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So You Want to Own a Horse

Updated on May 19, 2014

Some things to consider BEFORE you giddyup and go-go to get one...

Since the ripe old age of four I have been obsessed with horses. Having passed the 40-something mark without losing interest (hey, I even kept all my Breyers :o), I think it's fairly safe to declare them a lifelong love. While the other kids in my kindergarten class were drawing stick people, I was drawing tubby little horses with ridiculous manes and tails. Every year (and often in between) I would ask the Lord, my parents, grandparents (both sets just in case), Santa Claus, The Easter Bunny - and anyone else that happened to be listening - if I could pleasePleasePLEASE have a horse for Christmas this year. If not Christmas, then maybe for my birthday (New Years? Valentines? Easter? Groundhogs Day?) Anytime's good for me, actually...

It wasn't until I was in my late 30s, however, that I finally got one - well, two (and my husband gets major points for the BEST Christmas ever - he got a 3 year sabbatical from ALL gift giving I was so happy :o) I always refer to the horses as my little Psalm 37s running around out there in the yard and pasture and give thanks for them most every day (I try really hard not to forget).

I count it as an additional blessing that we can keep our horses right here at with us, and I can't imagine having it any other way :o) Not everyone has that advantage, however, some people need to board. This lens will (I hope) help you become better informed about the things you should consider with horse ownership. Who knows? You might even come across a thing or two you didn't already know or maybe something you never even thought about.

WHO's WHO in the PHOTO: These are two of "the girls" Bella is a half Arabian and Lady, (who is busy mowing the grass in the background) is a purebred Arabian :o)

P.S. I know I said we had TWO horses earlier, but they seem to have multiplied. Er, latest head count indicates we now have a total of 9 (oh, my!)


Every year TENS OF THOUSANDS of unwanted horses are either shipped across the borders to slaughter or left in fields to starve. Why? Because too many people didn't fully grasp what was involved in horse ownership. It all begins with making a careful [and responsible] purchase...

WHO do you want the horse for?

Your child? Your sweetheart? Yourself?


**These are toughest, I think. When I was growing up, there were 7 other girls close to my age in the neighborhood; at one time nearly all of us were horse crazy and taking lessons. What happened? B-O-Y-S (they wiped out all but 2 of us at the lesson barn :o/

**Is your child already riding? How long have they been riding? Can they manage multiple sentences without the word "horse" in them? (I couldn't; still can't, now that I think about it :o) Do they think horses smell good? Believe it or not, I've noticed that others who have "got it really bad" (like me) LOVE the smell of horses. Are they willing to do ANYTHING? This wouldn't be safe these days but when I was 12 or 13, the girl across the street and I cleaned houses and scrimped and saved up enough to rent two horses together for a whole week at the barn where we rode. Every day that week, we pedaled our bikes 13 miles (ONE WAY) and spent hours grooming and riding "our" horses before making the trip home (the absolute best time I'd ever had, to be honest :o)

**If you think this might be a phase, consider leasing as an alternative to owning. Or try renting one as a test. Help them to volunteer at a local horse rescue to give them a good idea of what's involved in caring for horses (not to mention what happens when you don't!) If they are not already taking lessons, find someplace and get them started (then you can both see if this is something you really want to pursue).

**Be sure to factor in other things like your child will grow and an itty-bitty pony will not, BEFORE you make your purchase. Consider a "Backyard Betty" from a horse rescue for just riding around and hangin' out; rescues have some wonderful horses. But remember, these are not bicycles you can stick in a yard sale if you get tired of them or change your mind - they DO have feelings.


**This one can be dicey; even though it's a great thought to look out the window Christmas morning and see a horse wearing a bright red bow, it may not be the best plan. Think about boxing up a halter instead with a gift certificate good for one Holiday Horse of their choice. My husband (and his dad) did a lot of looking and legwork, but ultimately he gave me the freedom to choose the one I wanted (and actually, I managed to mess that one up - see blurb in next paragraph and next module about breeds - when I judged the book by its cover, so to speak :o)


**This is, of course, the best one :o) One of the mistakes I made with ours (and I am actually glad I made it or we wouldn't have our Shadow, but I don't recommend it) was I did not properly research breed information. Tennessee Walking Horses are a wonderful breed; but careful consideration should be used BEFORE purchasing a former "big lick" horse (we got that information belatedly). Raised up north - and full of antiquated knowledge - I wasn't familiar enough with Tennessee Walkers to know that Shadow was totally wrong for my "old school" Huntseat mentality. Added to that, I was unable to "test drive" him properly as I was NOT in riding shape, (the fact that I walked 2 miles every day in 15 minutes didn't matter at all), had to borrow the farmer's old roping saddle (BIG), Shadow had not been ridden in a year and he was in a wide open pasture; so other than walking him around awhile, we didn't do much.

