In my experience it is usually the parent's problem. Speaking from personal experience, my mum came from a very rich family and was really spoil when she was a teen, as a result, once she turned 19 she got kicked out of the house. Till date my mum was always very angry at my grand father for, putting her in a position where she needed to work, to support herself and didn't have time to go and do...whatever it is, women who are in their 20s, during the 1970s like to do. So she thought "If I become rich in the future, I am going to make sure, my kids don't have to work and can do what they want, just in response to u forcing me to support myself." in response to my grandpa.
My mum married my dad, who became a very successful businessman, so our family is also reasonably wealthy. Personally, I believe once a guy, turned 20, u are suppose to be on ur own and no longer take money from home, so I started looking for a job right after high school. To my mum, my was of thinking and what I was doing, is like pissing on her head and everything she is angry at my grandfather for. So she was really against me getting a job, when I was in university, it was pretty much what we fight about at home, everyday and she use to stand in front of the front door, with a kitchen knife, to stop me from going to a job interview. And she was also very angry at me, for not taking advantage of the financial advantage of home, She was extremely angry at me for not getting a girl friend, her exact word is "Which other parent give their kids, as much money to afford to take girls to nice places? But u just choose to let one opportunity after another slip through ur finger. The girl that obviously like u and u obviously like her too, u stand by and do nothing, even when some other guy, come and steal her away. In what universe make u even think, he is a better catch." My opinion is "A real man should be able to fend for his woman with his own 2 hands, so there is no way in hell, I am going to take a girl out on a date, using money other then those I earn, so before u get angry at me, for refusing to date, maybe u should ask ur self, why everytime i try go to a job interview, u stand at the front door with a kitchen knife and he is a better catch, for a start, he might not able afford to take a girl to a place, even half as nice as I can, but at least he can afford to take a girl out on a date, not using his parent's money, because his mum don't stand in front of his room, with a kitchen knife, when he try to go to a job interview."