Moving to New Mexico-The Land of Enchantment

Moving to New Mexico

(Note: If you have already read this part in my Roswell hub [and don't feel like reading it again], skip to the third section.)

When I told friends on the east coast I was moving to New Mexico, they all wanted to know why I would want to move out of the country. I tried to explain that New Mexico was part of the United States. I discovered that people on the east coast had a geographical learning block, there is nothing past the Mississippi River except Los Vegas and California. Some knew of Taos and Vail, but the exact location of these fabled ski areas was not to be disclosed.

I was told I was moving to the desert. I packed accordingly and moved myself, my daughter and my cat to New Mexico. We flew out with the majority of our clothing and furnishings scheduled to arrive after we found a home. We arrived in Lubbock, TX in January. The cat's flight was an hour late. Once he arrived we went to rent a car to continue our adventure.

We Can't Rent You a Car Tonight

"I don't think we can rent you a car tonight", the guy behind the counter said. "It's snowing pretty good out there." After 12 hours of airports, this was not what I wanted to hear. I had reservations in another town 100 miles away. (Wait, did he say snow?! It doesn't snow in the desert, does it? Note to self: deal with that later.)

"Look", I said, "I can drive in the snow, I have driven plenty of times in the snow." "I don't know", he said, "It can get pretty icy on the overpasses." "So, if it gets too bad, I'll just stay at some motel', I told him. This brought a look of consternation to the man's face. He called over the other guy behind the counter. They had a quiet discussion and turned back to me. "There aren't any motels between here and there", he said.

This was when I knew I had arrived in the Twilight Zone. Coming from New Jersey, I could not imagine 100 miles of highway and no place to stay! "What do you mean, no place between here and there...surely there must be something", I said. They looked at each other nervously and looked back at me shaking their heads no. "No, nothing, there was one place, but it's closed now", the one said, a little hesitantly. I could see they were wondering who was this crazy lady, with the little girl and the cat in a box going meow, meow, meow. How long before she snapped...

"Look, just rent me the car!" I snapped at them, fed up and tired, and wondering how these idiots ever got a job. Surely there was some place to stay. I probably scared them, but I got the car and set out.

Four hours and 100 miles later, I was wondering what I had gotten myself into. The guys at the airport had been right, there was nothing between there and here but one McDonald's. Never had I experienced so much dark, dark empty space. Where were the street lights, where were the towns...and why was it snowing!

Welcome to Clovis
Welcome to Clovis
Clear Blue Skies
Clear Blue Skies
The Highway
The Highway
New Jersey where I grew up
New Jersey where I grew up
More New Jersey
More New Jersey

A New Dawn in Life

The next day dawned with brilliant sunshine and the clearest, bluest skies I had ever seen. This was so different from the East Coast in January! No dreary day, no greyness...just sun and light and brilliance. The sun soon melted any residual ice and snow. The ice storm of the night before seemed a little like a nightmare of my imagining by the time noon arrived.

Time to start my new life! I had a to-do list a mile long. The top priorities was find my new home, get a car and go by the hospital to introduce myself. I was to begin working in the operating room after I got settled. The radiant sun was beaming down on me and the future was ablaze with anticipation.

As we drove around town, I was distressed to find it so different from what I was used to. Having lived my entire life in the Northeast, I was used to two-story houses, trees, hills and water. I did not find any of these my first few days in New Mexico.

We looked for house without much luck. All the houses were in neighborhoods I would prefer not to take my daughter...much less the cat. Apartments were of the cinder-block building variety. I kept looking, thinking that something would come up that I could live in!

A week later, vowing I never wanted to eat out again, we moved from the Holiday Inn to a motel with a small kitchenette. The motel was pretty run down, but clean. And I could cook again! We had been eating out, breakfast, lunch and dinner for a week and I was in home-cooked withdrawal.