**If at all possible (and if you're not already doing so) get back in the saddle first! Take some lessons or rent a horse - but get yourself "ride ready". Visit the horse where he lives now on more than one occasion (we went FOUR times :o). Look around his environment; old and somewhat shabby don't matter as much as horse friendly and tended do. Horses poop between 10 and 15 times every 24 hours, so beware the place whose field is ALWAYS clean (we have a place not far from us in the spotless paddock category; Why? Because the people are not feeding their horses properly and they are EATING their own manure - Ugh :oP

**Check out his body language toward people when you see him (is he friendly? cranky? disinterested? fleeing the scene?) especially toward the person who owns him. Ours will all come at a whistle and automatically drop their noses in their halters when asked. On one of the farms we went to were HIGH dollar show horses in a horrible barn. It was dim, dusty and depressing with low ceilings and completely closed in stalls (there was a tiny window to dump the feed through). The proud owner of this sorry establishment was bragging about his prize stud who was worth about a gazillion dollars - yawn - and went and pulled the horse from his stall to show us (and he was pretty, but oh so very unhappy :o( Actually, I guess I WAS impressed; or maybe more like astonished at the amount of hatred emanating from that quietly standing horse toward his oh-so-clueless owner at the other end of the lead rope. Might want to watch your back there, buddy, because if that horse ever gets the chance, he is gonna HURT you (wow).


1. The LESS experienced the rider is, the MORE experienced the horse should be (horse and rider learning together is a road to disaster that leads straight to the Emergency Room);

2. The MORE excitable the rider is, the LESS excitable the horse should be (your horse will easily pick up on your feelings, whether you mean for him to or not);

3. Think about this purchase as only SLIGHTLY less important than getting married or giving birth; after all, horses CAN live up to 40 years :o)

WHO's WHO in the PHOTO: This would be an itty bitty me with Champ (L) and Shadow (R) on the very best Christmas ever (My 'warm fuzzies' appear to have carried over into the photo as it was taken with an OTD Digital Camera; Um, that'd be Older Than Dirt, in case you're wondering :oD

points to ponder...

1. Horses are relatively simple to understand

- Except when they're not

2. People are basically honest

- Except when they're not

WHAT do you want to be able to do with it?

The A-B-Cs: Allegiances, Beliefs and Corruption


Lets face it, everyone has an opinion; but it's always best to form your own, right? (At least I think so, but then that's MY opinion, isn't it? Ha). The tricky part is being able to get your hands on enough UNbiased information about all this stuff to actually form one. After all, you're the one buying the horse. It's not about whether or not they match your DREAM; it's more the match to your REALITY that counts. That picture perfect fantasy horse can quickly become a night-mare, and that is NOT a fun bubble to have busted :oP

I think the Bedouins had the best idea when bartering for horses; the horse would be concealed behind a curtain or tent flap which was lifted up in increments, very slowly. In this way, any conformation faults or soundness issues were noticed FIRST as the horse was inspected carefully from the ground up. The "ooooooh" factor can definitely be dangerous - and we're all susceptible to some extent - so find someone you trust (and who's willing to smack you back to sense if you need it :o) to go with you on your horse hunting expedition.

Decide what it is you are going to want to be able to do with this horse: Show? Trail Ride? Hang out? Tricks? A little bit of everything? List it all out on paper if it helps, but TAKE YOUR TIME! As silly as this may sound, I highly recommend watching "Black Beauty" [Warner Home Video] to help you see how it is from the horse's perspective. We attend auctions periodically (for tack and supplies) and it hurts my heart to see those horses that come through multiple times, always a little lower each successive time - it takes a devastating toll.

