice comments:.)

Yas my hair does not fall out no more than normal, good thing huh:.)

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DeBorrah K. Ogans 7 years ago

Your hair is beautiful. It is a gift from the Lord! It is evident that the same care you take for your hair you take even more time to care for your family. Blessings

alicia 7 years ago

Hi! I used to have really long hair when I was a kid. I have been trying to grow my hair out since 2004. It is now about hip length. It is a lot thinner now than what it used to be. So what kind of leave ins do you use? What about detangler? You say it is important to switch conditioners - do you mean every time you wash your hair or you use a bottle and then buy a different kind the next time? any vitamin recommendations? thanks for any info! your hair is beautiful.

jacky 7 years ago

Beautiful, artistic pictures of a lovely mom, baby, life!

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singingmommy 7 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thank you so much for the kind words:.)

dee r 7 years ago

i love your hair...i had long hair past my butt, but because i'm navajo and very traditional, i cut it to my shoulders when my grandpa passed away in may 09...people kept telling me, your going to miss it, don't do it..and their right..i do miss but its by my elbows now..wont take long now to get it back..

dee r 7 years ago

i love your hair...i had long hair past my butt, but because i'm navajo and very traditional, i cut it to my shoulders when my grandpa passed away in may 09...people kept telling me, your going to miss it, don't do it..and their right..i do miss but its by my elbows now..wont take long now to get it back..

Lulu 7 years ago

I really wish I had read this before haha, I started growing my hair around April, I have a bet with my mom to keep me from doing anything to it. I have a hard time leaving it go and not cutting it, anyway it's now at the middle of my back I started with it at my jaw line trying to let it get to my butt. I did a home perm right before I started growing it out and it's such a pain trying to undo the damage now I'm trying a home made natural relaxing and moistening treatment I really hope it works. You're advice helped a lot! I'm so excited to see the end result, Thanks a bunch!

MomOfAnAngel 7 years ago

Wow! Super long hair! I too always wanted the Barbie hair...I had it up until I was 10 years old...then, my mom chopped it off along with my sisters' into a "bowl" cut :( I got made fun of for looking like a was devastating to a little girl! I am now 35, just had my 1st child (beautiful little girl) and am now growing back my Barbie far it is just past my shoulders...would like it 1/2 way down my back. It is so true what you said - sometimes it is easier having long hair than shorter hair, you can always just throw it up in a ponytail, twist, etc...rather than having to style it, I don't have to wash mine everyday because it is a little on the dry side. Can't wait for it to grow longer! I'm also going to let my daughter's hair grow and NOT cut it like my mom cut mine! lol Cheers!

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singingmommy 7 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Wow!!! I love reading your stories they are so inspiring!

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Jisblessed 7 years ago

That is such a blessing! A woman's hair was given her for her covering and glory. I believe it's a blessing from God and may your life be longer than your every strain of your hair. God blessed you!

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singingmommy 7 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Jisblessed! Thanks so much for the sweet comment, God bless!

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singingmommy 7 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Jisblessed! Thanks so much for the sweet comment, God bless!

Duane Mays 7 years ago

I think your hair is beautiful. NEVER EVER let a pair of scissors touch your hair.

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singingmommy 7 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thanks! I won't:.)

Ron 6 years ago

Congrats on your four children, and your beautiful hair. Matchless beauty!

Michelle 6 years ago

wow! your hair is lovely! im hoping to grow my hair about 6 inches longer, my hair grows about 2 inches in less than a month so hopefully it wont take very long :)

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singingmommy 6 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Wow! That's some fast growing Michelle:.)

Veronica 6 years ago

Great site, thank you for the information and it's great fun reading everyone's stories in the comments too. :)

The longest I've ever had my hair is waist length after which the ends tend to dry very badly. I've had it cut short so many times and it just grows rather quick.

Unfortunately, my hair is very curly, the corkscrew curls kind of curly, and even though i want it to appear long again, it never seems to! It's almost waist length now only when it's wet, but when dry it curls right up to just below my shoulders, so frustrating!

I'd love thick flowing straight hair, but then, i've heard a lot of people want the opposite of their own hair type. ;P

jim 6 years ago

very nice

frank hajzus 6 years ago

HELLO! get a short haircut in a barber shop. a huge pile of fresh cut off hair on the floor!

Aa 6 years ago

When I was growing up my parents would never let my hair be cut, since I was a princess. To this day, it still remains uncut and is now 10 feet long. I just love my hair and will always let it grow.