I had to make a decision soon, I had already delayed my furniture delivery for one week. The motel life was not for me, I was becoming irritable and irritating. I was sick of living in one room with no yard except a parking lot. Finally I broke down and rented a house on a month to month basis.

A Note About Disparity of View

The video shown above is the poorer part of Clovis. The one below has some new neighborhoods I have never seen, and is from the viewpoint of the few rich people in Clovis. The first video is a better representation of the city. The funny thing is that some of the businesses in the first video are next to some of the businesses in the second.  Funny how people focus only on what they want to see!

The First House

Our first home was a disconsolate two colored house. One half was pink and the other half was sky blue. Both colors were faded. The neighbors to the right had tinfoil for curtains, the people on the left had trash bags. Still it was better than being in one room! We found a new place the next month, but we would laugh every time we looked at the pictures of the two-tone house. It was so ugly it was cute!

The new house was an ordinary brick front ranch. The woman across the street watched her grandson during the day. He was my daughter's age. The two soon became great friends. Ahhh, ordinary never felt so good!

My Introduction to Walmart

I made friends with some of the women at work. My daughter started in a nice day care. We settled into a routine, the furniture arrived and the house felt like home. I missed the trees and the hills, but life was good.

I needed some new linens and decided to go to the mall. I went to JC Penny's and started looking around. After a while I determined that there were no linens on the ground floor, however, for the life of me, I could not find the escalators. I felt like I had been all over the store a few times and still I could not find them.

Finally I asked a salesperson for help. "Were are the escalators", I asked. The woman gave me an odd look and said, "Excuse me?" "I was wondering where the escalators are", I answered. "There are no escalators", she responded.  The answer puzzled me. "Then how do you get upstairs?" I asked.

The woman looked at me apprehensively and said, "There is no upstairs." I was confused. "No upstairs", I said, bewildered. "Then were are the linens?" The woman edged back a step. "You can order linens through the catalogue", she said. Befuddled, I asked, "Through the catalogue? Don't you have any in the store?"

I could see I was upsetting the woman, but this idea was beyond my comprehension. Did she mean the mall had no second floor? That would mean the mall was one hallway. No, that couldn't be, who would build a mall with just one hallway. "Then were do you buy linens?" I asked. The woman smiled, this was a question she understood. "Walmart", she answered.

So began the conversion of a normal person to a Walmart shopper! I learned to go to Walmart for everything from toilet paper to cookware. A few years later, our Walmart changed locations and became a Super Walmart. After the conversion I could buy everything I needed at Walmart, any day of the week, day or night!

Note how packed the stands are!
Note how packed the stands are!

Football was Big

One day we finished early in the OR and I went shopping with a couple of the women. We went to Main Street to the only clothing store. I looked around and found a sweater that was nice. Funny, there was no price tag. The sales woman had been trailing us like a hound, we were the only people in the store. I asked her how much the sweater was. "Two Hundred and Fifty dollars", she answered.

The price astounded me. I could not imagine where you would wear a $250 sweater in this town. (This was in 1993 and, oh yea, my yankee was showing!) I had been out to eat in most of the restaurants. Even the "nice" restaurants gave you paper napkins. No one ever wore anything other than jeans, cowboy hats, boots and buck knives on their belts.

"Where in the world would you wear a $250 sweater in Clovis?" I asked the woman in disbelief. She never missed a beat, "The football game", she answered smiling. Not at all the answer I had been expecting considering we only had high school football.

As we left the store empty handed, I asked one of my friends to clarify the football comment. I found out that everybody dressed up and went to the games. Friday night was football night in Clovis, the whole town turned out for it. Clovis had been state champs for 10 years running. It took me living there 10 years before I went to a game.

There is a town in California named Clovis. Every year we would have one game with them. One year in California, the next year in Clovis. I don't know how this custom started or who came up with the idea, but it was the big enchilada of football games in Clovis!

Straight and Flat

My parents were coming for a visit, and needed directions from Albuquerque to my house. This was something I knew, I had taken the 4 hour drive to Albuquerque a few times. You only had to make two turns the whole way.