Avoid those "great deals" and "fixer uppers" and just follow the old adage: If it sounds to good to be true, it will probably cost you a fortune or put you in the hospital...maybe both.


I pledge ALLEGIANCE to the breed...

People in general can become fiercely loyal to many things; I know I am a staunch supporter of chocolate in almost any form. While this is admirable in most instances, it can become a hindrance when gathering information on different horse breeds. Just because your best friend thinks AQHA hung the moon is no reason to run right out and buy a Quarter Horse. In the same vein, you shouldn't necessarily discount an entire breed because of a handful of disparaging remarks either.

Horses, like people, are collection of individuals and there is one out there that's right for you. The best way to look at it is that EVERY breed is capable of producing a lemon (it's best to avoid any horse - no matter how pretty - that has too many things that need to be "fixed" unless you have an awful lot of time, patience, and knowledge!)

Now there ARE some obvious absolutes when choosing a breed: my husband for example, who is 6'1" and weighs over 200lbs, would probably not do well with the smaller breeds (Morgan, Arabian, Haflinger, etc.) but should seek out larger boned horses instead (Percheron, draft crosses, Tennessee Walkers, etc.). Your pocketbook may also dictate your direction to some extent: I may be dead serious about wanting (and oh, yeah: wishing-wishing-wishing for :o) an Andalusian, Lusitano or Fresian, but my checkbook clearly indicates I am joking...

Underneath this module are a couple of links to some breed lists with some basic information.


Balancing the BELIEFS

Be leery of blanket statements and half truths about barns and breeds - look what happened to the Pit Bull. Handling is every bit as important as heredity, so be sure to factor that in: all Arabian horses are not necessarily too hot to handle any more than all Quarter Horses are always calm. Perhaps this is a good time to warn you (a bit belatedly), that most of the "horse people" I run into around here [on the Reneck Riviera] consider me to be on the bananas side of the fruit basket (and you are certainly free to agree with this assessment, but - for the record - I prefer the term "eccentric" :o)

There is NO law that says you have to compete. If you don't want to, don't. Just because your other horse buddies are in the ring does not mean you are obligated to follow suit. I HATE competition - I get way too stressed (shoot, I can't even handle bidding for stuff on Ebay without sweating profusely and having heart palpitations and how silly is that? :o) The reverse is also true: just because your pals are all about hanging out with their horses and hitting the trail is no reason you can't shine in the show ring if you want to.

Simply because a horse is a "rescue" horse doesn't mean he must be a nag. You would be amazed at the number of registered "big bucks" horses that wind up (usually through no fault of their own) at auctions and rescues - particularly Arabians (who are woefully misunderstood, and don't get me started). Don't discount adopting from a legitimate rescue based on other people's disparaging comments. I'm constantly amazed (and disappointed) by the superiority complex many horse owners seem to have about their own purebred's "poor relations" :o/ With that in mind let me also note that just because someone charges a fortune that fancy schmancy registered steed they're selling, it's no guarantee they will live up to their pricetag OR paperwork. It doesn't really matter if the Sire of the seller's triple registered "darling" of his stable was a Tri-State Champion if all his "get" [offspring] are a bunch of triple registered turnips.

One more note: The only person that needs a stallion is a breeder! This includes horses that were used for stud and later gelded - this often does not go well...So don't buy into statements like, "He'll calm down once he's cut/been gelded..." Think instead about what'cha gonna do if he DOESN'T??


CORRUPTION: It's not all politics and used car salesmen

It is most unfortunate that some people feel the need to embellish their horse's abilities and virtues to a fictional degree. There are some honest owners out there, but they are hard to find floating around in the sea of storytellers. I'll use two of our "accidental rescues" for examples:

Cinnamon: FACT - He is an Appaloosa; FICTION - He is a dead broke trail horse (wanna see a rodeo?)

Max: FACT - He is a Quarter Horse; FICTION - He just needs to be "snipped"/gelded (he turned out to be a chryptorchid and required a much bigger surgical procedure to turn him into a gelding - and yeah, they knew).

- and we won't even get into the details of trying to just FEED them in the beginning: let's just say mealtime and suicide attempt were pretty much synonymous around here for awhile...

For the full stories on our horses, visit our web site in the link list below.

