I don't think in terms of life being fair or unfair when it comes to things we, ourselves do, or else when it comes to things that a matter of luck. The only way I see "fair" and "unfair" is when I have rightfully earned something that I have, and someone else manages to steal it/take it from me without being held accountable in any way. In other words, I don't really see life as being fair or unfair. I see a lot of people as being fair or unfair to me, or to others. If that's the case, I'll essentially go to my grave aiming to get justice and back what I rightfully earned and/or be compensated by the person/people who took it from me.