The night I graduated from high school my parents gave a graduation party for the whole class. I had some very good friends,both boys and girls. My boyfriend, who later became my husband didn't show up for the ggraduation but came late to the party. When he walked in, one of my very good friends who happened to be a boy, was hugging me. The boy who had been accepted at a mid-west college had to leave the next day to meet the with the baseball coach.
My boyfriend was furious at both my friend and me. My boyfriend threatened to break the kids arms shoe would never play baseball again. Most of the kids left and many Ihave never seen since.