ASK ABOUT A TRIAL PERIOD. Some owners will allow you to "lease" or "test drive" the horse for a specific period of time before you actually buy them. This is a great, low risk way to see if you two take to each other (if you don't then it's no harm/no foul, right?) If you DO choose a trial period, however, I strongly suggest you WRITE IT ALL DOWN and have it signed by all parties involved (this protects everyone!) so there are no misunderstandings on either side.


Here a couple of good sources to learn more about... - Horse Breeds - Horse Showing - Our Four-Legged Family Members

I recommend running a search on any breed you are interested in to find out more. A basic search on a specific breed will generally bring up the registry organization (and they'll have LOTS of info: but remember, it will also be in their favor).

Beware the blast from the past...

It's almost impossible to find an adult horse without ANY issues (unless you grew 'em yourself :o) but to keep disasters to a minimum it's best to find out as much about his background as you can (IF you can). Even the big stuff can help, i.e. "He was shown".

WHERE will he or she be living?

Home Sweet Home or a Horse Hotel?

Be sure to factor in your lifestyle and personal preferences - Do you travel or are you a homebody? Work like a Trojan or avoid manual labor like the plague? Want to have other people handy to ride with? Prefer to be alone with your horse? Have more time than money? Have more money than time? Show? Compete? These things are all important when making this decision. Be careful about appearances, they CAN be deceiving: Fancy digs are nice to see, but I promise that your horse will NOT care if he has a shiny brass plaque engraved with his name by his stall in a billion dollar barn. He will be much more interested in a 4F kind of place: Food, Friends, Fun and Frolic :o)

Of course I don't think I need to tell you that if you live someplace like an apartment, that's going to pretty much decide for you...but here are a few more thoughts on each option:


- Less expensive, certainly, but YOU are the one "on call" 24/7.

- Horses do not understand things like "Saturday morning", "holiday", "inclement weather", or "I'm sick". They do, however, understand things like "feeding time", "hungry" and "HELP!" (see photo below this module).

- Words like "vacation" tend to disappear from your reality (Me? I could care less; I have horses, so what else matters? :o)

- It is one thing to ask a friend to stop by and feed your fish if you aren't able, as opposed to asking someone to "stop by" morning AND evening to feed your 9 horses....

- You can spend a lot more time with your horse(s) easily and know how well they are cared for (that's the biggie to me).


- It costs a lot more money this way, but someone else is (hopefully) on call 24/7

- Be sure to check references; is it stall boarding or pasture board?

- Are the people that work there careful or careless with the horses? Watching them tack up can be a quick way to assess this: Do they PLACE or PLUNK the saddle down? (Hint - "place" is the one you want :o) Is there a lot of reprimanding going on? Are the horses there calm or nervous? Is the barn open and airy or dim and closed in?

- Are there people actually living on site in case of an emergency? (See photo below this module :o)

-Will your horse have turnout time? Alone? With friends?

- Is it a secure facility? Horses do get stolen (scary, but true).

- Do they have someplace for you to ride? What are the other people like that keep their horses there? Do you like them? Want to slap them?

- How far away is it? Can you fit frequent visits into your schedule? Will you be able to keep tabs on the care your horse is (or isn't) receiving?

WHO's who in the photo: Taya [one of "the girls"] looking suspiciously at our neighbor's dog who was trespassing near her stall :o)

UM...EXCUSE ME, can we get a little help here please? Somebody?? Anybody??? - Horses have a natural talent for getting themselves in a pickle...

NOTE: Max was in a hurry to have fun one breezy afternoon and took off to play with his pasture pals before I could remove his halter. He did NOT stay this way long at all as I was afraid to just leave him in the cowboy halter and kept checking on him through the windows in the house (this would be why). Apparently he decided he could just take the halter off by himself...

WHY this is such a major decision

Otherwise Known As The Four R's...


Depending on how much you decide to tune in to them, horses are capable of forming deep and lasting bonds with their person. They are herd animals and extremely gregarious by nature. The choice, however, is yours: unless he came from a place that imprinted and followed similar philosophies, initially he will probably NOT offer you anything past a superficial friendship (and some horses are wary of risking even that).

