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Do beautful ladies like ugly guys

  1. WryLilt profile image86
    WryLiltposted 6 years ago

    I'd go for an ugly guy if I liked his brain.

    I find good looking guys are often a turn off because they know it.

    1. moneymaters profile image59
      moneymatersposted 6 years ago in reply to this

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      1. WryLilt profile image86
        WryLiltposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        And I don't care about money. Which is why I mentioned brains.

        If I wanted an ugly guy with money, I could have one. Or a good looking guy with money. Money really doesn't add up to much in the end....

        1. schoolgirlforreal profile image75
          schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          that's a very mature perspective.
          I am w/ someone "ugly" or average....I think he's average but I went for his brain.
          Faithfulness , and kindness are big in my book too.
          Thou to be totally honest I'll like it all. Good looks make it more fun, unless you have chemistry w/ the guy....

        2. Jayne Lancer profile image91
          Jayne Lancerposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          ... oh - but it helps.
          My husband has money, brains and looks.

          1. DjBryle profile image61
            DjBryleposted 6 years ago in reply to this

            Mine too... lol! smile

    2. blbhhdcn profile image55
      blbhhdcnposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      Yes, it's possible. In college, I learned liking an ugly guy, just because he is intelligent, he was studying to become a lawyer that time and now he is a lawyer. And he is also rich lol. He was one of my suitor before that I really dont like at first, but as time goes on, I began liking him and ended up becoming one of my BF.

  2. A la carte profile image61
    A la carteposted 6 years ago

    I think money counts..a beautiful girl is unlikely to marry an ugly guy ..tho have to admit Julia Roberts marrying Lyle whatshisname was a bit of a surprise. Now nice girls...yep they are guided by higher emotions.At the end of the day does it really  matter. Love has a way of finding the chinks in your armor.

  3. alternate poet profile image78
    alternate poetposted 6 years ago

    I thank my luck every day that beautiful ladies can like, even love, ugly guys !!  The extreme situation in my house is living proof.

    1. moneymaters profile image59
      moneymatersposted 6 years ago in reply to this

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      1. alternate poet profile image78
        alternate poetposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I would go further - In my opinion pretty guys may get a head start in romance but ugly guys win out better in the end - we have to work harder, so we learn more and get better at it all -the pretty guys that I remember faded out in a sea of wrinkles and self centred depression while the women in their lives left them to get more attention elsewherre big_smile

        1. schoolgirlforreal profile image75
          schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          good point
          wisdom and kindness don't age. That's the beauty of it wink

  4. Dorothee-Gy profile image80
    Dorothee-Gyposted 6 years ago

    I think that good relationships are a meeting of the minds and that the looks might help a bit, but certainly don't play a dominant role (or at least shouldn't, if people weren't motivated by all the wrong reasonings and obviously addicted to a lot of drama).

    If a man really cares for the woman and shows her that he loves her and they connect on a similar mind level, he can look as he wants and she will still be extremely attracted to him. What's more, I have experienced in my life that even the ugliest people can be transformed when they smile a lot and have a positive attitude, so there is no stereotype that could really assign the label "ugly" on anyone.

    The women who go for looks and money will soon wake up from their pipe dream, bruised and ruffled, and then they will complain that there are no good men out there....

  5. kirstenblog profile image77
    kirstenblogposted 6 years ago

    I gotta say I prefer a man who make ME feel beautiful then one who is handsome himself. When I was looking I settled on my husband because of his brains, his kindness and how he could make me feel about myself. Now he does worry about his looks, asks if he has gained weight or why I let him out with messy hair etc. I always look at him and think, oh your hair was messy? Looks fine to me. or Well you may have gained a little but not much and I would never have noticed if you didn't say something. I would be much more likely to notice a change in character, more grumpiness or lack of kindness to strangers or inattentiveness and I would be more put off by those things as it is his character that attracted me in the first place. As for money, well we are going to earn it together! Or side by side as it goes smile

  6. kirstenblog profile image77
    kirstenblogposted 6 years ago

    Ohhh I must say, a sexy butt does go a long way! big_smile

    Guys don't worry about your face or hair, work on that butt! lol

    1. pisean282311 profile image58
      pisean282311posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      lol i second that...

  7. LakeShow T profile image81
    LakeShow Tposted 6 years ago

    I think more often times women are drawn to guys who are confident. Often times, the guys who are supposedly more physically attractive are the guys who have higher confidence. On the other hand, guys who are not as commonly perceived as physically attractive often lack confidence because of it. Now, it is also not all that uncommon when you have a guy who is not physically attractive, but projects confidence because he has money/ successful job or because he is outstanding at certain things, whether it be intelligence, or maybe he has a lot of friends so he is good socially. I don't know. A lot of factors go into it. All together, I think a woman wants a guy who has high value, which comes about and can be perceived in many ways.

  8. prettydarkhorse profile image65
    prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago

    I prefer a man who can make me laugh and loyal, just like me. Although I suck in making people laugh. A responsible man is also good. I am not particular with looks.

    1. pisean282311 profile image58
      pisean282311posted 6 years ago in reply to this

      here pretty are you taking applications??...well on serious notes i liked way u think...

      1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
        prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        Hi pisean, goodlooking is a bonus, but must be funny, smiles

        1. pisean282311 profile image58
          pisean282311posted 6 years ago in reply to this

          ur citeria fits greek one perfectly...considering he is good looking too...

        2. schoolgirlforreal profile image75
          schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          funny IS GooD big_smile big_smile

    2. andromida profile image76
      andromidaposted 6 years ago in reply to this

      So,Maita you are saying you might like a ugly guy. that's a very good news smile

      1. pisean282311 profile image58
        pisean282311posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        ya..thats why i asked whether she is accepting applications?

