as long as it will not compromise their health like heart or cholesterol prob, dont know if BMI is a good measure as it is controversial too, like for example me, I am 100 lbs 5 1, am always looking for clothes at teens section, I feel ashame at times,
I would be happy to describe in detail that I would look for in a woman's physical attributes. Age: between 30 and 55 Long straight hair(mid back or longer)(preferably Black in colour) Expressive Eyes Thick full lips Height: 4 ft. 10 inches to 5 ft 7 inches Weight: 96 to 135 pounds ------------------------------------------------------------------ MEASUREMENTS:
Bust: 32-A to 34-B Waist: 20 to 26 Hips: 32 to 36
I love a woman with small breasts and a full rounded butt.
If I had a woman who looked like that in my life WOW!
I have been considered large my whole life. And I can say that the people who take the time to get to know me, usually are life-long friends. Because it will get to the point, that they no longer see me because I'm not small, but because I am a genuine person who has alot to offer. If you are judging people by their outward appearance, that is simply put shallow. And I think people who judge others that way are really shortening the depth of "living" they are doing because they are programming themselves to instantly cancel out a person who isn't what they consider to be perfect. It goes well beyond standards. And in my opinion that life isn't a real one. But a fantasy. I could blame magazines and movies for their versions of the perfect actor, but it all comes down to taking responsiblity for your own actions. Do you want to be known as the person who is happy with themselves and truthfully loves people or the one who has built up a brick fortifying wall around their heart and doesn't allow anyone to penetrate? Which one is real? The one who loves others and is happy with themselves or the one that has to pretend to attract people to talk to them? This is from observation, not judgement. Being judged my whole life, I refuse to judge others. Period.
the world would look boring if we were all the same. a woman who feels good about herself and how she looks, takes care of herself is attractive. it's not just the outer appearance that makes a woman attractive, it's her personality and her inner self that attracts others.
it's sad to read the young girls comments, how she feels she has to be a size one. just be your beautiful self.
The perfect and most attractive woman is the one who goes out of her way to show me she wants me. The most perfect and attractive woman is a woman who makes such an effort that I want her no matter HOW she looks to more objective eyes. Mind you, there ARE limits. You can't be so PC or in love that you don't know your woman is actually obese or wouldn't make the cover of Cover Girl magazine. It's not nice to be mean BUT it's also a little ridiculous when a woman starts thinking so much of herself that she is unrealistic. If you don't understand what I mean just search through online dating ads done by women. There are women there who would--to be blunt--be lucky to even get a one-nighter from ANY guy and get they ahve this long, long list of unrealistic requirements in the men they will date. My name is Phoenix and . . . that's the bottom line.
Really to be quite frank anyone who needs to define a woman's size should find a real hobby or passion in life. We should all eat healthy and exercise, but people are not chairs or houses. You cannot expect people to all fit into one size per sae. There is one hubber who likes to send me emails telling me I am big, but I still look nice to him. Had another hubber comment on my hub telling me big is not pretty. To be all that honest I really do not consider myself big as I have lost twenty pounds and walk six miles a day. So if someone wants to define how people should look, I would say they should get a hobby, or write some hubs.
You're not big your normal for your height. I'm so glad your happy in your own skin and don't allow folks with idiotic ideas on what perfection is insult or sway you. The only perfect human that ever walked the earth died on the cross.
Why thank you . You know people are allowed to define a woman's size if they must, but I would also think people that need to do that are not very creative. Perhaps they are reading too many fashion magazines and cannot think for themselves is what I would think .
I was just curious what everyone else thought. As I'm around people all day that ould be so turned off if a womans thighs even touched when she was standing! I mean like WTF. I was just wondering how many other simple minded people there were out there.
Actually a large percent of them were men. But there was a large amount of women that acted that way too. There is just way too much pressure these days to be perfect. And people wonder why the rate of people with eating disorders have risen.
Start off by saying that I am hetero and have no interest in women whatsoever,but some big women can be the sexiest things on legs. I know two women (two who immediately spring to mind) who are well-overweight but who suit it! They're always smiling, they look great in whatever they wear, and they are loved by everyone because of their bright shining personalities. But one of these women suffers depression, which I wouldn't have known about if she hadn't told me. Severe depression where she wants to commit suicide and won't leave the house for weeks on end. All this because she has poor self image because she is overweight! Hell she is intelligent, friendly, caring, always smiling in public, sexy. But according to the 'world' you need to be stick thin! What a load of Bull! Be the shape you are. It is the person inside that is more important. I also suffered through being overweight after the births of my children and I had poor self-image for years. I am still overweight but not by much. I wish I could take my present mindset back 20 years. I'd have enjoyed life a whole lot better! We only have one life. Forget self-image. Enjoy it!
I'm a large woman - 5'8", muscular, and fat! Funny thing is, I've never had a problem attracting men. The man I'm married to, for example, has always liked big women. He can remember being attracted to them even as a young teen. On the other hand, there are men who prefer waifs. I think it's wonderful that we're all different and all define beauty in different ways!
I'm actually at average weight, with some spare, but because of the way society makes women look in Hollywood I HATE my figure. I'm actually trying to lose a lot of weight. I'm 5'6 and weigh 160 and would like to get down to 115.
I'm pretty serious. I checked my BMI on the web and it said that my height I can be anywhere from 115 to 165. I'm not happy with where I am at right now. >.< I know that it's stupid, but I have reasons that I do not want to post here as of now.
I'm 17 years old. (18 in April). I know, I'm pretty sure once I get around to the age where I will have children I'll put on weight that is still healthy. But as of now, I'd like to be thinner than I am. It just sucks when you go shopping with your friends and they buy size 1 jeans and I get like...size 10 and up. That, and some stores they shop at don't even carry clothes that would fit me. Always makes me a tad P.Oed.
If your bone structure is small (when you wrap your fingers around your wrist, if they overlap, you have a small bone structure. If the ends of your fingers touch but don't overlap, you have a medium B.S., If your fingers don't touch at all, you have a large bone structure) then 115 pounds would be fine. If your B.S. is medium to large, you might look too thin.
Although it may seem frivolous and shallow to determine a woman's size, there is such thing as a 'good balance.' Any woman that is severely overweight, unhappy with their weight, has health problems relating to their weight can try to change their size. Also, a woman too small with eating disorders, personal issues, distorted self-worth or feel they want to be stronger can want to change their size too.
I guess to some extend, the perfect size is great, but health is even more important!
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