Horses live anywhere from 25 to 40 years, depending on the quality of care they received and what their job was before you got them. Other factors can come into play, but those are the two biggest. Although many horses do accept their "lot in life", I don't think ANY of them really appreciate being shuffled around from place to place, any more than we do (or at least I don't like you?) Think about it this way: can you imagine spending 20 or 30 YEARS as a foster child? Ugh :oP


I strongly encourage everyone to look into horse rescues first (just make sure they are legitimate). There are thousands of horses looking for a home, and it is not much different than going to your local animal shelter for a puppy or kitten. Be sure to get as much background as you can though, and don't bite off more than you can chew!

Even if you are planning to show in registered shows, I would still highly recommend looking into the rescue route; there are plenty of papered horses out there too!

WHO is WHO in the photo: Our daughter giving Rina a big squishy hug :o)

WHEN are you planning to make your purchase? - Tomorrow? Next month? Next Year? Maybe in the vague and distant future...


Except when they're not.

It may be tempting to "shoot the wad" on an irresistible equine find (this is the part where your loyal friend should smack you back - to REALITY :o) If you are planning to board, however, I would be sure to tuck aside several months "rent" as a precaution. Perspectively speaking, if you lease an apartment you would be required to pay first and last month's rent PLUS a security deposit - kinda makes sense from that angle, doesn't it?

Also, consider setting aside some money for an emergency fund for your horse while you're saving up to buy one or after you've found your new friend. Even if you can only squeak out $10-$20/month for this you'll end up with $120-$240 at the end of a year. Remember: Disaster NEVER strikes at a convenient time :oP

You may also want to check into equine mortality insurance. A grim thought, to be sure, but definitely something to consider (could you afford to run out and purchase another horse if something happened to yours??)

WHO is WHO: The funny face in the photo above is Max (one of our accidental rescues): He cost us quite a bit right off the bat (choked on Day 2 and required an emergency vet visit, then there was the special surgical procedure he needed that we knew nothing about...)

HOW much are you willing to do to make it happen?

What will you give up to get if you need to?


This would [unfortunately] NOT be us:

"I have lots of money, so I can afford to pay someone else for the hassle of caring for my horse, I just want to ride..."

If this IS YOU, I have two things to say;

1) You will still need to keep an eye on the person caring for your horse (just because you pay $800 month to board at an exclusive facility does NOT mean your horse is getting $800 worth of care - see article link below);

-and -

2) We will happily accept any donations you would like to make at our website; we are a 501c3 non-profit so all donations are tax deductible (see our link below)

...sorry, couldn't resist :o)


I think most people fall into this category. Make a list, if you need to, how this purchase will effect your monthly budget. It would also be a good idea to see where you could give up a couple of things to start an emergency fund, or maybe just some things you could give up if you need to.


This one IS [totally] us:

* We rarely eat out or go to the movies (the horses are our entertainment);

* We don't have cable (but we are up to 3 channels now and only one of them is fuzzy);

* I don't get manicures or pedicures and my haircuts are semi-annual events;

* I pack a lunch for work everyday to save money (actually that's done by the lunchbox fairy - see my 3..2..1 lens for more on that story);

* My husband still drives the car we bought when our daughter was 6 months old (she's 18);

* We don't really go on vacations (although we DO count eating out a vacation since we're "away" from home and I don't have to do the dishes :o)

* We sometimes shop at thrift stores and love to hit the flea market (hey, it's fun!)

I can summarize my thoughts on this issue fairly simply; there are horses in my yard, what else matters? :o)

Hopefully this information was helpful to you... - go out and find your own little ray of pasture sunshine!

In case you're wondering about the rather odd looking expression on the horse in this photo; it is our Taya and she is all but cross-eyed in ecstasy (I'm scratching her tummy and it feels GOOD!!


Before you hit the trail today, stop right here and just say HAY!

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    • BuckHawkcenter profile image


      6 years ago

      I have two beautiful horses. One was rescued from a completely solo life with no interaction with anyone (or horse!) He quickly became a personal pet and now has his own "following." My mare follows him everywhere. Great job of presenting horse ownership here. "Except when they're not" is so true!

