A Novice's Guide to Being a Good Motorcycle Passenger and Enjoying Yourself Along the Way

Narrow, scenic roads provide the best riding.
Narrow, scenic roads provide the best riding.
Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park
Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park
Pigeon Point Lighthouse
Pigeon Point Lighthouse

Reluctant would be the best word to describe what I was feeling. That and nervous. And a little bit scared. I had never been on a motorcycle for more than an hour-long trip, and here I was embarking on a week-long motorcycle adventure with my husband. Covering almost 2,000 miles from Phoenix, up the California coast to the wine country, and home over the Sierra Nevada's and into Las Vegas, this wasn't a trip for the faint of heart. Question was, was it for me?

I put a smile on my face because this trip was something my husband had been planning for months and was beyond excited about. Motorcycling is his passion, and I want to be a part of that. So here I was, jumping in with both feet.

Being new to this activity, there were a few important things I learned almost immediately. I wish someone had shared these suggestions with me before my first trip. If you too are a novice, the following is a list of my suggestions for making the most out of your adventure. It is by no means comprehensive, but it's a starting point.

Tips and Hints

1. Perhaps the most basic thing about motorcycling is getting on and off the bike. As a passenger, you need to make sure the driver is prepared for you to mount and dismount every time. Don't surprise the driver by getting on or off before he or she is ready. The driver needs to have both feet on the ground or you risk knocking the bike and the driver off balance.

2. After getting off the bike, wait for the driver to dismount before opening the side bags. I made the mistake of opening one of the bags immediately, unbeknownst to my husband, and as he dismounted, he kicked the top of the bag. Not a good thing. He loves his Harley and scratching it is a serious offense. Thankfully, no harm was done (even the second time I made this mistake), but it could've turned out differently. I may have been walking home.

3. Once on board, you want your presence to be as inconspicuous as possible. This means you need to move with the bike and the driver. On turns, look in the direction of the turn and lean ever so slightly into the turn. At first, your instinct may be to lean away from the turn, feeling that may counterbalance the bike. Bad idea. You need to make your body move where the driver's moves. Not doing so makes it harder for the driver to control the bike and maintain balance.

4. Of course you'll be wearing a helmet. Having an intercom system between driver and passenger is almost essential. Not only will you enjoy the ride more, as you can point out things of interest along the way, you can also communicate when you need a break, want a drink of water, or whatever. Get it installed enough ahead of time that you can practice using it. Some come with bluetooth and ipod capabilities, but using them on a moving bike takes a little getting used to.

5. Speaking of helmets, be sure to wear yours a bit before the first day out. They take a little getting used to. Even getting them on and off takes a little practice. Plus, the cushioned pads inside the helmet will begin to form to your head the more you wear it, making it more comfortable over time.

6. If you have medium-length or longer hair, it is more comfortable to wear something over your hair before putting on your helmet. That keeps your hair smoothed back and prevents that funny feeling when your hair gets crunched in a weird position. I wore a stretchy band (sort of reminiscent of an old tube top) made of lightweight fabric that I pulled up and over my head. My husband found it for me at a Harley store. Besides smoothing back my hair, it protected it from the wind. (If you leave your hair loose on a motorcycle, be prepared for a mess of tangles and a lot of damaged hair!)

7. Keep your camera handy. On our first day out, I carefully packed everything in it's place, only to have to stop within 30 minutes to dig out the camera. Motorcycling typically takes you on some scenic routes, so be sure you capture those amazing shots. You can tuck your camera in an easily accessible pouch, in a jacket pocket, or just hold it in your hand.

8. For safety, you will want to wear leather gloves. That can make it hard to manage your camera, however. I suggest you get a pair of gloves that don't cover your fingertips, or the kind that fold back so you more easily manipulate the camera.

9. Speak up! Passenger seats are often less comfortable than the driver's seat. That means you may need to stop more frequently for breaks than the driver might realize. Don't just "tough it out" like I was tempted to. Stop, stretch your legs, and enjoy the views. Motorcycling is not about the destination. It's about the trip. Some of the best moments come from the unexpected stops and the surprises you find along the way.

10. Resist the temptation to bring all your "cute" clothes and pack light. When motorcycling, practicality and safety win out over fashion, especially because space is at a premium. That's not to say there aren't cute motorcycle fashions out there, but if you're like me, at the end of a long day of riding, you won't care that much what you look like. You'll just want a great meal, hot shower, and a soft bed!

And in the End...

