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A womans size.

  1. pretty twisted profile image60
    pretty twistedposted 7 years ago

    So i was just wondering what everyone thought the perfect and most attractive size for a women was?

    1. AdsenseStrategies profile image73
      AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      She shouldn't need to run around in the shower to get wet, for a start.

    2. prettydarkhorse profile image67
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      as long as it will not compromise their health like heart or cholesterol prob, dont know if BMI is a good measure as it is controversial too, like for example me, I am 100 lbs 5 1, am always looking for clothes at teens section, I feel ashame at times,

      1. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        And I am pretty sure PDH that you weigh 103 soaking wet. But, that's just imagination running wild. smile

        1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
          prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          after christmas I weigh 102 but after one week, am back to 100 again it is a shame, hehe,

          Oh CAGS, soaking wet , my perspiration is one ounce only maybe

          1. Cagsil profile image60
            Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            And, over your head, went my comment. What a shame! smile

            1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
              prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              CAGS explain more, cant understand am still slow at times understanding things English for me is structured hehe

              1. Cagsil profile image60
                Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                Maybe some other time I'll tell you, but not inside a forum post.....that would be just wrong. lol lol

                1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
                  prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                  ok thanks, maybe its bad???

                  1. Cagsil profile image60
                    Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                    Not bad, actually good, but not of the taste for forum posting. smile tongue big_smile

      2. Dave Mathews profile image60
        Dave Mathewsposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I would be happy to describe in detail that I would look for in a woman's physical attributes.
        Age: between 30 and 55
        Long straight hair(mid back or longer)(preferably Black in colour)
        Expressive Eyes
        Thick full lips
        Height: 4 ft. 10 inches  to 5 ft 7 inches
        Weight:  96 to 135 pounds
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        MEASUREMENTS:

        Bust: 32-A to 34-B
        Waist: 20 to 26
        Hips: 32 to 36

        I love a woman with small breasts and a full rounded butt.

        If I had a woman who looked like that in my life WOW!

        1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
          prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          how about attitudes or not physical?

        2. Dave Mathews profile image60
          Dave Mathewsposted 7 years ago in reply to this
          1. tantrum profile image61
            tantrumposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            what if she's stupid ???
            Maybe you're foolish enough and don't care
            lol

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              Denno66posted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Brains? Oh, yeah, brains. And a pulse, too...

        3. myownworld profile image78
          myownworldposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          wow! you've really given this some thought..... ! roll

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          Justine76posted 7 years ago in reply to this

          huh.....good for you, everyone deserves to dream...  wink

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      lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      It truly depends on the woman and her bone structure.  Sorry I couldn't give a more definitive answer. big_smile

      1. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Well, you could, but choose not to. big_smile tongue

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          lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          I did I just chose not to elaborate roll

          1. Cagsil profile image60
            Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            Exactly what I said. smile

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              lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              Yeh for you my friend big_smile

    4. christianrosalee profile image60
      christianrosaleeposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I have been considered large my whole life. And I can say that the people who take the time to get to know me, usually are life-long friends. Because it will get to the point, that they no longer see me because I'm not small, but because I am a genuine person who has alot to offer. If you are judging people by their outward appearance, that is simply put shallow. And I think people who judge others that way are really shortening the depth of "living" they are doing because they are programming themselves to instantly cancel out a person who isn't what they consider to be perfect. It goes well beyond standards. And in my opinion that life isn't a real one. But a fantasy. I could blame magazines and movies for their versions of the perfect actor, but it all comes down to taking responsiblity for your own actions. Do you want to be known as the person who is happy with themselves and truthfully loves people or the one who has built up a brick fortifying wall around their heart and doesn't allow anyone to penetrate? Which one is real? The one who loves others and is happy with themselves or the one that has to pretend to attract people to talk to them? This is from observation, not judgement. Being judged my whole life, I refuse to judge others. Period.

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      cosetteposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      there is no "perfect" size because one person might think a woman is too skinny and another person might think a woman is too fat. i'm guessing somewhere in the middle, just to be safe.

      howcome no one ever asks about men's beauty or physical appearance?

    6. rebekahELLE profile image90
      rebekahELLEposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      the world would look boring if we were all the same. smile
      a woman who feels good about herself and how she looks, takes care of herself is attractive. it's not just the outer appearance that makes a woman attractive, it's her personality and her inner self that attracts others.

      it's sad to read the young girls comments, how she feels she has to be a size one. just be your beautiful self. big_smile

    7. wsp2469 profile image60
      wsp2469posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      The perfect and most attractive woman is the one who goes out of her way to show me she wants me.  The most perfect and attractive woman is a woman who makes such an effort that I want her no matter HOW she looks to more objective eyes.
      Mind you, there ARE limits.
      You can't be so PC or in love that you don't know your woman is actually obese or wouldn't make the cover of Cover Girl magazine. 
      It's not nice to be mean BUT it's also a little ridiculous when a woman starts thinking so much of herself that she is unrealistic.
      If you don't understand what I mean just search through online dating ads done by women.  There are women there who would--to be blunt--be lucky to even get a one-nighter from ANY guy and get they ahve this long, long list of unrealistic requirements in the men they will date.
      My name is Phoenix and . . . that's the bottom line.