Take the interstate east out of Albuquerque, make a right at Santa Rosa, a left at Fort Sumner and you'll be here in about 4 hours. They wanted to know the names of the roads. "Don't worry about the names, there aren't that many roads in New Mexico", I told them.

They, like I, were amazed at how easy New Mexico is to navigate. The state is humongous, but the roads are few. Growing up on the east coast you get used to complicated directions. A 45 minute drive will involve several different interstates, parkways and highways. "Take the Parkway to I80 east, bear left onto 287 north, exit onto 23 north, get off on blah, blah, blah" are common directions in New Jersey.

New Mexico roads are long, straight and empty.  You occasionally get a curve in the road, but no sharp ones. An "S" curve would take about a mile or two to complete. The land is full of ranches.  You pass one every 10 to 20 miles.  I have driven 45 minutes or an hour without seeing any houses, turns or exits, just nothingness on nothingness with a few antelope thrown in for good measure.

Typical NM Driver...Never Expects A Turn

Big Scorpions

New Mexican Lobster playing with cat...Note how no water is needed!!
New Mexican Lobster playing with cat...Note how no water is needed!!
Notice the similarities between this scorpion and the lobster above. Yup, must be related!
Notice the similarities between this scorpion and the lobster above. Yup, must be related!

Lobster in New Mexico

Reading the paper I noted that the supermarket had live lobster on sale for $3.99 a pound. I had to check this out! I had not had seafood since I came to New Mexico. What a buy!

At the supermarket, I went looking for the lobsters. I could not find any lobsters, no tanks, nothing! Where were these lobsters? I asked a man behind the meat counter where the lobsters were.

"Where are the lobsters?" I inquired. "They all died", he said in a displeased voice. Not having seen any lobster tanks, I asked the obvious question. "Didn't you have them in tanks?"

The man gave me a look that said I was obviously not the sharpest tool in the shed. He sighed heavily. Poor man having to deal with cretins like me all day...it was really trying his patience! His answer? "Tank? They came in a crate."  The reply was delivered in an acerbic tone that told you anyone with half a brain would know you don't put lobsters in a tank.

"OooKkkay", was my giggly reply. I turned quickly and started walking away, not quickly enough that he didn't hear the laughter escape my lips. I was nearly in tears by the time I got outside! To this day, I can think to myself, "they came in a crate" if I need a laugh.

I guess when you are land-locked and your town's "lake" is a small pond, you would not know much about aquatic life. Still, I never realized someone could not know that lobsters lived in the water. Maybe he thought they were just large scorpion type creatures.

"What did she say?!"
"What did she say?!"
Huuhhhh????
Huuhhhh????

A New Language

Post-operative teaching was done by the operating room nurses. One day I went out to the waiting area and called Jaramillo. Coming from New Jersey, I pronounced it phonetically. People looked up at me and then went back to reading. This was not my first mispronunciation, and would not be my last.

I went to the receptionist and asked how to say the name. "Harameyo", she said. Harameyo, harameyo, harameyo I repeated in my head as I went to try again. "Harameyo", I called again. This time the people looked up and the waiting room broke out in laughter. I guess they couldn't imagine someone being so stupid they didn't know how to pronounce the name. After all , it is a very common name there. Jaramillo is to New Mexico as Smith is to the east coast.

The first time I was giving post-op instructions, I finished reviewing the sheet, asked if they had any questions and looked up. Here was my patient, and their family, with their jaws hanging down to their knees. They had not understood one word I said it seemed. My yankee accent and rapid fire speech was more than they could handle.

People live at different speeds. On the east coast it is rush, rush, rush. In New Mexico siesta is more the speed. People speak slowly and smell the roses. The colloquisms are different also, in New Jersey it's "yous guys", in New Mexico it's "yoawl". In New Jersey we get ready to do something. In New Mexico we are fixin to do it.

