If the bird you are asking about is in the picture, than this looks like a chickadee. But in your description of this bird that has a lot of grey on it, this sounds more like a tufted titmouse or small warbler that is migrating through your area. This time of year birds usually begin their fall migration. Hope this helps answer your question somewhat.
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