Four Ways to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking
Nearly everyone will have to stand up and talk in front of people at some point in their lives. Whether it is at a wedding, work, or other format, eventually you will most likely have to do some public speaking. The problem is, almost everyone is terrified to stand up and talk in front of people! How can you overcome this fear? Read on to find out some practical tips.
1. Don’t Sweat it. In most format’s it is not as big a deal as you think. Most everyone doesn’t really care what you have to say. They are more concerned with where they have to take their kids next, or what their next meal is going to be. Most of the time, people care much less about what you have to say then you think they do.
2. Don’t draw attention to your flaws. If you mess up, it’s not the end of the world. Everyone messes up, but most of the time people don’t notice. While you may think your error is obvious to all, more than likely it isn’t. If you feel nervous, don’t assume you look nervous. You probably don’t. Imagine your face as an impenetrable mask that no one’s gaze can penetrate. They don’t know what you are thinking on the inside!
3. Prepare! Make a serious effort at crafting your speech and then put in a lot of practice. The more time you spend preparing, the more comfortable you will feel delivering information on whatever topic you are speaking about. For a good guide on how to prepare for a speech, check out this link: How to Make a Speech.
4. Practice! Once you have prepared your speech, practice it! The more you practice, the easier it will be to deliver it when it’s show time!
If you take all of this advice into account, when it’s time for you to stand up and make that speech, you should be extremely comfortable. Don’t worry if you still have some butterflies, most everyone does. But if you prepare well, giving a speech will be much less nerve racking and after the applause has ended, the gratification of knowing you did your best will be a great reward.