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What To Do If Someone You Know Is Being Bullied

Updated on January 23, 2012
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We've all seen it, and unfortunately some of us were the victims of it: bullying. It's done everyday to innocent children and adults alike. Here's what to do if someone you know is being bullied.

  1. Tell someone. If you're a child, you need to tell a trusted adult immediately. Parents, teachers, family, or even the police. Don't try to take matters into your own hands.
  2. Talk to that person. If you know the person being bullied, talk to them. Let them know that you're there for them if they need to talk or need help. Encourage them to speak out about the bully, and to tell an adult they're being picked on.
  3. Don't criticize them. Being bullied is a sensitive matter, especially if they're being bullied by someone at home that they look up to. Be sympathetic when you listen to them, and again, encourage them to tell someone, even though it may be hard for them to do.
  4. Don't force them. Forcing them to speak out may only make matters worse. Let them go at their own pace. As long as you have told someone, at least they're aware of it.
  5. Stick up for them. If you are with that person and the bully comes around, don't run away. Stay there and stick up for them. Don't fight back physically, but let the bully know that what they're saying to you doesn't bother you. They might back off.
  6. Tell them to stick up for themselves. People being bullied often feel helpless and alone. Tell them to get the fight back in them and that they don't deserve this. No one does. Encouraging them and being aggressive about getting some fight back in them may be the turn around they need.

Stick with these basic rules and any bullying problem should be conquered.


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      KStro18 5 years ago from PA

      Well the best thing to do is to tell someone but if you feel you cant maybe you could write an annonomous note. That way there will be no pointing fingers.

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      :) 5 years ago

      A boy in my class is getting bullied and I sit next to him and hear everything they say and it's really mean but I don't have the guts to stand up for him or tell a teacher. What do I do?