If your parakeet is antisocial you need to separate her from other animals. In some states you can get in trouble for letting one animal harm another. It is considered neglect.
It could be she is just naturally aggressive and won't make a good pet. There is always the odd one that doesn't turn out how we'd like it.
If you're determined to keep her (alone and in her own cage) you should give her lots of toys to keep her mind occupied. Do not try to grab her, even when changing her from one cage to the next. Wear leather gloves to handle her, and when possible simply put two cages door to door and shoo her into the second one, closing it behind her.