Once I learned to slow down my speech, "yoawl" correctly and say "fixin to", people began to understand what I was saying. Personally I think it was adding in the "fixin to" that did it.

We Still Take Checks--No ID Necessary

Can you go to your McDonald's and give them a check at the drive through? When I lived in New Mexico you could give them a check at McDonald's. You never needed ID, they just checked your name against the "bad check" list. This cracked me up! I would make sure to give them a check at least twice a year just to make sure their policy had not changed. Every time I would ask them if they wanted ID, every time they would answer the same thing. No, I'll just check the list.

Then there was the Taco Box (New Mexican Taco Bell), they had their check cashing policy posted by the drive through window. It stated that only local checks were accepted. What was their definition of local? They considered you local if you lived within a hundred mile radius of town. And, of course, no ID was necessary.

If you have ever watched the movie, "The Cowboy Way", you may remember the scene were they try to pay with a check at the Waldorf in NYC.  That scene had me rolling on the floor!  How would they know that you can't pay by check in NYC.  

Trailer for "The Cowboy Way"

Harvest Moon
Harvest Moon

A Land of Different Dimensions

Distance is different in New Mexico, I would drive 4 hours to get to Albuquerque, and that was only a little more than halfway across the state. I can drive through 3 states if I drive for 4 hours out of Maryland.

Time is different in New Mexico also. The first year I lived there I felt as if I had been transported back 30 years. The fears of the east coast didn't exist there. People still let their children have the run of the neighborhood. They knew that the neighbors would help keep an eye on them. People would laugh at me and tell me "those things only happen in the movies."

Cowboys are alive and well in New Mexico.  You can see them out riding the ranches or fixing fences.  I would see ads in the local papers for "Cowboy, own tack and horse required".  Not something I had ever seen advertised in the east!

As the years passed, I began to love New Mexico and to recognize it's unique beauty. You could see every sunrise and sunset. The rainbows are the best on earth. It may not rain often, but nature sure does put on a show when it does. Double rainbows were common and I even got to see a few triples.

You have not seen the true beauty of the moon until you see a giant orange harvest moon swell up out of the horizon and then surge into the sky. I had never seen a moon like that out east.

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Teresa McGurk 7 years ago from The Other Bangor

Oh my. They came in a crate. . .

I know what you mean about the time-warp thing -- I felt I'd gone back about 30 years when I moved from Europe to South Carolina. It took me years to slow down to the appropriate rate of social transaction. . .

Great hub. Maybe I'll skip New Mexico when I start my great cross-country trek. . .


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k@ri 7 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

Hi Teresa! You made me laugh! I swear I cannot hear that without a chuckle.

It does take a while to adapt, doesn't it? I just about was there and came back east, now it's time to speed up again.

Northwest NM may be worth seeing, it's just the long, flat getting there that can be tedious.


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Rochelle Frank 7 years ago from California Gold Country

I really enjoyed this. I have lived in California all of my life and have traveled a lot in the Western states. A lot of people don't realize how much empty space there is out on this side of the country. 

I've also been on two auto trips to the east coast. Lucky to get out of NJ without getting lost for all time. I think I have a few relatives that are still looking for the right offramp back there.


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Netters 7 years ago from Land of Enchantment - NM

OMG That is exactly how I feel. Everything you said is sooo true. I had to learn to talk slower, wave to people (even if you don't know them), and don't expect to be waited on quickly. It takes a lot of getting used to. They still have trouble when I ask for a half pound of cheese at the deli. Half! I just order 1 pound, it's easier. I love this hub. Your right about the rainbows and the sunsets. I have a lot of pictures of sunsets on http://myspace.physc in case you want to check them out. Thank you for the great hub. I feel like we're related, both from Jersey, only I'm still here in NEW Mexico.


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k@ri 7 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

Rochelle, Until I saw with my own eyes, I could never have comprehended how much open space there is! I had never in my life driven 45 minutes without passing another car.

