Control means to have the power to influence or direct something or someone. Like a magnet, you attract and repel people. Your purpose in life is not to control people. Your purpose is so much more.
Your head is filled with thoughts. These thoughts create your emotions. The way you think determines the quality of your life. All you have to do is recognize the power of your thoughts.
A negative mind is a dangerous mind. We should learn to be vigilant over our thoughts.
Uncontrolled emotions have a critically damaging effect on the people around us. That is why it is so important that we learn to cope with our emotions, especially anger.
Everyone has insecurities. These insecurities are burdens that we carry with us through our lives. The challenge is not to make them disappear, but to learn how to cope with them.