How Much Do You Hate Facebook? - I Hate Facebook

I Hate Facebook

I know that there are absolutely millions of people all over the world signed up to Facebook. It's not an opinion, sadly it's a fact. Facebook is a global phenomenon and has even out-ranked Google for the number of people that visit it.

I know I am probably showing my age but I absolutely hate Facebook. I know lot's of young people who rave about it and whenever I go out with my family to a restaurant, or just a family gathering, the topic of Facebook always comes up. The only person sitting there clueless as to what Facebook actually is or doesn't have a Facebook profile is my Gran. Yes, even I have one but I really don't use it.


Why Did I Sign Up to Facebook?

Originally I signed up to Facebook because my brother moved overseas and he asked me to join Facebook because it was easier to keep in touch. The idea was that it would be better than email, cheaper than calling on the phone and it meant we could leave messages for each other and view them at a convenient time, as we now lived in different times zones.

To start with Facebook was easy to navigate. I could post on my Wall, I could send Private Messages and I could see what my brother was up to as he would post his pictures to his Facebook Wall.


Remember this?

I Hate Facbook

Facebook - A Living Hell

Now, Facebook is a whole other monster. They changed the layout and settings a few years ago and maybe I am getting old but I find it extremely hard to navigate. Where is the Wall? How do I write a private message? and the list goes on. Now I am so frustrated with Facebook I just ignore it. All I want to do are the simple things and can I do them? - Can I heck!

On top of that, Facebook has expanded to be this huge hippo that you just want to go away. I keep changing my privacy settings but it never seems to improve. Facebook has put a stop to people's privacy. I mean do I really need to know if you just got back from the biggest poo of your life on the toilet. TMI. People really do need to get a life. Get off Facebook!! There is so much more to life than reading about someone's dump. Trust me, there's a whole world out there. Don't let it pass you by.

Do I need to see a list of drivel on my front page about what such and suches friends did last week? Or a post you made on someone else's Wall somehow made it's way to my Facebook page? Not to mention I just want to find my own Wall!! Did I happen to mention that.

Why do people feel the need to Tag everyone in photo's. If I wanted to be tagged in a photo, send me the photo and I will tag myself. Otherwise I don't want to be tagged in that picture. How many times do I need to un-tag myself before people get the hint? I like my privacy. I don't want every person in the world knowing what I did yesterday, last week or last year. It's none of their business unless I talk to them about it.

People don't seem to get why it's a big issue as to the tagging. It's simple - There are so many people out there who use Facebook to track you, stalk you, find out about you and it has been used in the past to steal from you.

Burglars have checked people's status online and when it changes to at work or on holiday they run round to your house to break in and steal everything. Nothing like being asked to get your house ransacked.

Stalkers - I have had to combat this by locking my profile down.

Friend Requests - If I haven't spoken to you in years it's highly likely it's because I don't want to speak to you. Please don't ask over and over to be my friend on Facebook because it's not going to happen. Why do you even want to be my friend anyway. It's highly likely that we weren't even real friends before and you are just contacting me to get into my profile and see what I have or haven't achieved in my life. Call me cynical if you wish....

Job Interviews - Think about all the things they can find out about you just from Facebook. Think of all those photo's where you were tagged looking like a real idiot. Remember that time that you got so drunk you were upside down with your pants on your head trying to pee in that alley and your friends thought it was so funny they took a snap of you and posted it on Facebook. Yes people no longer need to hire a detective to find out about you. Simply Facebook a person and a lot of their secrets are there for the reading.

What will your in laws think if they ever Facebooked you. Do you think it would paint a good picture of you as a potential husband or wife for their son or daughter?

Why do friends also have to choose the worst pictures possible and put them up on Facebook? It's not funny and it's not cool.


Achievements Without Facebook

Can you imagine what people could achieve if they used the time that they use on Facebook to actually live. If you took some of the time you spent on Facebook and used it to do regular exercise instead you could reduce your weight and look slimmer, feel healthier and probably sexier. This could result in a total life change. You could find a sexy guy, get married, be approved by the in laws because you deleted that awful Facebook page with all your rubbish on there. You got a great job - again no Facebook page to ruin your chances there. You are able to speak to your real friends whenever you want and you don't have to worry about a weird ex or creepy people trying to stalk you online, because you have a real life. And the best thing is instead of telling people about your crap existence on the toilet you can actually just be really happy about your great existence in reality!!

So tell me, is it worth my time hating Facebook?


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Mac 21 months ago

Utterly despise everything about facebook. It needs to die a slow and painful death. And fast. The sooner the better. We'd all be much better off for it, that's for damn sure.


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bibinthephysio 2 years ago from INDIA

Well loving or hating facebook is individual choice. Many health care professionals find it an excellent forum for idea sharing and with its new video option it could be graveyard to you tube.


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Lauryallan 3 years ago Author

Yeah I like Google plus. I find people don't talk the same inane stuff as they do on Facebook. It's more funny or maybe that's just the people I follow...

Oh and that woulda been a good option on the poll! Geez why weren't you around on my hubs earlier! I'll have to remember that one for other polls.


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B. Leekley 3 years ago from Kalamazoo, Michigan, USA

Up, Useful, Interesting, and shared with followers and on social networking sites (including Facebook).

I wish your poll included a love-hate option. Thanks to my reading HubPages habit, I am much less addicted to Facebook than I used to be, but when I do sign in, I find it hard to sign out until I have frittered away a lot of time kibitzing lives.

Do you like Google+? My siblings and I have starting using it a little.

I tried Second Life once but quickly signed out as soon as I realized that, face to face, I am just as shy and tongue-tied as a handsome, young avatar as I am as me.


