Sometimes people can say the rudest things in any situation without even realizing it. Motherhood is difficult as it is without the people around you trying to give you the advice you didn’t ask for. There are some things that they may say to you that is actually really offensive.
Preparing for a NICU stay with your baby whether born premature or born with complications can be extremely stressful. I have now had 2 different NICU stays one with each of my children. Having already experienced one with my daughter the one with my sons was slightly easier.
I spend a lot of my time wondering whether or not I’m doing what's right for my daughter. To be honest though I think this is what travels through most parents heads when they are raising an almost 4 year old with another one on the way or any age for that matter.