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Facts About Rape

Updated on November 8, 2009

The Crime of Rape

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Facts about Rape

Sexual assault crimes are on a rise, I sincerely hope that this is because of an increase in the reporting of these crimes as opposed to an increase in the actual instances of rape. Here are some facts to know about rape:

1. Date rape is when the person you’re dating rapes you.

2. Date rape can happen on a first date, or even after you’ve been dating awhile.

3. Acquaintance rape is when someone you know rapes you. Not someone you’re dating.

4. A rape occurs every 6 seconds in America.

5. Alcohol is the most common date rape drug.

6. An attacker will use either physical force or a weapon.

7. The lack of physical force can still be rape.

8. Many date rapes don’t involve weapons.

9. Over 60 percent of rapes are committed by someone the victim knows.

10. You always have the right to say no.

11. If someone doesn’t take no for an answer it is rape.

12. Rape happens in marriage as well.

13. Women are not the only victims of rape. Men are also raped.

14. Men are not the only perpetrators of rape. Women can rape too.

15. If you are told no, you must respect that.

16. If you don’t know, ask.

17. A man’s physical size may scare a woman without him realizing it.

18. A woman may not say no if she thinks she’ll be hurt.

19. Sexual excitement does not justify forcing sex.

20. Rape is not an act of passion; it is a crime of violence.

21. Rape is not about sex, it is about power and control.

22. Having sex with someone that is too drunk to say no is rape.

23. Your instincts are usually right; if someone makes you uncomfortable you could be in

danger.

24. Meet a new date in a public place.

25. Clearly state that you don’t want to have sex.

26. If you’re able run away.

27. If it becomes unsafe to resist rape, it is still not your fault.

28. Rape is emotionally devastating.

29. If raped get help immediately.

30. Call the police, go to the hospital.

31. Tell a trusted family member and ask them for help.

32. Go to the doctors before you shower.

33. If you are raped get checked for STD’s

34. Just because you were raped by someone you know you still have the same legal rights.

35. Rapist are not one time offenders, they will do it again.

36. Press charges to save someone else the indignity of being raped.

37. Rape is never the victims fault.

38. When informed that your loved one has been raped, believe them. It is the best way to be supportive.

Report the Crime

 

In conclusion, I hope this article helps any victim understand and come to terms with what has happened.  If you do become a victim it is of the utmost importance that you get help immediately.  Although you may feel ashamed it is important to get professional medical and law enforcement help.  If someone robs your house, you’ll call the police.  A robbery is a minor crime compared to rape.  Report it to the police.  They are well trained and know how to help you.

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      whxduiwf 

      7 years ago

      rape is just 'ergghhhh go get a life you rapeists,, get a hobby:D;D

    • wesleycox profile imageAUTHOR

      wesleycox 

      7 years ago from Back in Texas, at least until August 2012

      Bobby: If you are feeling this way I could only recommend you seek counseling. Counseling is not a bad thing and it can help you overcome your fears. Thank you for reading.

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      bobby 

      7 years ago

      this page would be better if they gave us ways to help rape victoms like me to fell more comfort in our selves to leave the house and be able to do things like we use to do

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      Layla-bug 

      7 years ago

      These facts were so helpful. I was a victim, I reported it. Now I am working on a short book that is inspirational for other victims, this gave me some great ideas on what to write... Thank you

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      Breana (: 

      7 years ago

      rape is bad .

    • SXP profile image

      SXP 

      8 years ago from South Africa

      In my country,South Africa, women are under real threat of rape as well. We estimate over 700 000 rapes per year. Imagine living like that?

    • wesleycox profile imageAUTHOR

      wesleycox 

      8 years ago from Back in Texas, at least until August 2012

      Thank you Candie, I just hope this gets out to the victims of rape so they can better deal with it, and/or prevent it. Thanks for reading.

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      Candie V 

      8 years ago from Whereever there's wolves!! And Bikers!! Cummon Flash, We need an adventure!

      Great, Great, Great hub Wesley! Rape is a scary "word" and you tackled it well!

    • wesleycox profile imageAUTHOR

      wesleycox 

      8 years ago from Back in Texas, at least until August 2012

      Thank you hmrjmr.

      Ivori: you're right online dating can be very dangerous for people. I recommend meeting in a very public place like a coffee house or a restaurant. Good tips.

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      Barbara Eisenberg 

      8 years ago from Titusville

      Meeting a person you met in a chat room is another risk factor. They can be anyone or anything on the screen, be very careful.

    • Hmrjmr1 profile image

      Hmrjmr1 

      8 years ago from Georgia, USA

      Good Job Wes..

    • wesleycox profile imageAUTHOR

      wesleycox 

      8 years ago from Back in Texas, at least until August 2012

      Thank you, it's important to get the facts out there.

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      nilum 

      8 years ago

      Really informative

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