I suggest read the biographies of Muhammad (PBUH), the Prophet of Islam and developing an understanding of his real aim in life as contrary to the stereotyped views in the society. He was a great reformer, leader, ruler, judge, relative (by any name e.g. father, husband, sun etc.), friend and companion, teacher and practical example of all his teachings. No biography about any person is as detailed, authentic and that reliable as of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH).