It's probably unhealthy to avoid or dismiss persons who voice opinions about us that are contrary to what we wish to see. It's also unhealthy to take the negativity of such persons too much to heart.
In any case, we are all, each and every last one of us "moving targets." We learn, we grow, and sometimes we devolve into hate or otherwise bits of negativity.
I'm rather drunk at present.....and the last cigarette is making the tiny travel trailer that I call home spin round and round....
I think as time goes on we'll all find ourselves aligned exactly against ever stronger factions of persons set upon their divisive notions of ego over the community of mankind.
Avoid them...no way...never.
I exist to be me,and to say what I think and feel. It's all subject to revision. Never look at an opportunity to bridge understanding as an affront. There is nothing but opportunity when viewed in that way.