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Five simple ways of Personality Grooming

Updated on August 19, 2011

You must have heard people saying about other people like “O my Gosh Did you see him, what a personality!, I wish I could had the same as his/her”, Guys let me clear you one thing that Personality is perhaps a skill not an art, Remember a skill can always be learned! That’s the good part about grooming your overall look or you can even test your own personality at

In my article today I am going to be discussing five most important things as to how to groom your own Personality, Enjoy reading it =)


As it is said the “First Impression is the last impression” the look should be your first target of thewhole situation, once you are able to handle it the next way to your goal would be a little easier. According to the researchers most of the people guess our personality and behavior the way we look, so it is better to look always in a good way to make your identity!


Whether you are a student, a freelance writer, a banker or even a Super Model! If you can’t speak clearly and boldly people will not listen to you, instead they will take you non seriously and move on and that would make you feel embarrassed and even loose self esteem. No matter what language you are speaking you should be able to communicate thoroughly and effectively to others.


After making yourself look good and combining it with better communication skills, the third most important step is to BELIEVE in yourself and let the magic of confidence begins! Remember the basic equation:

Believe in yourself + Energy --> Confidence

Always remember this equation and make it a habit of remembering it in your worst times and then see the difference. Erase the word “NOT” from the sentence and just say “I CAN do it”.


Read informational and thought provoking books like “the Holy book” or the ones you think that are worth enough to be read on. Remember a person is always incomplete when he lacks a knowledge. A person without awareness is just like a person without life, Famous poet Shakespeare has quoted

“Ignorance is the curse of God; knowledge is the wing wherewith we fly to heaven”

Most of the people who are well aware and has been blessed by the unusual talents they often forget to acknowledge the GOD or those who hadmade them, the way they are today, Go ahead and acknowledge those who helped you in becoming something! There is no need to be ashamed of, always thank your God and your people.


Remember the way your parents wanted you to become a lawyer but you successfully become a banker by the guidance you sought from someone who inspired you, similarly try to give advises to your younger ones so that they could know where they want to go exactly. Try to help them out through your wonderful and precious experiences, this could not only add numerous numbers to your personality but could also make you feel good about yourself.

Moderation. Small helpings. Sample a little bit of everything. These are the secrets of happiness and good health.

(Julia child)

In my view if you follow these simple steps you can actually make a difference, you have to put in some hard work to achieve it as success always doesn’t happen overnight, make yourself open and do not stick to this only 5 steps. You can add some of your own but these are the basic ones I just mentioned .I hope you liked reading it.=)

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      bestbrother 17 months ago

      Thank you all for your kind appreciations

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      Shahid Raza 3 years ago

      Good Efforts

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      Rizwan 3 years ago

      vvvvvvvvvvvv Good tips

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      bestbrother 3 years ago

      Thank you for your kind appreciation charishma :)

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      Bushra saleem 4 years ago

      what an excellent article i got a lot of things which i don't know before

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      HappyMikeWritter 4 years ago

      what an excellent article. I am impressed! I need to work on that. Thank you for sharing :-)

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      Charishma 5 years ago

      People write reams and reams on this topic of Personality Grooming, and I do read extensively on it. Yet, I have seldom come across such a succinctly written piece. Very well written! A true example of the second point you have mentioned. :)

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      bestbrother 6 years ago

      thanks moyen, that's a very appreciating reward u gave me =) and sure u can attract girls too :D since u sound very interesting :), i'll be posting some more interesting hubs, thanks for following :)