ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Not Photogenic

Updated on December 15, 2012

Mike's Common Sense

When I was back at home on vacation a few weeks ago, I was over at Mom and Dad’s house for supper. My mom made sauerkraut and dumplings for me and dad like she always does when I come home. After supper my sister Pauline said “Hang around after supper, we are going to show the old home pictures.” “Oh oh, here we go…”

Before we go on, let me digress. I grew up as the middle of three boys all one year apart in age. My dad thought himself an amateur photographer, and in 1959 bought him self a real nice German camera. My dad loved to take copious amounts of pictures of his three sons, and my twin sisters.

There was one slight problem, I hated that camera. Not only did I hate that camera but I absolutely dreaded that thing. There were few things I dreaded more than Holidays and special family events because that meant that my dad would be lurking about with that damned camera.

It really wasn’t the camera I had a problem with, but the flash attachment. This attachment was a big foil cone that you would plug a flash bulb into. This flash bulb was slightly larger than a walnut, and went off as if a super nova exploded in front of your eyes. For minutes after taking a picture I would stumble around blind seeing nothing but little purple after images of the flash.

Needless to say I quickly became conditioned to squint when placed in front of that camera. It was so bad that even when we were outside and didn’t use the flash attachment I could not keep from squinting. Hence there are NO good pictures of our family with me in them. None, zip, zilch. I have ruined every picture I am part of.

Not that I wanted to, or tried to ruin them, I just couldn’t help myself. Believe me, I got a lot of slaps upside the head from my dad to try and cure my problem, but even that didn’t work.

Ok, back to the present; we all decide to watch the DVD copy of all of the old family pictures. I know it is coming and I don’t have to wait long, “That damn kid is squinting in EVERY picture! What the hell was the matter with you Michael?” My dad bellows. I feel bad but what the hell it’s been almost fifty years! Surly he didn’t think they corrected my squinting when they put the pictures on DVD?

Fortunately as I got older, the flash bulbs got smaller in size. I did eventually learn how not to squint when having my picture taken.

Too bad dad doesn’t have any of these pictures.

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • muley84 profile imageAUTHOR

      Michael A Muehleisen 

      6 years ago from Miami,FL

      Hi lisa! Nice to meet you. Glad you empathised with my situation.

    • profile image

      lisah 

      6 years ago

      ooh wow ! so i have pals with the same characteritics as alittle gal i had this feeling of HELL NO!No photos!!!!

    • muley84 profile imageAUTHOR

      Michael A Muehleisen 

      9 years ago from Miami,FL

      Hi lafenty, nice to meet you.

    • muley84 profile imageAUTHOR

      Michael A Muehleisen 

      9 years ago from Miami,FL

      Hi James! I am also a busy guy, so I know where you're coming from. Good to see you again.

    • lafenty profile image

      lafenty 

      9 years ago from California

      I remember the bulbs came in packages and my Dad would go through several on holidays.

    • James A Watkins profile image

      James A Watkins 

      9 years ago from Chicago

      Brings back memories, bro'. Hope you are doing well. I' trying to catch up on my reading after a couple of weeks off. Thanks!

    • trish1048 profile image

      trish1048 

      9 years ago

      LOL, you know what muley? You may be right :)

    • muley84 profile imageAUTHOR

      Michael A Muehleisen 

      9 years ago from Miami,FL

      Hi Steve, you are probably right, but I still feel bad after all of these years. Poor Dad.

    • muley84 profile imageAUTHOR

      Michael A Muehleisen 

      9 years ago from Miami,FL

      Hi Trish! I think we have got to the bottom of you not having a picture up here. lol

    • muley84 profile imageAUTHOR

      Michael A Muehleisen 

      9 years ago from Miami,FL

      Hi VioletSun! They are OLD memories, but memories none the less. So nice to hear from you.

    • muley84 profile imageAUTHOR

      Michael A Muehleisen 

      9 years ago from Miami,FL

      Hi Feline Prophet! Thanks for the moral support!

    • muley84 profile imageAUTHOR

      Michael A Muehleisen 

      9 years ago from Miami,FL

      Hi MellasViews! Nice to meet you. So glad you could relate to my experience.

    • muley84 profile imageAUTHOR

      Michael A Muehleisen 

      9 years ago from Miami,FL

      Hi G-Ma! Thanks for stopping by and laughing with me.

    • profile image

      SJM 

      9 years ago

      As kids we were always told "don't look directly at the sun" that is unless the sun is mounted on a camera. Your eyes are better off because your body knew the flash was bad for your eyes! Besides how boring would the pictures have been if they couldn,t rib you for squinting.

      Love ya

    • trish1048 profile image

      trish1048 

      9 years ago

      hi muley,

      Cameras! I hated them too! As a very young child, there were lots of pictures taken of me. Once I grew up, I came to hate having my picture taken. In your family it was your dad, well, in mine it was and is my brother. He's always lurking around, tip-toeing, trying to sneak up on me so he can take a picture. I will guarantee that probably in almost every picture or camcorder shot, you will not see my face. I'm either hiding behind something or someone, or my face is turned, or it's covered with my hands. I think my aversion developed when, as I became an adult and began to go up and down the scale, I always felt uncomfortable about how I looked. Now, looking back I regret it. Because, no matter what, I am me, and all the hiding in the world won't change that. So, in a way, I deprived my family of decent photos of me.

      And yes, like the other commenters, I too remember the blue flash. Eeek!

    • VioletSun profile image

      VioletSun 

      9 years ago from Oregon/ Name: Marie

      HA! I also remember those flashbulbs, and the blue dots I would see afterwards; had actually forgotten about them! Thanks for the memories. :)

    • profile image

      Feline Prophet 

      9 years ago

      I sympathise...my eyes are almost always closed in photographs!!

    • MellasViews profile image

      MellasViews 

      9 years ago from Earth

      haha. I remember back in school this girl brought in some oldschool camera that had bulbs pop when she snapped a photo. In the late 90s this type of thing was unheard of, they stopped inventing them, where she got it is anyones guess? At any rate, everyone made fun of her, and yadda yadda... my story is really boring, but when you mentioned the quirky flash, I had a flashback and wanted to share. : ) Thanks for sharing a bit of memories with us. : )

    • G-Ma Johnson profile image

      Merle Ann Johnson 

      9 years ago from NW in the land of the Free

      Very funny and yet so true...I too remember those flashbulbs and the blue dot afterwards...Thanks...:O) Hugs

    working

    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://hubpages.com/privacy-policy#gdpr

    Show Details
    Necessary
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Features
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Marketing
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Statistics
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)