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Accept Criticism for a good progress !

Updated on June 3, 2010

Receiving criticism in a right way is a necessary ability should be learnt by not only students but every person. It is essential for their development. We should receive positive part of it and leave the unwanted.

We are now going to discuss how to deal with criticism.

“Criticism is something you can avoid easily-by saying nothing, doing nothing and being nothing.” - ARISTOTLE

Thus Aristotle explains the importance of criticism in simple words!

Commonly many people we know say some kind of philosophy and explains “it’s for your benefit, what I’m saying.” You people might have observed it. Observe what they are actually saying about you, leaving the benefits n their saying. Then, you will definitely find things that are useful for you. Try to learn your strengths and weakness from them. Now you will learn what you are? from their side by such kind of observation.

“Only the wisest and the stupidest of men never change.” -CONFUCIUS

By now you should have understood your strengths and weaknesses in view of others. By using these steps you can try for a change.

“To make mistakes if human; to stumble is commonplace; to be able to laugh at yourself is maturity” –William Arthur Ward

Maturity

What does maturity means?

1.Sticking to the work you are doing until its completion with care.

2.Being conscious in spending money.

3.Completing the given work even in the absence of supervisor.

4.Facing unjustifiable attitude cleverly.

And also ability to know yourself is also maturity. Knowing your strengths and weaknesses by yourselves will increase your confidence level. By recognizing what we are we can accept change.

“Blessed are those who can laugh at themselves. They shall never cease to be entertained.” – Chinese proverb

Leave insecurity feeling aside. People who live with security feeling knew that they also do mistakes and they also have some weaknesses. They take care of themselves such that they are not in a stage to be criticized by others, They do not care what others think about them, such people will make fun out of themselves and are easy going and are not moved by critics and their criticism.

So, realize that by considering criticism there will be half truth in it. Listen such criticism carefully and silently with patience then digest it. Now, make a positive change yourself leaving the other half.

As a matured person you know what you are. so take the useful part of criticism leaving the unwanted. As above said being with security feeling we cannot be influenced by criticism. Everyone should learn this.

Please realize that if you are kicked in the back, it means you are out in-front there..!

Yes, it is true if you are kicked in the back by someone it means that you are in-front.

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      Mylindaminka 

      5 years ago

      Содержание каждого раздела может быть формально разделено по подзаголовкам или представлено непрерывным текстом. В каждом случае основные подразделы отчета должны быть выделены заголовками и отделены друг от друга. Четыре основные части отчета включают введение, предпосылки оценки, представление данных, анализ данных и интерпретация. Во многих отчетах добавляется пятая часть - приложение. В нем содержится дополнительная информация и иллюстративный идиотизм, который в ином случае разрывал бы текст. Текстовые отчеты могут отличаться друг от друга, но следующий план может служить общим руководством.

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      Mylindaminka 

      5 years ago

      4. При помощи кисти аккуратно растушуйте темные тени у краев. Уложите брови специальной щеточкой. Цвет карандаша для бровей должен соответствовать цвету бровей и гармонировать с цветом подводки для глаз. Нанесите тени для век, затем приступайте к подводке – проведите тонкую линию, начиная с внутреннего уголка глаза и заканчивая внешним. Перед тем, как нанести тушь для ресниц, подкрутите их специальным прибором, визуально увеличив тем самым размер глаз.

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      preeshacear 

      5 years ago

      My partner and i employed to find at the top of living although these days I've truly established a new opposition.

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      Derdriu 

      6 years ago

      Bharath.Adupa, What a helpful, practical, useful summary of facing and reacting to criticism! Criticism may not be based on correct analyses or motives. But it's an experience in seeing how others view its recipient. Life is a journey, and criticism from friend and foe is part of that travel through space and time.

      Thank you for sharing,

      Derdriu

      P.S. The quotes are well-chosen and emphatically illustrative of each of your well-taken points.

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      bharath.adupa 

      8 years ago from India

      I was very keen about this because i was always criticized at whatever i do.i want my friends, colleagues and all people to learn how to overcome or how to deal with negative critics because negative criticism is the worst part of our life.

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      suny51 

      8 years ago

      you are right Bharath,healthy criticism is part of our progress,and this should be done in a disciplined manner and accepted gracefully.Thanks

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      bharath.adupa 

      8 years ago from India

      ya actually what i want to say is every person must think maturely and he should face criticism boldly. this is very important other wise we may vanish in this world ...

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      Nell Rose 

      8 years ago from England

      Hi, bharath, I quite agree with you, maturity is a great teacher, we have learned our lessons by then but facing criticism is only a thing a mature person can do, if you can't face criticism then you have a lot to learn. Mind you, not everyone who gives advice has the intelligence to give it. That's my saying! lol thanks nell

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