In many aspects, this appears to be a question to which there is a simple answer: a resounding YES! But, to me, it is not that simple. My wife of 9 years and I each had truly horrible first marriages. We have talked about the what-ifs, and where we were at specific times in our lives. About how we might have met at an earlier point in time, and spent many more wonderful years together. But my answer is always this: whatever road I had to walk, to put me at this place in time, to be with her now, I would walk it again. Anything changed at any point in the past might have changed who we are today, and I wouldn't want her to be anything other than the woman I love, nor would I want to be anything other than the man she fell in love with. So, no; I wouldn't go back in time, to any point, because I am happy in my here and now with her.