Spotting a TS girl

DISCLAIMOR

I love writing about travel and food. This is not my usual blog, but it was a conversational piece at the bar last night and I thought, "I am going to write a hub about this!" Also, I am not homophobic in any way, shape or form. I have gay friends.

Brazilian TG: She may be able to get your boyfriend

This a transgender model
This a transgender model

This hub may be controversial - transsexuals are not my thing, Some look so much like women, you might never know

As controversial as this may be, it's based on a situation I ran into this weekend and have experienced a few times over the years.

So, I just moved into a new apartment complex in Los Angeles on the first of the month. Thursday night, some girls were in the pool/lobby area and I started talking to them and we had great conversation. One of them was particularly beautiful and particularly into me. We ended up exchanging numbers.

Not really a stalker move, but being somewhat excited, I myspace searched her and found her profile. Looked quite legit, until I saw a fashion show she routinely entered that was essential a ts (transsexual) show. I was like, whoa... Based on experience, I know that there are some virtually undetectable ts girls out there, but she seemed early 20s and girl next doorish aside from her apparent breast enhancement and model like clothing.

So, I texted her and mentioned she looked familiar and asker her if she had ever been in a particular show. She said, "how did you know? Are you a trannie chaser?" To which I replied, "What is that?" and to which she subsequently replied, "Nevermind. LOL. How's your day?"

So... I am back at square one. Is she? Or just some friends that are?

Enough about me....

My new friend.... (?)

My friend Justin encounters a T GIRL

So, this was 1999-2000. Some of my best friends and I (we're all pretty much teenagers/early 20s at this point) worked in a loft like setting doing marketing.

We played video games, goofed off and left a lot of business money "on the table" so to speak.

One day, Justin, my best friend has a date from the internet. Love @ AOL was in its heyday.

The next day, of course we all want details. She was hot. They went back to his play after having some drinks. Howeever, she was just a bit weird.

Of course we all wanted details. "Don't know how to explain it. She was a good kisser and everything, but, well, she just made me feel a bit small. She was as tall as me and her hands were bigger and she just was kind of a bigger boned girl than I am used to. And she had some kind of fascination with butts. She kept trying to play with my butt."

It clicked for me, "Dude, let me see her profiile". Everyone gets up from their desks and huddles around his desk as he pulls up the site. And there she is. Sure enough: TSGIRL509.

The 4 of us drop to the floor in uncontollable fits of laughter while Justin stands feeling left out of the joke. My buddy Dan, "J, TS stands for Transsexual!!!".

Justin: "Oh my god.I am going to be sick". He races off to the bathroom.


Look at some of these "women"

Las Vegas TS Girl

I used to go to Las Vegas an awful lot.

There was this one particular TS who was a STUNNING asian woman. So much so, that she made all of my female friends extremely jealous.

She would be sitting in the high stakes room. Her boyfriend or husband was this ridiculously wealthy 50-something Texas oil guy, hat and all. He obviously knew, but he didn't look the part. She would be in there playing $1000 a hand blackjack.

She obviously used the girls bathroom and my female friends would come out talking about her saying how she could really get any guy and they would never know. How they wished they had her body, her breasts, her looks....

It really made you think.

Anyway, having lived in San Francisco, Montreal and Hollywood, I am pretty used to this, but from time to time still am stunned.

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Enelle Lamb 6 years ago from Canada's 'California'

It does make you think - those women in the video were stunning! I can understand why your female friends were jealous!


