Keeping A Holiday Job: Merry Christmas or Not?
Do You Work With Or For A Holiday Scrooge?
If so, you're not alone!
A week after Thanksgiving personal concerns found us traveling in the night. Such things often come at inconvenient times, but when are concerns ever convenient? After going through some heavy rains we found clear skies and little traffic to speak of.
The trip meant a few days break from my husband's job, some night sights, and a chance to discuss the greetings of the holiday season.
Winding down through Georgia we decided to take the 441 route over to 75 and spend the night in Valdosta. Passing through some small towns, there was a hushed feeling that only a nighttime rain can effect--well, that and the absence of semi-trucks racing along the highway.
All of a sudden, we began to see a spattering of lights in the distant dark. One little town had about a dozen power poles decorated with Christmas designs. As we drove close we could see that they were true Christmas decorations.
All the same in bright white lights along dark streets, a series of stars with wavy tails (I suppose that is to indicate motion since the wise men were “following” their star) reminds passersby of the night that would change the world.
They were really pretty lights in the dark of night, even though there were not many of them. Elegant in their simplicity, yet a strong statement in their replication, they spoke of the beauty of the Christmas season.
My husband pulled to the side of the road and we enjoyed them a minute before taking a few night photos. Not surprisingly there were some lovely church buildings highlighted in the area. The farther south we went, the more lighted decorations we saw.
Little town streets, businesses and churches, isolated farm homes and larger estates were decorated with multi-sized manger scenes. It was easy to see that the traditions of Christmas were being upheld throughout the country side.
We couldn’t help but be thankful for the quiet time of seeing the reminders that the Christmas season brings to our hearts. There are those who work at denying the history that tells the story, but our traditions help keep it highlighted.
How Does All This Relate To A Holiday Job?
As we talked about what we saw my husband remembered something a coworker told him. A nephew got a holiday job at a store that markets animals and products for pets and their owners. He was excited about the prospects, but he surprised his parents with his disappointment after his employment orientation.
Apparently, he as well as all other employees had been warned that they could not say Merry Christmas to customers or to each other on the job. If they did so they would be fired immediately. The boy (young man, really) was stunned, and a little afraid he might forget.
He had heard of situations like this but did not expect to run into it in his home town. His parents had trained him well and he knew that to keep the job and possibly get a permanent position with that company he would have to follow instructions and work hard.
He had every intention of promoting the company by exceeding the expectations of his new employer, but this seemed to knock the wind out of his sails. I hope he will excel and move up in that company to make a difference if that’s his goal.
I would, however, recommend that he connect with Dan Miller’s 48 Days To The Work You Love to become an entrepreneur so he can begin his own company and be superb competition for the others in that genre.
My husband said it made him want to call those each of those stores and take their time up asking interesting questions, then end it with, “Thanks. Have a Merry Christmas.” He would never do such a thing, but I understand the sentiment.
There was something I could do, though. Writing hubs can help get the word out about a lot of issues our society faces. I suggest that anyone shopping at pet stores this year find out whether the employees are allowed to say Merry Christmas to customers.
If the greeting is forbidden, it might be in order to remind the managers that although not a key part of the Christmas story, animals are an integral part of it. I myself have been known to cut out cardboard sheep shapes the size of 3 year olds and glue cotton batting to them so those children could be a part of the big kid’s program.
A formal complaint with business taken elsewhere would speak loud and clear. Speaking up to other customers would really get some attention. Responding to this hub to keep the topic highlighted, or even writing your own hub to help get discussions going would really spread the word.
If you do write a hub about this topic, or already have a link to one about it, let me know so I can add the link to this hub. Wouldn’t it be a great thing for me to be able to send a link to this hub with supportive comments to work with my husband so he could ask his coworker to pass it on to the nephew?
Maybe that nephew would post it in the employee break room, but I wouldn’t want him to lose his holiday job over the issue. He may even have some other important lessons to learn from working in such a place.