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      Maria Burgess 

      6 years ago from Las Vegas, Nevada

      I started drawing horses, too! I love horses and wish I had room for one. I hope someday to be able to have a pinto or even a shetland (attitude) pony..I guess we really never grow up in some ways!! lol Nice lens and good things to think about! Horses and most pets do take a lot of responsibility. They are just kids of a different species... ;)

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      6 years ago

      Hay, thanks for pointing out the responsibilities of owning a horse or any animal for that matter. Way too many don''t take that near serious enough.

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      6 years ago

      Great lens! I wouldn't change my horse for the world. It wouldn't be the same without the early mornings and the hay sat in the back of the car!

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      6 years ago

      I love the way you break everything down in easy to understand terms. At MusatngRide we are working to help spread the word of rescue needs. If we can be of any help let us know at We list for free horses that are ready for a new home and have a list of rescues by state.

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      ruth-williams lm 

      6 years ago

      Great lens, loved reading it!

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      6 years ago

      what a great lens, so interesting. i'm glad i found this, thank you for all the interesting info.

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      Sharon Weaver 

      6 years ago from Los Angeles, CA

      I was just on a working cattle ranch that the family still works. Don't know how many horses or cattle they have but a lot. Like going back 100 years.

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      6 years ago

      Great Lens! I was born with Horse Love. At 4, I would gallop around the house, whinny, eat carrots, swish my hair like a tail and even more embarrassing things. There is nothing like having a horse in your life.

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      6 years ago

      hi am a 12 year old girl praying and hoping that someday i will have my own horse i want one sooooooooooooooooo bad that when i was 1(yes i loved horses sense then)i would cry yes CRY but then i FINELY got a yes that if i can pay for it(with a little help from friends and family)i could have one BUT i has to look up info on how much it was monthly because i have a TINY back yard i have to board with is even more money so i found this blog that helped SOOOOOOOO much thanks :D

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      6 years ago from San Diego, CA

      Great lens with great information.

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      7 years ago

      Oh man...why did I have to discover this niche when I am about to get off the internet...I'll be back! this is great!

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      Shana rios Chavez 

      7 years ago

      lots of information. Great lens!!! thanks

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      7 years ago

      Very informative!

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      Moe Wood 

      7 years ago from Eastern Ontario

      I'd love to own a horse but I would also love to have the properly and the money to pay for a handler since I won't be a billionaire in my lifetime maybe the next. ;) You have a lovely niche of horse lenses.

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      7 years ago

      Very good lens. If only we could get everyone to ask themselves all the right questions before they take on the responsibility of animal ownership, there would be very little abuse. One can only wish! Thanks for the great read!

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      7 years ago

      hello, this is one amazing lens. You have squidlike

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      7 years ago

      I had fun reading this lens. It is enlightening and you presented your points very well. Thanks for sharing.

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      7 years ago

      This is a wonderful did a nice job on it...

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      8 years ago

      Great lens on one of my faviorite animals. *-*Blessed*-* and featured on Angel blessings for dogs on squidoo - other animals

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      8 years ago

      Your lenses are simultaneously delightful and educational. A genuine pleasure!

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      8 years ago

      Full of great information and a pleasure to read!

      Nice job, blessed by a Squid Angel.

      Robin :)

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      8 years ago

      You've done a great job with this lens. Unfortunatly I can no longer ride, but I still do have my old breyers.

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      8 years ago

      Haha, nice joke. Thanks SOOOOO much for the tips. When I take them in now, when I am older, I will try and get a horse. You have made a lot of things clear, and I thank you for that. Blessed by a Squid Angel

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      8 years ago

      I have always wanted a horse, but never have. I have some friends that are horses though. Must go visit them again soon and bring treats and spend a few hours with them in pasture. They get pretty excited when they see me again and start checking my pockets. They know who loves them! ~

      I'm an artist and started drawing horses when I was little, that's how a I learned to draw. Used to collect horse statues and had a lot of them. Too bad I let mu kids play with them, some of them got broke.

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      8 years ago

      @kt_glasses: A years worth of riding lessons sure sounds like a great idea for a Christmas & birthday present to me *grin*. I think you should definitely take it up if you can; life is too short :o) I talk to our horses all the time just like I would a person, and I'm with you on the friendship thing. Thanks for the comment!

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      8 years ago

      @anonymous: You are exactly right Frances, and thank you so much for your kind words!

