All my decisions have led to where I am today. I have learned from my mistakes making me stronger. People who have hurt me have made me into who I am today. The most important lesson I have learned is forgiveness. If I hurt someone by my actions or words or lack of, than I truly am sorry, but I cannot change what I did and can only learn from it. The best way to "change it" is to learn and make yourself wiser. I have apologized more times than I can count. Whether person accepts my apology is up to them, but I feel better knowing that I acknowledge that I was wrong.