Do you make her feel safe and loved by what you converse about? Is she accepted for who she is as a person by you? Agape love of God is to serve her in God's sight to give her what she wants and needs and not to teach selfishness by your attitude. If you pass this test of friendship perhaps your dating will be fruitful and forever! Your bodies are the Temple of the Holy Spirit and there to glorify God! God gave us marriage to give Covenants that are good and right for us and not self-destructive like mutual agreed upon sex would be prematurely to the marriage. She needs your courting but only after a date or three when you decide to pursue for her being 'right one' for ya. May God add HIs blessing! Add to your life from scripture what God has done in your heart to your conversations and build a ministry from God to you and, her to you, and you to her in the Holy Spirit. Make yours be a Divine Romance not a gaga one that turns bad. God is to be glorified in everything and to be enjoyed forever!