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festersporling1 6 years ago from Los Angeles, CA Author

Ya. Honestly, I was at Starbucks in Hollywood today and saw two gorgeous Latin women in front of me in line. When the first one talked, her voice was quite gruff and I started thinking, hmmmm. Oh for the days when life was simple. :)


phil400sfgtw 6 years ago

Well, being pragmatic: if you can't tell the difference, psychologically or anatomically, and assuming you don't want to have biological children, what the heck difference does it make? If you slept with a hot girl and had a great time, then found out she was tg, would that make the time you had any less great? If you like a woman a lot - that is the main thing. I've never slept with a transgender woman that I know of. But recently I met someone who might possibly be one and you know what - I don't care. Coz she's cute as a button, smart, funny - and petite. Yes, I would be put off by a real signs like a large adams apple, deep voice etc (she doesn't have any of that, nor is she overly made up or over-the-top girly) but it sounds like that is becoming a thing of the past. Anyway I don't like very large/tall/hairy natural-born women. So I'm trying to remain open minded and not do the homophobic freak-out thing.


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festersporling1 6 years ago from Los Angeles, CA Author

Wow, I wish you the best. I am not going to lie, I would personally care. And probably a LOT. But I can appreciate your point of view and situation. I guess because I do want a family and probably a lot because of the society.

But as you point out, there are certainly hot "girls" out there that are biologically not females. And I have met very wealthy gentleman who like you, didn't seem to care that the significant other they were with was a transgender.

For the sake of argument, I will say that it is probably not becoming a thing of the past that the majority of people care about this issue.... Possibly that people can

accept these people for their decisions, but maybe not that they would be open to dating someone in this circumstance.

Anyways, thanks for your contribution Phil and good luck! :)


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Cyrsti Hart 6 years ago from West Central Ohio

This is ONLY a problem if the transgirl is not up front with you. If you can get past any homophobic tendencies, many t-girls can offer you an exotic and different look on life a genetic girl can't.

Remember the line from "M Butterfly" "Why do men play most of the female roles in the Beijing Opera...It's because only a man knows how a woman is supposed to act.


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festersporling1 5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA Author

Understood Cyrsti. Ya, I am not a homophob at all and have a few gay friends. Just was an interesting topic at the time. Thanks for your input. :)


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Vallin 5 years ago from Atlanta, GA

Got any phone numbers or email addresses for these HOT T-babes? I just LUV 'em!


How to Make Your Voice Deeper 5 years ago

Stephanie, Nina Luv and Gabrielle looked like real women, the rest, however, were clearly men. Maybe it helps that you already let us know about it, but they still look "iffy" to me.


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festersporling1 5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA Author

Haha @Vallen. You should come visit the Philippines then dude. :) You don't need numbers....


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festersporling1 5 years ago from Los Angeles, CA Author

And voice deeper. Thanks for taking such a close look. :)


amy 4 years ago

this guy claims hes not a TRANSPHONE, but uses the word homophobe to describe trans which already makes him an ass in my book,

and clearly ends the blog with

The 4 of us drop to the floor in uncontollable fits of laughter while Justin stands feeling left out of the joke. My buddy Dan, "J, TS stands for Transsexual!!!"

Justin: "Oh my god.I am going to be sick". He races off to the bathroom.

that doesent sound like an asshole to me, lol, nice try festersporling

Understood Cyrsti. Ya, I am not a homophob at all and have a few gay friends.

SURE YOU DO! THIS IS WHAT HATERS USUALLY SAY, NOT THAT GAYS CARE TO HAVE YOU AS A FRIEND, YOU SOUND LIKE A LOSER TROLL.

but maybe not that they would be open to dating someone in this circumstance...A lot OF MEN DATE TRANS, KEEP BELIVING IN YOUR DELISUION THAT THESE MEN DON'T EXIST, SURE THERES MEN THAT WOULDN'T BECAUSE THERE SO TERRIFIED OF BEING LABELED, BUT THERES PLENT OF GIRLS THAT WOULD NEVER GO FOR U EITHER SO WHAT'S YOUR POINT?