Still, I do hope his spirit isn’t demoralized by the stance of his new employers. Instead, I hope he has a Merry Christmas attitude at his job in spite of the way they have postured themselves against our traditional values.
Have you ever been told you could not say "Merry Christmas?"
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Join This Discussion About Saying Merry Christmas:
Ah no problem! I'd forgotten that I'd written it.
That's true about traditions, to have some traditions in our life is important, and I like that we can make some new ones too. I love what you've written about how these holidays help us connect the past to the future. That is so true. I have many happy memories too about Christmas time.
Yep, see you next Christmas! :D
Thank you for your reply. It makes me happy that maybe the phrase "Merry Christmas" isn't getting as rare as we think. It's a happy time of year for everyone. It also reminds me of doing exciting things at school like the nativity and making decorations. And now I can enjoy that all over again through my daughter! And so can all my Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu and other friends.
Thank you for your lovely wishes. and I wish the same to you and your family. Hope you had a lovely Christmas, and have a very happy New Year!
There has been a bit on this subject in newspapers here in the UK. About how in the US people don't generally say "Merry Christmas" any more, as they are worried about offending those who don't celebrate Christmas.
One article I read was written by an American man who was lamenting the demise of this greeting. Since working here in London he was contrasting this with the way that people here tend to just wish everyone a "Merry Christmas", irrespective of whether they're Christian or not. Because Christmas has now become a universal holiday - more like a national holiday than anything else. People recognise that most of those who celebrate it are not "Christian" in the religious sense. It's more about being off work and spending time with your family than anything else. So that is something that bonds us all, no matter what our religion or our beliefs.
I understand that true Christians may be upset that the meaning of Christmas has been blurred and changed for so many people, and appropriated in this way. I can certainly understand why people are upset about how commercialised it has become - I hate this aspect too. But I love being able to have lights up and celebrate this happy time of year with my family and friends, knowing that all my friends of many cultures are getting together and doing this too!
And I love being able to wish everyone a Merry Christmas, generally without people being offended. To most people I think it means the same thing as "Happy Holidays", but it's more descriptive.
Pat writes@ Back in the 1980's I worked in an office in London. My team was unusual in that we all practised a religion - but not the same one. We were a collection of Hindus, Christians and Jews. We decided that we would celebrate ALL the holidays. If the actual holiday fell on a day off work, we moved it to a 'designated date'. The day before, during our lunch break, somebody would tell the story of the holiday - the religous meaning, how it is celebrated, etc. The next day, we would get dressed up and have a shared lunch. It was good fun, and I learned a lot about Hindus and Jews. We all thought that we were being "multi-cultural". Sadly, there seems to be a new interpretation of what that means - which as far as I can see is a dull grey view of life.
Thanks for this Hub - I hope the nephew is doing okay.
Good Hub and an important issue. Glad you were able to provide information and mobilize some people. Also glad you enjoyed driving through Georgia at night. We do have lots of little towns with little squares and most of them Have Christmas decorations and lights. It is a lovely time of year. Blessings. :0
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I really enjoyed hearing the details as you and your husband were driving down the road on your trip. I remember going to Colorado and my ex-husband was driving through New Mexico and it was dark. For me it was extra mysterious because I had never even been to New Mexico at that point. It just reminded me of that. Anyway, I think it is a shame the store will not allow your nephew to say anything to customers about Christmas. I don't understand it really. I always say Happy Holidays if I don't know someone, just in case, to be sure not to offend anyone but seriously, it just seems pretty extreme to fire someone immediately over it. I mean, really?! Actually, that is just plain ridiculous! Thank you for sharing this.. I wish I could say it surprised me but it doesn't. In today's world, not much of anything surprises me anymore.