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Lauryallan 4 years ago Author

I'll have to check that out!! I could really use it.


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Glenn Stok 4 years ago from Long Island, NY

Yeah I know. I discovered why canceled Facebook accounts become active again and I wrote a hub about it - with the actions to take to really get rid of it. I was frustrated with that myself.


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Lauryallan 4 years ago Author

Thx Glenn. Glad you agree with the points I raised. I tried to get across how much I really hate Facebook and thankfully it seems to have gotten across to some people.

The worse thing is... no matter how many times I close my account (ie make it go dormant) it keeps being reactivated. Not because I am logging in, because trust me I'm not. But friends and family turn round and say they were surprised to see me on Facebook again and I am shocked to find my profile is active again. Really annoying. I just want it gone completely but doesn't seem to work out.


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Glenn Stok 4 years ago from Long Island, NY

I agree with you about Facebook. I hate it too. I created an account a few years ago for similar reasons as yours, to communicate with someone who I had no other way to be in touch with.

Shortly after I opened my account I started receiving friend requests from people I didn't even know. And, just as what happened to you, I also received friend requests from people I knew but did not care for. They never got the hint in the past and, when they saw me on Facebook, they figured they'd try to get back in my life.

Another thing that I didn't like was the way Mark Zuckerberg had kept talking about having millions of users. The latest news is that it reached one billion. The fact of the matter is that many people have multiple accounts and many accounts are dormant or abandoned. The reality is that there are less active users than Facebook claims to have. I'm one of them that is counted and you are too. The numbers are very misleading, one reason why Facebook stock fell a half since the IPO.

You make so many other meaningful points in your hub that many people don't realize. The problem with lack of privacy is a big issue that people pay little attention to. But they should, for reasons that you state in your hub. Everybody should read this before opening an account with Facebook. Voted up.


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Injured lamb 4 years ago

I can't say I hate Facebook, after all...it's a platform that connects family and friends or may be the long lost friends. However, I am much agree with you with what you have pointed out and actually it's my voice, but people around just can't sense and agree with my disagreement. (Yes, those that you pointed out...) People nowadays tends to misuse the stuff which supposed to be done in a wise way.

This is really a great and useful hub that deserves to be read by many people, especially those Facebook's fans...thanks for the sharing Lauryallan, an "up" for you here, cheers!


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Lauryallan 4 years ago Author

Yeah I totally agree with you. Really what's wrong with the phone?

I really feel the reason Facbook is so popular nowadays is so ordinary people can feel like celebrities and telling everyone what they are up to etc. I'm not into all of that and find it boring. Even if it was a celebrity, I still wouldn't care.


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P FOR PEONY 4 years ago

I dislike facebook, I'm 23 and probably the only one amongst my friends who doesn't have one. I don't like the concept of sharing my life with acquaintances and feeling obligated to 'add' people. My Circle of Trust is rather small. I think I'm still pretty old fashioned, if I want to be updated about my friends lives, I'd pick up a phone, call and ask them out for lunch :/

I guess it's a great way to stay connected to people if you're extremely busy or in another land.


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Lauryallan 4 years ago Author

Yeah I hope it really does disappear like that. I also hope it's not replaced by something more worse.


Kyle 4 years ago

Facebook needs 2 be banned! It's a total invasion of privacy short of reading your thoughts and many websites require a FB account just to comment.

I know there is a possibility for it to be used for good things but the majority of the human race will use it for their own selfish desires which out weights the benefits.

Facebook is one of those things that needs to just go though I am sure it will self destruct on it's own in the next 3 years.

It promotes not only anti moral values but self destructing behavior in clever hidden ways.

you just have to read between the lines to figure that one out.

Use your damn intuition!

God made it there for a reason and no amount of skeptics will make your intuition go away unless you let it by caving in to them!

I have noticed every 3-5 years there is always a new fad that takes over people's lives and then the fad vanishes suddenly without much explanation which then the old fad is hardly talked about.

I imagine the same deal wiil happen to facebook in which 10 years later young teenagers will ask their Dad

"Dad What's this Facebook thing you were talking about"?


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nikipa 5 years ago from Eastern Europe

Lovely done! I am not a fan of FB either, but still have an account there, only for my HP and other websites updates...

I even dont have any of my friends and relatives from my real life on the list of friends. Its too personal to display all my life there.

Voted Up!


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Lauryallan 5 years ago Author

Thank you for the vote. Glad you enjoyed the hub.


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stricktlydating 5 years ago from Australia

Great Hub. I don't like when others Tag me in their photos too, especially if they're photos of me as a teen etc! Voted up!


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Lauryallan 5 years ago Author

thank you for your comment thougtforce. It looks like you are not guilty of the things I mentioned in my article. And I agree we have to think about what we do with our time. I think a lot of people are not aware of how much time they are on Facebook etc. They go in to make a quick check and are there for a while or they have to constantly check it in case they miss something....


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thougtforce 5 years ago from Sweden

I canĀ“t say I hate Facebook, but I haven't yet figured out how to use it best. I don't like to make daily updates about my life and futile events in my life but I think I want to use it for promoting my writing. Great article and thought provoking too. We need to think of where we put our time and effort!

Tina


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ajaodegaard 5 years ago

I agree it is definitely an addiction,but the problem is that most people don't see it that way. If they would just stop using it for a week or two they would see that there is a lot more in life to enjoy then just sitting on Facebook all day.


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Lauryallan 5 years ago Author

Yeah I agree that a lot of people use it to snoop etc, but that doesn't mean you can't just let it go. The more people respond I wonder if Facebook is actually an addiction... Some people seem to act like it is a life support machine and without it they might just die. When the reality is that without it they have a far better chance of having a more fulfilling life.


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