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singingmommy 6 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Aa WOW that is amazing. I would love to hear more about your 10ft of hair. I never even heard of hair that long except the guiness book.

kayley 6 years ago

wow your hair is soo long and butiful i wish i could get my hair to grow long too. its a my chin right now and iam goin too try to get it to my lower back

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Research Analyst 6 years ago

love the picture with your happy baby playing in your hair, so cute.

Johan Schmidt 6 years ago

You look like Rapunzel and your hair is quite sexy. I hope your hubby loves your hair and does he like to brush your fabulous hair.

letosha 6 years ago

NEED HELP i need to grow my hair long in 2 months about 8 inches if you know anything please tell me my hairs about half an inch long!!!!!!

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singingmommy 6 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Don't know if I can help you in 2 months, that's very quick. However, massage your scalp, soak in conditioners, take the best vitamins offered at healthfood stores, eat healthy and don't heat, dye, perm or use much gels and sprays for a while, this will boost fast growth. You might take prenatal vitamins as well. The fastest my hair has ever grown was 6 inches in 9 months.

Madilyn 6 years ago

My hair is not long or beautiful like yours but I'm trying to grow it out. Mine frizzes a lot but now I realize that if I let it grow naturally than it forms tiny little curls. What do you suppose I should do with it while waiting for it to grow? How should I help it grow? Your story is really quite inspiring. Lol love your pics. PS cute baby!!! ;D

Amanda 6 years ago

love it love it !!!!!!!!! my hair wont grow at all my bangs haven't grown in 7 years idk y lol including the rest of my hair

sree 6 years ago

wow.. ur hair is very beautiful.. how many times a week you wash your hair..??? can you post your shampoo pictures???

C.E. 6 years ago

Oh... I'm really jealous!

I am 15, my hair REFUSES to grow long! It's hardly past my shoulders and it's curly (of fucking course)! My heritage is European/African... I want it so badly. I brush my hair with normal and bristle brush, I massage it well in the shower and rinse it out with cold water.

But it's growing painfully slowly and some people may think it's silly but I've wanted it since I was really, really young. I'm not being ridiculous, it my secret pain...

emily  6 years ago

your hair is so unhealthy. get a freakin' trim, woman. stringy-hair central?

marseille_bill 6 years ago

Singingmommy - Beautiful story; your husband must be very proud of you in the way that you put your femininity before 'convenience'. How do you deal with the 'Locks of Love' people & other people who make negative, unkind comments about your beautiful hair?

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singingmommy 6 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Thanks for all the kind responses.

To EMILY: my hair is not unhealthy,it is not stringy,dry and I don't have split ends. These pics don't really show what my hair is like, it is soft, conditioned and shiny and all 5ft. of it is alive so your nasty comment out of 100's of kind people is sure not going to make me cut it.

It's kinda strange how theres people with fried looking hair from all the treatments they have, but because it's short nothing said, but even well-cared for long hair is automatically called nasty or dead.

Sorry I haven't had a chance to reply to everyone individually.

My husband does love my hair marseille, he would cry if I even thought of cutting it.

Yes, the Locks of Love I know are trying to do a really nice thing, but I have had some people actually get on to me for allowing my hair to grow this long without donating it acting like I was selfish.

I just do my best to keep a good attitude to all the negative. I am not intimidated though some people can be very cruel. The only people I've ever heard rude things directed to me about my hair was all women and they all were very bitter in attitude.

holyroller 6 years ago

BEAUTIFUL!!!! my hairs bout down to the middle of my butt, and when i straighten it ppl at school are asking me if ill cut it, but my response is no. were church of god, and i believe it a womans glory...i just wish my hair was longer!!! LOL:)

lfa 6 years ago

that hair is very beautiful. wish my future wife hair as long as that.lovely

mkl 6 years ago

ur hair is so beautiful and long. want brush ur hair.ur husband is lucky

bubbles 6 years ago

ur hair is so beautiful i wish my hair wouild grow but every time it does it is perty much dead ends well i am twelve for right now an my hair is halfway down my back almost it isn't short but i do straighten it a lot becuz i hate my natural becuz it is all spiral ans frizz but i love to straighten my hair and then scrunch it noe that is when my hair is really perty

bubbles 6 years ago

ur hair is so beautiful i wish my hair wouild grow but every time it does it is perty much dead ends well i am twelve for right now an my hair is halfway down my back almost it isn't short but i do straighten it a lot becuz i hate my natural becuz it is all spiral ans frizz but i love to straighten my hair and then scrunch it noe that is when my hair is really perty

smittenkitten 6 years ago

I've almost always had long hair, it was waist length until I was about 9 when my mother let me choose my hair cut. Guess what silly me did? UGH! But, it grew back out and I kept it a bit over shoulder length for many years. Then, when I was 20, a friend took me to a very high class salon, and the stylist talked me into cutting it quite short, with longer hair in the front, getting shorter towards the know the look I'm sure. He was crazy. My face is really round. It looked awful. Finally, on New Year's eve 2000/2001, I got it trimmed and never looked back. But, this August 2010, it was half way down my thighs, and while I loved it, I've had multiple sclerosis since 2004 and just couldn't take care of it anymore, so I cut it up to about my lower back, so it's still long, but is about 2 feet shorter. I hope whoever gets that hair in their wig loves it as much as I did!