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      pauls_boatposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      the perfect size is what ever a woman is happy with, some are happy at size 6 some size 28 but as long as you are happy being what you are then that is the perfect size to be.

  2. SweetiePie profile image82
    SweetiePieposted 7 years ago

    Really to be quite frank anyone who needs to define a woman's size should find a real hobby or passion in life.  We should all eat healthy and exercise, but people are not chairs or houses.  You cannot expect people to all fit into one size per sae.  There is one hubber who likes to send me emails telling me I am big, but I still look nice to him.  Had another hubber comment on my hub telling me big is not pretty.  To be all that honest I really do not consider myself big as I have lost twenty pounds and walk six miles a day.  So if someone wants to define how people should look, I would say they should get a hobby, or write some hubs.

    1. pretty twisted profile image60
      pretty twistedposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      i like the way you think!!

    2. pmccray profile image82
      pmccrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You're not big your normal for your height.  I'm so glad your happy in your own skin and don't allow folks with idiotic ideas on what perfection is insult or sway you.  The only perfect human that ever walked the earth died on the cross.

  3. SweetiePie profile image82
    SweetiePieposted 7 years ago

    Why thank you smile. You know people are allowed to define a woman's size if they must, but I would also think people that need to do that are not very creative.  Perhaps they are reading too many fashion magazines and cannot think for themselves is what I would think smile.

  4. AnythingArtzy profile image82
    AnythingArtzyposted 7 years ago

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    Any size woman can be beautiful. It's how she carries herself, maintains herself and what's inside that can shine through and make any flaw flawless.

    I heard a guy say this once..... "Man while your waiting for the float with the beauty queens on it you're missing the rest of the parade".

    1. blsorg profile image69
      blsorgposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Agreed!

  5. pretty twisted profile image60
    pretty twistedposted 7 years ago

    I was just curious what everyone else thought. As I'm around people all day that ould be so turned off if a womans thighs even touched when she was standing! I mean like WTF. I was just wondering how many other simple minded people there were out there.

    1. AdsenseStrategies profile image73
      AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      I don't say many of those people are men...

      1. pretty twisted profile image60
        pretty twistedposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        Actually a large percent of them were men. But there was a large amount of women that acted that way too. There is just way too much pressure these days to be perfect. And people wonder why the rate of people with eating disorders have risen.

        1. h.a.borcich profile image61
          h.a.borcichposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          and depression, unrealistic expectations, etc smile

  6. marcel285 profile image82
    marcel285posted 7 years ago

    I don't think it's the size of a person that defines their attractiveness, but i do think that good skin plays a part.

    I don't worry much about my size,but i don't really have need to though, as i'm not thin nor fat. But to me, clean clear and glowing skin is one of the most beautiful things when it some to beauty.

  7. AdsenseStrategies profile image73
    AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years ago

    I genuinely think that most straight men are completely mystified at television and Hollywood culture's obsession with female thinness.

    I think it is weird. But then I don't know why I would expect these two institutions to make any sense... they rarely do on any other issue either

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    Denno66posted 7 years ago

    5' 3 " - 120 lbs. That would work just fine. big_smile

    1. donotfear profile image92
      donotfearposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      this is ideal...I'm quite envious.

  9. IzzyM profile image86
    IzzyMposted 7 years ago

    Start off by saying that I am hetero and have no interest in women whatsoever,but some big women can be the sexiest things on legs. I know two women (two who immediately spring to mind) who are well-overweight but who suit it! They're always smiling, they look great in whatever they wear, and they are loved by everyone because of their bright shining personalities.
    But one of these women suffers depression, which I wouldn't have known about if she hadn't told me. Severe depression where she wants to commit suicide and won't leave the house for weeks on end. All this because she has poor self image because she is overweight!
    Hell she is intelligent, friendly, caring, always smiling in public, sexy. But according to the 'world' you need to be stick thin! What a load of Bull! Be the shape you are. It is the person inside that is more important.
    I also suffered through being overweight after the births of my children and I had poor self-image for years. I am still overweight but not by much. I wish I could take my present mindset back 20 years. I'd have enjoyed life a whole lot better! We only have one life. Forget self-image. Enjoy it!