I can't say I am a totally converted "motorcycle mama," but after our week-long trip, I better understand the appeal of seeing the country on two wheels. It is amazing how much more you notice. You definitely get a better feel for the weather and you notice an amazing variety of smells. You aren't going to read or nap, like you might in a car. You have time to think and ponder. You travel the smaller roads and highways and stop in small towns you might otherwise drive right by.

The planning for the next bike trip has yet to begin. It is, however, only a matter of time. Next time I won't be reluctant, or nervous, or even scared. I will know what to pack and how to be a good passenger. And I will have just as much fun as the first time. Probably even more. I'm thinking Rocky Mountains?

Yep, I think I might like this after all.



Comments 16 comments

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Judi Bee 5 years ago from UK

Nice hub Kristen - haven't been on a motorcycle for many years, but this brought back memories :-)


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Kristin Halsted 5 years ago Author

Thanks Judi! It was an amazing experience!


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glassvisage 5 years ago from Northern California

Wow, this brought me on the motorcycle right with you! I mean, I've never been on one before (and to be honest, I don't anticipate doing so anytime soon...too wimpy). The hair tip was something I hadn't thought of before, but it makes sense and I'm glad to know it now rather than later!


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ripplemaker 5 years ago from Cebu, Philippines

I would like to try this experience... :) I don't know though how I can manage to hold on to the driver and take a photo with the other hand. hmmmm....but of course, we can always stop awhile to take a good shot.

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Kristin Halsted 5 years ago Author

Glassvisage: You should definitely try it sometime! It's a ton of fun!

Ripplemaker: You find that after you ride a bit, you don't need to hold onto anything at all and taking pictures is really pretty easy. Try it sometime... I'm sure you'll love it! I am very honored to have the Hubnugget nomination so thanks for your comments and the link!


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Don Fairchild 5 years ago from Belgrade, ME

Great advise, thanks for talking about leaning into the curves. Nothing more distracting to the driver as he wonders why the bike won't turn!


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Kate Frost 5 years ago from UK

Sounds like a great experience Kristin and I love the photos.


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Kristin Halsted 5 years ago Author

Kate: Thanks so much! It was a blast!


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onegoodwoman 5 years ago from A small southern town

Keep on learning..........

learn to ride your own bike, and

then you will not want to ride,

2nd seat again!

You are welcome to use your helmet,

but I like the freedom of my head not

being contained~~ ever see one of those

things, bounce?

"Bikers", like truckers before CB's, know how to communicate, road hazourds, turns, lane changes, etc, without headsets. It is just not for me, and I have resisted my hubby on this for years.

After so many safety features, and comfort enhancers, you might as well add some doors and gon in the car!

Go Lady!


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Kristin Halsted 5 years ago Author

onegoodwoman: Thanks so much!


topaz blue 4 years ago

Hello

Your husband sounds very similar to mine in relation to his love of motorcycling. However that is probably where the similarity ends, as my husband has frequently reported he would never have me as a passenger. When I read all your tips about being a passenger , I must admit I am so relived, as there seems so much to remember and do! However as a family, we do complete recon trips for his bike routes at which times I can take photo's at my leisure.

Great hub !

Topaz Blue


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TycoonSam 4 years ago from Washington, MI

Excellent Hub Kristin! I got my first motorcycle last summer, without my wife's permission. She was ok with it and said to me "Do what you want as long as the life insurance is paid". She will not be joining me on any rides or trips I might take.

Voted up and useful


Skirl 2 years ago

Thanks for the great article, Kristin. I've been riding for a year now and really enjoy it, but my girlfriend Kristin (sic) never rode with me until yesterday...and she seemed to like it. : ) I forwarded your article to her so she can enjoy it too.


DD 2 years ago

great article.


Lilli 17 months ago

Thanks for posting this. I'm about to become my husbands passenger for the first time. This is a great post. The hair tip! I didn't think about it, glad I read this tip tho as my hair is long and (selfishly) very important to me lol. Great post


Jacqui 7 months ago

Loved your article and the tips you gave. The hubby and I are planning a 9 day trip through the upper peninsula of Michigan in mid July 2016. I have never been on a motorcycle and I have to tell you that it scares the beegeebees out of me! I can't get rid of that feeling of being so vulnerable out of me. I'm hanging on so hard for dear life that my fingers and arms and legs hurt from being so tense. I'm trying so hard to participate in something that my husband enjoys. I want to be with him and I want to like this, but the fear is overwhelming. We've been on three practice trips 20 miles, 40 miles and 140 miles. I can say that I experience exhilaration and fear and trepidation all in one. Any suggestions?

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