Men In Lingerie: Should I Worry If He Wears Lingerie?
There's a great deal written here about how all around wonderful it is for men to wear lingerie, and for the men who like to wear lingerie, it is indeed a very wonderful thing. For women who are coming across this phenomenon for the first time however, it can be unsettling. After all, no matter how liberal you may be, or how open minded, it can be a shock to see something so out of place as lingerie on a man. This isn't the sort of image that most of us have ever come across before, and so seeing it for the first time is definitely a shock to the system. It is only natural for you to have some concerns and worries regarding the issue, and I hope what is written here will help you through some of them. Feel free to pose questions in the comments section, besides myself there are many men who wear lingerie who post here, and they may be able to help you out as well.
Is he going to be gay/feminine/unmanly/weird?
No, no, no, and no. Well, at least he isn't anymore likely to be any of those things than that buff jock you lusted after in high school. Most men who wear lingerie are straight, and most men who wear lingerie are smart, well educated men. Odds are that a man who wears lingerie is actually pretty successful in the other areas of his life. However, you do have to make your own judgment. If he wears lingerie whilst encouraging you to 'put the lotion on its skin', then you should probably make a quick exit.
Also be aware that some women do have experiences where the man identifies more and more with the feminine and eventually wants to dress in womens clothes all the time. Just be aware that this does not always happen, and is relatively rare.
The best thing you can do in this situation is talk to him. Ask him what it means to him, and why he likes it. I could write until the stars fall from the sky, and I'd never be able to describe the special individual of a man you have in your life.
Give It A Chance
You may be surprised by how good it feels when he is wearing lingerie. From a woman's perspective, a man in a camisole can be quite pleasing as it makes him soft and smooth, and when it comes to intimate activities, smooth and slidey can make for quite a fun time. The same thing applies if he is wearing panties. I'll leave the rest of that to your imagination.
It's An Opportunity
The fact that he has trusted you with this information means that he really does trust you. You might not be thinking that it is much to reveal, but there are men who go for entire marriages without telling their partners, so it is a big deal. It also means that you have the opportunity to reveal any of your secret desires, the ones you have kept hidden away inside yourself.
Having a man who wears lingerie as a partner can be a very exciting and sensual experience for you both if you are willing to be open to the possibilities.
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