I have been in this position deciding between staying in the clean, quiet, safe mountain community my children had been raised in while communting 2 hours a day to their new school or moving to the city. I in fact flipped a coin and made a pro and con list. The flip was inconclusive and the pro and con list came out equal. In the end I had to go with my gut and it proved to be the best decision I could have made. It changed the course of my life along with my family but it felt right once it was put into motion.