Which birth order's needs, wishes, goals & aspirations are ALWAYS PLACED LAST & MUST
always be rescuer, fixer upper, & even must take care of the family? Which birth order is SELDOM acknowledged, even UNAPPRECIATED? Lastly, which birth order is hesitant to set & establish boundaries & is loath to assert & voice its needs & grievances?
Stereo-typically, middle children. The oldest get the most attention as the oldest, then the babies of the family because they are the youngest.
Oldest children are taught & expected to put everyone's wishes, desires, & wants first & theirs last. They are expected to be there 24/7/365 for their parents & siblings. They are oftentimes held to higher & more stringent standards than their younger siblings.
They are the built-in & free au pairs to their siblings. They are overused & underappreciate or not even appreciated at all. To their parents & younger siblings, it is expected that the oldest child be at their beck & call. As a result of placing everyone's needs before theirs, there is a resentment on the part of oldest children. They have to be the nice sibling so they are afraid to establish boundaries as to what they will & won't tolerate. They are most likely to be taken advantage of by their parents & siblings as a result of failing to establish boundaries.
by Grace Marguerite Williams 7 years ago
Which birth order is considered to be the MOST jealous, envious? Why? Conversely, which birth orderis considered to be the LEAST jealous, envious? Why?
by lightwarrior 11 years ago
My 12 yo daughter asked to see a pic of her birthmom. Does this mean she does not feel I am her mom?I have offered before; she always said no. We have always been so close, and I guess I feel a bit rejected, but would NEVER tell her that!! I have always told her positive things about adoption and...
by Patricia Scott 11 years ago
How do you deal with the Drama Queen in your family?In many families there is a Drama Queen....someone who is melodramatic, over-the-top, and 'all about me.' We have one in our family. Do you have one? If so how do you manage your relationship with this family member?
by Lisa HW 3 years ago
My theory is that most people seem to like whatever place they've ended up with among their siblings. Most also do seem to have a few minor gripes about it. Without considering anything you've ever read in books about birth order, what's your own personal take on your own place in the...
by Grace Marguerite Williams 11 years ago
What do you DISLIKE MOST about YOUR PARTICULAR birth order?
by Dr Anupma Srivastava 12 years ago
What do you want to become in your next birth?
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