How to overcome fear with lucid dreaming
What are you feeling?
Lucid dreaming books
Lucid dreaming is a skill
What is lucid dreaming?
Lucid dreaming is an act of taking conscious control of your dreams while still sleeping. This experience is very different from regular dreaming, because the mind becomes much more active, while the body is still asleep.
Lucid dreaming has been around for a very long time and there are volumes written on the subject. With proper techniques and guidance, one can become reasonably skilled at lucid dreaming in as short as 45 days
My experience with lucid dreaming
I was first exposed to lucid dreaming over 6 years ago and learned it primarily through lucid dreaming forums and techniques of Dr. Stephen Laberge. Altogether, it took me about 7 months of dedicated everyday practice to get to start having lucid dreams more or less at will.
Almost immediately, within 2-3 lucid dreams, I noticed a peculiar phenomenon - my lucid dreams has no sensation of fear! That was replaced by mild disgust or anger or curiosity. But no fear whatsoever!
- I used to be very afraid of spiders, and seeing a 3 feet spider in a dream is not an issue.
- Heights used to bother me a lot. After flying in a dream, this is no longer an issue, and in fact I tested that with skydiving, where the fear was only present when the door of the plane opened.
- Public speaking, interacting with unknown audiences, all used to bother me. After experiencing lucid dreaming, I was able to venture to my first airsoft game, all alone
- After exploring multiple dream landscapes, a solo trip to Europe wasn't scary.
How to have a lucid dream
Every lucid dreaming article seems to have a few tips and tricks, and there are over 200 books available on the subject on amazon, along with multiple self-study programs promoted through the internet.
The true secret of lucid dreaming is persistence. Most lucid dreaming techniques rely on memory or making some act habitual. Here are a couple dream signs which are 99.5% accurate for all people:
- if you are looking at a digital clock and it changes with every glance, you are dreaming. The dream brain has trouble processing something as logical as a digital clock. Text changes as well, but it is harder to detect changes.
- Light switches - mind has a great difficulty turning a dark room into a well lit room in the short time frame that it takes you to flip a switch. If you enter a room and a light switch doesn't work, you may be dreaming!