It's often pointed out that men tend to try to solve a problem when women attempt to share a dilemma they are currently experiencing. Many times, she just wants to express her feelings and is not necessarily seeking advice. Sometimes she already has and idea of how she will proceed beforehand. I have observed over the years that it may not only be a male verses female thing but possibly a generational thing as well. Of course personality traits also must be taken into account, but what are your thoughts?
sort by best latest
Interesting point of view, MizB. Any thoughts on how it might apply beyond family? Just curious.
Not sure you answered the question, Manatita,but you definitely offer much to think about with that answer. Thanks. :)
I'm saying it's not an age thing, not even a knowledge thing but a wisdom thing. We all want to give advice, perhaps as a part of growth, but ultimately you are alone. All right, so perhaps I added some more. Lol.Hari Om!
LOL. Sorry, but that amuses me. So are you saying it's just a male b.s. female thing?
Eric, not quite what I was asking,but I appreciate what you're saying. Sometimes the wise thing is to not say mich at all. ;)