blueberrygirl 6 years ago

my hair is half way down my back and I'm only 15. my mom has short fine hair and I've never cut my hair before I'm waiting for my Rapunzel dream I'm just looking for the right tips. hoping i got a chance with my traits!

christine13 6 years ago

ang galing namn nyan

BE 6 years ago

helloo!! OMG i luv ur hair, they are soooo pretyy.. im 20 yrs old n i have shoulder length curly to frizzy hair n i reallllyyy want to grow my hair long.. cud u plz share sum tips with me tht cud help me grow my hair long

anonomous 6 years ago

woah...imma trying to grow my hair to my hips cos im a really impatient person and if i was able to sit on my hair id get impatient with it and cut it all off, but i kno i would love hip-legnth hair. my hair was midway down my chest in august 2010 but then my mom took me to my neighbour to get it cut cos she was a training hairdresser. then my neighbour cut it lopsided so i had to have it cut even shorter to level it out. now its only just past my shoulders and i hate it. im 13 now. how long do u think it'll take to grow my hair to my hip bone?

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singingmommy 6 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

Hey you all can check out this hub and see if it helps. I plan on writing more soon with newer pics:)

Norm 5 years ago

Your husband is a very lucky man. I must congratulate you on growing such wonderful hair. You really are very feminine. I will try to get my wife to follow your tips for healthy hair , but I fear her locks have reached their terminal length at her waist. Good luck with all your future ventures.

Long Hair Girl 5 years ago

I have virgin hair, never been cut. As a result it has been very long most of my life. It is perfectly straight and 12 feet long. I enjoy creating new styles of loops and braids. On special occasions, I let it all down and loose to show off. I will never cut it. Long hair is the ultimate female statement of fashion and sexuality. I also like having 2-3" nails and wearing mini dresses with 8" platform shoes.

Jessica 5 years ago

Do U recommend any products to help my hair grow fast and past my feet?????????????????? guess i've been watching to much Tangled. LOL! Where did you and your sis get your cute little mommy names, by the way?

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singingmommy 5 years ago from OKLAHOMA Author

I guess anything about us has mommy tagged to it:)

I don't think there is actually one magic formula to grow real long hair, but how you care for it and of course great products together makes for luscious hair.

Tangle she has us all beat though, she can wrap it around a tree and swing off a canyon in 3 seconds LOL:)

cashew 5 years ago

I just found this site through a link. First of all, your hair is very beautiful. So glad you will not cut it. I just had 6 inches cut and have been upset about it. In 2001, my hair was knee length. I found an old video that I was in with my hair that long. I was so shocked it was me. I will never ever trim any more than 2 inches at a time. And I don't care what anyone thinks if I have long silver-gray hair to my knees when I'm old. If they don't like it they can lump it. When I have time I will read more about your hair care. Thank you for being an ispiration.

Jessica 5 years ago

Singing Mommy, How long is your hair? It is very beautiful!

sai 5 years ago

Hi this is sai from india

u have nice long hair in india people have most like u to keep long but i hve little problem is that i want to help out the cancer only kids but in india its very impossible to donate wigs for them but u have good hair i hve never seen

jay 5 years ago

Hi this is jay from Massachusetts

Your hair is simply magnificent! I wonder if you

alternate your part from side to side. I would love

to see a full picture that captures all of its

glorious length front and back as you continue

journey to the ankles.

Kayla 5 years ago

My hair got cut a lot when i went to the salon to get it trimmed. IDK if it was cause i had a lot of damage or she just didn't know i was trying to grow my hair. its in a weave now, idk if that's good or bad and idk how much my hair has actually grown it been a month but i have been doing whatever i can to make it grow. Idk why my hair hasn't been growing that much, well it as but i guess its falling out. its to my neck after i got it cut but i didn't get to see it that much cause after i got it cut my sister put a weave in it as soon as we got home. before it was on my back kinda but it wasn't very long. also my hair was curled when i got it cut so i don't know the exact legnth. when i was little i let my bunny out then i coudnt find it so i just left it out and went to sleep then it hopped onto the bed and it kept on eating my hair :(. But im 9 now i thinks my bunny chewed my hair when i was7