        1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
          prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          After the 60 day challenge smiles,,,,

      2. prettydarkhorse profile image65
        prettydarkhorseposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        hmmm, nobody is ugly -- hi andromida

  9. Anath profile image73
    Anathposted 6 years ago

    I like dating ugly mugs... I don't like fighting for the mirror wink

  10. Flightkeeper profile image79
    Flightkeeperposted 6 years ago

    Hi Pretty! You look gorgeous.  I love the new avatar.

  11. Flightkeeper profile image79
    Flightkeeperposted 6 years ago

    If you are an ugly guy who only likes beatiful women, then you deserve a woman who only wants you for your money.  If you're not rich, get rich.

    1. moneymaters profile image59
      moneymatersposted 6 years ago in reply to this

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      1. Stevennix2001 profile image81
        Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        or have one helluva a personality.  as i met a lot of poor blue collar guys that are almost as ugly as sin get hot girls. wink

        1. schoolgirlforreal profile image75
          schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          what about ugly women getting hot guys?
          Let's pass out all the hot guys to the average or overweight or ugly women?

          1. Stevennix2001 profile image81
            Stevennix2001posted 6 years ago in reply to this

            how would you define a hot guy exactly?  as rod serling said once in an episode of the twilight zone, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"  wink tongue

            1. schoolgirlforreal profile image75
              schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

              yeah it is.
              I agree.
              Like someone said earlier, very attractive men-most prob anyway-have huge egos and can be real jerks.

              Friendship first, then falling in love is the way to go

    2. Greek One profile image77
      Greek Oneposted 6 years ago

      All you woman are money grubbers who only go after rich good looking guys with huge reproductive organs...

      and I thank you for that wink

    3. profile image0
      klarawieckposted 6 years ago

      I like ugly guys if they are Greek and live in Canada. And I also like men that have a slight resemblance to Jackson Browne. wink

      1. Greek One profile image77
        Greek Oneposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        how about guys who eat brownies while listening to Micheal Jackson?

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          klarawieckposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          No... those I don't like.

      2. schoolgirlforreal profile image75
        schoolgirlforrealposted 6 years ago in reply to this

        I like rockstars wink even Mick Jagger or Steven Tyler- music is sexy

    4. Medora Trevilian profile image79
      Medora Trevilianposted 6 years ago

      Looks are hardly the first priority. Neither is wealth or financial responsibility. The real question is this: is he a man worth longing for.

    5. profile image0
      Kathryn LJposted 6 years ago

      Well in the UK, it would seem that ugly is OK as long as you've loads of money, power, are a footballer or an MP.  John Prescott is a case in point- hardly hunk of the month but got plenty whilst he was in office.  Google him if your sceptical!

    6. nlowman profile image60
      nlowmanposted 6 years ago

      I'd like to say looks don't matter, but that's not true. Looks are your first impression, so if you aren't attracted to the looks, you won't go further. It doesn't mean someone has to be drop-dead gorgeous, but there has to be something physically attractive about them. I mean, I'm gonna have to look at you all the time.....

    7. Sunny Robinson profile image85
      Sunny Robinsonposted 6 years ago

      Ugliness and beauty is actually quite subjective.  What one person think is beautiful, I may consider quite ugly.

      My guy is absolutely adorable and cute in every way.  There is nothing about him that I find ugly, even his temper.  I'm just fortunate he still finds me pretty and loves me just the same. wink

    8. benlaurence profile image60
      benlaurenceposted 6 years ago

      Define ugly. ugly inside or outside? i think im good looking inside but need a bit of work outside. See you at PronoKal all you fellow Y.P.Cs  (Young Professional Chubbs).lol

    9. profile image60
      ethan1066posted 6 years ago

      Really true..I think that if the guy is impressive . Have good sense of humour and is intelligent. Then i can really go on with this guy...smile

    10. DiamondBones profile image60
      DiamondBonesposted 6 years ago

      this is a hilarious topic xp i love it! hah.. anyways.. yes... i have noticed too .. that often beautiful PEOPLE date "ugly" people.. men and women.. not just women.. i also noticed that people who are really kind often date people who are really.. mean... and i watch them live miserable with them.. i .. never understood this .. i would feel so sorry for them x.x they seem like.. trapped o.o it's.. scary really .. but ti's something i see often in life.. and pray i don't ever end up like that x.x

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      ralwusposted 6 years ago

      i have never had any problems dating. plenty of women, ugly is as ugly does

      1. mega1 profile image80
        mega1posted 6 years ago in reply to this

        It must be something in the water~! smile

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          ralwusposted 6 years ago in reply to this

          LOL the ugly? yes

    12. mega1 profile image80
      mega1posted 6 years ago

      they used to say "ugly women try harder" and it is the same with men - however, ugly is one of those subjective terms, like beauty.  If you think you yourself are so gorgeous, chances are - you're not!

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      amorea13posted 6 years ago

      Yes - same way they love beautiful wallets!

    14. katiem2 profile image61
      katiem2posted 6 years ago

      It's all about compatability and what he's made of.  Chemistry, there must be that, the heat, passion and all the good nuts and bolts of a great relationship.  After that he looks as good as he makes me feel.  smile

    15. kazemaru2 profile image60
      kazemaru2posted 6 years ago

      Yes they definitely do women aren't as men who are willing to extinguish there bank account for a hot babe. Women care about the emotional response a man gives her.

    16. ponx profile image90
      ponxposted 6 years ago

      Mostly not. I usually see good looking girls looking out for handsome men and vice versa!

     
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