Social Networking today
Unity comes at a huge cost to the individual today!
Connecting with your fellow man and woman is imperative today. Disconnecting however happens a great deal too. Networking today takes earnest efforts and strides to do what's right for oneself and for all others. If you are struggling in this regard, it may be due to the fact that you may be self centered and only care for the likes of yourself.
This really isn't the most wisest approach at all, and especially when it comes to networking with others online, mainly because we all need one another. (To help another person without expecting anything in return, is indirectly helping out humanity in some way or another for sure.)
"I affirm this to be true and undeniably self evident, I have been a person who contributes to a online global community. I have been someone who cares for the likes of all others that I do indeed come in contact with today."
Whatever your part you play in the full scheme of this bigger picture today, will indeed determine that of your future success. It's up to you to determine such a reality, and the choice is yours today to begin to think about making such a change.
Sometimes washing your hands of any given situation is the best approach
Dealing with negative feedback
It's not easy to let go of negative thoughts, happenings, occurrences and the likes. It also isn't easy to just up and change overnight, but the major thing to be certain of is that of the true moral fibers of which you've become as a person today and surely as a social networking person. Your actions towards all others may be perceived on differing levels as approachable, or unapproachable and its one undeniable and inescapable fact. (Not everyone will like you, and for what you stand for, hence we all have our freedom of speech and may like what or whom we choose to or not.)
Truth be told a dilemma does indeed exist in the views and overall perspectives that others in any social community, may indeed have on you, or of you (Becoming an easy target isn't a good thing at all either way). Whether you care or not for all others is completely arbitrary and ambiguous to that of your online activities with all others and not just one select group or party. This is so because no one is all seeing and all knowing. (For example what happens on some other web location may not be seen by everyone and at all times, so some situations that arise are completely isolated incidents if anything.)
However, people will always feel that they have some sort of angle on you no matter what happens. Either the likeable or dis-likeable perspective views of these folks will also tend to make them appear to be better off in the end or somehow superior in some odd way to that of you. Maybe this is the underlining motivation for them to isolate and focus on a certain person, who knows. The fact remains in how such people project upon onto the online computer screens for all others to see, the energy they have emitted holds and bears the truth all in itself.
The only way to truly fight such a thing online that may or may not be apparently wrong, is to either ignore what's being put up and out entirely, or delete per say a negative comment, block such individuals if they are indeed being abusive, or report them for their intolerable acts. Now, acting as if what they've done wrongly wasn't bothering you is no good at all, lets say it occurred here on hubpages, then such a thing needs to be addressed promptly to rid the network of such negative activity or intolerable acts that are causing harm to the unity and good conductivity of such a social community.
Dazzled in distress and dangling off a hot wire
The sore Loser phase - Networking feeling no connections or communications are coming your way
Once a loser always a loser right, and it may become a tag that's been placed on such a person maybe spread around by childish rumors, but hope is never over for such a person who shows their true emotions and never holds back, but also does it not to bring harm to anyone. (Some folks are being real behind these computer screens and many others are truly being as fake as possible.)
A come back like no other may be derived from such a persons once low life positioning in such a networking community and or non-acceptance by any social group (The under dog approach - Rudy!).
The real truth to it all lies in all of those whom have managed to maintain falsehood of oneself, and to make things appear as if they're indeed the most righteous, the most loved and cherished or most caring individuals when in the background they truly aren't at all. Holding grudges, scoring vendetta's indirectly and the likes. (Social communities have many differing personality types and its not at all about any single person, its about us all as a united global community.)
Staging the scene of a crime
False perception of self, can become a true venom indeed and in any social environment or community at large, and also used as a complete disguise, or vice to win over the crowds in the millions. (Hitler staging of his false flag event or also known as the Reichstag fire, etc...)
It's a most definite truth mainly if and when such individuals aren't being true to themselves and definitely not true to all others in their paths of self declaration. It's virtually impossible to help everyone no matter what anyone may think or believe. It's virtually impossible to change all others as well today, because us humans are stubborn old farts, and many are not ready for such an evasive change of actions, behaviors and or self expressions. (Only god can judge us, no one on earth has the right to bare false prophecy or false judgement upon our peoples and especially in a networking community.)
This is why we all must decide for ourselves to take a more realistic approach to things today, as a networking community, as individuals who care or care not for others. The other dynamic factor involved is that many people across this globe, are also unstable for the most part both mentally, physically and emotionally due to countless reasons. (So please be careful what kind of messages we are to choose to put out to all others online, and definitely while networking professionally.)
It's a lonely road to walk, so do whats right!
How does one do what's right?
Doing the right thing means to evaluate our own issues at bay and in our lives. Take the right steps to cure our physical ailments if any, and to help our family to become much more stronger so that we can potentially help others in lets say our neighborhoods, and even further outwards.
Humanity has some serious issues to handle for sure, and its going to take a deep inward look, and insight into what is the culprit that makes a person go the wrong way entirely (Inherent evils even exist in the kindest of individuals, reading between the lines on all things being rendered or delivered digitally and on all surfaces is a must).
There's many real true to life issues that are to arise on a moments notice, there's jealousy, envy, self loathing, loneliness issues, persecution, hatred, oppression, and the list goes on and on. While networking with others today we should also be mindful of these true realities at large, because we cannot see what each person is going through just looking at the computer screens. (Like a hurricane, tornado, earthquake, family crisis etc...)
It all definitely needs to be assessed entirely, and may sometimes take a psychologist to do, because the side effects of people harboring such feelings and not dealing with them appropriately then may lead to behaviors off and online that are totally uncontrollable.
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