Kayla 5 years ago

I did NOT mean to post that here but itt okay

jujifina 5 years ago

i have a question my hair has been thick all my life sometimes really long and shortes i had is soulder length/bra strap length but now i have it above my butt..... but recently i believe a jealous person did something 2 my hair so im heart broken and i lost a lot ofhair so now it is not as thick as it was my entire life of living how long you think it would take for my hair 2 get its thickness back from follicles up 2 waist?

mufrah 5 years ago

hey loved ur hairs can u give tips for long hairs i relly need tthem

Skyy 5 years ago

Amazing! I'm taking prenatal vitamins and hoping to grow my hair up to my waist hopefully!!! Great storry!

janie 5 years ago

Are you a pentecostal?

Greta Petrich 5 years ago

As a former hairdresser, I have a wonderfully-cheap solution to tangly hair. It may not work for everyone, but try it on a small section of hair, first, to see. The acidity will close down the cuticle (the outer part of the hair). Making the cuticle close down good and tight makes for shinier hair which also shouldn't tangle. Tangles are generally caused by the cuticle (scales) sticking out and getting hooked onto each other. The acid rinse is helpful because most shampoos are highly alkaline and cause the cuticle to blow straight out. The acidity of the rinse pulls them down tight again to the hair cortex, where they can't catch on each other.

For blondes--use lemon juice, and for darker hair use apple cidar vinegar. Cut either juice with water--use 1/3 cup lemon juice or vinegar to 2/3 cup warm water (distilled or soft water are preferable to hard water out of the tap). Rinse hair with it after rinsing out all traces of shampoo.

There are pitifully few shampoos on the market that are worth buying, because most are highly alkaline. Even expensive shampoos generally are alkaline. That's why it's a very good idea to use an acid rinse as your final rinse--to restore the natural acid balance of your hair. This also goes for your skin, too.

To be assured of having a gentle shampoo--make your from soapwort or soap nuts. Look online for recipies for making these shampoos and the ingredients. It may not be worth the effort, if you are very busy. However, your alternative, is to buy one of the very rare healthy shampoos on the market, and they definitely cost more. My daughter bought a coconut oil shampoo at Whole Foods Market, and it was wonderful. Just be careful that it doesn't contain the harsh extracts of coconuts that most cheap shampoos contain. Do some research to learn more. I don't have time to take for a more detailed answer. Anyway, good luck, and I hope the acid rinses help some of you.

Tanja 5 years ago

I would like my hair to stop falling out for good andmake it grow back thick and strong what can I do please help me thanks

Jackie 5 years ago

Your hair itsbeautiful rapunzel. Im trying to let my hair grow its almost in my waist but I can see my brown roots n da black dye I did six mos ago makes my hair shine burgundy in the sunlightwhat should I do? Help me rapunzel God bless you n your fam.

chloe 5 years ago

my hair when i was 7 years of age was down to my waist but then my dad found a new girlfriend and married her. after a while she cut it all of so my hair is now in a bob i wish i could go back to whan i was seven but i am now 12 years old and what the amazing repuzle hair that is my dream!! xx

Happy hair 5 years ago

Hi singingmommy i love your hair i wish my hair could be like that i would exchange my boring locks for yours anyday

Happy hair 5 years ago

Im growing my hair down to the floor and from the tip of my head my hair is..... 14 INCHES i know short fight any tips ?

Texas 5 years ago

What type of prenatal vitamins did you take? Do u remember

Finland 4 years ago

What a beautiful lady you are, such wonderful hair! I, too, am a mother of four children, but mine are all girls.

All growing their hair long too. (My eldest daughter

is 11 yrs and her hair is past classic.) I´ve never had hair longer than APL, growing it longer now for the first time...

may 4 years ago

iam 13 yars old but my hair is till my hips and its really v smooth thanx...... but dove is really good

Chapin 4 years ago

Your hair looks sooo pretty curly! also, you look beautiful on your wedding day!


ty 4 years ago

vey nice

nette boyd 4 years ago

i rlly want that kind of hair but i no my wish wont come true :(

Palak Vora 4 years ago

I really want my hair to grow till hibs can you suggest me how it is possible plzzzzzzzzzz i do oiling with coconut oil thrice in a week and wash it with Clinic Pluz shampoo......plzzzzzz tell me dear......

Kirra 4 years ago

Is it heavy?? Too long for me but very beautiful.

