ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel

Autism- writing social stories for young children

Updated on December 10, 2012


         Social stories can be a lifesaver for you and your child on the Autism spectrum.  Many children on the spectrum are able to process written language or pictures much more effectively than spoken Language. Socials stories can be used as a visual support with these children. They are effective with children who are reading words as well as those who are not and can be used to waylay fears of new situations or situations that have been problematic in the past. Once you understand your child you as a parent can begin to bring social stories into your family life.


  A social story is a short, very systematic story about an activity or a behavior that is always written in the positive.

Your first step is to decide what behavior you want to target. I have a 7 year old student who loves to go outdoor, unfortunately he just runs outside without his mom or dad. Mom being a pro-active parent has but a bell on the door which alerts them if the door opens; even so this is a problematic behavior. So the target behavior would be to stop and go ask to go outside.

 Next you need to know your student, is he reading? Is he using the PEC’s (Picture Exchange Communication) system, which by the way I highly recommend. Your child does not have to be able to read to make use of a social story but some understanding of PECs is helpful. However Actual pictures may also be used and are in some instances preferential if the situation is let’s say is a visit to the dentist. In this case you can take pictures of the door of the office, the waiting room, the people who work there etc. and intersperse them throughout your story. You may also want to use a combination of pictures or PECS  and simple written language.

So now you have decided on your target behavior and which method you are going to use to help your child. There are a few important rules to remember..,

1-      Keep it simple. Your sentences should be short and to the point. 

“ I  only go outside with mom or Dad”

       2-Keep it positive. NEVER write in the negative.

           Instead of “I never go out the door alone” or “If I go outside alone Mom will be sad “ Instead write “ I always ask Mom or Dad before I go outside. Mom and Dad are happy when I ask them before I go out” It may sound like a small difference but it has a big impact on how effective your story will be.

3-      Always use feeling words. “Mom will happy, I will be happy too.” If you are writing a story about a situation that could be problematic  try using the words “  I am Okay, I am safe”

4-      Remember your child is likely to process written language easier than spoken so write those calming words that you would say.

5- Your story can be short,

   Wednesday I am going to the dentists. I am okay , I am Happy.

                         ( picture of the doctors office)

I will get in the car with mom and we will drive to his office.I will get out of the car with Mom.

                                    (Happy picture of child)

                                         I am safe, I am okay.

                                     (Picture of hygienist)

We walk into the waiting room, the hygienist will call us to go in. Continue in this way explaining each step of the visit.

Once you have your story ready it as many times as you can, just like you would read any story with your child. Make it enjoyable to both of you.

Social stories can be a powerful asset in your continuing path to navigate the world in which your child lives.






    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    • JY3502 profile image

      John Young 

      8 years ago from Florence, South Carolina

      Very interesting information Sybil. I had never given this subject much thought.

    • Sybil Marie profile imageAUTHOR

      Sybil Marie 

      8 years ago

      Thanks for the link Knowledge, I checked it out, interesting for sure, my problem with this type of thing is the lack of actual data on the therapy. If it really works great, but our kids on the spectrum have so much to deal with on a daily basis that it's important to know something is going to work before exposing them to it. Peace!

    • knowledgeispower profile image


      8 years ago

      Thanks for your most needed hub on autism.

      I found an article written on an interesting treatment for autism. You can read it at:

    • Jerami profile image


      9 years ago from Houston tx

      When reading this hub I thought.. this is God Like behavior, We are his autistic children and this is similar to how he teaches us. Thanks

    • Sybil Marie profile imageAUTHOR

      Sybil Marie 

      9 years ago

      Thanks Ralwus! These kids are near and dear to my heart!

    • profile image


      9 years ago

      good points, Hi Sybil. This is important for all children.


    This website uses cookies

    As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

    For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at:

    Show Details
    HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
    LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
    Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
    AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
    HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
    Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
    CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the or domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
    Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
    Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
    PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
    MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
    Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
    Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
    Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
    Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
    Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
    ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
    Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)