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Spreading Hublove - Response to MartieCoetser about male loneliness
Living Alone: Do men prefer living alone?
Powerful hub here both compelling from the male perspective, and yet thought provoking indeed from the singular female perspective Martie. I like your take in the matter in terms of men in general feeling as though they need to be alone, and with regard to patience, or the lack there of. As for the courage aspect, maybe not, I think men are far to courageous in most aspects in this life.
Well speaking for myself, and in dealing with that of my lovely wife, I tend to shy away from her desire to want my attention about 100% of the time, and it poses a huge problem, but we still manage to work things out in the end. She however doesn't really care for the things I'm into and I don't really blame her, so I do a bit of pressured influence to get her to participate with me and my hobbies and all such as computing etc... mostly technology subject hobbies.
This is where things get kind of sticky for us, because she resists doing things I like to do, and mostly due to lack of interest in general, but she always wants me to leap at her interests and all, and to fully participate in every single given moment.
Love hurts at times but it feels good simultaneously
Now, when I pull away it becomes a problem again, and then we bust out into heated quarrels which I find kinda of cute actually, and it provides the much needed spark our relationship needs to keep things going I do believe, or else our life together may seem mighty boring.
I would like to thank all the gentlemen who did in fact decide to provide their take on the being alone issue. Many of us men do indeed need our time to ourselves. Many of us have no problem letting our partners and wives have time to themselves, and we simply are looking for the reciprocal deal pretty much, but as you stated in your hub, most woman are far more demanding then most men are.
I am writing this hublove hub, to help more folks join in on the conversation you started and awesome debate there in your hub, and I hope more and more people come to join in. This is definitely a good thing to be able to discuss such things as men being alone, and I dare a man or women to write a hub about the opposite, and where a woman loves to live alone, that would be an awesome hub as well to read about.
It would be much better to see a man's perspective view points on the matter though, and we will see if any men can step up to the plate. I will stay on the sideline and do the coaching and what I love best, which is to continue writing these hublove hub's as I use to do, if any more living alone hubs are to surface and I catch wind of them. It's such a interesting subject to me, thanks for writing it and for sharing your view points with us all.
Thanks also for the inspiration to write this hub up, I did it in your comment area and simply moved it into a hub of my own before posting. Enjoy!
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