  10. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    WOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    http://hubpages.com/forum/topic/32913

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Oh I would say just about thaaaaaat big and no more.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    Dads #1 rule for dating: Never date a woman you can't lick in a fight! Use this rule as a benchmark.smile

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      cant understand at times I feel I need to learn more English

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      Denno66posted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Lick during a fight, you mean? big_smile

    3. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If that was the case, then no man should ever be with a woman, because by all accounts, she should be able to take him with the greatest of ease, because man are not suppose to hit women.

      Therefore, your #1 rule, would have the human race die out, because no man would get close enough to a woman. lol lol lol lol lol

      1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
        prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        youre talking alien as usual again, hehe, CAGS< am I dumb yet, cant understand things

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Maita dear, he means to kick ass, whip, beat up in a fight. Lick.

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      kick ass, like real fighting?

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Yes, real fighting. LOL

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    Millionheirposted 7 years ago

    as long as you're healthy it shouldn't matter, everyone's body type is diffent too.

  16. habee profile image91
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    I'm a large woman - 5'8", muscular, and fat! Funny thing is, I've never had a problem attracting men. The man I'm married to, for example, has always liked big women. He can remember being attracted to them even as a young teen. On the other hand, there are men who prefer waifs. I think it's wonderful that we're all different and all define beauty in different ways!

  17. stormie92 profile image60
    stormie92posted 7 years ago

    I'm actually at average weight, with some spare, but because of the way society makes women look in Hollywood I HATE my figure. I'm actually trying to lose a lot of weight. I'm 5'6 and weigh 160 and would like to get down to 115.

    1. IzzyM profile image86
      IzzyMposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      You're kidding right? You will be waif like at that weight.

      1. stormie92 profile image60
        stormie92posted 7 years ago in reply to this

        I'm pretty serious. I checked my BMI on the web and it said that my height I can be anywhere from 115 to 165. I'm not happy with where I am at right now. >.< I know that it's stupid, but I have reasons that I do not want to post here as of now.

        1. IzzyM profile image86
          IzzyMposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          Oh well you look young enough to maybe get away with it!
          When you are older, being this thin does NOT look good on a woman.

          1. stormie92 profile image60
            stormie92posted 7 years ago in reply to this

            I'm 17 years old. (18 in April). I know, I'm pretty sure once I get around to the age where I will have children I'll put on weight that is still healthy. But as of now, I'd like to be thinner than I am. It just sucks when you go shopping with your friends and they buy size 1 jeans and I get like...size 10 and up. That, and some stores they shop at don't even carry clothes that would fit me. Always makes me a tad P.Oed.

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      Deborah Sextonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      If your bone structure is small (when you wrap your fingers around your wrist, if they overlap, you have a small bone structure. If the ends of your fingers touch but don't overlap, you have a medium B.S., If your fingers don't touch at all, you have a large bone structure) then 115 pounds would be fine. If your B.S. is medium to large, you might look too thin.

      1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
        prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

        how about 5'1 and then 100 to 102 lbs, is it just right, thanks in advance

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          Deborah Sextonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

          That sounds perfect.

          1. AdsenseStrategies profile image73
            AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

            100 lbs? -- wouldn't you fall through the slats every time you walked over a vent?

            1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
              prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              cant understand?? am skinny needs fattening??

              1. AdsenseStrategies profile image73
                AdsenseStrategiesposted 7 years ago in reply to this

                I didn't read the post properly... didn't realize you were referring to yourself! Sorry about that.

                Actually I am not good with weights. It's because when I grew up we measured our weight in stone (I'm not kidding), and in North America nobody does that... so I never know really what is what.

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              Deborah Sextonposted 7 years ago in reply to this

              She's 5'1"

  18. yenajeon profile image82
    yenajeonposted 7 years ago

    Although it may seem frivolous and shallow to determine a woman's size, there is such thing as a 'good balance.'
    Any woman that is severely overweight, unhappy with their weight, has health problems relating to their weight can try to change their size.
    Also, a woman too small with eating disorders, personal issues, distorted self-worth or feel they want to be stronger can want to change their size too.

    I guess to some extend, the perfect size is great, but health is even more important!

  19. blondepoet profile image79
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    If a woman is truly beautiful inside then she will be beautiful on the outside regardless of her size.

    1. pmccray profile image82
      pmccrayposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Very well said.  I learned from an early age, that beauty is only skin deep and an ugly personality is to the bone.  I've known some beauties that have very ugly, dark lonely souls.

    2. ThePhoneDetective profile image61
      ThePhoneDetectiveposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      Awesome Quote!!!!

      Daytona

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    cosetteposted 7 years ago

    i think you're fine, PDH. that's certainly not anorexic.

    1. prettydarkhorse profile image67
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago in reply to this

      thank you for the advice

  21. tantrum profile image61
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    lol

  22. myownworld profile image78
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    lol @ justine and denno!

 
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