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      8 years ago

      cute lens here. I have a cat and he is more like a friend to me rather than a pet. Horses are intelligent animals, and I always want to learn riding.

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      8 years ago

      Thank you for such a lens, and also your information on their body language.

      I'm a few months off 50, have loved horses all my life but only had the opportunity to start learning to ride last July. I didn't have any plans to own a horse, but in October met a beautiful 6yo black quarterhorse X standardbred gelding who was ajisted at the riding school. Before coming into town he had spent a long time in a paddock with no handling, and didn't seem to like anyone - jumping away and so on. The person who had him on approval thought he was useless and so did everyone else, and I certainly thought he was big and scary when I saw him with other people. But then one morning I walked past his paddock and saw him looking at me so went and stood at the gate to see what he would do, and couldn't believe it when he walked straight up, sniffed noses, pushed his muzzle against my face, rubbed his face all over my chest and let me pat him for an hour. I was blown away. My riding instructor couldn't believe it either when I told him. I began visiting him mornings and evenings - not easy to fit into my schedule but worth it - and it was obvious to everyone who saw us that he was a very different horse with me than with everyone else, especially the person who had him on approval. I had no idea horses could be so different with different people. Since he was so obviously asking me to be his human I started negotiations with his owner and when he was humming and harring about selling offered him about two and a half times what he was worth with an offer to negotiate up if that wasn't what he wanted; that got his attention and with another thousand I became Jerry's official human. Not the recommended approach to horse buying I know but I wanted to help my friend. He has since settled down enormously and is now a very different horse and friendly with everyone, and the same riding instructor who thought he wouldn't be any good thinks he's magic & I paid too little for him. I have no idea why Jerry decided he liked me, but he changed my life when he did it.

      While the negotiations for Jerry were going on I was offered Nuts, a 5 yo standardbred gelding who had been sold after being thought too slow for racing. He was also ajisted at the riding school and had 3 weeks of riding training before having an appalling shoeing job, every nail in the wrong place and left him lame. His owner (ironically the same person who had Jerry on approval) thought he would never be any good & gave him to the riding school, who's owner's thought he'd come good in time. They had him for 10 weeks and he showed so little improvement they thought he'd need months more than they could afford to give him so started looking for a better option for him. There didn't seem to be any, and then because of how I had been trying to help Jerry and it wasn't clear if I could buy him at that stage they thought I might make a good human for Nuts and asked if I'd take him. I thought about it for a day - a vain attempt to be sensible because I think it was a foregone conclusion I'd say yes - he is such a gentle friendly boy I couldn't say no. I think he started getting better that day, so I started taking him for little walks, and two weeks later he was well, and he hasn't looked back since, and now I am being told what a fantastic horse he is. We were all very happy with the outcome, including the people who gave him to me. A lot of people thought I was stupid to take him & that he'd never be ridable; I thought there was a fair chance he'd never be able to do more than come for walks & carry my sandwiches, & figured that would be perfectly fine.

      So now I unexpectedly have two beautiful horses & am learning how to be an effective leader for them. They live at the riding school about 10 minutes from my house, and I spend time with them twice a day through the week and as much time as possible on weekends and am working hard to learn as much about understanding horses as I can. I ride both in cross-under bitless bridles,which they prefer by far to bits, and both go barefoot because as far as I can see the shoeless horses here have less problems. In many ways I did a lot of wrong things in the way I got my boys, but in other ways I did the tight things - knew their faults before I bought them & lined up some excellent help to guide us through the learning stage,

      Didn't mean to write a novel, just to say sometimes following your heart can work out if you pat attention to the practicalities at the same time.

      Thanks again,

      All the best with your horses and life,


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      9 years ago from Iowa

      Great lens. Now that so many horses are unwanted and "free" I see a lot more people getting one without any real knowledge of what it takes to care an animal like this. I have a horse and we grow and sell horse hay and I see far too often, people who have no idea what they just got themselves into "for free." This is an excellent reality check. 5*

    • EpicFarms profile imageAUTHOR


      9 years ago

      @guitar for dumm: Yes it is. I have watched my daughter cry all over Champ (teenage drama, you understand) and he would turn his head just enough that he was essentially giving her a hug. He stayed that way until she stopped crying (he sure does love his person :o)

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      9 years ago

      @WritingforYourW: From what I understand, rescues are completely overwhelmed. There are literally tens of thousands of unwanted horses out there (per the Unwanted Horse Coalition) and unfortunately plenty of irresponsible breeders who are still adding to the problem. Thank you for your kind words!