You should come visit the Philippines then dude. :) You don't need numbers, YES FESTERSOPILING YOU SHOW HAVE DONE YOUR HOMEWORK HAVEN'T YOU LMAO, BASED ON YOUR BLOG THAT YOU TOOK A TON OF TIME OUT TO MAKE WE ALL KNOW YOUR SECRET LOVE FOR THESE WOMEN THAT YOUR TERRIFIED TO ADMIT TO PEOPLE, OR MAYBE ADMIT TO YOURSELF EHH? SO YOU HAVE TO HAVE THIS RUDE PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE OPINION ABOUT US, YOU SOUND JUST LIKE EVERY GUY THAT ENDS UP HAVING SEX WITH ME LMAO

THE TRUTH IS WHEN YOU SEE A PRETTY GIRL YOUR GONNA BE ATTRACTED REALLY NOT KNOWING WHAT SHES PACKING,

NOT THAT THEY WOULD BE INTRESTED IN YOU HOWEVER, PRETTY TRANS GIRLS ARE HARD TO GET,

KEEP DREAMING THOUGH :l

AND BURRY THE HATE, IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY ABOUT A GROUP OF PEOPLE THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULDN'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL,

WHY DON'T YOU MAKE A BLOG ABOUT BLACK GIRLS OR FAT GIRLS AND MAKE FUN OF THEM? YOU WONT BECAUSE YOU KNOW ITS WRONG!

YOU SERIOUSLY NEED TO CHECK YOURSELF, YOU ARE FAR FROM PERFECT,


WHAT CRYSTU 4 years ago

Crysti,you sure do go out of your way to put down natural born women. You are doing this alllll over the internet. I am education myself of Tgirls or transwomen? (tell me the better word) because I am a female. But you always say that you are female,but then you say "We can off you more and all that bullshit" What are you doing? PUTTING DOWN women

"This is ONLY a problem if the transgirl is not up front with you. If you can get past any homophobic tendencies, many t-girls can offer you an exotic and different look on life a genetic girl can't.

Remember the line from "M Butterfly" "Why do men play most of the female roles in the Beijing Opera...It's because only a man knows how a woman is supposed to act."

That whole statement is sexist and it pisses me off to the fullest. These men are not straight on the scale,get over it. Here you all are putting this person down for not wanting to sleep with you because "We can off you better things" It's not his cup of damn tea. All of a sudden he is a transphobic? Get the "F" outta here. I am not white. Does that mean that of he did not find non white women attractive that would make him racist???? NOOOOO it doesn't make is dick hard.


Another thing 4 years ago

Some transwomen say their (genetically born women) are just jealous of "us" because we don't bleed or are crazy like they are. I've read that comment all over and I have read some of the meanest crap. I use to defend transwomen. I feel like a fool because now,I see you're not our friends at all. You have stated in various of places that you look better than women,wear better makeup,better sex,don't act crazy like women,you watch sports unlike women and many other things.

Being a woman is not high heels and makeup. You seem to be a female haters. SMDH


Rolen 3 years ago

I have actually been with one of the girls in that video :)


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festersporling1 3 years ago from Los Angeles, CA Author

Wow, I literally just read all of that. I appreciate what you all have to say. Thanks. Not a homophobic. I definitely grew up in a whole different environment. Good luck with everything.


Jon 3 years ago

I'm not going to lie, I just read this whole thing and became very confused as to what I think is the Amy person going on a three post rant and at first it was rather clear on the target and their opinion. Then it became blurry and ended up sounding like self hate. Am I the only one who ended up there? As for the topic at hand, I can't pretend to know anything other than I've seen several pictures of T-Girls and they either got good luck or bad luck and the ones who got good luck look so damn sexy I could care less so long as she's NOT packing because she got the full operation. To me and my opinion as long as you're not packing you are a full woman rather born that way or not, if you are in the middle of the whole change over or you just don't want to finish then you are a T-B/G (Trans-Boy/Girl). I found this blog from looking it up because on Plenty of Fish there's a TS who looks really cute and I hope she got it all done but I'm about to hit her up and see where it goes. If she didn't get it all done I'm stepping back explaining I simply don't have a desire to take a dick because I become homophobic at that point but other than that I am chill with hanging with gays and am good friends with a gay co-worker talking about all kinds of things.

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