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Happy Wives Allow Husbands To Cheat
Happy wives are those who are Cherished, Loved unconditionally, Provided for and Have lots of meaningful sex.
How does the average wife attain all of this?
Allow your husband the freedom to cheat and he will MOST LIKELY decide NOT to hook up with that hottie from the bar, will be driven to take that promotion and spoil you with his last pennies.
For the same reason DOGS are "Man's Best Friend"
Men are trustworthy creatures who will stick by the most loyal people in his life. If you show your husband loyalty and trust he will not cheat on you and you will get everything you want in your perfect husband.
How to give your husband the "Freedom to Cheat"
Let HIM call you from the office. Do not call him with anything other than an emergency before he arrives home. This includes blowing up his phone when he's out after work for drinks or out with friends....DON'T EVER DO IT! The same goes for texting.
If you want something picked up from the store, do it sparingly and only in emergencies. Your hubby wants to come home after work just as badly as you do and is NOT your slave. The terms I hear often of marriages are "Team" and "Partnership". Teamwork and partnerships do not involved telling others what to do or even asking for it.... In a team (think at work) people OFFER to take portions of the project, no one is told except by the CEO. There is no CEO in marriage, right? It's a TEAM.
Let him stay at family and friend's houses without you. Give him the freedom to do what he wants. If your man is constantly out with friends and family INSTEAD of with you... rethink how you are treating your husband, it could be your fault he doesn't want to spend time with you.
Let him have girlfriends but keep your eye on how much he talks about his new "girl--friend". If they are friends from high school, let it be. If it's a NEW friend who-happens-to-be-a-girl and they spend a great deal alone time together, they are probably sleeping together. In this case, do the counseling thing, or bail.
Keep Yourself Up
Wives need to act like girlfriends.
Be dressed when he comes home, nice hair, make-up and preferably have dinner plans whether it be homemade or reservations to go out. (He REALLY appreciates this)
Keep your mood up. Mrs. Negativity gets the cold shoulder. Be happy to see your husband and when he asks you "How was your day?", find a positive response, even if your day was terrible, and save the details for dinner.
Keep a candle lit in the restroom during the first couple hours your hubby is home each night. The homey smell of vanilla or cinnamon makes your husband feel right at home and happy where he is.
Your cleaning schedule should be every day but Sunday. Do certain tasks each day of the week. Clean up the kids' toys before your husband comes home.
Which Men Are/ Will Be Cheaters?
Men who cheat will have one or both of the following issues:
1) An unappreciative and/or unloving wife.
2) Hatred for himself or has his own devastating insecurities.
Some men have a history of emotional problems which will drive him to cheat which rears it's head from the sole source of:
A personal ---which means you cannot change this--- problem with commitment. (Seek professional help to find out what the root of the commitment issue is and then DUMP HIM! if he does not improve with therapy/refuses to go.)