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Choosing Your Best Friend

Updated on February 12, 2009

Your New Dog

Dogs are still man's best friend. But how to choose the right one for you and/or your family, especially if you're on a tight budget?  Can you afford an $800 "designer dog" from the pet store?  If you're like most of us, the answer is "no".

Try a shelter or rescue first.  I know everyone says to go to an animal shelter to look for a dog first, but it's true.  Most of the dogs there are perfectly normal, loving animals, simply looking for a family to love.  Some may need some lessons in manners or potty training, but they are otherwise healthy and will be much happier if you take them home! 

A dog at a shelter could be there for many reasons, some good, some bad, but most all of the reasons will be of no fault to the dog.  Perhaps the owner was elderly and died, or was moved to a care facility where pets weren't allowed.  Perhaps the dog was a birthday present for a young child who ended up being allergic to it.  And yes, a growing number of dogs are in shelters because their owners lost their home or apartment and had to move in with a non-pet friendly relative, neighbor, or homeless shelter. 

Some dogs are in a shelter because they bit someone or have bad temperments, but most dogs are well-behaved and maybe a little bit scared to be in such a loud, unfamiliar place without the people they once loved. 

Adopting a dog from a shelter is MUCH cheaper than a pet store, usually between $50-$150, depending on the age & breed of the dog.  You can ask all the questions you want about any dog that interests you, and you should be able to spend some quality time alone with the animal, indoors and outdoors.  This time spent with the dog is good for learning about each other. 

A good idea is, after you & the dog have had a friendly meeting, gently roll the dog over onto his back and gently but firmly hold him there.  Expect him to struggle a little bit or be confused, but he should NOT bite you or struggle too hard, or whimper.  A whimper might mean that he's injured somewhere on the inside and you're hurting him.  A struggling dog means that it may be difficult to teach him that YOU are the boss; not him.  He may be used to being the pack leader.  A biting dog means that you do not want to adopt him.  He is scared and lashed out by biting you.  He could bit your children, your wife, your neighbor, your other pets.....He simply may not have a docile, sweet temperment.  Pick another dog.

Have you heard about all these "designer dogs" out there?  Most designer dogs have been created with pet allergies in mind.  Poodles, for example, don't have fur, they have HAIR.  And because they have hair, they do not shed and do not grow thicker coats in winter and shed in the summer.  No shedding whatsoever.  There are a couple other dog breeds that don't shed.  But because poodles are hypo-allergenic, many breeds are being mixed with them, like labradors, golden retrievers, and cocker spaniels, just to name a few.  These dogs have a variety of traits from both breeds.  They are fairly new into the world, but most trained shelter or pet store workers should be able to advise you on how big they will grow, and other information that you will want to know before purchasing one. 

Another thing to consider when choosing your new best friend, whether from a shelter or a pet store, is how big will your friend get when he's an adult?  Will he be small enough to fit in your tiny efficiency apartment, or will he require a backyard to run in?  It is not fair to buy a dog that you cannot sufficiently support, feed, and exercise. 

One more thing:  make sure you buy your dog at a reputable establishment, whether a private breeder, a pet store, or a shelter.  Make sure you obtain paperwork detailing the history of his shots & vaccinations.  Most pet stores even have a 3-day return policy, where you can return the animal for a full refund within 3 days if you bring him home and for whatever reason, he's not the right fit for you or your family.  Ask about this option with shelters & breeders.

Dogs are fountains of love, just waiting for people to love.  They love you now matter what, and they will be true to you even if you are not true to them.  They greet you at the door after a long day, barking and wagging their tails, saying "I've missed you SO MUCH!  I'm so glad you're home!" 

What amazing, wonderful creatures that God has blessed us with.   

A Toy, Apricot Poodle Named Penny with Her Human, Rachel

A Toy, Apricot Poodle Named Penny with Her Human, Rachel
A Toy, Apricot Poodle Named Penny with Her Human, Rachel


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      Rebecca Graf 

      10 years ago from Wisconsin

      I got my first dog a couple of Christmas' ago and she is perfect for me. She is half silky terrier and Bichon. My husband did spend a little more on her because all of them in the shelters around us were large dogs and I wanted just a little lap dog.

      My daughter just got a lab yesterday from a friend of hers. Her dog took off one day and returned with a present of 11 pups. They were so anxious to get rid of them that all we had to do was pay for the shots. A great deal for such a dog.

    • dana825 profile image


      10 years ago from Chicago

      Love the hub. I am a fellow animal lover with four dogs... all of whom I love very much. I also have a horse but I actually would consider me his human just like you said in your picture. I look forward to more hubs about animals!


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