When I lived in NJ, I can remember getting lost because I was distracted for a second. There are too many roads to keep track of, and once you miss your exit it is almost impossible to get back! In NM you just look for an overpass and take that exit to turn around.

Tell your relatives that I'll have my sister look for them and guide them back out if they need! LOL!

Hey Netters! I thought you would like this. I forgot about having to wave to everyone...everyone waves as you pass them in your car. In the beginning I was admonished by my friends for not waving back. I finally learned!

Since I came back east, people keep telling me how nice I am...how patient. I find this very amusing, because in NM they thought I was abrupt and pushy!

BTW the link didn't work for me. I was looking forward to checking out the rainbows! Maybe you could do a photo hub?


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goldentoad 7 years ago from Free and running....

Good read, I know the southwest fairly well as I am a bit of a desert rat. New Mexico is great country, ever run into the kokopelli?


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Peggy W 7 years ago from Houston, Texas

Ah.......the kokopelli were my German girlfriend's favorites, goldentoad.

Great hub Kari. Yes, the west does have vast open spaces! And the speed is slower for sure.

Hey Teresa, don't skip New Mexico. Some gorgeous scenery there!


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Laughing Mom 7 years ago

k@ri-- I knew we had talked about us both living in Portales, but I didn't know it was at the same time! That's funny! Clovis was very much the 1st video to me. City Limits was about the only draw to that town for my crowd.

A two-toned house. That's hilarious! I wish you had pictures of it. Thanks for the trip down memory lane. You drew a very precise picture of my college years with the video down the dirt road.

And yes, if you don't mind, would you try resending that second email?


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k@ri 7 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

I've heard his flute upon the winds, urging me to spread my wings. He sent me to the east to find the job's the same all the time. I listened for his flute again, the whispered wind said pick up the pen. Why a pen, I asked him then. Just plant a seed and I will show how to make the seedling grow. I found the pen and now I strive to find the truth I have inside.

I may have met him a time or two, since I have no idea where that came from!

golden, New Mexico is great. I never knew how many stars were in the sky until I moved out to the country there. I loved to sit outside and listen to the coyotes and look at the stars. I may have stayed, but my parents are getting older and it takes so long to travel back east.

Thanks Peggy, Writing the hub reminds me how I miss the wide open...and the emptiness!

Laughing Mom, I wonder if I ever met you...have you ever had surgery out there, I may have been your nurse.

The two-toned house was a sight! I haven't been able to find the picture, if I do I'll scan it and put it on here.

I was surprised to find that video. I have driven those roads so many times. If you went to the road across from the stop sign, go down a quarter mile, there was my house. The guy on the corner right in front of where the car stops raises fighting cocks. Those are some MEAN birds. He had them tied up and they would run to the end of their leads trying to attack my kids and I when we visited. I never thought I could be scared of a chicken!


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Laughing Mom 7 years ago

No, no surgery. But if you listened to local radio, you might have heard me. We probably would have had lots of fun together if we'd have known each other!

Scared of a chicken. That's funny, but true!


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k@ri 7 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

I probably did hear you. I remember reading something you wrote about the radio station and I am pretty sure I know which one it was. We would have had fun!

Yup, that's me, chicken of a chicken! But those fighting cocks are vicious! I have never been chased by a bird before. LOLOL


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Elena. 7 years ago from Madrid

k@ri, I will be back to read later, gotta get moving soon, but that moon shot deserves a comment all by itself! WOW and major WOW!


Iphigenia 7 years ago

Sounds wonderful - those open spaces almost hurt my eyes, I've always lived surrounded by hills and mountains. I'm a "foreigner" (a Brit living in France) and even after years here and being fluent in the language, those little cultural differences catch me out every so often - pace of life, personal space, eye contact, modes of address - all fascinating stuff.


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Gail S 7 years ago

I read the first section and still broke out in laughter - even after reading your Roswell hub. I was in fits of laughter throughout the hub! So much fun!!! I will be rereading this just to make sure I didn't miss anything with the tears of laughter in my eyes!