Great hub though! Voting up and interesting! Hope you and your family have a MERRY CHRISTMAS :0)
I think I'm with PWalker in that without more information on the store management's intent I suspect the best assumption is an overzealous attempt to be politically correct and not an attack on the American tradition of Christmas. I don't know if the answer is in there and I missed it, but is he allowed to say, "Happy Holidays?" I would guess he is. Is Merry Christmas the only one being banned? I suspect the too many Americans can count on ONLY one hand the # of times they've heard other greetings like Happy Hanukkah or Kwanzaa, etc. I tend to think that fact is myopic to a fault really. I DO think the USA is the best nation in the world in terms of its freedoms of choice, speech, etc. but I think THAT is one of things you don't flaunt or else the rest of the neighborhood won't like you, and unfortunately I think it is what's happening. This Christmas greeting thing is kind of a symptom of that.
Maybe I'm wrong...
Either way I liked the hub. Very thought provoking in a really good way for me.
MERRY CHRISTMAS! :-D
Excellent hub...and I love the photos of the lights and Christmas decorations.
The whole Merry Chrismas/happy holidays hoopla is just another symptom of the true lack of tolerance on the part of those who promote it so vigorously. Their hypocrisy is appalling; I've never worked with anyone who refused to take Christmas off because the celebration was offensive. They take the day off, the holiday pay, and the bonuses, but they want to denigrate the person for which the holiday stands.
I linked this to my Christian education hub and shared it on my social network to hopefully get some buzz going. In closing, Merry Christmas to you and yours:)
You make a good point about "banning" people from saying, "Merry Christmas," RT. That's probably going a little too far and it may even be construed as infringing on one's religious beliefs.
On the other hand, people who don't celebrate Christmas because of their religion or for whatever reason, don't necessarily "hate" the Christmas season (although some might). Nor do I think the intent behind the store's policy is to force one to give up one's tradition, although that might be an unintended consequence. As a nation that honors freedom of religion, I think we're struggling to find ways to be inclusive, and we don't always get it right.
If confronted with a policy like this store has, I, as an employee, might ask why employees can't say Merry Christmas to shoppers, if only to get management to think about why it is implementing certain policies and to communicate this to its employees. The store might be reacting out of fear because we, as a nation, come down so hard these days on people for expressing beliefs that don't adhere to what's currently perceived as "proper" or "correct." I hope it doesn't mean the end of freedom of speech in this country or keep people from honoring traditions they value. It's important, therefore, to speak out if you disagree and start a dialogue about it.
To play the devil advocate (no pun intended), if your son can't say Merry Christmas, why not Happy Holidays in order to respect those who don't celebrate Christmas or celebrate some other tradition this time of the year? Saying something like "Happy Holidays" honors everyone's tradition, not just one.
I think an immediate firing is a bit severe since saying "Merry Christmas" this time of year is an ingrained habit for a lot of people, but I understand where the company is coming from. I also think the co. could have provided some alternatives so that their employees can at least respond to customers who wish them Merry Christmas. Would responding, "Same to you!" get them fired?
Exactly...I just can't believe the things that we are so stupid to concentrate upon and meanwhile leave other incredibly important issues fall by the wayside~ Of course that would be just one old lady opinion but I think I speak for others as well~
Great piece and good things to point out no matter what time of year!
Audrey
Good hub! Hope he indeed has a Merry Christmas attitude!
Things certainly have deteriorated when you can't even express "Merry Christmas" to patrons. Good grief - what is next? You won't be able to say "good morning" for fear that someone else is on a different time table...for instance they work the graveyard shift and it's really their afternoon or something similar~
Don't ya think we've just gotten TOO politically correct these days? I guess the employees could just shout out like 5 different holiday greetings to encompass every religion possible for the month but it might take a lot of classes to get them to remember them....or write them on their hands~ Oh but then when they went to the restroom, they'd wash off their cheat sheet!
I hesitate to say it here....but I'm doing it anyway - Merry Christmas~
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I note that merchants are more than happy to make money off the holiday they despise! Don't buy from them--better a hand-knit scarf with a "Merry Christmas" than a store-bought gift from a Scrooge.
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