This depends on your body shape if you have a heavy bust instead of covering them with turtle neck choose a lower or v neck cut top so you don't look so matronly black is a great colour then pick a vibrant necklace to draw attention away from your mid section. avoid acid wash jeans choose black or dark blue denim. An A line skirt can work wonders in disguising larger thighs. A cute cardigan can also disguise larger arms. The key is confidence and accessories. Instead of choosing patters choose fabric texture layering and accessories this way the eye is drawn to colour so if you want people to look at your neck wear a vibrant necklace, or waist wear a cute patent belt etc..
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