I remember visiting Clovis one time and I'll never forget it! I recognized much of the first video - mainly because it felt so foreign when I visited. The need for a "smellometer"! I remember being warned about that! But I would definitely NOT advise anyone to miss out on New Mexico - even if they have to drive through Clovis. It is beautiful country and you can get around pretty easily - we never ran into a traffic jam!


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k@ri 7 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

Elena, You should see it in real life...WOW is exactly right! Thanks for stopping by!

Hi Iphigenia! It was pretty hard to get used to in the beginning, but after a few years it grew on me. It's funny how the little things can catch you at times, though.

Gail, Glad you had so much fun! I forgot to mention the "smell of money" in Clovis. Too many feedyards and dairies to get away from it. Funny, how the mind lets you forget unpleasant things!

The only time we would even get more than a couple of cars at a light was if you were going by the High School when the kids got out. Good thing I usually go to work so early, or I may not be able to put up with the traffic in DC :)


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Elena. 7 years ago from Madrid

Hey k@ri!  Had as much fun reading this hub as the Roswell one :)  The "crate" crack is just hilarious!


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k@ri 7 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

Hi Elena, That was probably the funniest thing that happened in my mind. The man spoke to me as if I was such an idiot! LOL!


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Dink96 7 years ago from Phoenix, AZ

Never been to Clovis, but I do understand there's an air base in those parts... Anyway, have been to Albuquerque, Santa Fe, etc.. Love the drive from AZ to NM. Adore the art I've found in Santa Fe. Have picked up some nice little pieces just from artists showing in a parking lot art show. Nobody does Mexican food like they do in New Mexico. I like the "Christmas" enchiladas: red & green. I do love the wide open spaces of the American west.


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k@ri 7 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

Dink96, Yes, there is an airbase, Cannon Air Force Base. Santa Fe is beautiful. I worked there as a traveling nurse for about a year. They do make the best Mexican food in New Mexico! I love green enchiladas. Thanks for stopping by.


Jmell 7 years ago

oh I love New Mexico! I moved there and stayed for 25 yrs....just moved recently and I miss their laid back appreciation of life and people.....and beautiful scenery. Truly the Land of Enchantment!


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k@ri 7 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

Jmell, I've been back east for about 3 years and I find I miss the sun more and more! :D


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yenajeon 6 years ago from California

Great Hub!Im from New Mexico also! And I miss it all the time. Well, mostly the food and people. Sigh I'm so homesick now =(


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k@ri 6 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

yenajeon, What part of New Mexico? I miss the food and people also!


Melanie 6 years ago

I am an east coast transplant in Clovis. All I can say is, "Amen!"


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wanderingpops 5 years ago

I moved to Albuquerque a year ago. At least it is a city. But any direction you go just blows my mind how far it can be between towns. I moved here from extreme northeast TN (4 1/2 years of what I call hell) and there from WA state (absolute heaven). I love the wide open but it is still surprising. We drove to Roswell after work on a Friday night a few weeks ago and was amazed just how much NOTHING there is out there. But we love it. Some day I will probably go back to WA but for now I am having a blast exploring NM.

David Sims


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k@ri 5 years ago from Sunny Southern California Author

Melanie, Amen back, sister! :D

David, I learned to love the nothingness of New Mexico. It has a beauty that is hard to surpass, once you recognize it. Have a blast exploring! :D


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BusinessOpsMngmnt 5 years ago from USA

Loved it! Moved here 6 years ago.

First Friday night in our small town NONE of the restaurants were open? Huh? When we asked why, we were told 'because it is High School Graduation' In other words, all the help and the owners are AT the graduation.

too funny!


klrwildheart 4 years ago

Loved this! We lived in New Mexico (Santa Fe) for a year in 2010 and 'twas a very different, yet enjoyable experience. Would do it again but not in SF...perhaps Silver City, Deming, Las Cruces.......

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