How To Develop Self Belief and Inner Strength: 3 Must Have Qualities
Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it’s worth it in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains.
Do You Sometimes Think--Why me? Why Is this Happening To Me?
Why is this happening to me?
How often do we say to ourselves?
Whenever some crisis like situation occurs, or in some odd circumstances, or when something terrible happens, about which we could never have imagined.
You must have heard it happening to others. But not in your wildest dreams, you must have imagined, that it might happen to you.
But it does happen, and you have to accept, that it can happen to anyone or everyone.
As Mahatma Gandhi had said, whenever you are unhappy or sad, about a thing, or a mishappening in your life, look at the person, who is more sad, or depressed than you.
When we are alive, there will be obstacles and problems. They are intertwined in our entire lifetime. Considering them as parts of your lives, will make it easier to face them. What’s important is, that it’s not about the problems, but how do we deal with them.
"The bad news is TIME FLIES.
The good news is YOU ARE THE PILOT"
A Very Common Example
One of my friends, is always complaining to the God, that she is the worst sufferer in the whole world. Her life is full of negativity and negative thoughts. She cannot be blamed entirely, for her negative thoughts. Her problems do not seem to end, at all. One after the other, they keep on returning, back to her.
Sometimes, it’s her job related stress, her own health issues, whereas at other times, it’s her elderly family member’s health issues. Her children do not listen to her. At one time, she had serious problem, trying to save her job. She is always struggling to maintain, the work and home balance.
When someone is actually facing problems on all fronts, it is futile to ask them to keep their cool. Something, which is easier said, than done.
When we look around ourselves, we may find many people, with never ending problems. But they also have the undying resolve, to encounter them.
This resolve can loosely be described as, Inner Strength. And this inner strength, can be developed and cultivated, by having Self belief.
God knows, from where the same person, gets the strength to fight back also.
God is very thoughtful in assigning problems. A little observation will make you feel and understand, that God gives a troublesome life to some chosen ones only, who can face it, and not to every second person. Persons, having lot of patience and perseverance, who can face all the hardships, and come out successfull in the end.
It is like polishing the precious metal, further and further, and further, till it becomes 100% pure.
Self Belief and Inner Strength: Do you have these 3 key qualities in you?
Have faith and self belief:
The human mind is a place of its own. It can make heaven out of hell, or hell out of heaven.
It is most active, when it looks inactive. It is our attitude, which is most important.
No matter, how adverse and unfavourable the conditions may be, the Man has the capacity to turn things around by sheer,
It is you, and only you, who can develop the power of Self belief, and Inner Strength, within your mind.
Others can only show you the right path, but following that path, is your responsibility. And this can be done by everyone, who tries to build the three qualities, mentioned above.
Get motivated with these quotes and the music, source: You tube
"You have power over your mind-not outside events.Realize this and you will find strength."
"Nothing can dim the light, which shines from within"
“Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.”
―--- Mahatma Gandhi
The Golden Rule
The Golden Rule To Follow:
Sometimes, you have nothing to cling to, but your Self Belief.
And when you hold on to that, even when no one is there to support you, against all odds, this very Self Belief, acts as a fire inside you, and turns frustration into Energy.
You find a new reason to live, and fight back, and ultimately, you emerge Victorious.
Such is the power of Self Belief.
Your Inner Strength enables you, be able to bear the adversaries of life, taking one positive step forward. And then the chances are, that the mountain like problems, become easy to deal with.
Self Belief is the key to success! Enjoy this video of Will Smith. source: you tube
Success Stories do Motivate
A student, who became a topper, after having failed in Mathematics twice.
Once, there was a student in my class, who was poor in Mathematics. It wouldn’t be wrong to say that he was rather scared of the subject, due to his dismal performances, repeatedly.
All he needed, was some motivation and encouragement. And he got it, from the teacher concerned.
And imagine his determination to crack the subject. He scored cent percent in his board examination, all due to his hard work, determination and self belief.
There can be seen hundreds of examples around us, examples of turning impossibles into possibles. We just have to look around, and get inspired.
Life is not a bed of roses.
Only those who have Self Belief and Inner Strength can sail through the journey called--LIFE.
Do you believe in yourself?
© 2012 Chitrangada Sharan