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      9 years ago

      Very thorough article. I hope folks will consider adopting a "used" horse if it makes sense. We've had a lot of horses found abandoned out where I live lately. I know times are tough, but I can't believe people wouldn't take them to rescue organizations.

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      9 years ago

      @caketech: Don't give up Lisa! You never know what life will bring your way. As to the horse books and horse magazines, to be honest.....I've still got them all :o)

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      9 years ago

      You sound just like me when I was a books, horse magazines, riding at the local stable on trail rides... all I could think about was horses. I still love horses, but don't have one of my own yet though. Like you said, it is a BIG decision and great responsibility. Maybe someday...your lens gives me hope.

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      guitar for dumm 

      9 years ago

      I heard that horses will try and comfort you when you feel sad, is that true? Great lens.

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      Holley Web 

      9 years ago

      Oh, I want one! But you'll have to keep Shadow for me...for a while :)

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      9 years ago

      I love horses, they are so strong and beautiful. Lot's of great information, thank's for sharing.

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      A RovingReporter 

      9 years ago

      I don't know much about horses but have a good ride on this five-star lens.

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      Moe Wood 

      9 years ago from Eastern Ontario

      I've loved horses since I was a child and it's always been my dream to have them. One of those elusive dreams that I know will never come true. Firstly, the time involved in care for one and secondly, the money involved. They are beautiful, intelligent creatures and should be protected. Absolutely fabulous lens on what to expect.

    • Bellezza-Decor profile image


      9 years ago from Canada

      Lovely lens. I love horses too! I had a horse for about 5 years out in Calgary, Alberta, but I have not been on a horse for over 10 years - 5* and thanks for dropping by.

    • HorseAndPony LM profile image

      HorseAndPony LM 

      9 years ago

      Welcome to the Horses and Ponies for Kids group!

    • Faye Rutledge profile image

      Faye Rutledge 

      9 years ago from Concord VA

      You have some great information here! My granddaughter loves horses and started taking riding lessons at a stable near her house when she was 8 years old. She is now 11 and is saving her money to buy her own horse...probably years from now, but at least she has a goal! I'll pass on your information to her.

    • KimGiancaterino profile image


      9 years ago

      My brother has a few horses, and my sister used to live on a ranch that had lots of wild horses. They are so beautiful. Thanks for sharing your wonderful stories.

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      9 years ago

      Thanks for joining G Rated Lense Factory!

    • hlkljgk profile image


      9 years ago from Western Mass

      beautiful animals

    • ElizabethJeanAl profile image


      9 years ago

      Growing up, horses were a part of my life. I haven't had the opportunity to ride in years. I miss the animals almost as much as I miss the country life. A couple more years and we'll leave the city life behind.

      Thanks for sharing


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      Robin S 

      9 years ago from USA

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      9 years ago

      I've wanted a horse my whole life...and that's a long time. It will probably never happen, but I agree that it's a big responsibility and expense. Nice work and I loved the photos- I think you should add more if you have them. 5 stars!

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      10 years ago

      This lens is a good read about the great responsibility of buying and owning a horse, a living animal. This deserves a 5*

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      10 years ago

      You did a great job with this! I am going to favorite, lensroll, and feature it!

    • ZenandChic profile image


      10 years ago

      Great lens about owning or getting a horse. Thanks for sharing that.

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      HorseAndPony LM 

      10 years ago

      Hay! We enjoyed reading your 5* lens.

    • delia-delia profile image


      10 years ago

      I use to help people choose horses to buy, the worst part was tryig to get them to understand you can't ride a head, eyes or colors(meaning that's what they focused on)...very nice informative lens here...5*

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      Lee Hansen 

      10 years ago from Vermont

      I always wanted a horse of my own but had to settle for riding lessons and helping friends care for their equine family members. Love this lens, 'rolled it to Dobush Farm Sensible Horse Training - 5*.

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      10 years ago

      what a thoughtful lens.


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