OMGlonghair 4 years ago

Well i am currently 14 going on 15 i n3 weeks and my hair is to the bottom of my hands. im 5'7 tall and my hair is currently around 3 feet more or less. probably more when straightened. i cant really do much with my hair becausse it is way to thick aand all i can do is braid it or put it um in a bun. :( its frustratiing love ur hair btw :D

OMGlonghair 4 years ago

um i meant to say 5'5 tall not 5'7hehehe :)

igneous333 4 years ago

Absolutely beautiful. I think one problem nowadays is the fact that women have been taught (brainwashed?) in to thinking that their hair is like cosmetic jewelry. They just do all sorts of nasty things to their hair. It's sad to see teenagers coloring the hair at that age and when a woman sees that first gray hair the first thing they do is chop it all off and dye it orange. Yuck. Women don't seem to understand that their hair is just as alluring as any other part of their body. You often hear women say "it's just hair" as if it were something insignificant. Being attracted to long hair is no different than being attracted to big breasts. Men have cherished a woman's (long) hair for centuries and long hair has always been considered by men to be one of the most desired physical attributes. I remember high school and college. Girls with the longest hair always got the most attention. Well, enough of that. Take care of your hair and it's good to see that your significant other enjoys it as well. Good for you!

Isabeau 4 years ago

Wow your hair is so long it's gorgeous I also as a child envisioned having luscious long hair. However my mother would always cut my hair as soon as it got past my hips because it became too much for her to manage. She would put my hair in a plait and I would get comments on my beautiful long plait whereever I went. But as a teen I was not happy with my long hair because I didn't fit in and at that age all you are worried about is; do I look attractive to the opposite sex? Yes haha but now with shoulder length hair I regret cutting it. I wish it was as long as my 'lovely plait' days...

awesomegurl 4 years ago

wow ur hair is beautiful! I am growing mine out! I chopped mine off also when i was about two behind a chair! lol. Then I cut it again! Now it is past my shoulders!

Bon 4 years ago

Igneous333, that wasn't very nice. There are a lot of women who turn their noses up at very long hair - apparently, some woman posted here that singingmommy's hair is "nasty" and "dead." Many women consider women who wear their hair long for religious reasons to be "brainwashed" and "sad."

I choose to wear my hair in a variety of styles and I have had fun coloring it on occasion and experimenting with various lengths, from shoulder blades to pixie cut and back again. I enjoy expressing myself through my personal style.

I respect your choice to wear long hair and think very long hair can look very beautiful. It would be nice if you could respect my choice the same way I respect yours.

Helen B. @ Blue Eyed Beauty Blog 4 years ago

SO pretty! I am working on growing my hair out now. It was at my shoulders last fall and is now past mid back right now! I have not cut it since last fall and in January I became Apostolic Pentecostal have the conviction to not cut my hair ever again so I will let it grow as long as it will grow! Love your photos!


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tasha 3 years ago

i too have such long long hair its to my ankles almost if i never cut it short some yrs ago it probly be so longer then yours i get called repunzel eve lady gadiva etc

mini 3 years ago

hey i m 18 years old , i used to have knee length hair till the age of 5 then i cutted it and after it my hair was always waist length . but from the age of 13-16 i colored my hair,straightened it it got a big damaged so i cutted it . i guess after 7-8 months my hair will grow back till the waist but i want to grow my hair long like yours . i live in a very warm country . and everyday i go out for dust my hair gets dirty so i have to wash it. every week 2-3 days i oil my hair .

well the question is will i have split ends if i don't cut or trim my hair for 5-6 years and what should i do so that i don't get split ends .

nice to know about u i like long hair personally . i wish to grow long hair like yours because my boyfriend like long hair and sometimes i feel he dosent like my hair length . u r so beautiful :) god bless u

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Rayne123 3 years ago

wow beautiful hair. I have long hair (not that long of course, but want it that long now seeing yours) but it is very fine, very fine.

I think stress and what not has hit my hair hard. Sometimes age takes a number on your hair depending on heredity in some cases.

My hair grows very slow, however since I been taking gelatin and biotin, it seems to have some spunk. Coconut oil is also very good for your hair, but here very expensive. Biotin takes forever to work, if you don't stick to it, it defeats the purpose.

Back in the day, ex. the bible days and so, not one woman had short hair, they all had natural long tresses. The reason being is virgin hair, they had no way of blow drying, curling, perming, or colouring that was not natural.

Today a big factor in stunting the growth of hair is the fact of all the damage we do to our hair. When you do see a girl with long long hair today chances are its hair extensions.

Do you plan on letting your daughters hair keep growing until she is old enough to make up her own mind?

Bless you


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Red Drake 2 years ago

Hi, Beautiful blog and wonderful long hair. Please never cut it.

Red x

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