I have thought about this question time and again. Maybe I think too "deeply" but as I tick through the memories I try to objectively look at all the choices I made which brought me to where I am today. I ask one question. Do you LIKE where you are today? My answer is YES.
I have ONE regret and that is not listening to my heart when my aunt was in hospice care. I wanted her home surrounded by family. The rest of the family thought it was better for her to be in a residential center. She died with a hospice nurse and no family by her side.
So to answer my own question: If I could go back in time to change one thing what would it be? I would have fought to bring her home. Everything else - my kids, my divorce, all my heartaches and heartbreaks - I own and cherish every one of them and wouldn't change a thing.