Living at a Pet Friendly College: The Stephens Pet Program
I have been a resident of the Stephens College Pet Dorms since my Freshman year of college.
This year Stephens was rightfully ranked the most pet friendly college in the country. Allowing pets to reside in college dorms is a surprisingly controversial topic, and not one that many people have the experience to give a justified opinion on. As a student who has been living in pet friendly dorms for two and a half years, I would like to share my thoughts on the program.
To give you a little bit of background, I am completing a 3 year 2 summer BFA degree at Stephens College this coming May. Until last summer I lived in the pet dorms with my Shetland Sheepdog, Taffy. Taffy was diagnosed with congestive heart failure my 2nd year of school, and passed away that summer. Upon returning to the dorms at the beginning of the semester I adopted my current dog, Lily. My experience adopting Lily made me realize the high demand shelters have for foster homes. Since Stephens allows students to foster pets, Lily and I now have a third roommate - my foster cat, Delilah.
Stephens allows most types of animals to live in the dorms (cats, dogs, rodents, lizards, sugar gliders, potbellied pigs). Typically students that have pets live without a roommate in a large room (originally designated for two people before the pet program started). More details can be found about the Stephens College pet program by following the link in the "Further Reading" section to the Stephens website.
Below are the what I consider to be the highlights of the pet program.
Benefits for Students
Sense of Community - The girls that lived on my floor Freshman year were like a family unit, which I know was not the case on most of the non-pet floors. Most of us purchased baby gates so that we could leave our doors open, and a good portion of our time was spent chatting in the hallways while our pets played together. The girls with pets see each other all the time - in the halls, in the fenced in yards, in the cafeteria - and we always stop to chat. I met a lot of my best friends in college because of my dog.
Moral Support - Coming home to a wagging tail got me through my first two years of school. When Taffy passed away I was not myself. Now that I have Lily I am starting to recover. No one knows how to make you feel needed and loved quite like a pet.
Physical wellness - Every day, rain or shine, I walk down three flights of stairs, out the front door of the dorms, around the quad, and back up three flights of stairs at least 6-7 times. That is a lot of walking and a lot of stairs. And that does not include the playing ball and running agility courses and the wrestling that occur on a daily basis. Not to mention chasing the escape-artist cat down the hallway.
Emotional Wellness -
A) My dog gives stellar hugs. Who else is going to give you hugs at an all women's college?
B) I laugh and smile more at my dog in ten minutes than I do for the rest of my day - she sounds like a dinosaur, she is weirdly flexible, and she has no fear. It's a funny combination. As the saying goes, laughter is the best medicine.
Reduced Conflict - Having a pet roommate instead of a human roommate leads to a happier, more stress free place to call home. Admittedly Lily is much more mischievous than Taffy ever was.
Learning to Balance Career and Family - School is good. Being successful is good. My family is far more important than all of that. Having a pet during college teaches you that even if you are as busy as all get out, you still need to put your family first. In the end the happiness of the people and animals you love is what is going to determine your own happiness. Not your career.
Keeping a Schedule - I have to keep a schedule for the dog, which keeps me on a schedule. I do not stay up all night. I do not sleep through classes. If the dog has to pee the dog has to pee, and I better be awake and present at the right times to make that happen in a satisfactory location.
Teaches Responsibility - I know this sounds cliché, but you can go through college caring only about yourself, or you can go through college and worry about your pet. And then maybe your self. If you have time. When Taffy was diagnosed with congestive heart failure I suddenly became responsible for vet visits, correct administration of pills (4-5 pills, 4-5 times a day), keeping her on a heart healthy diet, and making sure she did not overexert herself. Meanwhile I was taking an 18 hour course load and going to rehearsals 5 hours a night. I learned quickly to make lists and set priorities.
- Stephens College : Undergraduate Admissions - Pet Central
Find out more information about Stephens College and the pet program here.
- Colleges Extend the Welcome Mat to Students’ Pets - NYTimes.com
In an increasingly competitive recruiting market for top students, becoming pet-friendly is another way for a college to differentiate itself.
- The 10 Most Pet-Friendly Colleges in the United States | Dogster
Stephens College recently ranked number one on this list, but if Stephens isn't for you, here are some more options.
Benefits for Pets
Exposure - And by exposure I mean your pet will be exposed to everything. They are around dogs, people, cats, pigs, ferrets. You name it and they have probably experienced it by the time they are through at Stephens College. Since Lily is still young I am taking advantage of our last year here to prepare her for the real world. We go everywhere, explore everything, and she is one of the most well adjusted dogs you will ever meet.
Extra Attention - Taffy used to be overjoyed to come back to campus after spending a holiday at home. Being in a dorm room with your animal all the time means that 100% of the time you are home you are with them. When you take them out on a walk a swarm of people will stop to croon and pet them. Especially if your animal happens to be a potbellied pig. Or a cat on a leash.
Community - How many people do you know who can say their dog has at least nine best friends (that are dogs)? My pup has a unique relationship with each of her doggie friends and she picks up funny habits from all of them. Taffy was best friends with a giant rabbit. But that's another story.
Foster Program - Girls who do not have a pet to bring can foster a pet. Every foster animal that stays at Stephens is an animal the Columbia shelters would have otherwise had to put down. (My first foster cat, Delilah, is going to her forever home in a few days!). One of the local shelters recently started a scholarship program with Stephens that gives scholarship money to incoming students who foster a pet and spend a few hours a month volunteering at the shelter.
Benefits for the College
Recruiting - Stephens College uses it's pet friendly campus as one of the main marketing techniques to bring in new students. The program has grown to encompass two whole dorm buildings and part of a third building. In the two years I have been at school, the program has doubled in size.
Filling the Dorms - The pet dorms are the cheapest single rooms on campus, but they are still more expensive than a double room. Girls rooming with their pets are paying more for their room than they would be if they were living with a human roommate.
I would love to answer your questions if you are interested in attending a pet friendly college or if you are just curious about the experience. Here is to spending the 'best years of your life' with 'man's best friend'.
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