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Neil Warner (alfaprima)

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Me, a writer of relationship issues? No way! When my old friends ask me how come I ended up writing women books, being the IT heavyweight they know me to be, I have only one answer: "Well, it all began as self-defense!" I grew up surrounded by three sisters and a demanding mother, which really forced me to understand how they think and why they do things as they do...
I needed information about female psychology in order to have a better life: what were their "hot buttons" what do they care about in life? It is easy for me now to write about those issues that women care about: I grew up with them, and I was listening to their conversations....
Now, I do care for developing positive, nurturing relationships; for finding respectful ways of fighting with loved ones, and for communicating feelings in such a way that they build up the other person's self-esteem. My friends still find this skill of mine a little bit wacky, but I found that it helps my own life a lot!
My life is now really great, rooted in Europe with my wife and three boys that are growing too fast for my wishes. I hope they can learn how to have better relationships in their lives because I talk to them about the skills, and perhaps they see me modeling patience and listening at home. It's always a challenge to remember how to behave lovingly towards others, but I'm aware of how important is this issue to be happy in any family or friendship, so I keep doing it.

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